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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by Edipee(m): 9:24pm On Dec 26, 2015
TheSonOfMark:



How easy for you to admit that. You conveniently evaded the fact that it took more than a little persuasion on your part before she agreed to tumble beneath the sheets with you.

It's a DATE for Pete's sake! You both are already in a relationship and having sex within the confines of a relationship isn't casual sex. She's not the _whore you're trying to paint her as. She isn't getting paid for it or in return for a favour.

The sex is consented. If you think a girl worths less for having sex in A RELATIONSHIP then you're worth less than you rate yourself.
Thank you my brother. Ade Uko Eren Owo.
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by Nomzylicious(f): 9:27pm On Dec 26, 2015
TheSonOfMark:



How easy for you to admit that. You conveniently evaded the fact that it took more than a little persuasion on your part before she agreed to tumble beneath the sheets with you.

It's a DATE for Pete's sake! You both are already in a relationship and having sex within the confines of a relationship isn't casual sex. She's not the _whore you're trying to paint her as. She isn't getting paid for it or in return for a favour.
Best comment I hv read in a while now on this section
The sex is consented. If you think a girl worths less for having sex in A RELATIONSHIP then you're worth less than you rate yourself.
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by tosyne2much(m): 9:33pm On Dec 26, 2015
ronald4lif:

cheesy grin
We have to give honour to whom honour is due
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by danbrowndmf(m): 9:35pm On Dec 26, 2015
misspicy:
hmmmmmm,very deep kweshion embarassed







waiting for the guys comments smiley
sleeping with a woman the 1st day u met her does not shows if she's a slut or a wife material...you might take a nigga 1month before getting to your pant & still be a slut,it definately change nothing about it...There are so many things in judging a wife material & we all have our own criteria..you can never use my own criteria to judge sfuareyouGod criteria... If there is a long build up before meeting the so called girl,then surely sex on the 1st day wouldn't tell if she's a slut or not...for example. Have been chating with one particular girl for almost 5years now, so if we gt to meet now & we shagg on the 1st day,will i still say she's not a wife material? Or she's a slut? No i wunt say such cus we already had a long build up before the 1st day sex stuff...Every female is a wife material dy might not just fit into your own criteria as a man...

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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by Nobody: 9:41pm On Dec 26, 2015
TheSonOfMark:



How easy for you to admit that. You conveniently evaded the fact that it took more than a little persuasion on your part before she agreed to tumble beneath the sheets with you.

It's a DATE for Pete's sake! You both are already in a relationship and having sex within the confines of a relationship isn't casual sex. She's not the _whore you're trying to paint her as. She isn't getting paid for it or in return for a favour.

The sex is consented. If you think a girl worths less for having sex in A RELATIONSHIP then you're worth less than you rate yourself.

Well, to each his own..

As for me, a wife material should not give in to my demands on our first date, persuasions be damned!

She is in control of her body and any lady with a sense of self worth shouldn't just tumble beneath the sheets at the merest asking. It is for a man to ask, and it is for the lady to say no.

And contrary to what you posted, the fact that it is a first date means we are most likely still getting to know each other so why would a well brought up lady who is potentially thinking long term allow me to sleep with her just like that.

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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by Edipee(m): 9:43pm On Dec 26, 2015
TSometimes I don't understand what you guys mean by wife material cos one man's meat is another's poison. But what I believe is dat, refusing to have sex on first doesn't make a girl good 4 marriage.

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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by Cutehector(m): 9:46pm On Dec 26, 2015
Dem no dey plan bleeping on the first date na... Things just get over d blue, next thing, two people are kissing insyd d car, befor u knw it, chei... Kerewa don start... Prakash

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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by ronald4lif(m): 9:58pm On Dec 26, 2015
tosyne2much:
We have to give honour to whom honour is due

Me wey since 10years I never see kitty-cat needless to touch. Na you I dey look up to arrange one for me o. grin

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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by misspicy(f): 9:59pm On Dec 26, 2015
danbrowndmf:
sleeping with a woman the 1st day u met her does not shows if she's a slut or a wife material...you might take a nigga 1month before getting to your pant & still be a slut,it definately change nothing about it...There are so many things in judging a wife material & we all have our own criteria..you can never use my own criteria to judge sfuareyouGod criteria... If there is a long build up before meeting the so called girl,then surely sex on the 1st day wouldn't tell if she's a slut or not...for example. Have been chating with one particular girl for almost 5years now, so if we gt to meet now & we shagg on the 1st day,will i still say she's not a wife material? Or she's a slut? No i wunt say such cus we already had a long build up before the 1st day sex stuff...Every female is a wife material dy might not just fit into your own criteria as a man...
hmmmmm,impressive smiley

so you mean you don't find it rather too brash,cool,nice outlook smiley
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by tosyne2much(m): 10:04pm On Dec 26, 2015
ronald4lif:


Me wey since 10years I never see kitty-cat needless to touch. Na you I dey look up to arrange one for me o. grin
Hahaha cheesy Lie lie


See as babes dey view this thread. Dem wan hear wetin we go talk cheesy
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by danbrowndmf(m): 10:08pm On Dec 26, 2015
misspicy:

hmmmmm,impressive smiley

so you mean you don't find it rather too brash,cool,nice outlook smiley
to tell you the truth i had prefer to go marry an ASHAWO than a some called virgin...if i find my criteria in her.
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by TheSonOfMark(m): 10:09pm On Dec 26, 2015
adeaks:


Well, to each his own..

As for me, a wife material should not give in to my demands on our first date, persuasions be damned!

Oh really? Templating it on your postulation, a 'husband material '(whatever that means) shouldn't pressure a girl into having sex with him. How about he concentrates on fostering the emotional bonds between them in the meantime?


She is in control of her body and any lady with a sense of self worth shouldn't just tumble beneath the sheets at the merest asking. It is for a man to ask, and it is for the lady to say no.

You expect her to be some sort of superhuman ALWAYS. Always in control of her sexual yearnings but you excuse yourself for thinking with your _penile appendage and your lack of self control. Isn't what's good for the gander no longer good for the goose?



And contrary to what you posted, the fact that it is a first date means we are most likely still getting to know each other so why would a well brought up lady who is potentially thinking long term allow me to sleep with her just like that.

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How about this: She's honest enough to want to make love with you. Would you have preferred she acts all Mother Theresa only to find out she's having casual sex with some unknown guy who considers her as nothing more than a sex object?


Dude, technically, it's not your first date with her. If you're like me who always insist on being friends with a girl first to gauge our compatibility before making her my lover, then the supposed date is just semantics. You've already known each other.


And yes, I have tumbled beneath the sheets with a girl on our first 'date' and it didn't make me think less of her. If anything, it made me appreciate her honesty and her willingness to satisfy my sexual cravings at that time.



Here's the problem :You assume she's had sex with every guy at the first asking. Guess what? Your ASSUMPTION is what it is - AN ASSUMPTION. Hypothesis you haven't proven.

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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by danbrowndmf(m): 10:10pm On Dec 26, 2015
ronald4lif:


Me wey since 10years I never see kitty-cat needless to touch. Na you I dey look up to arrange one for me o. grin
if u never see kitty-cat for 10years then my priick never stand for 10years too.cheesy
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by TheSonOfMark(m): 10:14pm On Dec 26, 2015
Edipee:
Thank you my brother. Ade Uko Eren Owo.


Ikpa, afo nko ado atagha adiong'idem awo'den.
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by misspicy(f): 10:15pm On Dec 26, 2015
danbrowndmf:
to tell you the truth i had prefer to go marry an ASHAWO than a some called virgin...if i find my criteria in her.

and what are this criteria if I may ask smiley








seriously am loving the debate her, first time am seeing a guy comment with his senses,oh lawd shocked
and I was thinking you all are insane before,good to know some peeps gat brain on her gringrin

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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by Nobody: 10:17pm On Dec 26, 2015
How do you know she's a wifey material on the first date #I don't mean the assumption kinda wife material
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by bukas15(m): 10:20pm On Dec 26, 2015
d fact is dt ladies ar moved by emotion nd feelings, dey can be compelled to havin sex against their wish wen dey ar put in d mood, especial by their lover.
that u succeded in havin sex wit her on a first date doesnt stop her from becomin a wife material.

dts my own view oo

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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by jrerico1(m): 10:28pm On Dec 26, 2015
Op you're foolish. Is the side chick not going to be wife material to someone?? Stupid thread

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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by danbrowndmf(m): 10:29pm On Dec 26, 2015
misspicy:

and what are this criteria if I may ask smiley








seriously am loving the debate her, first time am seeing a guy comment with his senses,oh lawd shocked
and I was thinking you all are insane before,good to know some peeps gat brain on her gringrin
*** A christian/muslim(atleast be a believer) cus if u don't stand for something u will surely fall for nothing.



*** not to lousy.(I'm a shy guy...ion like a talkertive)



**Respectful( like shut d fvck up when i'm chatting with my friends)



***Careing & encouraging

****must believe in my dream(MOST important)


Everyother things come(s) after


SOMETIMES times i prefer older ladies(i still dunno why)-4years minimum.

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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by misspicy(f): 10:33pm On Dec 26, 2015
danbrowndmf:
*** A christian/muslim(atleast be a believer) cus if u don't stand for something u will surely fall for nothing.



*** not to lousy.(I'm a shy guy...ion like a talkertive)



**Respectful( like shut d fvck up when i'm chatting with my friends)



***Careing & encouraging

****must believe in my dream(MOST important)


Everyother things come(s) after


SOMETIMES times i prefer older ladies(i still dunno why)-4years minimum.
nice criteria,any Lady can fit in easily smiley
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by llaykorn: 10:34pm On Dec 26, 2015
danbrowndmf:


SOMETIMES times i prefer older ladies(i still dunno why)-4years minimum.

BBW?! shocked

Moti ni ashewo ni iwo fe ya. sad

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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by Nobody: 10:34pm On Dec 26, 2015
bukas15:
d fact is dt ladies ar moved by emotion nd feelings, dey can be compelled to havin sex against their wish wen dey ar put in d mood, especial by their lover.
that u succeded in havin sex wit her on a first date doesnt stop her from becomin a wife material.

dts my own view oo
nice one

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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by danbrowndmf(m): 10:37pm On Dec 26, 2015
misspicy:

nice criteria,any Lady can fit in easily smiley
ladies are lousy this days...also all these set of ladies that whenever u ask them out there question goes like this "can you take good care of me"?
I'm i a doctor? I ask you to date me not to Venture or something.

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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by danbrowndmf(m): 10:39pm On Dec 26, 2015
llaykorn:


BBW?! shocked

Moti ni ashewo ni iwo fe ya. sad
sharap! Shey i mention you for that award thread u know go there go comment,na here u carry ur mouth come.mad man.cheesy
ashawo okunrin ni bobo yi sha.cheesy
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by llaykorn: 10:43pm On Dec 26, 2015
danbrowndmf:
sharap! Shey i mention you for that award thread u know go there go comment,na here u carry ur mouth come.mad man.cheesy
ashawo okunrin ni bobo yi sha.cheesy

grin grin grin

I check sotay, I no see category for 'Realest Person You've Seen On Social Media'. Ne hen make me vex commot for there say dem no go give me any award. angry
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by danbrowndmf(m): 10:44pm On Dec 26, 2015
llaykorn:


grin grin grin

I check sotay, I no see category for 'Realest Person You've Seen On Social Media'. Ne hen make me vex commot for there say dem no go give me any award. angry
loools...That was what i gave to you na...go check ur mention jooor.
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by naijaboiy: 10:47pm On Dec 26, 2015
You can have sex on the FIRST DATE and be together for years or you could wait for months and get cut off immediately.

There really ain't no rules to this dating shít. smiley

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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by llaykorn: 10:47pm On Dec 26, 2015
danbrowndmf:
loools...That was what i gave to you na...go check ur mention jooor.

I done see am o! shocked

God bless you too o. cheesy
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by ronald4lif(m): 10:51pm On Dec 26, 2015
danbrowndmf:
if u never see kitty-cat for 10years then my priick never stand for 10years too.cheesy

cheesy grin
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by danbrowndmf(m): 10:55pm On Dec 26, 2015
llaykorn:

I done see am o! shocked
God bless you too o. cheesy
okoro. Bless u too.
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by xtervaganza(m): 10:58pm On Dec 26, 2015
Does it matter? Had sex with my miss on the 1st date and we getting married next year

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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by llaykorn: 10:59pm On Dec 26, 2015
danbrowndmf:
okoro. Bless u too.

Okoro bi ti bawo? undecided

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