Oliviaarims:
Two introverts dating...

Woman: Life has become meaningless. Nothing seems to be working. No money, no friends, no family. What's the point in living?

Man: Yea, life is meaningless. Let's die.

Woman: Nice idea, I think we should just die.

Introverts are not boring or miserable or lonely

feran15:


more developed brains?:?..

Yeah. Dats what birth their creativity and sensitive nature. They are always thinking analytically and cuz they do more of thinking than others, they tend to quietly be on their own and talk less

classicB:
I am also introvert. People will call your marriage boring, but i tell you, youre gonna enjoy evry bit of it. Trust me, there wont be case of infidelity in your marriage, youre gonna raise kids that would grow up in a peaceful home(introverts most likely will not nag and cases of noise and fight will not be glaring). Most importantly r u sexuqlly compatible? Cos introverts are shy to express their sexual feeling.
All the best dear

tanks a lot. Are u married, is ur hubby an introvert? Pls I just want someone who has dat kind of marriage to enlighten me.

daretodiffer:

More developed brain? Are you kidding me?

He is partly right, lol. We are deep thinkers.

As far as there is love..... That's my humble submission

Am an Introvert and I hv a crush on Introvert here in Naira land that bags d award of FTC, pls what can I do?

aly123:
Hello Nlanders,i need your advice as am in a confused state of mind. I have a guy who loves me so much that I wonder if I could ever get such love from anybody else again and I also love him as well but the issue I have with this guy is that I am an introvert and he is also one. Prior to meeting him,i had always wanted a guy that is outspoken, bold nd courageous but on the contrary, my guy is a very shy person (more than I am), not bold, cant face a crowd which I also can't do which makes me wonder what happens if either of us is to do something of such in future amongst other things. Please I would like to know if introvert/introvert relationships work. Please matured minds or married ones here who has been in this situation should let me know how they dealt with it.
Cc : lalasticlala

pls, answer my question. how was he able to woo u in the first place, since he is so shy. i'm also an introvert

aly123:
Hello Nlanders,i need your advice as am in a confused state of mind. I have a guy who loves me so much that I wonder if I could ever get such love from anybody else again and I also love him as well but the issue I have with this guy is that I am an introvert and he is also one. Prior to meeting him,i had always wanted a guy that is outspoken, bold nd courageous but on the contrary, my guy is a very shy person (more than I am), not bold, cant face a crowd which I also can't do which makes me wonder what happens if either of us is to do something of such in future amongst other things. Please I would like to know if introvert/introvert relationships work. Please matured minds or married ones here who has been in this situation should let me know how they dealt with it.
Cc : lalasticlala

most people here don't know what they are saying. your relationship will work, if you put your mind to it. you say you guys are introverts, this means you would prefer to enjoy each others company instead of social gatherings. you can tell him about your thoughts and you both might make a fun activity of becoming more out going or learning to talk in front of crowds. nobody is completly an introvert you just fall more on that side than the other side. you still have extrovert qualities no matter how little they can be and both of you can work on them. you have a beautiful thing and I'm sure your marriage will be peaceful. not everyone gets married to the person of their dreams




























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JudgementHammer:

Yeah. Dats what birth their creativity and sensitive nature. They are always thinking analytically and cuz they do more of thinking than others, they tend to quietly be on their own and talk less

using the phrase "more developed brains" is kind of offensive and sounds stupid if i may say.

they think alot doesn't mean their brains are more developed.

omotohdarajugbogbolo:

Oh lawdy lawdy. This is so funny

daretodiffer:

Introverts are not boring or miserable or lonely

Oops. FP? Lol. I was simply having fun. I'm an introvert to an extent, too.

Fadman4real:


That's trash, introverts are not boring people, we actually humorous, nice, loyal to a fault, the best couple that can ever be. So stop kidding yourself.

Lol.

omotohdarajugbogbolo:


Oh lawdy lawdy. This is so funny

Lol. U seem to be the only person that understands I was simply having fun. Twas actually sth my lecturer jokingly said one day.

Been an introvert is never a title nor a gift. Everyone you see been an extrovert today was as a result of decision and self-discipline

When you're tired of a spot, then moving from that spot becomes your next option. In other words, been an introvert does more harm than good

Having said that, both of you must work on yourself esteem. Practice how to speak in the public and also get yourselves invovled in social activities. And lastly, read books that talks more of boldness, public speaking and the rest. One of such books is The Power Of Self Confidence by Brain Tracy, another is How To Speak To Anyone Anytime by Larry King (It's an audio tape of which can be download)

I was once an introvert, but today, I'm where I am because of God and the power of confidence and boldness to speak anywhere and anytime. You too can also testify like me today if only you decide to build yourself-confidence to speak and express your opinion anywhere and anytime

Mafking:
4 your mind now, you don make sense.....smh

Nope. Far from it.

aly123:
tanks a lot. Are u married, is ur hubby an introvert? Pls I just want someone who has dat kind of marriage to enlighten me.

I am not. My boyfriend is extrovert not a sanguine sha, cos they talk too much and i dont like it.
I advice you google about it to know more about introvert-introvert marriage and how it can work.

ToyinDipo:


He is partly right, lol. We are deep thinkers.

. But that doesn't mean that you have more developed brains.. The thinking part of the brain if but one of the numerous parts of the brain

cc JudgementHammer

Oliviaarims:

Nope. Far from it.

thank God you know...he just dey pain me say you fine

Soroniyen?

Op, dnt mind those fellows above me...u cant change nothing ...God structured you that way...tryna change anytin means u wanna fight nature...so, my take on d issue...u guys shud just undastand dat ur introverts, and try to live with that conciousness...dnt try to change, or imitate extroverts, cos u will fail.

daretodiffer:


. But that doesn't mean that you have more developed brains.. The thinking part of the brain if but one of the numerous parts of the brain

cc JudgementHammer

That's why I said he is partly right, we are generally strong on the reasoning/logic part of the brain, but most often lacking on the creative part, because we are not adventurous by nature.

daretodiffer:


. But that doesn't mean that you have more developed brains.. The thinking part of the brain if but one of the numerous parts of the brain

cc JudgementHammer

I even used a better phrase. If u read abt them, they're referred to as geniuses with d full capacity to cope in any field if well encouraged. Michael jackson is one of them, don moen, ben carson etc. They even guess right by intuition the outcome of a task and u'll think they're prophets at d end of d task. Extroverts do better in politics and law or things dat just involve dominating physically.

feran15:


using the phrase "more developed brains" is kind of offensive and sounds stupid if i may say.

they think alot doesn't mean their brains are more developed.

I even used a better phrase. If u read abt them, they're referred to as geniuses with d full capacity to cope in any field if well encouraged. Michael jackson is one of them, don moen, ben carson etc. They even guess right by intuition the outcome of a task and u'll think they're prophets at d end of d task. Extroverts do better in politics and law or things dat just involve dominating physically.

aly123:
Hello Nlanders,i need your advice as am in a confused state of mind. I have a guy who loves me so much that I wonder if I could ever get such love from anybody else again and I also love him as well but the issue I have with this guy is that I am an introvert and he is also one. Prior to meeting him,i had always wanted a guy that is outspoken, bold nd courageous but on the contrary, my guy is a very shy person (more than I am), not bold, cant face a crowd which I also can't do which makes me wonder what happens if either of us is to do something of such in future amongst other things. Please I would like to know if introvert/introvert relationships work. Please matured minds or married ones here who has been in this situation should let me know how they dealt with it.
Cc : lalasticlala

In a relationship, one has to be the natural leader. It could either be him or her.
But if it seems apparent,no way possess that skill set. Expect loads of twist and turns!!!

Mek I no waste too much time for this mata.

Una bi to match!

Mek u no go tek opposite of who u bi com spoil ur bizness.

If am u, since u said that both of u have love for each other.Thats what matters. Love reigns supreme over ur fear. Beware u just dont fall into the wrong hand while searching for extrovert. Is my advice but u can as well follow the strong part of ur hart.

iranu....

Psalm18:


Why do you care what other people think?

Am seriously wondering at this point how old you are.

The fastest way to lose out a good relationship is to listen to what other people say except the guy is a violent person or the girl is a flirt.

Any other conditions, fcuck what people think.
Don't make the mistakes so many have done.

100 likes! I wonder too how old she is. She must be some baby looking to please. I honestly hope these guys are not the kind of suckling introverts who are just out to please and nothing else.

udeh3:
Been an introvert is never a title nor a gift. Everyone you see been an extrovert today was as a result of decision and self-discipline

When you're tired of a spot, then moving from that spot becomes your next option. In other words, been an introvert does more harm than good

Having said that, both of you must work on yourself esteem. Practice how to speak in the public and also get yourselves invovled in social activities. And lastly, read books that talks more of boldness, public speaking and the rest How To Speak To Anyone Anytime by Larry King (It's an audio tape of which can be download)

I was once an introvert, but today, I'm where I am because of God and the power of confidence and boldness to speak anywhere and anytime. You too can also testify like me today if only you decide to build yourself-confidence to speak and express your opinion anywhere and anytime

how can I get the e-tapes/e-book @bolded
wande4real@gmail.com

missdebs:
seriously facing the same issue. pls advice

dumb him and date me

missdebs:
seriously facing the same issue. pls advice

dumb him and date me

Cutehector:
Mchew... This is the reason why i insists ladies are very confused

No we r not

aly123:
Hello Nlanders,i need your advice as am in a confused state of mind. I have a guy who loves me so much that I wonder if I could ever get such love from anybody else again and I also love him as well but the issue I have with this guy is that I am an introvert and he is also one. Prior to meeting him,i had always wanted a guy that is outspoken, bold nd courageous but on the contrary, my guy is a very shy person (more than I am), not bold, cant face a crowd which I also can't do which makes me wonder what happens if either of us is to do something of such in future amongst other things. Please I would like to know if introvert/introvert relationships work. Please matured minds or married ones here who has been in this situation should let me know how they dealt with it.
Cc : lalasticlala

being an introvert does not necessarily mean you're dull.you might be an introvert and still be a sharp and intelligent person, big time.its not enough reason to halt the relationship if you guys are really in love with each other because I'm afraid,you might fall for any hilarious and out spoken guy that comes your way.i am sure you can work things out since you're aware of that fact.change abounds.there's nothing that says you'll be stuck as an introvert for LIFE. You can change no big deal.

daretodiffer:
More developed brain? Are you kidding me?

i guess he wanted to say, they are specialist in thinking and brainstorming