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Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Nobody: 9:57pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
@Op, some men actually like ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by oglalasioux(m): 10:06pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Oyind17:I'll advise you mind your business. Get married and manage your family. Your brother is old enough to take care of himself. He chose the woman. Whatever happens is his own lookout. Africa will be a better place once we break the yoke of extended family obligations. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by lolaluv1(f): 10:28pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
yvelchstores: This makes plenty sense. And Oyind17, take note of the operative sentence here: "You are an outsider". Because I'm sure you are getting set to light their peaceful home on fire. I myself learnt the hard way years ago when I saw my uncle and his wife arguing during a visit. I felt so hurt at the way she insulted him while he was majorly quiet. It was a Saturday, and I was waiting for a suitable occasion to download what I'd seen to my mum (just like you). Though my mum is a peaceful angel sha. She would never interfere. So the downloading would have just been a gist. But the next day, I heard my uncle proudly talking of how his wife knew him better than anyone in the world and was his best friend. I was like :O That was how I learnt that when it comes to a couple, you can never tell because you arent with them 24/7. Just mind your own business! 20 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by EfemenaXY: 10:37pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Miami11: ![]() ![]() ![]() Pls, I can't take anymore of this! You lot are killing moi, I swear!! ![]() ![]() 8 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by praxisnetworks: 10:55pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Oyind17:Do more research both physically and spiritually 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by praxisnetworks: 10:57pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Miami11:She needs to dig vigorously both physically and spiritually |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by TheMadame(f): 11:04pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
@Oyind17, At the point of soundind rude,I would advise you to mind your own business. Relationships between couples are complicated enough without additional complications from intruding third parties like yourself. You dont live with your elder brother and his wife so you can never understand what works for them. They appear to be a happy couple,so dont try to set the cat among the pigeons in a peaceful and joyful home. Go and build your own home. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by praxisnetworks: 11:06pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
TheMadame:Give her benefit of doubt ke |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Nobody: 11:14pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Besides the man probably committed an offence against madam and is only keeping quiet because he wants his wife to retaliate until she is happy with him again. Many men do that. After f@#king up or getting caught cheating they turn themselves to obedient houseboys and start taking all manner of insults from their wives just so she can forgive them. 13 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by praxisnetworks: 11:20pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
fellis:That's why she should dig deeper |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by autofreak2020(m): 2:27am On Dec 27, 2015 |
At least, he's not like houseboy to his girlfriend, that is better. How will you describe guys that has turned to houseboy to their girlfriends. You may want to join the league of readers and lovers of great books. Thinkerspool WhatsApp group is specifically created for whoever want to connect with like minded individuals. While others gist about season movies, we talk about books, educate ourselves and everyone learns from everybody. (Thinkerspool). You can also search for THINKERSPOOL on facebook and join league of like-minded individuals. www.nairaland.com/2818120/creative-whatsapp-group-strictly-readers 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by cococandy(f): 3:53am On Dec 27, 2015 |
I've read your story over and over again and I can't seem to see what you're hot about. So if you went there to spend a few days and found him cooking, serving the food and doing the dishes n laundry, you'll fall done in a faint? You just sound very annoyingly nosy. Pls mind your business and stop telling a happily married couple how to run their affairs. 9 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by JustHere2Observ(f): 4:05am On Dec 27, 2015 |
When it is your brother involved, you say it is a spell but if it is another person's brother, you call it love, husband material and so on. Lol 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by JustHere2Observ(f): 4:07am On Dec 27, 2015 |
fellis: So true. That's when they turn mumu by the work of their own hand 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by mamagee3(f): 4:47am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Oyind17:You do know that some people who are very stubborn and no-nonsense people are usually hiding some inadequacies? ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Exponental(m): 5:33am On Dec 27, 2015 |
is she pregnant? if yes...ignore!
if no....investigate. |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Teeboy22(m): 5:48am On Dec 27, 2015 |
boboLIL: Guy u Phoruz oo ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Miami11: 6:11am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Exponental: Investigate what ![]() ![]() And who will let her do her stooped investigation I don't let people in my house anyhow In laws or my own family, I hope that woman does not allow her any visits 4 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by VintageCocktail(m): 6:26am On Dec 27, 2015 |
fellis:You are one hell of a woman....so hilarious and true ![]() ![]() Acting like a zombie to pacify the goddess of the house.... 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Adedoks(m): 6:29am On Dec 27, 2015 |
fellis:funny but true... Love you dp.. Touching |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by ogawisdom(m): 7:04am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Oyind17: If ur bros is a houseman then its OK, by d way who is d breadwinner ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by orobs93(m): 7:39am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Tundeiab: Why not patiently read carefully and think before cooking up whatever you want to comment 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by lilmax(m): 7:44am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Oyind17:she's the breadwinner, its obvious tell your brother to sit up This is what you get when the wife is the man of the house 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by babygirlfl: 8:21am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Funny thing is that the op will get married herself and wish she had a husband that is that helpful. When you get married, provided you don't have a detective in-law like you, you can decide to make sure your husband never gives a hand and nobody will ask you. This is the reason why inlaws are sometimes not welcome. Instead of coming and helping out and make the family miss you when you go, you decided to make yourself an unpaid detective investigating a loving couple with the hope of passing unsolitated information to you mum. Please mind your business. On a side note, a woman does not need to be sick or pregnant for her husband to help out in the home and they are many reasons a woman can ask the husband to get something even though other people are there. It could be because he is the only other person that knows where it is or the only person to be able to reach it or simply because the do things that way and don't think too much about such little things. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by zaza999: 9:23am On Dec 27, 2015 |
If this story is true,then: It is likely the woman is the breadwinner of the family.She may be the one that sponser the marriage.Your brother contributes nothing other than di.ck.The woman has used water n washed her private part and used it to cook for him while babalawo give her and told her what to do to ensure "Do as I say".Sorry for ur bros! 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by thelish(f): 12:44pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Na their type dey turn marriages to Fuji house of commotion. If her own husband do all these for her, she will be d most happiest o. Women leave other privileged women alone. Jealousyyy. 9 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by lolaluv1(f): 3:21pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
babygirlfl: True this!! 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by lolaluv1(f): 3:23pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
thelish: Looool@jealousyyy ![]() |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Fanirandele: 3:40pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
As others have said as long as your brother looks happy and dosn't look like he's been forced then free them . no one ever really knows what goes on inside a marriage , usually if you think one party is the one in control you may be shocked to find out that behind closed doors the reverse is the case . Let them do what works for them, if it bugs you simply visit less 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Nobody: 3:55pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
lolaluv1:I only asked a question cos I felt bad. light hid marriage on fire ke! who have extra time for another man's marriage? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by cococandy(f): 3:57pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
What's all this rubbish about bread winner this and that anyway. So if the man is the breadwinner he can't dish food or do minor things in their house? Oh jeez! ogawisdom: zaza999: 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by cococandy(f): 3:59pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
Oyind17:You obviously. 10 Likes 1 Share |
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