Different strokes for different folks..

Sincerely, the lady told him the truth which seems to be real. It's left for guy to read between the lines and see what she really meant with the truth. Ladies have different ways of loving.

Imagine, the ex disflowered her, it would be hard for the lady to let go for now except she gets married or if the reason behind their breakup does not hold grounds or the current guy is not doing the needful that the ex was doing. So, if the guy really want her and she's worth fighting for then, he should just go ahead and make effort to proof this to her.

Ladies are very funny. For her telling him,she wants something either more care, testing his level of jealousy or bidding him goodbye stylishly..

The girl is confused, mumu brains, this is why they call girls fish brains, but anyway maybe she's been playing games with u all along and was sticking around coz of what she might have been gaining from u, but the main thing is to let her go, she ain't worth the stress.

faith551:
Which one is marriage suitor again

Been in this situation before, I told her to choose and she said it's difficult, I told her am done. She was shocked tho but I wasn't ready to be no one's second choice, was on a Christmas season like this too. Brother my advice for you, take a walk

sharp guy... ,you sharpaly end am to save your cash

How old is she?

SINNZ:
That's why I hardly take these women folk serious.

Not taking women serious won't solve the issue, we have good men and also bad men, same with women, we should also pray to find the one who loves us, cos if a woman is in love, nothing else matters to her.

AdeniyiA:

sharp guy... ,you sharpaly end am to save you cash

LOL, Well the truth is she never asked for the money, no girl I've dated does.
Lucky me right

dlashondra:

Not taking women serious won't solve the issue, we have good men and also bad men, same with women, we should also pray to find the one who loves us, cos if a woman is in love, nothing else matters to her.

You're correct but not entirely. Most ladies are not even worth dating that's why its cool for a nigga to stay single till he maybe finds that "one" who loves like nothing else matters to her. But until then....... Na to fork any one wey loose-guard sure pass

SINNZ:


You're correct but not entirely. Most ladies are not even worth dating that's why its cool for a nigga to stay single till he maybe finds that "one" who loves like nothing else matters to her. But until then....... Na to fork any one wey loose-guard sure pass

Wow, so how do you find that person? How would you know she is the one, when you have no intention than to have set with her

dlashondra:


Wow, so how do you find that person? How would you know she is the one, when you have no intention than to have set with her

Its not usually my initial intention. It depends on the circumstance surrounding how we met. Sometimes you just meet someone and ya'll have mutual agreements to be forkbuddies. But in other cases, I take my time to study her and if she's not what I'm looking for, I'll show her the door with or without sexxing her.

Oliviaarims:
Ur friend needs no further advice. That girl is disinterested. She simply wants to continue stringing ur friend along. She still loves her ex? Fine. She should go and rekindle her old flame. But tell ur friend to dump her sorry ass!

I really don't care how peeps here would take it or even how u would interpret this....i would like 2 know you better....pls don't take this d usual 'wrong' way peeps would....

Blunt and straight 2 d point comment tho!

tobbie247:
How old is she?

She 20.

Ex always holds the aces... I dunno why.
Ur frnd should let her be... He has lost this girl (nd I'm glad dude handled the situation very well)
Nd no matter what advice he would b getting right now...he shld not b the one to end the relationship (i know the dumper always seems to b more powerful) but just give her space (brkup with her in your mind (sorry, in your frnd's mind) but allow her do the dumping...
That way, when regrets come up later, ur frnd (i have this gut feeling its u sha) won't b the one to beg

pharmroyle:
Ex always holds the aces... I dunno why.
Ur frnd should let her be... He has lost this girl (nd I'm glad dude handled the situation very well)

My thoughts exactly cos I knw some chicken guys that will have bin begging the gal in such situation.


Hahahahahahaha, No be me..me am married oo and even if I wasn't,I usually won't take a girl of 20yrs serious. Most of them still balance for dia mumu confused mode @ that age range

Plus on ex holding the ace . To my believe that shit works only on under 18 girls because once you cross that Lane, you should be able to take strict decisions and stick by it not even if the ex is coming to beg you with a bugatti

Besto:


My thoughts exactly cos I knw some chicken guys that will have bin begging the gal in such situation.

Lol... Brother your head dey there! It is only healthy to beg a woman when u have really offended her... Other than that, its a no no

Women go back to them exes but men dont , that her ex just wanna fvck her and that's y he still bugging her....

Her ex never truly loved her, because a man that truly loved an ex will never go bk to her especially if the ex has a bf

Again she's just 20 , she is still naive ... She will still come bk and beg after the ex must hv satisfied his urge towards her and possibly breaking u guys up

Some exes are demons that dont want you to move forward cos they know you have a weakness for them

Humans are naturally selfish

cr7lomo:
Women go back to them exes but men dont , that her ex just wanna fvck her and that's y he still bugging her....

Her ex never truly loved her, because a man that truly loved an ex will never go bk to her especially if the ex has a bf

Again she's just 20 , she is still naive ... She will still come bk and beg after the ex must hv satisfied his urge towards her and possibly breaking u guys up

Some exes are demons that dont want you to move forward cos they know you have a weakness for them

Humans are naturally selfish

That's certain, my bad cos the question I should have asked on here is should he accept her if she comes back to beg.

Besto:


That's certain, my bad cos the question I should have asked on here is should he accept her if she comes back to beg.

I tin is for sure as am reading the situation, and that is she will loose both of them in the end... Let her prevent had I known b4 its to late

Ur guy will still get a better girl while she might end up unstable

Besto:
morning pals... kk this got to me so i actually had to share it on here to get a wider view so as not to advice the friend involved wrongly.
A close friend of mine actually showed me the convo he had with his bae last night, having seen the convo he asked for my opinion.
* He is strict and str8 forward person.
*He also confirms the gal loves him and he never for once had doubts uptill this moment.
*Relationship is not his priority but he loves the gal in person and has never put anyone above her.

So n landers.. pls emulate and drop one or 2 advice. thanks

Dont bother beating a dead horse

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Total number of words the guy typed=496
Total number of words the gal typed=58

From the way she is chatting it seems you are even the "Ex".

Sorry to say, but she obviously not worth it, she sound like a ratchet and classless biatch. No offence just saying it the way i see it.

All I can decipher from this, is 2 teenagers poor at english.

cruzita:
at least she told u her mind instead of deceiving u.u should be grateful .all u have to do is to show her more love and make her believe u are better and more worthy of her than her ex.my opinion

This is single - handedly the most idiotic piece of crap i've read in a while.....

Besto:
morning pals... kk this got to me so i actually had to share it on here to get a wider view so as not to advice the friend involved wrongly.
A close friend of mine actually showed me the convo he had with his bae last night, having seen the convo he asked for my opinion.
* He is strict and str8 forward person.
*He also confirms the gal loves him and he never for once had doubts uptill this moment.
*Relationship is not his priority but he loves the gal in person and has never put anyone above her.

So n landers.. pls emulate and drop one or 2 advice. thanks

U staged it So borin, i cnt even read it all

Even if the girl na my ordinary friend and she replies like that.. I would just dump her in a trashcan talk less of so called babe...

Bro... U are babeless ooo...

Wetin be this?

hmmm

Dadehmola:


This is single - handedly the most idiotic piece of crap i've read in a while.....

i swear

You just got yourself a free pusssy, play cool, get what you want and anytime she request for anything, give her like 1h and tell her that her ex should balance it. She should take the cue and leave, much better than getting hot and going out with a bang.

so guys like dis stil dey exist?i mean SLOWPOKES.u beta dump hr and save ur ass b4 she change ur destiny negatively.