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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by sparkleice(f): 6:08am On Dec 28, 2015
[qu coe author=Mjshexy post=41369213]A husband material will not even think of having sex with a wife material on a 1st date.. smiley[/quote]yes I concur...

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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by Jexyme(f): 6:10am On Dec 28, 2015
It's good no to, this is because the moment this starts it will beclaud both of you guys' eyes to to make proper observations, communications and dialogues that will enhence growth in your relationship.

If it starts that early, believe me na only f*ck f*ck u go just dey do.....lols.

After all, husband material will not think of sleeping with wife material on 1st date.
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by IBROHIM: 6:15am On Dec 28, 2015
missKiffy:
Everybody is entitled to their own opinion but I just don't understand the way some pple reason at times, you go on a date with a girl, you as the guy initiated sex, lets assume she didn't give in immediately or she did give in immediately, doesn't matter but she did give in, and you now claim she's not or will not be a wife material? TF, who initiated d sex in the first place? Now you as a guy that had sex with a girl on the first date, i guess ur perfect and you consider urself an husband material. God help us with these sort of mentalities
some people are hypocrites! That's why they end up marrying Oloshos because she was able to pretend on a first date! Some ladies after reading ur kind of person as a serious guy can pretend to be chaste for months just to increase her value and that's not to say she hasn't been banged that very day! So let's stop this mentality because even if she's a wife material, the level of feelings she has for you will let her fall for ur pressures even on a first date! If you are sharp and a smart guy you will beg her to marry you even after the deed just because of what you discovered!

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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by lakamua: 6:16am On Dec 28, 2015
t2luv1:



So only a virgin will do. Interesting !!! If you dont mind me asking Are you married, and if yes. was your wife a virgin when you met her. And by the way were you also a virgin when you met her.
Am nt yet married because i wont waste my time and money or these public gals all over d place. Can only use them for what they are best used for till i find one dat respects her body enof to keep it intact
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by GodblessNig247(m): 6:17am On Dec 28, 2015
Oliviaarims:
I think it happens.
did it happen to u?
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by GentleSmiles: 6:19am On Dec 28, 2015
Did u just say first date? how do u tell someone u met on a first date is wifable or not. She agrees for a sex at ur first date is not a pointer to being unwifable nor does her disagreement makes her wifable. You are a smooth talker with magic fingers u won her over n had ur way doesn't permits u to blacklist her as unwifable. black pot brings out white fud n not all dat glitters is called gold. Take tym to study her to know her worth b4 drawing conclusion.

Tank me lera..
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by Nobody: 6:19am On Dec 28, 2015
There is nothing like wife materials, expect the ones growing up, married women cheat on their husband talkless of side chick, every lady is a side chick, quote me anywhere who cares about wife material, they don't even care, the way u took her out on the first date and bang her thats how another guy will take her out and phuck her, it depends on how u package urself.

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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by Jexyme(f): 6:20am On Dec 28, 2015
Hannysmilez:
My Personal comment of the year. Preach,Brother! Preach!!

I love you so much!!!!!!!
Well written.
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by iyrojc(m): 6:25am On Dec 28, 2015
adeaks:
If she allows me sleep with her on the first date, in my books she aint wife material. Simple!
After sleeping with her, who do you dump her for.......? Just asking, Bro.
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by teebudutu(m): 6:25am On Dec 28, 2015
Oliviaarims:
I think it happens.
Gbam.....U are my wife material cheesy
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by lovingsoul(m): 6:26am On Dec 28, 2015
Number one, never can you know a wife material on the first date.
Number two, sex is and should always be the last mean on any dating table. If it is about a very serious relationship, then nothing physical would be or should be good enough test to know the worth of the person in question, male or female.
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by Nobody: 6:27am On Dec 28, 2015
See them, archaic beings. Mchew! sleeping/not sleeping does not make a woman a wife material /not a wife material

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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by clerkent(m): 6:28am On Dec 28, 2015
dOnLarich:
which kin material ( ankara, lace , da diva )
AKWA OCHE
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by Nobody: 6:31am On Dec 28, 2015
Well, in all honesty you couldn't tell if the lady you just met and are planning to go on a first date will be a wife material- if I even understand what that means. LOL!

A lot of these issues have to do with PERSONAL values, moral standing and self - control. Of the few ladies I dated before I eventually chose one, there was absolutely NONE I even thought of sleeping with in the first date. And almost all the first date sexual advances are made by the MEN, who'll later turn around to see grounds for which to conclude that the lady in question will not be a wife material. A lot boils down to people's personal values.

But rules aren't cast in stone. That a lady succumbs to YOUR advances on the first date doesn't necessarily mean she won't be a great wife. That you even initiated such sexual advances on the first date raises a lot of moral issues on you as a man. Women are so unique we won't live long enough to fully appreciate and understand their complexity; sometimes they can't even understand WHY they do what they do.

And to the ladies. You're NOT solely here on earth to be a wife material. Identify and stick to YOUR values and boundaries. Stand for something, even if it's unpopular and outmoded. You've got to be in control of your life. Be yourself. Don't pretend. Life's isn't all about becoming a wife material. Abide by your values, and those who appreciate them will come for you.

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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by ekmike(m): 6:35am On Dec 28, 2015
I'l make a move but i wont force you. i slept with my baby on our first date cos I initiated it and we are still together. if I don't marry her it's becos I didn't get the qualities I expect from a wife not becos of the first date.

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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by Nobody: 6:40am On Dec 28, 2015
I'm going to be single for a very long time. The stories I hear about ladies & relationships diurnally, scares the hell out of me.
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by odubonashina: 6:43am On Dec 28, 2015
tosyne2much:
YES !! This is the thread I have been waiting for cheesy


God knows I will be present on a thread like this


Guys let's do a survey cool


Click LIKE if you think a lady who allows sex on first date is not a wife material,

Click SHARE If you think she's a wife material.

Quote me if you think she's both wife material and non wife material cool
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by CosmicJames(m): 6:49am On Dec 28, 2015
Monalisa185:
and how would you know she's a wife material on a first date?
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by Officialkenshin(m): 6:50am On Dec 28, 2015
lifeisabitch:
A woman u know is good enough to wife, will you respect her enough to resist the temptation to ask her for sex on first date?

I know for sure that side chicks are usuallly slept with on first date.


I slept with ma current gf before dating here. Now we in a serious relationship and she a wife material kiss
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by Chommieblaq(f): 6:51am On Dec 28, 2015
TheSonOfMark:



How easy for you to admit that. You conveniently evaded the fact that it took more than a little persuasion on your part before she agreed to tumble beneath the sheets with you.

It's a DATE for Pete's sake! You both are already in a relationship and having sex within the confines of a relationship isn't casual sex. She's not the _whore you're trying to paint her as. She isn't getting paid for it or in return for a favour.

The sex is consented. If you think a girl worths less for having sex in A RELATIONSHIP then you're worth less than you rate yourself.

U got me with your comment, nice one bro!!!
Tell em.
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by buchostags(m): 6:51am On Dec 28, 2015
rawpadgin:
shocked
No responsible girl will go to a guy's place on a first date

i keep on wondering what kinda naija settings first date ends at d bedroom talk more of sexin...sum dude try to live in naija as if they r in yankee
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by deygar: 6:52am On Dec 28, 2015
bcus she dress like deeper life, dats y u kal her wife material...i go ye wo first oh....we no fit talk she fit greee....
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by Nobody: 6:55am On Dec 28, 2015
If she really is a wife material, she wouldn't agree to be slept with
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by Mustybad(m): 6:55am On Dec 28, 2015
[quote author=missKiffy post=41369216]Everybody is entitled to their own opinion but I just don't understand the way some pple reason at times, you go on a date with a girl, you as the guy initiated sex, lets assume she didn't give in immediately or she did give in immediately, doesn't matter but she did give in, and you now claim she's not or will not be a wife material? TF, who initiated d sex in the first place? Now you as a guy that had sex with a girl on the first date, i guess ur perfect and you consider urself an husband material. God help us with these sort of mentalities

I CONCUR WITH U..... LYK 4 REAL WHAT IS SO SPECIAL WITH PHUCKIN A BABE ON D 1ST DATE

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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by odubonashina: 6:55am On Dec 28, 2015
Having sex with her on first date doesn't not make her unwife material and also unable to make love with her on first date didn't make her to be wife material
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by valeno(m): 6:56am On Dec 28, 2015
dOnLarich:
which kin material ( ankara, lace , da diva )
kampala
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by Imoleayomi001(m): 6:57am On Dec 28, 2015
missKiffy:
Everybody is entitled to their own opinion but I just don't understand the way some pple reason at times, you go on a date with a girl, you as the guy initiated sex, lets assume she didn't give in immediately or she did give in immediately, doesn't matter but she did give in, and you now claim she's not or will not be a wife material? TF, who initiated d sex in the first place? Now you as a guy that had sex with a girl on the first date, i guess ur perfect and you consider urself an husband material. God help us with these sort of mentalities

Your view is well understood and makes logical sense. However, as much as am not trying to disrupt anyone's sexual preferences, we need to realize and understand this fact, (especially ladies); Introduction of early sex into any 'serious ' or 'committed' relationship , gives room for a lot of misconceptions and assumptions, more importantly , critical issues to sort or discuss are swept under the carpet under the heated passion of sex thereby laying foundations of errors and unbaked relationships.. this truth evades a lot of young people in our generation, but believe me this are trade secrets that strongly contributes to 'true and solid relationships'
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by francizy(m): 6:57am On Dec 28, 2015
misspicy:
hmmmmmm,very deep kweshion embarassed

waiting for the guys comments smiley

modified*****
My mum used to say something to me

'she said a man who wants to marry you,will not ask for, demand for, or pressure you for sex till after marriage"

well I guess this mentality does not hold water in our present generation smiley

What if you meet such a man and he never asks for sex until after wedding, only for you to realise that he's D is as small as a crayon and he doesn't last more than 15secs in bed? grin cheesy cheesy grin
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by Chommieblaq(f): 6:58am On Dec 28, 2015
lifeisabitch:
A woman u know is good enough to wife, will you respect her enough to resist the temptation to ask her for sex on first date?

I know for sure that side chicks are usuallly slept with on first date.

Personally I don't think sex on a first date is a yardstick use in measuring who is a wife material.
Am not in support of of it buh using it to judge who is a wife material is just lubbish.

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Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by Trustworthiness: 6:59am On Dec 28, 2015
It is not the best and against God commandment to be committing fornication. That having sex before you are legally married.

A man/woman having sex before marriage does not determine he/she is a husband or wife material. Being a good person as a someone else spouse is about readily of the man or the woman to uphold his or responsibilities.

A man must be ready to uphold his responsibilities as a husband and a father. Likewise, the woman must be ready to uphold her responsibilities as a wife and a mother. She must known she is not to be an object of sexual satisfaction to her husband but a wife. And not a baby producing machine but a mother to her children, having responsibility to train her children in the best of moral upbringing and monitoring of her children education generally. General education, in the sense of moral, home-front responsibilities, schooling and helping the children in understanding what they are been thought.

What a man or a woman wants from a marriage should be the basis of what you use as criteria for searching for a spouse. And what the man and the woman that are coming together as husband and wife want must tally.

Take for instance, a man that want a woman that will uphold and take good care of the home-front responsibilities can't be thinking of a career woman who cares more about making money and and securing her job under another man outside. Likewise, a woman that wants a responsible man should not think of marrying a drunkard even if he has a well paying job, a house and cars.

So, compatibility of wants in marriage between would-be spouse is highly necessary. Years of courtship or pre marital relation and studying of your would-be spouse will not reveal who is a true wife or husband material.
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by udysweet(f): 7:01am On Dec 28, 2015
Abasi udiong!
TheSonOfMark:



How easy for you to admit that. You conveniently evaded the fact that it took more than a little persuasion on your part before she agreed to tumble beneath the sheets with you.

It's a DATE for Pete's sake! You both are already in a relationship and having sex within the confines of a relationship isn't casual sex. She's not the _whore you're trying to paint her as. She isn't getting paid for it or in return for a favour.

The sex is consented. If you think a girl worths less for having sex in A RELATIONSHIP then you're worth less than you rate yourself.
Here to read comments and learn tho,lol!
Re: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by Imoleayomi001(m): 7:02am On Dec 28, 2015
I guess a critical question any serious minded person should ask is, what exactly am i out for?(Again, you must understand that the true concept of 'Date' is to 'know' this person first before 'experiencing' , and not the other way round. we need to realize and understand this fact, (especially ladies); Introduction of early sex into any 'serious ' or 'committed' relationship , gives room for a lot of misconceptions and assumptions, more importantly , critical issues to sort or discuss are swept under the carpet under the heated passion of sex thereby laying foundations of errors and unbaked relationships.. this truth evades a lot of young people in our generation, but believe me this are trade secrets that strongly contributes to 'true and solid relationships'[color=#000099][/color]

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