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Infedility by JustHere2Observ(f): 11:03pm On Dec 28, 2015
My question to romancelanders is if a man is caught red handed that he is cheating by his woman and promises never to do such, how can you tell they are sincere and will keep to their promise.
Should the woman take precautions to prevent it from happening again?
Re: Infedility by falconey(m): 11:06pm On Dec 28, 2015
yes she should buy him condom.


They said prevention is better than cure.
Re: Infedility by Nobody: 11:09pm On Dec 28, 2015
yes she should learn how to fork him better and try new style in bed then he shud learn how to dish out different kinds of meals to suprise him.
Re: Infedility by JudgementHammer: 11:10pm On Dec 28, 2015
Hmmm. If they're not married, she can know;
-if d guy tries to reduce the gap that was btwn dem b4 d incidence.

-If he gives u d full reasons why he cheated with a threat not to come back if u don't change.

-If he also asks u to pick calls from the other lady.

Men find themselves in situations like dat sometimes. He possibly finds something in d other lady he wished u have.

But if he's been caught severally or with different women, then he's probably keeping u 4 marriage cuz of ur wife materialism, homely nature, ur money..blabla. Many men do that. But when u marry, he will still face d temptation to cheat on u. But if u're presently married, only God or juju(each having its requirements) can repair the marriage.

But don't monitor him too much. Just be urself and be what he likes u to be. If u do that and u catch him d 2nd time, then I'll advice u leave him in my own opinion. Cuz it means he's not mature enough to see d seriousness of marriage. Except una just dey do yoriyori bf/gf sha..u knw nw weh marriage no too sure. I no knw una age sef.

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Re: Infedility by ronald4lif(m): 11:11pm On Dec 28, 2015
JustHere2Observ:
My question to romancelanders is if a man is caught red handed that he is cheating by his woman and promises never to do such, how can you tell they are sincere and will keep to their promise.
Should the woman take precautions to prevent it from happening again?

What kind of precaution do you suggest? Fasten his d1ck in a locker?

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Re: Infedility by Nobody: 11:12pm On Dec 28, 2015
Please x him out of your life.
Re: Infedility by kaziblake(f): 11:13pm On Dec 28, 2015
1-You must know his password.
2-He must not go out without informing you.
3-He must always use your pics as his dp.

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Re: Infedility by JustHere2Observ(f): 11:13pm On Dec 28, 2015
ronald4lif:


What kind of precaution do you suggest? Fasten his d1ck in a locker?


That's why I'm asking, does a woman need to take precautions or just accept his word not to do it again.
I have heard of women doing juju, some stalk their men and snoop around the man.
Re: Infedility by Nobody: 11:15pm On Dec 28, 2015
I'll quit if u value me so mch u wouldn't

Since m of no value to him i move on grin

There are plenty more fish in the sea grin

No one is an island

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Re: Infedility by JustHere2Observ(f): 11:15pm On Dec 28, 2015
softappless:
yes she should learn how to fork him better and try new style in bed then he shud learn how to dish out different kinds of meals to suprise him.

Let's say she does do him well in bed and he even said so.
To him it was a stupid thing and he blames himself because she is everything.
Re: Infedility by JustHere2Observ(f): 11:16pm On Dec 28, 2015
kaziblake:
1-You must know his password.
2-He must not go out without informing you.
3-He must always use your pics as his dp.

Lol stalker
Re: Infedility by Deejavuu(f): 11:17pm On Dec 28, 2015
ronald4lif:


What kind of precaution do you suggest? Fasten his d1ck in a locker?


Hehehehe cheesy grin


Op, there's isn't any precautions or whatever measures to stop a cheating partner. It's like body odour, its stuck on some people. Best bet, you stick around if you're strong enough emotionally to withstand heartache but for them changing or you trying to change them. Mbanu! Don't waste your time they ain't changing shii....

Once a cheat! Always a cheat... if you like do monkey style for bed, sweep his village square or cook for his extended family. ....OYO is ya name.

Drops mic!

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Re: Infedility by obiorathesubtle: 11:18pm On Dec 28, 2015
People! Listen.. I've said it before and I'll say it again! Men are hard-wired!


If you don't give a man enough, he'll look for it outside..


Now if a man says he won't cheat again.. Don't take his word for it, don't take precautions like babalawo and weird stalking...


men are hard-wired at some point(the butterfly stage).. The man would realize that cheating is bad and you'll have him all to yourself, man is happy, babalawo is out of business.. You are happy.. Win-win situation!

You're welcome cheesy
Re: Infedility by JustHere2Observ(f): 11:25pm On Dec 28, 2015
obiorathesubtle:
People! Listen.. I've said it before and I'll say it again! Men are hard-wired!


If you don't give a man enough, he'll look for it outside..


Now if a man says he won't cheat again.. Don't take his word for it, don't take precautions like babalawo and weird stalking...


men are hard-wired at some point(the butterfly stage).. The man would realize that cheating is bad and you'll have him all to yourself, man is happy, babalawo is out of business.. You are happy.. Win-win situation!

You're welcome cheesy

So the woman should endure until he is ready to return to his senses? Why can't he be sorry and mean it?
Re: Infedility by ronald4lif(m): 11:27pm On Dec 28, 2015
Deejavuu:


Hehehehe cheesy grin


Op, there's isn't any precautions or whatever measures to stop a cheating partner. It's like body odour, its stuck on some people. Best bet, you stick around if you're strong enough emotionally to withstand heartache but for them changing or you trying to change them. Mbanu! Don't waste your time they ain't changing shii....

Once a cheat! Always a cheat... if you like do monkey style for bed, sweep his village square or cook for his extended family. ....OYO is ya name.

Drops mic!

Words of wisdom.

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Re: Infedility by obiorathesubtle: 11:33pm On Dec 28, 2015
JustHere2Observ:


So the woman should endure until he is ready to return to his senses? Why can't he be sorry and mean it?
just like every learning process.. It takes time..


Rome wasn't built in a day undecided.. Maybe a day and half.. But definitely not a day!
Re: Infedility by Deejavuu(f): 11:35pm On Dec 28, 2015
ronald4lif:


Words of wisdom.

Learnt from the best wink smiley
Re: Infedility by Nobody: 11:36pm On Dec 28, 2015
Deejavuu:


Hehehehe cheesy grin


Op, there's isn't any precautions or whatever measures to stop a cheating partner. It's like body odour, its stuck on some people. Best bet, you stick around if you're strong enough emotionally to withstand heartache but for them changing or you trying to change them. Mbanu! Don't waste your time they ain't changing shii....

Once a cheat! Always a cheat... if you like do monkey style for bed, sweep his village square or cook for his extended family. ....OYO is ya name.

Drops mic!

Duff my hat for u

U smart

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Re: Infedility by JustHere2Observ(f): 11:36pm On Dec 28, 2015
obiorathesubtle:
just like every learning process.. It takes time..


Rome wasn't built in a day undecided.. Maybe a day and half.. But definitely not a day!

Not fair
Re: Infedility by Nobody: 11:38pm On Dec 28, 2015
obiorathesubtle:
just like every learning process.. It takes time..


Rome wasn't built in a day undecided.. Maybe a day and half.. But definitely not a day!

Same as a loyal girl's heart it wasnt built to be shattered like wall of jericho over nd over again


She wud get tired nd move on eventually

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Re: Infedility by obiorathesubtle: 11:39pm On Dec 28, 2015
JustHere2Observ:

Not fair
life isn't fair sweetie.. But we still live.. Don't we?
Re: Infedility by obiorathesubtle: 11:41pm On Dec 28, 2015
sickstars:


Same as a loyal girl's heart it wasnt built to be shattered like wall of jericho over nd over again


She wud get tired nd move on eventually
our hearts get shattered too..

Or is it only men who cheat?

There's balance in the world.. So, ion see why people should complain..
Re: Infedility by Nobody: 11:44pm On Dec 28, 2015
obiorathesubtle:
our hearts get shattered too..

Or is it only men who cheat?

There's balance in the world.. So, ion see why people should complain..

You in a relationship with a person if the person doesnt cheat why shd u??


U are usin other people out there to judge the character of the girl u agreed to date nd wasnt forced to date


Last time i checked loyal faithful girls stil exist
Re: Infedility by falconey(m): 11:46pm On Dec 28, 2015
ronald4lif:


What kind of precaution do you suggest? Fasten his d1ck in a locker?


LWKM hahahahahahahha
Re: Infedility by obiorathesubtle: 11:55pm On Dec 28, 2015
sickstars:


You in a relationship with a person if the person doesnt cheat why shd u??


U are usin other people out there to judge the character of the girl u agreed to date nd wasnt forced to date


Last time i checked loyal faithful girls stil exist
now.. Lemme clear one thing.. Cheating is a wrong word for it.. It's called surviving

The whole reason for surviving is comfort.. So I guess this answers your first question

Lol.. Faithful girls still exist, yes! I won't rule that out.. AAMOF I'm dating one! So, the last time you checked was a perfect time to check.
Re: Infedility by Nobody: 11:58pm On Dec 28, 2015
obiorathesubtle:
now.. Lemme clear one thing.. Cheating is a wrong word for it.. It's called surviving

The whole reason for surviving is comfort.. So I guess this answers your first question

Lol.. Faithful girls still exist, yes! I won't rule that out.. AAMOF I'm dating one ! So, the last time you checked was a perfect time to check.

Why do u now come on nairaland and confuse people undecided
Re: Infedility by obiorathesubtle: 12:02am On Dec 29, 2015
sickstars:


Why do u now come on nairaland and confuse people undecided
cheesy check my signature..



I could give two _fucks about the understanding people have.
Re: Infedility by Nobody: 12:03am On Dec 29, 2015
obiorathesubtle:
cheesy check my signature..



I could give two _fucks about the understanding people have.

looooool u just crazy its cool tho

Happiness is the key to a healthy life
Re: Infedility by obiorathesubtle: 12:06am On Dec 29, 2015
sickstars:

looooool u just crazy its cool tho
Happiness is the key to a healthy life
crazy? Cool? *shrug*

cheesy I am so happy I'm opening the right door.
Re: Infedility by Nobody: 12:09am On Dec 29, 2015
obiorathesubtle:
crazy? Cool? *shrug*


cheesy I am so happy I'm opening the right door.

You made me laugh hard so hard looool grin
Re: Infedility by obiorathesubtle: 12:16am On Dec 29, 2015
sickstars:


You made me laugh hard so hard looool grin
Lol.. That's new.. I never saw myself as funny..


Thanks tho cheesy


You on the other are a bag of crazies in one basket grin
Re: Infedility by Nobody: 12:19am On Dec 29, 2015
obiorathesubtle:
Lol.. That's new.. I never saw myself as funny..


Thanks tho cheesy


You on the other are a bag of crazies in one basketgrin

looooool if u av met my family u will kno my craze still dey learn work grin

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