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7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by Nobody: 8:19pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 As the curtains of 2015 is coming to a majestic close, I want to congratulate those NL ladies who got wedded. Those who didn't, it doesn't matter. 2016 is around the corner, waiting to land you into your "valid" relationships or husband's houses. Amen! However, there could have been some things you did or didn't do, as such, yours was delayed. Every time, singles who wants to get married are asked to come out, I see a lot of girls- young and old. So, they are many and that makes this thread relevant to ALL except the babies among us ![]() NOTE: I'm speaking from one angle. You can address the other. Thanks. What are some hindrances that could have delayed the marriages of some of our qualified Ladies: 1. Traditional Embargo: It beats my imagination how some folks still hold firmly to this; if he's not from my place, I dare not marry him. While, it's good to heed to parent's advice, its you who will stay single till 30, not them. Please, pray and watch. Be wise. 2. "Confused" Expectations In The Kind of guy she wants. I need a faithful guy, handsome, tall, godly, macho, good with kids, he might drink socially,good cook...if you notice; what relationship has being GODLY and DRINKING alcohol share? My advice is, write what you really really need in him. A goal not written is a wish. Wishes aren't horses anymore...while writing, remember: If you want an 100% man, get clay and mould him yourself. Wanting a man that can cook just because you can't, is denying one of the core essence that makes you a mother, wife and a woman. Learn how to cook, better. Let him just be assisting. My advice. 3. Unrealistic Financial Expectations If he's not earning above 100k, I'm not interested. Heard that before? That's even the least. This days, just get an ok car and they're all over you. Who wan marry poor man? I get. Dangote once slept under a truck for months. If ladies truly have "eyes" to see which guy will be successful or not; while under the truck, politician's daughters would have been coming to say "Hi" to his rickety former self. Moral Lesson: Still, follow a man for his vision. Not just for his BIG television. 4. War between her and in-laws If he truly loves me, he'll put me above his siblings. Some girls have not yet become part and parcel of the family and their character is already exposing them. Call it wisdom, not hypocrisy. In- laws deserve respect, why? They are humans like you. I'm not speaking for myself though. Place yourself in their shoes. A girl wants to marry your brother and she's acting all "rude" and "sensitive". You won't tell him, go ahead. Will you? Unless you're like her tho... 5. Immaturity in handling little matters He forgot my birthday, he's not worth being my "ideal" boo. I broke up with him. Did you just say that? Its absolutely wrong to forget your girl's birthday but is that the only way of solving that ish? Is there no better way? I've had to call someone to call me and wish me a Happy Birthday, with smiles on. It's no big deal. I learnt it. We all can do same. Be flexible and not immature. Most times, her actions isn't stemming from his forgetting to call her but from many other things. I understand. You can break up with him, if you confirmed he's been cheating. But, be sure. Let me not derail. Next point will explain that... 6. Pride/Ego/Unforgiveness/Unnecessary "Forming" I'm not perfect but I know that unforgiveness pulls one back and separates two lovebirds. If he cheated on you for the first time and he reports himself that it was a mistake- haba, you shouldn't break up. One more chance. Pride and ego are the most reasons some are still lonely. Ordinary PM, you dey form, "I don't do PMs, and you are single" I think, if you're searching, be open a bit. That guy might be the next Dangote...oops! I just pressed a button there... Some girls form too much. You play hard to get to someone you like as though there is not enough serious business in marriage already: do sharp sharp joor. When he turns away now, you'll blame point 7. 7. Spiritual Attacks One man saw the devil crying, he asked him, Badoo, why you crying? He replied, "Every little thing, they blame me for it. They even lie on my head." Well, spiritual attacks are real though. But I believe, "the curse causeless doesn't come". Ladies don't pray too much in church UNTIL the pastor mentions, "every devil blindfolding his eyes from seeing any single lady here, die!" Then, you'll see her in action. Onetime, I saw one pretty babe who told me how she went one a very long fasting and praying sessions to get her man. They pray, but the only issue is some don't watch. #I'm in a friendly mood today# ![]() It's our prayer that God will locate every one of our single ladies in the house Next year, 2016. Amen! 226 Likes 24 Shares |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by DebbyChris(f): 8:24pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
Amen 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by fulfillbill(m): 8:25pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
wow what a nice post Amusweet oops emusmith. Let them also upgrade their wooing skills some guys done suffer pass Job for their hand. 10 Likes |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by RexKexMilann: 8:25pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
100% True. Number 2 Especially. Why will a Girl want a Man that Is "Cool & Caring" BUT when That man Comes He Gets the Tag; "He Is not "Manly"? ![]() & Girls should Stop "Claiming" That they want a "God-Fearing" Man Because they "apparently" Don't. 42 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by femimike1(m): 8:27pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
Maybe FP ![]() ![]() |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by falconey(m): 8:29pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
cool. 9 Likes |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by fiziebaibie(f): 8:29pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
U wish |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by sinaj(f): 8:33pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
Fp |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by Omotayor123(f): 8:36pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
Hmm... well written OP! Ladies should remember that it's too much of expectations that brings disappointment! 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by Nobody: 8:37pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
Which type of man still do no.6? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by delighttessy(f): 8:39pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
Amen.... |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by hottest111: 8:40pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
nice one |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by Nobody: 8:45pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
The analyser. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by Nobody: 8:47pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
mistytohcute:lol...where you been? |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by Nobody: 8:50pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
pinceprinz:genuine guys like... ![]() |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by Nobody: 8:51pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
I really love this post OP. Nice write up 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by Nobody: 8:55pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
emusmith: He be like say u go like story telling and very long - emotional conversations. Yes? |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by Nobody: 8:56pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by Nobody: 8:59pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
pinceprinz: One on one, yea, kinda |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by Nobody: 9:04pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
emusmith:I knew it! ![]() |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by Nobody: 9:05pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
pinceprinz:lol...hmm, I didn't see that coming...lol |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by Nobody: 9:06pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by Nobody: 9:08pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
emusmith:Still here |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by lanicky(f): 9:13pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
Nice one OP. You need to create a counter thread though ![]() 1 Like |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by Nobody: 9:15pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
lanicky: Better done...when a females does it. Don't you think? 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by Nobody: 9:16pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
mistytohcute: Hmm, been outa sight tho |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by wristbangle: 9:21pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
emusmith: Amen brother. I pray they locate a husband material like me ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by Brownhypo: 9:21pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
Bad mode of dressing Is another obstacle..... How can a lady dresses half unclad and expect a responsible man to come ask for her hand in marriage.... They call it modern style to justify themselves, until una clock 40 before una eye go open ![]() 32 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by Nobody: 9:23pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
wristbangle: Ta, you don ready so? Marriage need preparation o |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by Nobody: 9:24pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
1 Like |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by Olasco93: 9:29pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
After their thunderous AMEN here, you will still see them with Bottle of SWAN water in 2016 Shiloh praying for the RIGHT man when they, themselves are not RIGHT. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by Nobody: 9:36pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
Olasco93: Don't wish that please...my ladies must marry in 2016 5 Likes |
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