misspicy:
[b]Lovely and revealing piece by my sister in the Lord....sister Lanicky sexy

I with like to add something to this rightly speculated obstacles affecting single men from clinching a marriage worthy beautiful lady like me



1)They are materialistic....Some guys are so materialistic that all they spend the little money they earn on is cloths and shoes,you know that party taking place at Quilox they are the best dressed there


2)Laziness : this point will make me to forever remember my EX,jeeez dude is so lazy,some guys are so lazy they can't even wash their undies. you will see them wearing dirty cloths over and over again,waiting for their house maid girlfriend to come do the laundry for them

3)Unambitious habit : a poor unambitious dude is a very big turn off biko,this days some guys will just be roaming around the street,travelling up and down doing nothing...please how will a lady find them marriage worthy sef.

etc

Guys should try and make some positive changes in 2016 so that ladies can at least see them as husband worthy,because many Nigerian men are not even 1/2 yard husband material [/b]

emusmith:


Nice, so nice.

The unambitious habit. It's destructive. Babe, I'll send you an hamper of hugss

elantraceey:
Babe you gat it

misspicy:
[b]Lovely and revealing piece by my sister in the Lord....sister Lanicky sexy

I with like to add something to this rightly speculated obstacles affecting single men from clinching a marriage worthy beautiful lady like me



1)They are materialistic....Some guys are so materialistic that all they spend the little money they earn on is cloths and shoes,you know that party taking place at Quilox they are the best dressed there


2)Laziness : this point will make me to forever remember my EX,jeeez dude is so lazy,some guys are so lazy they can't even wash their undies. you will see them wearing dirty cloths over and over again,waiting for their house maid girlfriend to come do the laundry for them

3)Unambitious habit : a poor unambitious dude is a very big turn off biko,this days some guys will just be roaming around the street,travelling up and down doing nothing...please how will a lady find them marriage worthy sef.

etc

Guys should try and make some positive changes in 2016 so that ladies can at least see them as husband worthy,because many Nigerian men are not even 1/2 yard husband material [/b]

Emodeee:
This thread has potentials.

Why some ladies are still single in 2015:

Because they are always on nairaland writing abt stuffs, no time for real life guys to see them and make advances. All this online boyfriend and girlfriend will not pay you.

ronald4lif:
Well, it's a good counter thread.

Fear of taking responsibility and losing grip of his freedom is another one. Since many women have made themselves available a man doesn't actually need to get married to benefits from it reward.

Traditionally, there are some female roles in a man's life which are meant to be conjugal but not anymore. I mean if I can have sex with a girlfriend, she fixes my meals and perform most of the house chores, cohabs together and even bear me kids then what's the essence to marry her?

We men knows this and also aware that once we legalise the relationship it mounts more pressure to be responsible, restricts our freedom from gambolling from one female to another, increases our monthly finances as the obligation of wifey welfare isn't in place. Girlfriends financial responsibility can be manoeuvred but same can't be said about wife.

Perhaps, ladies should cease from making themselves available and providing all these conjugal services and some more men would think settlling down quickly.

I hope they don't stop sha.

pinceprinz:

Shuo!! Come and carry us yhia

pinceprinz:


Yo brutal! Who ordered for this enlightenment or are u getting paid forit bro huh? ... I just pray the ladies don't listen to this admonition. That their hormones take over their reasoning.

emusmith:

Hmm, well you made some points there.

#thumbs up#

We'll try and make the necessary adjustments.

ronald4lif:
Well, it's a good counter thread.

Fear of taking responsibility and losing grip of his freedom is another one. Since many women have made themselves available a man doesn't actually need to get married to benefits from it reward.

Traditionally, there are some female roles in a man's life which are meant to be conjugal but not anymore. I mean if I can have sex with a girlfriend, she fixes my meals and perform most of the house chores, cohabs together and even bear me kids then what's the essence to marry her?

We men knows this and also aware that once we legalise the relationship it mounts more pressure to be responsible, restricts our freedom from gambolling from one female to another, increases our monthly finances as the obligation of wifey welfare isn't in effect. Girlfriends financial responsibility can be burked but same can't be said about wife.

Perhaps, ladies should cease from making themselves available and providing all these conjugal services and some more men would think about settling down quickly.

I hope they don't stop sha.

misspicy:
[b]Lovely and revealing piece by my sister in the Lord....sister Lanicky sexy

I with like to add something to this rightly speculated obstacles affecting single men from clinching a marriage worthy beautiful lady like me



1)They are materialistic....Some guys are soD

materialistic that all they spend the little money they earn on is cloths and shoes,you know that party taking place at Quilox they are the best dressed there


2)Laziness : this point will make me to forever remember my EX,jeeez dude is so lazy,some guys are so lazy they can't even wash their undies. you will see them wearing dirty cloths over and over again,waiting for their house maid girlfriend to come do the laundry for them

3)Unambitious habit : a poor unambitious dude is a very big turn off biko,this days some guys will just be roaming around the street,travelling up and down doing nothing...please how will a lady find them marriage worthy sef.

etc

Guys should try and make some positive changes in 2016 so that ladies can at least see them as husband worthy,because many Nigerian men are not even 1/2 yard husband material [/b]

jmoore:
No 1 obstacle is money

No 2 obstacle is money

No 3 obstacle is money
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lanicky:


It's not all about money bro :-/

Tallesty1:
They're either broke or possessed.

lanicky:


Wow! Nice

We'll think about it bro

CaroLyner:
2015 is over already maa'm.