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Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by EreluY(f): 5:05pm On Dec 30, 2015

This is a paradox. What you've done is criminal. No one has the right to violate the other person in such a manner. Conversely, you have prevented your friend from contracting HIV. What your friend needs to do is ask the girl to go and check her HIV status. This is because, as some people may have already suggested, she may not even know her status. Knowing her status would not only enable her to look after herself, but also prevent her from spreading the disease - except she knowingly wishes to do so which is criminal. The moral of this story - trust no one.

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Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Nobody: 5:06pm On Dec 30, 2015

44chux:

Go to the emergency wards of most 9ja hospitals and see how people bleed to death coz of simple things like not enough money for deposit, no police report for gunshot injury(even with credible witnesses to testify to the person's innocence), refusal to "pay" the blood-bank guys coz of the sign that says BLOOD IS FREE, etc.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Criminal_transmission_of_HIV
http://thoughtcatalog.com/jim-goad/2015/11/hiv-terrorism-13-cases-where-people-deliberately-infected-others/
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3160942/Ex-college-wrestler-gets-30-years-recklessly-infecting-partner-HIV-putting-four-risk.html
http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-wales-south-west-wales-33115866
http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-bristol-35070064

What's the usefulness of this post to the topic?

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Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by JustHere2Observ(f): 5:07pm On Dec 30, 2015

zanga420:
yeah she has her rights, let her bring on d consequences. Pls tell me d punishment for deliberately infecting others with d virus? Or is there no punishement 4such? Though d op didnt play safe with his profession but atleast he did something to help his friend who I'm still sceptical of his status. Thanks to cc: pheals, Medunah, cruzita for not being sentimental.

She has not even infected him, so its her word against theirs...what if she doesn't know she has the virus yet. In medicine you should not be biased. If na US this guy try am ehen

Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Nobody: 5:09pm On Dec 30, 2015

Tamee:

I love the way you guys argue, your marriage will be the climax

If you take a vow of celibacy, I will be the second wife

This what happens when you decide to be charitable o angry

Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by eyinjuege: 5:10pm On Dec 30, 2015

ronald4lif:

Yes true, I accept that, was just giving credence to my point. I'd modify asap and thanks for calling that to my attention.

About his action being justifiable or not, that's open for seamless debate.

Quick question.. Can you trust the OP with your life?

Not as a friend now cos you obviously don't know each other, but as a patient since he claims to be a health worker- doctor or lab scientist or warreva.

Can you allow him as a midwife to take the delivery of your wife in a setting such as ours where women share rooms and husbands are not allowed in the delivery room. Can you be fully convinced he didn't swap your baby for whatever justifiable reason.

Can you be sure that as a nurse he won't give you a lethal injection because you've ever betrayed his family?

Do you think he can swap your lab results with his brother's own because yours appear better and his brother has to travel abroad for job opportunities?

I ask again, can you really trust the OP to do what is right for you as a neutral patient.

Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by naijaboiy: 5:11pm On Dec 30, 2015

daretodiffer:

This is why we fight

You need God

You and who?

Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Vivly(f): 5:11pm On Dec 30, 2015

Tamee:

In saner climes, he would be in Jail..and yes, he can be traced through is IP address by hackers.

And then the gal can claim they drugged her and infected her with the virus, showing the piercing on her thumb as proof. Even though she is quilty of carrying HIV, the traces of drugs in her bloodstream is enough to nail the Op.

The Ops action is totally wrong and no one should emulate him.

Felicia, If the girl claims they just infected her with the virus, wouldn't it still be in its window stage?

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Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Nobody: 5:11pm On Dec 30, 2015

naijaboiy:

You and who?

Did I quote someone else? undecided

You, of course

Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by JustHere2Observ(f): 5:12pm On Dec 30, 2015

teelaw4life:

So does that right include deliberate unwillingness to disclose their HIV status to someone they are in an intimate relationship with? Abeg jare...Una wey be say una don read book tire lyk dis, na so una brain go dey misfire. The nigga did good as far as I'm concerned even if I don't support the manner in which he discovered the truth.

She has the right not to disclose her status unless she wants to. She just must make sure not to infect her partner. I had a patient who died of AIDS, she told me not to tell her parents, and I didn't. I just counseled her to tell them herself and educated her on treatments and not spreading it.
I won't argue with you, but obviously you don't know consequences of what he did.

Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Tamee(f): 5:13pm On Dec 30, 2015

daretodiffer:

This what happens when you decide to be charitable o

Lmao

Okay, I like you and Ronald equally though. You guys can go ahead with the marriage, I'll join you later cheesy

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Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Tamee(f): 5:15pm On Dec 30, 2015

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Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by JustHere2Observ(f): 5:16pm On Dec 30, 2015

spafu:

See! I am suspecting you like seriously. The girl's boyfriend asked her to go with so they could both carry out HIV tests while she were to also do a pregnancy test. Only for her to go and bring a pregnancy test. Why didn't she also do an HIV test and bring it to him too? That tells you she knew her status. And for heaven sake, whatever means the boyfriend and his friend adopted in finding out fall within normal acceptable behaviour, I really can speak for the sub-animal humans among us, who after contracting the virus would want to give it to anyone they come across.
Please ladies (not referring to you, JustHere2Observe) wise up and stop being foolish, respect a man that uses a condom on you and deny anyone who does not know where a condom is sold. I was once in a Chemist shop and a girl came and bough a condom, and till today I respect her. Why do girls find it difficult to open their mouth to ask for a condom but open that mouth to mourn.
Abeg, make we use our head.

You know most girls believe asking a guy to use a condom means she is a slut or she doesn't trust her man.
I'm an ardent believer in protected sex or no sex. She was not tied to his destiny, so he could have walked away cos he was clearly doubting her.

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Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by ronald4lif(m): 5:18pm On Dec 30, 2015

eyinjuege:

Quick question.. Can you trust the OP with your life?

Not as a friend now cos you obviously don't know each other, but as a patient since he claims to be a health worker- doctor or lab scientist or warreva.

Can you allow him as a midwife to take the delivery of your wife in a setting such as ours where women share rooms and husbands are not allowed in the delivery room. Can you be fully convinced he didn't swap your baby for whatever justifiable reason.

Can you be sure that as a nurse he won't give you a lethal injection because you've ever betrayed his family?

Do you think he can swap your lab results with his brother's own because yours appear better and his brother has to travel abroad for job opportunities?

I ask again, can you really trust the OP to do what is right for you as a neutral patient.

All these examination on top which matter? Okay, I dey come make I get my exam materials.

Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by eyinjuege: 5:18pm On Dec 30, 2015

Analysiscorner:
Hope you know that being investigated doesn't mean being found guilty. Anyhow, you are right and the op was wrong, as he himself has acknowledged.

Yes, that's why I said investigated.
But what other admission of guilt do you seek other than that from the horse's mouth? The only thing to do is to find the victim, as we all also know the crime scene.
If no victim can be identified, then alas, its probably just a figment of the OPs imagination probably to generate a discourse.

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Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by JustHere2Observ(f): 5:19pm On Dec 30, 2015

whytepawn1:

this is the most insensitive comment I have ever read on this forum.... I would want to believe you didn't read the complete post.

Please I did, I'm just not a sucker for sentiments. Wrong is wrong. No be by force to marry the girl, he could have just broken up with her.

Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by eyinjuege: 5:21pm On Dec 30, 2015

ronald4lif:

All these examination on top which matter? Okay, I dey come make I get my exam materials.

Hahahaha

.
You have 10mins to round up.

Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Nobody: 5:23pm On Dec 30, 2015

You must really love your friend. I wonder why. You did the wrong thing sha, illegal too. Thank your Gods nothing happened. Don't set a precedent for doing such and tell your friend to stop having sex if he can't take care of his sex life like a responsible adult. No sex before marriage is still the best option Ogbeni.

You are both very very lucky that nothing happened

Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by JustHere2Observ(f): 5:24pm On Dec 30, 2015

Originalsly:
Mr Medical Personnel.... that's what friends do... do everything possible legal or illegal to save a friend's life. You make chills run down my spine. I pray I never have a friend like you. Just curious...are you a mortician?....or one of those people that go pick up the dead or something like that?

If you want to insult me just do so, I hate people who are diplomatic about it.
Besides I pick my friends carefully, so you definitely won't make the list even if the circumstances were different.

Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Vivly(f): 5:25pm On Dec 30, 2015

Tamee:

Witch, my blood is really bitter

And who says Op's friend does not have the virus already, in it's window stage?
What's the sense in drugging her, testing her and letting her go huh, mama Felicia.

You couldn't even answer the simple clear question I asked. It is not possible for her to claim they just infected her because then the virus would still be in it's window stage dumbass. You don't know if you're pregnant few minutes after unprotected sex do you? This goes to show you're an embarrassment to Nigerians in diaspora. If there's anything I'm sure of right now, It's that I would soon move a motion for the deportation of dumbfucks to be implemented.
Simple ABC you know no. Na to dey run your mouth like small pikin you sabi. Thunder fire you. Goat.

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Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by JustHere2Observ(f): 5:27pm On Dec 30, 2015

Andykruiz:
I thought you were just here to observe, why posting shii.

And before you say something silly, just know it could have been your brother the Op saved.

In as much as my brothers are young, they were brought up to men who can make decisions on their own, and not to be pressured into doing what they are not comfortable with meaning they are not stupid.

Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Analysiscorner: 5:27pm On Dec 30, 2015

Vivly:

Felicia, If the girl claims they just infected her with the virus, wouldn't it still be in its window stage?

Is her name Felicia? I didn't know oooh!

Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by ronald4lif(m): 5:28pm On Dec 30, 2015

eyinjuege:

Hahahaha .
You have 10mins to round up.

Your questions are very spot on and brought a new dimension to the whole denouement. I think I won't trust him with any of the question asked. His conduct betrays his professional ethics.

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Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by JustHere2Observ(f): 5:30pm On Dec 30, 2015

AK481:

Your papa

Guy behave yourself...I draw the line at unnecessary insults, if you don't like my response just walk on. But bringing my father into it is what I won't take.
I posted my own thoughts on the issue as requested by OP, if you don't like agree with say it sense not as an idiot.

Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by spafu(m): 5:30pm On Dec 30, 2015

JustHere2Observ:

You know most girls believe asking a guy to use a condom means she is a slut or she doesn't trust her man.
I'm an ardent believer in protected sex or no sex. She was not tied to his destiny, so he could have walked away cos he was clearly doubting her.

I agree with you to some extent. The only reason I had faulted your initial argument is your concern for the girl's right more than a generation of person that would have gotten infected by the scourge if this singular act hadn't taken place.
My sister, I am a guy and please take it from me on a good authority, every guy will value a woman who can say " stop, wear a condom or I am out". That tells him that when she is with another guy, she be protective and thus safeguard his life. When a guy is not initiating to do it with a condom, girl, suspect him: he is either planning something or he is not "exposed". Ha! me I no fit take that risk o, even if it is a free ride.

Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Tamee(f): 5:32pm On Dec 30, 2015

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Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Tamee(f): 5:33pm On Dec 30, 2015

Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Vivly(f): 5:36pm On Dec 30, 2015

Tamee:
[s]

Hmmmmmn The witch is vexed
The same Thunder that will fire you in your coven this year if you don't stop disturbing my e-peace..
Keep typing with all your muscles, you keypad will soon blow.
Pls I haven't been reading all your posts, just skimming through, quit wasting time with me.
I don't do silly oafs, sorry old wise witch.[/s]

Tell that to your brain.

Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by jairusben(m): 5:39pm On Dec 30, 2015

Vivly:

Felicia, If the girl claims they just infected her with the virus, wouldn't it still be in its window stage?

sorry, are you a scientist mam?

Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Analysiscorner: 5:39pm On Dec 30, 2015

Tamee:

Are we done here

I can trust him in all the areas you mentioned. He is not as evil as you think. Why? Because he has laboured for her to be tested in the lab, but she refused.

Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by naijaboiy: 5:40pm On Dec 30, 2015

daretodiffer:

Did I quote someone else?

You, of course

what have i done to you Biko?

Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by ronald4lif(m): 5:56pm On Dec 30, 2015

Tamee:

Are we done here

I'm not bothered about his action but the outcome of it. His conduct was poor but successful and thus can be overlooked and can regarded as a hindsight.

Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by BALLOSKI: 6:03pm On Dec 30, 2015

JustHere2Observ:
I can't believe an educated and professional will violated another person's right like that just because your friend cannot manage his own matters.

If your friend was not sure of her and doesn't feel safe, he should have broken up with her or if he loves her that much he should have insisted on his no unprotected sex stance.

Smh.

you just don't make sense. Whatever it takes to save a life is allowed.

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