The way things are happening nowadays, only God can help.


I was mute and could not offer any advice.


Imagine that you got married and your wife is busy aborting each and every pregnancy she had for you. Not only did she did that for once, She had abortion for solid two times.


What will your reaction be if you are in this young man's shoe?


Is it that she don't want to have a baby for him or what?


After she willingly married to the young man.
Now look at what she is displaying.


What silly explanation can justify this young woman's evil act?


There is nothing Medically wrong that can proof she can't hold a pregnancy.


What decision should this young man take to solemnly tackle this matter once and for all??

He should sit and have a talk with her and find out why she is aborting their babies. She might probably be the outgoing type who wouldn't want a baby to tie her down or probably she doesn't love. I know someone who did that back then but after the whole family sat her down and scolded her,she changed. Now she has two wonderful boys she adores now. So I think they need to talk it out.

Prettiepearlz:
He should sit and have a talk with her and find out why she is aborting their babies. She might probably be the outgoing type who wouldn't want a baby to tie her down or probably she doesn't love. I know someone who did that back then but after the whole family sat her down and scolded her,she changed. Now she has two wonderful boys she adores now. So I think they need to talk it out.

she does not do any work that may give her burden. She only practice substantial argic

There is nothing Medically wrong that can proof she can't hold a pregnancy.


Is it that the husband knows for a fact that she had abortions or is he suspecting her? I'm asking because of that statement

Tolatutu:
There is nothing Medically wrong that can proof she can't hold a pregnancy.


Is it that the husband knows for a fact that she had abortions or is he suspecting her? I'm asking because of that statement

she was caught with abortion pills after she was treated of post abortion bleeding

just talk to her and find out her reason.everything has a reason u know

I pity her cos tomorrow she might need those children and they would be nowhere to be found.
We are sometimes architects of our woes and misfortunes.

I believe a woman can do what she chooses with her body, ultimately. But it doesn't make sense to wed someone, I'm assuming understanding they want to build a family with you, only to abort the pregnancies. Best to stay single if you're living as you life doesn't affect your partner anyway.

Maybe the guy is very ugly and she can't bear the thought of duplicates, lol. jkjk

she might be going through a post traumatic situation after losing the first baby.... please help her to get an appointed specialist..... if it's what I think it is..... she can even have the tendency of killing her baby..... if she gives birth

quindebbie:
just talk to her and find out her reason.everything has a reason u know

Which kind reason.

If she's not ready to have babies,at least the man needs to be in on how she feels and be in agreement.

Doing it without his agreement is

clodd007:
she might be going through a post traumatic situation after losing the first baby.... please help her to get an appointed specialist..... if it's what I think it is..... she can even have the tendency of killing her baby..... if she gives birth

after deliberately aborting her pregnancy twice?

She loves your money,not you.

Pineapp:
She loves your money,not you.

or maybe she loves him a lot and doesn't want to share with kids.

God please save us from KARASHIKAS

Are these your imaginations or it truly happened.
I'm sorry I did not see the reality in your post.

However, if true, then apparently, HE should sit with HIS wife and demand for explanations.
It starts from there.

Fake thread with no substance.

Endtime wife na to abort am comot my house

Fmartin:
she does not do any work that may give her burden. She only practice substantial argic

Yeah,I understand you. Same goes for my aunt. She does nothing,her hubby opened a shop for her. But she is the outgoing lady who likes clubbing with friends and all sort of going out. So she thought having a baby would tie her down,so she was always aborting back then,before her hubby got to know and told the family members and God was merciful to give her a second chance. Now like I said earlier she has two kids(boys). Let the husband talk it out with her. Its either,there is more to it or she doesn't love her husband.

She's aborting cos you both poor.

wonder shall never cease to happen

He should sit her down and talk some senses into her brain

Maybe she had cheated on him and she wouldn't want to have a bastard in her home.
On a contrary, she could be experiencing psychological trauma which should be identified and resolved.

Exponental:
Maybe she had cheated on him and she wouldn't want to have a bastard in her home.
On a contrary, she could be experiencing psychological trauma which should be identified and resolved.

you may be right, though

EfemenaXY:
Fake thread with no substance.

i can see a Thomas in you. Tinz dat ar happening these daysu cnt just condemned this thread frm ur myopic point....... Of view

Prettiepearlz:

Yeah,I understand you. Same goes for my aunt. She does nothing,her hubby opened a shop for her. But she is the outgoing lady who likes clubbing with friends and all sort of going out. So she thought having a baby would tie her down,so she was always aborting back then,before her hubby got to know and told the family members and God was merciful to give her a second chance. Now like I said earlier she has two kids(boys). Let the husband talk it out with her. Its either,there is more to it or she doesn't love her husband.

u knw, d husband still has some iota of love for d girl. But his relatives hav vow nt to accept her into their family

Joavid:
She's aborting cos you both poor.

y do she hav to marry the poor guy in the first place?

Exponental:
Maybe she had cheated on him and she wouldn't want to have a bastard in her home.
On a contrary, she could be experiencing psychological trauma which should be identified and resolved.

actually she is a cheat.but this her husband does not knw...

Fmartin:
u knw, d husband still has some iota of love for d girl. But his relatives hav vow nt to accept her into their family

Oh no,that's where we get it all wrong in Nigeria,he shouldn't have involved his family. Now its all complicated now. He should have tried talking it out with her. And to clarify things right, Are they legally married? Happy new year dearie.

I call those type of ladies - pyscho

Prettiepearlz:

Oh no,that's where we get it all wrong in Nigeria,he shouldn't have involved his family. Now its all complicated now. He should have tried talking it out with her. And to clarify things right, Are they legally married? Happy new year dearie.

nt legally. 'enlopment'

Fmartin:
i can see a Thomas in you. Tinz dat ar happening these daysu cnt just condemned this thread frm ur myopic point....... Of view

It's myopic of you to jump to conclusions without first hearing from both sides, then asking relevant questions before arriving at one-sided conclusions.

~ Have you spoken to his wife to find out the reasons behind her actions?

~ What is / was the gap between the pregnancies? Were they in quick succession of each other?

~ What is their financial situation like? Can they afford the additional costs? Or are you of the simplistic school of thought: Have as many as you possibly can because "God and well meaning Nigerians will provide"?

Joavid:
She's aborting cos you both poor.

Lol... Na so she tell you?

There really is no way to make sense of this because I can't think up any reasons good enough to make a wife abort her pregnancies without the knowledge of her husband, especially when she hasn't even birthed one child.

She's either a witch or an ogbanje, or both...this is my expert opinion.