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New Year, New Wahala: Advice Needed Please by Nobody: 10:34am On Jan 01, 2016 |
As seen on Jaron's blog: I would really need some constructive advice on my relationship. I've been dating a very nice, homely girl for close to one year now, although most of our relationship has been long distance because she was schooling in another city, I am certain she is the woman I want to spend my life with. However, this xmas she's been indicating interest in meeting my parents but I've been trying to evade such meeting because I feel I'm not ready for marriage yet. She sensed my restraint last night after I came up with yet another excuse why she can't come to my house for the new year's celebration and is not happy with me. She told me in the wee hours of the morning that we should forget about marriage talks and focus on developing ourselves but I sense a withdrawal in her. Pls what should I do? Nb: I've met her family members a couple of times already and they're beginning to see me as an in-law |
Re: New Year, New Wahala: Advice Needed Please by ronald4lif(m): 10:37am On Jan 01, 2016 |
Are you lez? 1 Like |
Re: New Year, New Wahala: Advice Needed Please by MissSlimbody(f): 10:41am On Jan 01, 2016 |
ronald4lif: “As seen on Jaron's blog" |
Re: New Year, New Wahala: Advice Needed Please by sheyoroniyen(m): 10:42am On Jan 01, 2016 |
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Re: New Year, New Wahala: Advice Needed Please by Cholls(m): 10:43am On Jan 01, 2016 |
my sister please tell that brother to stop being foolish in 2016 for Christ sakes. it's obvious you ain't ready yet then let her move on cuz that's the next thing she wants for herself. 1 Like |
Re: New Year, New Wahala: Advice Needed Please by Nobody: 10:44am On Jan 01, 2016 |
Re: New Year, New Wahala: Advice Needed Please by Nobody: 10:45am On Jan 01, 2016 |
Cholls: Okay |
Re: New Year, New Wahala: Advice Needed Please by Nobody: 10:46am On Jan 01, 2016 |
sheyoroniyen: Meaning? |
Re: New Year, New Wahala: Advice Needed Please by MissSlimbody(f): 10:46am On Jan 01, 2016 |
Suigeneris93:I'm sure he didn't see that part ![]() |
Re: New Year, New Wahala: Advice Needed Please by ronald4lif(m): 10:47am On Jan 01, 2016 |
MissSlimbody: Oh okay, I missed that, must have been an oversight. But why do people lift stories from blog and sought for advice here. For what purpose and does the original writer have access to the advice given here ![]() |
Re: New Year, New Wahala: Advice Needed Please by MissSlimbody(f): 10:51am On Jan 01, 2016 |
ronald4lif: One of the reasons why I don't bother to comment on such threads. |
Re: New Year, New Wahala: Advice Needed Please by Nobody: 10:51am On Jan 01, 2016 |
ronald4lif: It seemed like an interesting story and the advice rendered may help someone else here 1 Like |
Re: New Year, New Wahala: Advice Needed Please by Nobody: 10:54am On Jan 01, 2016 |
MissSlimbody: You commented, you just didn't profer advice...bt u should, ur advice may help others. We all learn everyday |
Re: New Year, New Wahala: Advice Needed Please by sheyoroniyen(m): 10:54am On Jan 01, 2016 |
Re: New Year, New Wahala: Advice Needed Please by khristals(m): 11:00am On Jan 01, 2016 |
![]() ...I know a certain specie of leaf that has all the answers ...you could try the ones grown in sapele, they are known for bringing out the constructive ideas in you ..however u might want to look out for the ones grown in ogbomosho! if u take this one u will come back here creating another thread and asking for assistance.. and to make things better since it's new year u can mix it with ur jollof or soup! :-D :-D thank me later |
Re: New Year, New Wahala: Advice Needed Please by Ray360: 11:02am On Jan 01, 2016 |
I was about commenting until I saw where the story was lifted from. I rest! |
Re: New Year, New Wahala: Advice Needed Please by fbtowner(m): 11:08am On Jan 01, 2016 |
khristals: Badt guy. Na ugwo leaf abii. ![]() |
Re: New Year, New Wahala: Advice Needed Please by Nobody: 11:29am On Jan 01, 2016 |
Re: New Year, New Wahala: Advice Needed Please by Jfyzee: 11:42am On Jan 01, 2016 |
Won't spill much but got this to say.. If you're certain she is the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with.. then while not allow her meet ur people. That for sure will show a commitment from ur end to her. The fact that u ain't ready for marriage is something you can still talk to her about. Outlined your reasons to her provided they genuine and then work with her on the suggestion she made. Since u didn't mention both ur age.. it will be fine if u guys stick together and develop urselves more.. gudluck. 1 Like |
Re: New Year, New Wahala: Advice Needed Please by Nature8(m): 1:12pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
Jfyzee: Well said.. |
Re: New Year, New Wahala: Advice Needed Please by MissSlimbody(f): 1:15pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
Suigeneris93: Noted ![]() |
Re: New Year, New Wahala: Advice Needed Please by kehnton(m): 6:28pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Suigeneris93: if be isn't ready for marriage, why is he in a relationship in the first place.? i think the young man is hiding something. i would have gladly taken her to see my people. maybe this guy is an abiku. and the sad thing is that he has been eating the apple he's yet to pay for. my advice? take her to see mama and Lagos. שלום 1 Like |
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