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Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by lakamua: 9:53am On Jan 02, 2016 |
This is why u must nt marry a non virgin. Enjoy ur marriage since u and most men have decided to marry women dat sleep around and tel u virginity is nt important |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by ojuolu(m): 9:55am On Jan 02, 2016 |
Yieldings:the best response by a mile. I think op should be worried. I have a similar situation sometime last year. I was posted to the city where my ex family is settled now. Although over the years since separation, we normally keep in touch during special occasions such as bd, Xmas and new year. But we never talked about " us" until recently. The chat was on wassap and we both agreed that despite the fact that we are in the same area, both happily married, our spouse know about us, we won't get to see and we never attempt to meet up. The feelings were mutual so to save ourselves, we know the consequences of such meetings may be beyond our control. The wife err by discussing such intimacy with her ex and still referring to him as special and sweetheart. Op should call her to order immediately. She may not be aware of the danger she is walking into now. After all " kerekere ni imu elude wo ogba". 2 Likes |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by ewizard1: 9:57am On Jan 02, 2016 |
Smile when i read this as i have a female friend whom we used to call ourselves sweethearts in school (though we never dated). She's married now and when we chat, like she's asking my opinion on something i am good at, she say things like; "thanks sweetheart mi" "thats why i love you" For my mind, i'll be thinking; if you let your hubby go see this convo, i no dey ooo ![]() |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by praise007: 9:59am On Jan 02, 2016 |
this is serious. You beta wake up bro |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 9:59am On Jan 02, 2016 |
Laryne:her ex no set any trap. Thats the way she is. |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by efficiencie(m): 10:01am On Jan 02, 2016 |
Yieldings: ...such a comment, ending with a strong admonition, can only come from a bright mind...enough respect for the highlighted quote... 1 Like |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by onegig(m): 10:01am On Jan 02, 2016 |
tearoses: Trust me cc. She would spin it as him being jealous and insecure. Someone that would send such a message has already lost respect for the husband. Until she does the unthinkable and loses her family before her eyes would be clear. She believes the grass is greener on the other side and lives in a state of idealism. Trying to set her right would only make her resent him. She alone can nip this in the bud and the guy should start preparing his mind for the worst. |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 10:02am On Jan 02, 2016 |
kweenkong:you make sense. I respect this. If she keeps thinking about her ex , how will she focus on her marriage. I wonder why some pple see nothing wrong with this 1 Like |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Nnemuka(f): 10:03am On Jan 02, 2016 |
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Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by jackpot(f): 10:03am On Jan 02, 2016 |
Yieldings:that temptation of taking a last bite though ![]() |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by theyrynsolar(f): 10:04am On Jan 02, 2016 |
jayAjoku: Thanks for the compliments... ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by ronski: 10:05am On Jan 02, 2016 |
I think she is bored, so check your self my guy... |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Laryne(m): 10:05am On Jan 02, 2016 |
theyrynsolar:You no want eat meat but you use your teeth dey share am for children. Dearie some meaning are clearly implied and too obvious. |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by efficiencie(m): 10:07am On Jan 02, 2016 |
lakamua: ...some truths are hard to hear and much difficult to understand and such a truth is what you have just said...in the case of the OP's wife, if she's still bonded to her ex, it won't be long before an 's' sneaks into the 'ex'...irrespective of what measures the OP puts in place... |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 10:09am On Jan 02, 2016 |
Bisjosh:true talk |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by praise007: 10:09am On Jan 02, 2016 |
Nnemuka: see this one again oooooo. how old are you first? |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by theyrynsolar(f): 10:10am On Jan 02, 2016 |
Laryne: Ayaff collect your own if you don't collect mine ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by tpiar: 10:10am On Jan 02, 2016 |
efficiencie: does ex = sex? |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Semper247(m): 10:11am On Jan 02, 2016 |
My sincere advice :never go thru her messages again, never. Unfortunately, u will forever be hunted by the one u Just read. Confrontation will not take it away, level of suspicion has been raised, trust has diminished, love is undoubtedly now doubted.... Dude, u just invaded the bees hive.... A cascade if reaction has been set rolling.... God will help ur marriage man, God will help u. Would u still have sound sleep for the next few days? I doubt... God help u still. Have u checked ur bp of recent? U need to... God help u bro....*big hug* 1 Like |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by 2ndejoj(m): 10:13am On Jan 02, 2016 |
kweenkong: God really dash some people sense on NL still some people spill trash every day. |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Tvegas(m): 10:14am On Jan 02, 2016 |
Moana: Please Stop this talk , the wife should simply divorce her husband before hitting on an ex naa. It's cowardice when married people use the challenges in their marriage as an excuse to cheat. The guy should use the carrot and stick approach, make all the noise you can make right now but when she is sober pamper her and let her know an ex baggage is a no-no. 1 Like |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by tuna4servi(m): 10:16am On Jan 02, 2016 |
Dere is possibility of them having secret affairs |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by oloriadejoke(f): 10:16am On Jan 02, 2016 |
Hmmmm Gbese re oo onyi bi tyre |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Laryne(m): 10:16am On Jan 02, 2016 |
theyrynsolar:Please whats Ayaff? |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by cyrilamx(m): 10:20am On Jan 02, 2016 |
I read this post with mixed feelings. I want to place myself in the shoe of the man concerned. What thoughts could be raging through his mind? To b candid even if his wife is totally commited to the marriage as she affirmed to be happy, the trust is already waning. What really in the ex-factor that we can't completely let go? The text may have been due to d excitement of running into her long lost love, also one should consider the circumstance of their separation. But the man should sit his wife down and let her know he saw her msg. They should talk things over...because the idea of both seeing each other is very tempting ...and if such meeting not properly managed, it could spell doom for these people. 1 Like |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 10:24am On Jan 02, 2016 |
She ran into her ex .. Simple hi bye and keep it moving She clearly still loves him (FACT) So oga at the top berra b careful he fuk up once she goneeeeeeeeeeeee ![]() |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 10:24am On Jan 02, 2016 |
One of the things I'm going to make up my mind on before getting married, is never to go through my husband's phone. Wouldn't want to know about anything that 'll compromise my peace of mind and sanity. Once I'm married, then I'm married. If I catch u red-handed, fine.. We' d follow it up from there. But as long as I don't know and I don't suspect, then we shall all be fine. Having said all these, Lord, pls.. Give me a faithful and truly deserving husband, IJN. 1 Like |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by DavidEsq(m): 10:26am On Jan 02, 2016 |
OP, screen-grab the msg or u dey lie. This txt doesn't sound ladyish. |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 10:27am On Jan 02, 2016 |
Oliviaarims:Amen, The Lord will grant your wish. |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 10:28am On Jan 02, 2016 |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Omofairy(f): 10:31am On Jan 02, 2016 |
Onegai: Exactly. Why is no one telling the man to do this as well? Cos if roles were reversed, she would be blamed for not doing her job well. Oga, go buy red boxers and black vest jare. Just be careful not to end up looking like Abija... ![]() |
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