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Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by shineeye1: 11:53am On Jan 02, 2016 |
Strictly speaking, marriage is a "temporal" contract. Every woman has a full life , independent of that husband, before and after marriage. Marriage is till death. After death, the man has no say in her life. Some men men behave as though the wife is their eternal property. As a man, you have a golden opportunity to treat a fellow human right while the "contract" lasts. That saintly ex of the wife is deserving of all the emotion that woman has for him. The best way for the husband to deal with that is match the quality or even exceed it. Not resort to envy and insecurity. Thanks to God, the wife is even a committed faithful woman. 1 Like |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 11:54am On Jan 02, 2016 |
tpiar: Lmao!!! Tpai the detective. Fish them out. Fakers on here!!! |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by AreaFada2: 11:55am On Jan 02, 2016 |
cococandy: Thank you my dear. I simply like honest people. @OP, if you won't worry seeing a lion inside your goat pen, then relax about this. But no irrational or accusatory reaction. I have a lady that we were once close but lost contact under difficult circumstances. We reacquainted after a very long time. This lady is now married with 3 kids. Ol' boy it was really emotional. Not too far from the scenario you painted. To her hubby, he has a perfect family. And the man trying if you ask me. He provides well for the family. But the lady is not happy. I cannot understand why. I have avoided this lady physically ever since. Her insinuations have scared me into giving excuses why we cannot see. My culture forbids doing married women. It has been by the Grace of God. Not easy resisting it. Not easy at all. Pray that the guy has cultural/religious qualms about it. Otherwise, hmmmm. |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by theyrynsolar(f): 11:57am On Jan 02, 2016 |
drewxx88: The fact that she contacted him does not give her away... That's what memories could do to you.. We can all be victim of this I can do it too.. Buh not to have sex with him.. Woukd even tell my husband bout it |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by shineeye1: 11:58am On Jan 02, 2016 |
ZeeBab: Strictly speaking, marriage is a "temporal" contract. Every woman has a full life , independent of that husband, before and after marriage. Marriage is till death. After death, the man has no say in her life. Some men behave as though the wife is their eternal property. As a man, you have a golden opportunity to treat a fellow human right while the "contract" lasts. That saintly ex of the wife is deserving of all the emotion that woman has for him. The best way for the husband to deal with that is match the quality or even exceed it. Not resort to envy and insecurity. Thanks to God, the wife is even a committed faithful woman. |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by suavemo6(m): 11:59am On Jan 02, 2016 |
[color=#006600][/color]bro u should big time...ask her nikoko |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by taiwosegun1(m): 12:07pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Bisjosh:like this 1 Like |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by valariz: 12:13pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
kweenkong:wtf |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 12:29pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
ZeeBab: Been there done that...she loves u. Nothing more nothing less. MODIFIED: She was just been happy for her Ex...nothing more. 2 Likes |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by ojnnaco(m): 12:34pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Girls eeee .. they can never forget u as long as u dey nack dem well 1 Like |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by veraiyke(m): 12:34pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Guy yes you should be worried because your wife with such message sent to an ex loves him more than you and wouldn't mind a one night or often night rounds with him. Call her down respectfully and tell her your fears and tell her straight to make a choice between loving you and stop seeing the ex or quit the marriage now instead of creating problems later for the both of you and her ex marriage too |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Mcaise: 12:37pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
E GO PHORK AM TODAY! 1 Like |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by iPopAlomo(m): 12:39pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Marriage is fuccked up!!! |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by wokomabest(m): 12:44pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
saintvc:ewu. I don't mind interpreting it to you if you ask me. What are friends for |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by laprince(m): 12:50pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Moana: It's not about fixing anything. Her emotion is long shared. A subtle confrontation should help |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Chicagoesontop: 12:53pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
ZeeBab: Guy try to be mature, this text to me does not mean anything , it was her ex, me and my ex although she is married now shared some new year lines, it does not mean we are still strafing, this shows that you married an intelligent and wise woman, by the way how did you stumble on that text, don't tell me you are snooping on your wife's phone in her absence, it will be immature of you to do so. It's your wife for Christ sake so trust her and stop worrying yourself for no reason !! |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Mariner007: 12:54pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Chicagoesontop: 12:57pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
shineeye1: If you allow negative people here to ruin your marriage for you it's your own cup of tea, i don't see your wife cheating on you in this text to her ex, i don talk my own finish, still enjoying my Indomie !! |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Rukkydelta(f): 12:58pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Alezy: |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by chelsea4su(f): 1:04pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Checking your wife messages, op you no dey shame,wise up this is 2016,get thing's done and leave your wife alone to her own privacy,if you've been a respectable, loving and caring husband,why would your wife remember an ex. 1 Like |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by soloyes(m): 1:05pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
I think she's just showing gratitude to a well behaved and nice ex who didn't insist on SEX. That's a true virtue to admire in a guy because only one in a million will do what he did but I have a question for you did you have sex with her before you married her? Because from all indications you did else she wouldn't have seen it as something abnormal in her ex |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 1:12pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Any man would be lucky to have you as a wife. Yieldings: 1 Like |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 1:29pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
She is human, and you should be worried if you were her first...And by the way, is she the first woman you truly loved? 1 Like |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by allthingsgood: 1:38pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
sukkot: Expanding what? Does that text look expanded to you |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by allthingsgood: 1:39pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
ALEXIS0240: Whatever! |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by DangoteAlhaji: 1:46pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
emorse: I disagree completely building a family freiend relationship will only aggravate this , and make things happen faster and with little or no suspicion ! |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Laryne(m): 1:56pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
theyrynsolar:Ok. |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by 0079jaBond(m): 2:00pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Trouble looming... Bros, act maturely and do something now |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by reboski: 2:03pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Bro just be careful, let wisdom direct you because if you hala any how and she start deleting all the chat from the guy.It will be difficult for you to find out ooooo. |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by fortunechy(m): 2:09pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
MY DEAR U AR STILL SINGLE |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by baby124: 2:23pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Nip it in the bud now, and talk to her about where your marriage is lacking. You both work hard to fix it. Most guys don't know is all a woman needs is a good backbone in her husband and GENUINE REASSURANCE |
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by reservd(m): 2:23pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Vikky014:U won't undastnd if u'v nt found urself in such a situatn. Nt all relatnshp ended via cheatin , quarrel or wateva common reason |
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