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Re: About Women Making The First Move. by RexKexMilann: 3:10pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Oliviaarims:Nope, It's not that. My other account was banned simply because I posted some Physiological terms on D&M Section. Buh it's all good. You really Repping ![]() 1 Like |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 3:10pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Kachisbarbie: Sweetheart, I'm not sure we're talking about the same thing. U're coming in from a totally different angle. Are u saying we should watch out for greenlights in a man? Lol Aha. U modified. But still, a guy shouldn't be so shy that he can't make a move after seeing the greenlights. Greenlight says "go ahead, I'll be receptive. I'm interested in you, too." |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by CaroLyner(f): 3:11pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
RexKexMilann:whats with nigerian guys &age ? ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 3:14pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Oliviaarims: I don't quite agree with you. People date for different reasons. Not every dating instance is veered towards marriage. Marriage isn't always the primary objective when two people decide to date it other. There is a higher chance a girl would get viewed as desperate if she proposes marriage to a guy than if she just asks to date the guy, irrespective of the fact that she is dating the guy or not. Marriage is a very serious issue and most men don't handle it lightly. A guy could easily agree to date a girl and still keep other side chicks. But with marriage, it's just that one woman. And not just that, he is also expected to spend his life with her and be faithful to just her all through. So you see, it's a lot more serious issue than just asking someone out. |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 3:15pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
misspicy:the ones wey dey toast sef still dey chop clean mouth. let alone the one you are not sure of his feelings for you. well I will be here to read stories that touch ![]() |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 3:15pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Oliviaarims: I read your post perfectly and I maintain, some guys are not vocal enough to even act after seeing the greenlight, if one happens to be with such guy_ why not help a young man'. A guy shouldn't be that shy? Lols, I guess guys are immortals, they don't have fears. ![]() 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 3:16pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
RexKexMilann: Aww. U were banned. Did u feel like bashing the mod like most of the others who get banned tend to do? |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 3:17pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
wristbangle:If he's not in love.. Then everything else is pointless. |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by RexKexMilann: 3:17pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
CaroLyner:I can picture my Aunt saying that to Her friend 29 Years ago, She's still single. Promise me you won't End Up like her ![]() BTW. You didn't have to Generalize ![]() |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 3:19pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
TrapKNNG: There are always exceptions. Doesn't mean ur case is the obtainable norm. |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by joliyp(f): 3:19pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
wristbangle:I only reject timid guys |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by RexKexMilann: 3:20pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Oliviaarims:No! The ban Was totally Unwarranted. |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Charles4075(m): 3:20pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Kachisbarbie: |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 3:21pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Diddyydiva: LOL. Very funny illustration. |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by reservd(m): 3:21pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Kachisbarbie:Hmmm, nice1. U'v nt been arnd I guess, quite long I saw a comment 4m u. Dnt break a sweat,its jst a crush on a new acct |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by wristbangle: 3:22pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
joliyp: Even if he possess satisfactory appearance and buoyant financial status? ![]() |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by CaroLyner(f): 3:24pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
RexKexMilann:lol.your imaginary aunt though. trust me am all good. |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Mjshexy(f): 3:25pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Oliviaarims:Yea i do understand u perfectly, a little pride as a lady to show her worth is necessary but u well know that Pride at the climax will not even allow some girls stoop so low to give a green light or chik a guy, the guy may not even notice ur green light because he has his mind on something or someone else so make known ur intentions, common if u really want him go for him, it won't reduce ur status or take away ur beauty. |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by TrapKNNG(m): 3:25pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Oliviaarims: That's why the ladies have to be careful about whom they go for. I am a bad guy (literally ![]() ![]() Spoting a responsible guy isn't rocket science but you lots love to go for the playas ![]() ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 3:27pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Oliviaarims:that's actually for very close friends. The lady in your first post needs a brain surgery ![]() |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Charles4075(m): 3:27pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
As men, we are used to the burden of making the first move. It is never fully comfortable for us, but we do get better at it over time. My question is, have you ladies ever contemplated making the first move? Moreover, have you actually gone through with it? I am sure some of you out there have done this, and others have only hoped inside that the hunk of a man you noticed would come up to you, but he failed to do so. Now, there could be many reasons why you lack the initiative and ambition. Maybe you stick to the old-fashioned route; maybe you are scared of rejection; maybe you simply do not know how to approach a man. Welcome to a man’s world. We, too, hate rejection and embarrassment, and some of us have no clue how to approach women. As a man, I can tell you that we do not mind a woman approaching us. A woman who approaches a man stands out, and we can determine a few things about her. Her bold, no-holds-barred approach tells us that she’s confident, spontaneous, brave, outgoing, direct and thinks outside the box. All of the above are attractive qualities in a woman; they make you appear humble and real. You should never hinder your chances and opportunities by thinking you are too good to approach a man or assume that he knows you are attracted to him. Men like to think they can tell if a girl is attracted to them, but there are always cases where we never get the hint or the other person is too shy to make it noticeable. Men definitely appreciate it when a woman makes the first advance, and I don’t know one guy who has ever complained or made a girl feel bad about approaching him. That brings me to the next area of signs and ways to help zero in on your target. If you do not want to immediately make a cold approach, send him a few signs to gauge his reaction. These could be done by simple flirty looks and smiles, or by complimenting him on something 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Charles4075(m): 3:27pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Op, As men, we are used to the burden of making the first move. It is never fully comfortable for us, but we do get better at it over time. My question is, have you ladies ever contemplated making the first move? Moreover, have you actually gone through with it? I am sure some of you out there have done this, and others have only hoped inside that the hunk of a man you noticed would come up to you, but he failed to do so. Now, there could be many reasons why you lack the initiative and ambition. Maybe you stick to the old-fashioned route; maybe you are scared of rejection; maybe you simply do not know how to approach a man. Welcome to a man’s world. We, too, hate rejection and embarrassment, and some of us have no clue how to approach women. As a man, I can tell you that we do not mind a woman approaching us. A woman who approaches a man stands out, and we can determine a few things about her. Her bold, no-holds-barred approach tells us that she’s confident, spontaneous, brave, outgoing, direct and thinks outside the box. All of the above are attractive qualities in a woman; they make you appear humble and real. You should never hinder your chances and opportunities by thinking you are too good to approach a man or assume that he knows you are attracted to him. Men like to think they can tell if a girl is attracted to them, but there are always cases where we never get the hint or the other person is too shy to make it noticeable. Men definitely appreciate it when a woman makes the first advance, and I don’t know one guy who has ever complained or made a girl feel bad about approaching him. That brings me to the next area of signs and ways to help zero in on your target. If you do not want to immediately make a cold approach, send him a few signs to gauge his reaction. These could be done by simple flirty looks and smiles, or by complimenting him on something 5 Likes |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 3:28pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Decker: And I disagree. The primary purpose of dating is to get married at the end of the day. Every other reason is secondary. That's the very end purpose.. Getting to know each other to see if they'd be compatible.. Okay, I agree marriage is a more serious issue. But that's the more reason it's okay. Because if he agrees, it's more guaranteed there won't be silly games. 1 Like |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by joliyp(f): 3:29pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
wristbangle:money can't answer all . I want my man to be confident not expecting to make a move ......all men can be rich |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by RexKexMilann: 3:32pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
CaroLyner:LOL! You remembered? I wasn't joking though.Buh It's a good thing that you're "All Good" ![]() |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 3:33pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Kachisbarbie: If after seeing a blazing greenlight he's still not bold enough to take the next step, then I'm sorry, I won't be interested anymore. There are more serious things in life to be fearful about. |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by misspicy(f): 3:33pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Diddyydiva:lmao ![]() ![]() ![]() trust me,I have been there before and the end product wasn't good at all ![]() ![]() |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 3:35pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Oliviaarims: The primary purpose of dating should be to get married at the end of the day, but still not everyone follows this principle. Like I earlier stated; people go into relationships for different reasons. Marriage is not always at the back of the minds of every dating couple. 1 Like |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 3:35pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
RexKexMilann: The more reason u should have been righteously agitated.... Lol. Just kidding. |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 3:36pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
misspicy:You don't mean it ![]() chai ![]() ![]() hope you have overcome it ? ![]() |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 3:38pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Mjshexy: Lol. |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by firstking01(m): 3:39pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Oliviaarims:i created a thread on similar issue earlier today....visit d thread and ur orientation would have a lil adjustment |
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