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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by Nobody: 12:47pm On Jan 05, 2016
hmmmm.
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by Chris95(m): 12:48pm On Jan 05, 2016
So many flawed assumptions in ur write up

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by Greenbullet(m): 12:48pm On Jan 05, 2016
prinzfavian:
Shocking Reasons Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating

Pornography is everywhere, from our various neighbourhoods, to the TV programmes, to the Internets , the list keeps increasing. . . The rate at which our ladies are constantly contributing to the promotion of pornography is alarming. From indecent dressing to irrelevant fashions, and tight-fitting attires.
Its hardly possible to go a day without seeing a lady dressing indecently on the street. If as a guy i am not confortable with going outside my gate in just my boxers and singlet to get something from the aboki in front of my house, i don't understand aw some ladies can walk from Mushin to Oshodi in just a bumper short or micro-mini skirt and a sleeveless top, revealing their Breast-vages and breast-pits to the public.

Well, truly pornography is much more than that but thats where it starts from, infact for me its under the same category.
Gone are the days when we surf hard on the internet to find porn, now its all over the internet, from facebook to twitter to badoo to tagged to mini-webpages and so on. . . Many didnt start viewing pornography out of a delibrately act but cos of their curiosity. One could be innocently surfing the internet one cold night and suddenly u get a pop-up notifying u to click on a web page which actually is a porn site and from there, they get trapped. . . Many actually regret this action and strive to correct their mistake but its not been easy doing so, but truly i must tell u, the habitual act of viewing pornography does more harm to u than the temporary pleasure u derive.
So. . . .
Among many, here are some reasons why you should stop watching pornography and hence stop masturbating:

~IT'S AN IMPORTANT STEP U MUST TAKE IF U WANT TO GIVE UP MASTURBATION.

Masturbation is the delibrate stimulation one's genitals or that of others which often leads to orgasm. Before i tell u how quitting of porn viewing helps to curb masturbation, u must know why u shouldnt masturbate.
Masturbation is a spiritually unhealthy habit which instills in one an atittude of self-centredness and corrupt mind. A masturbator in time will grow to view others as mere sex object for sexual satisfaction. Sex becomes seperated from love and is relegated to a reflex that gives momentary a relieves sexual tension of which the relief is only temporary. A masturbator lacks self control, they get overly aroused at every slight sexual incident. Lets say a lady's body touches him on a queue, or in a bus or he or she sees a poster revealing little part of the body. Most rapist are unrepentant masturbators. They get seduced easily, imagine a little girl of four years old sitting on the legs of a 30 years old masturbator, without doubt he will start feeling aroused since he lacks self control. Most fathers who rapes their child are chronic masturbator who couldnt just control them selves. Masturbation clouds the thinking of such ones who indulge in it.
All they ever think about is how to please them selves, they can get off any where. This is a bad habit that needs to be eradicated in ones life. One step towards quitting masturbation is to avoid pornography of every kind. Especially on the internet, block ur way to it, block all pop-up notification, use ur computers and phones in public places where you are not free to watch porn. To quit masturbation it is very compulsory to avoid pornography.


~DESTROYS UR CONSCIENCE
when we were created, our conscience was put in us to guide us from bad and towards good, to help us differentiate from right and wrong. Howbeit for our conscience to always remain effective, we must use and nurture or train it wisely.
Recollect that the first time u viewed a porn ur conscience pricked u (that is if u av one). You wernt free watching it, u were hiding it. U wernt proud to tell others the title of the film u just watched or aw interesting it was.
You wanted to watch again the second time and as usual ur conscience tried to warn you but u shut it up. As time goes on, the more often u watch it and shut up ur conscience the more ineffective it becomes. It comes to a point when ur conscience stays silent even as ure on a wrong part, it doesnt try to stop u again, it leaves you. As at then uve killed ur conscience. A precious gift from God to man. And thats when u see nothing wrong in a man lik u inserting his penis in the anus of another guy just lik u, thats when see nothing wrong in a lady lik u putting her whole arm-length in the vagina of another lady. U then promote to watching a human lik u being chained with iron fetters as such used for samson and being gang-raped by 4 men at the same time. You then graduate to applauding when you see two mature idiots having sex in a church and still u feel its ok. You then promote to watching humans lik you having sex with horse, dogs, even monkeys and probably elephants and u still smile cos of the temporary pleasure ure getting which has actually killed ur conscience.
speaking from experience.

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by cruzita(f): 12:48pm On Jan 05, 2016
great write up .I'm sure some are MA stub ating while u are posting this

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by chichi234(f): 12:50pm On Jan 05, 2016
I masturbate everyday

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by satelliteDISH(m): 12:50pm On Jan 05, 2016
nanauju:
Okay
What is ok?
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by marshalcarter: 12:51pm On Jan 05, 2016
allanphash7:
If you say masturbation well i dont indulge in that but the other one abeg no think am
Lolzzzzzz.....repent and give ur life to CHRIST grin

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by ElDaIllest(m): 12:52pm On Jan 05, 2016
Speechless3:
where dem vaseline crew ? cure don come o. Come and heal yourselves. grin
I just quit masturbation until I saw your dp undecided
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by mizhefeh(f): 12:52pm On Jan 05, 2016
Tell dem Op
He who has ears let him hear

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by walemadu: 12:54pm On Jan 05, 2016
mathmatics32:
LOLS

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This is so wrong bro. didnt u consider juveniles in this forum? pls take down this plss
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by Nobody: 12:55pm On Jan 05, 2016
75 percent of Smartphone users watch porn directly or Indirectly.. If 1000 people comment on this thread, 950 either watch porn or masturbate.. Either way, it depends on how it affects you as a person..

Its just like Smoking weed.. Some dudes smoke it to get high and rob people while some smoke it just to be happy..

I watch porn tho.. Not the Hardcore type, I prefer softporn especially when my gf is around.. She likes it too.. I learn new styles, learn how to satisfy my woman.. I don't Masturbate tho..

True Confession.. Please don't Word_kill me for saying the Truth..

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by lacicrips(m): 12:55pm On Jan 05, 2016
prinzfavian:
Habitually watching pornography gradually destroys ur conscience until it no longer functions. But a dead conscience can be revived, first u need to stop watching porn.


~ THOSE URE WATCHING MIGHT HAVE CHANGED.

Change is the only constant thing in life, has it never strucked ur mind that, the person ure watching doing all sort of dirty stuff might have given it all up for a greater reason and is now a better and changed person. As in now a good christian who regretted all she did back in her past. And for your information God will forgive her for she has repented. But look at you, choir master, aunty usher, pastor J.J, elder kokumo, mr robinson, sister ofeimuna, and so on watching her own past mistakes and making it ur own present and future destruction. Look at the adulterous woman in the bible brought to Jesus, if there were fones at that time, her sexual acts wud av been recorded and spread around, people will keep watching whereas she has repented and has been forgiven, but ure there packing the trash she left for lawma. Many of this porn actress now live a responsible and holy like. YES they regretted what they did with their past and they are paying for the consequences and they may do so till they die, but after they die they will have the chance of entering Gods kingdom which is much more improtant that whatever they can get in this sinful world. So what will become of you that didnt even sleep with dog or lion or horse, or gays or lesbian, that didnt do three some or nineteen some or orgy, or whatever but you just watched. I mean just watched. You look at them ahead of you enetering God's kingdom and you will be like . . . .Let me stop here.
Quit watching pornography, quit masturbating. Its end is disastruous. The sweetness u get now is just for a while but the trouble u will get later, even the whole of nigeria wont be able to solve.
A word is enuf for the wise.

Prinzfavian.

hehehe...this cracked me up. What's my business with who they've become. Shooo
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by klasys(m): 12:56pm On Jan 05, 2016
It's sin before God

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by marshalcarter: 12:57pm On Jan 05, 2016
cruzita:
great write up .I'm sure some are MA stub ating while u are posting this
Lyk you're doin now
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by tottinova: 12:58pm On Jan 05, 2016
This writeup should be pasted in schools nd other educational places for people to read.

It's just the simple truth

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by joseph1832(m): 12:59pm On Jan 05, 2016
Yet another bullsh1t thread filled with narrow mindedness and of course, opinionated generalization.

I'm almost amazed when some set of people speak about spirituality when they know absolutely nothing about it. If masturbation destroys a person spiritually, then, I'm curious to ask, what about stealing, looting and corruption?

How does one stimulating his own genitals affect someone else? The sooner we learn to mind our business and focus on what is, and not what not, the better for everybody.

I'll even like for the OP to even tell us who and who he interviewed just so we can know and see the scientifity of his findings?

I bet the OP is even telling us from what he said that those who have looted and plundered this country beyond recognition, masturbates, since masturbation makes one loose his or her conscience.

To me, this post is nonsense! Reeks of religious myopism, self centredness and the quest for some overzealous christians to spread their archaic and one sided religious beliefs.

If the OP wants me to listen to him, he should provide accurate scientific evidence and proof about how this study/research (if you want to call it that) was carried out.

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by judedwriter(m): 1:00pm On Jan 05, 2016
Summary: Stop watching porn n masturbating or else... kiss your conscience gooood bye.
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by Elomus: 1:00pm On Jan 05, 2016
I masturbate a lot ..someone please help me cry cry cry cry
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by Larryfest(m): 1:00pm On Jan 05, 2016
Op all dis form/mode of porn u mentioned hw did u come abt it?wer u told or u read it somewer or did u actually watchd it cos dis ur writeup might even move some newbie to checking out most of d tins u mentioned....just like someone said here nw GOOD CONTAINER, BAD CONTENT!!

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by kateskitty(f): 1:01pm On Jan 05, 2016
Speechless3:
where dem vaseline crew ? cure don come o. Come and heal yourselves. grin

Not only Vaseline crew, what about cucumbate crew grin

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by desy24444(m): 1:02pm On Jan 05, 2016
Dats so true. Every bit of it. Am a victim bt trying 2 repent frm it so help me God
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by SoNature(m): 1:02pm On Jan 05, 2016
Nice piece, OP.

Pornography and masturbation often go hand in hand. I think the ladies masturbate more, but will always pretend they don't esp the few virgins around, and those who have had series of heartbreaks from guys and have sworn to stay away from sexual rlnshp with the opposite sex in a long time.

Yes, I remember my ex telling me she never seems to get orgasm from real sex because of her habitual masturbation. She even advised me to do it when she is far instead of patronising prostitutes *smiles*

I think the greatest challenge of stopping pornography and masturbation is its addiction. Yes, they are very addictive that's why many people find it difficult to stop.

But I can't seem to find any correlation between pornography/masturbation and rape. Anyone involved in rape must be treated like a criminal because that's what they are. Yes, if you claim you can get sexual satisfaction from masturbation then why rape unsuspecting victims?

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by JaredNomak: 1:02pm On Jan 05, 2016
joseph1832:
Yet another bullsh1t thread filled with narrow mindedness and of course, opinionated generalization.

I'm almost amazed when some set of people speak about spirituality when they know absolutely nothing about it. If masturbator destroys a person spiritually, then, I'm curious to ask, what about stealing, looting and corruption?

How does one stimulating his own genitals affect someone else? The sooner we learn to mind our business and focus on what is, and not what not, the better for everybody.

I'll even like for the OP to even tell us who and whohe interviewed just so we can know and see the scientifity of his findings?

I bet the OP is even telling us from what he said that those who have looted and plundered this country beyond recognition, masturbates, since masturbation makes one loose his or her conscience.

To me, this post is nonsense! Reeks of religious myopism, self centredness and the quest for some overzealous christians to spread their archaic and one sided religion.

If the OP wants me to listen to him, he should provide accurate scientific evidence and proof about how this study/research (if you want to call it that) was carried it.
No more no less, correct!
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by orlando5: 1:02pm On Jan 05, 2016
Thank u embarassed
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by AmakaDNB(f): 1:03pm On Jan 05, 2016
Like seriously?
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by blayde(m): 1:04pm On Jan 05, 2016
OP ah swear U've been dere b4 cos u so nailed it.

But Body no b fire wood.Wetin man go do to egbon if e no wan hear as indecency dey everywhere. Plus me no ready get baby mama
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by kirchofff(m): 1:05pm On Jan 05, 2016
calliope:
Op if u swear say u Don stop... grin I go stop... tongue
so u service urself too
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by kateskitty(f): 1:05pm On Jan 05, 2016
Elomus:
I masturbate a lot ..someone please help me cry cry cry cry
Go get a job to keep you busy, or if you have a job go get married or adopt a puppy. Just saying...

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by martineverest(m): 1:05pm On Jan 05, 2016
Post of the week...
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by 400billionman: 1:06pm On Jan 05, 2016
That thing is bad.

If you masturbared last night and babe show ur house today, dick will hardly stand for 30minutes and when it does, nah intermittent falling.

And you can never release..

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by Nobody: 1:06pm On Jan 05, 2016
2016 is a leap year, OP. That's 366 days. On one of those days, you created a thread about whether or not you think other folks should fon.dle their privates. Note that.
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by Chinwem(f): 1:06pm On Jan 05, 2016
Thank you OP
You ve spoken well
I pray it changes someone's life

Celebrity section has become a dumping ground for sexuality content
For goodness sake why can't the moderators move some of that nonsense to the appropriate section??

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