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7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by donTbone(m): 12:38pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Mind you, this is applicale to girls too. Okay, so you know this guy and he is a REALLY great guy- but he’s just simply not your type. He makes a great friend, but you don’t want to take it any further. Unfortunately, he’s hinting that he may want something more than friendship. What is a girl to do? You don’t want to break his heart and be known as the evil girl who leads people on, but you also don’t want to force yourself into a relationship you don’t want. Well, here’s 7 ways to friendzone a guy- all nice and simple ways that won’t hurt anyone (too badly). 1. Don’t Lead Him On It may seem obvious, but DON’T LEAD HIM ON. We all love to get attention from the opposite sex, but if you’re indulging in his flirtatious habits or even playing back a bit, you’re only leading him on- and that’s going to seriously upset him in the long run (can’t blame him). Do not flirt with him, and when he flirts with you, don’t even engage in it. Change the subject! 2. Talk About Other Men If you really like a guy, you’re not going to talk about other guys to him- everyone knows that, it’s like a rule or something. That being said, talk about men with this guy you consider as just a friend. Let him know which guy you are interested in or what men around you think are good looking. This will show him that you are actively seeking a relationship with SOMEONE ELSE other than him, and don’t mind him knowing that you’re checking out other guys while the two of you are together. 3. Don’t Go on Any ‘Date-Like’ Events Of course the two of you are friends so you’re going to hang out, but refrain from anything that’s a little to ‘date-like’, like a fancy dinner with just the two of you. If it’s something casual or something where there will be multiple of your guys’ mutual friends around, that of course is okay and go have fun! (Just don’t be standing next to him the entire time- he might get the wrong idea that you are, in fact, his date for the occasion!) 4. Let Him See Your ‘Bad Qualities’ I know, you don’t want to admit it- but you have bad qualities. We all do! Your FRIEND should see these bad qualities. I mean, the two of you are just friends, so you really shouldn’t hesitate to hold anything back like you would in a relationship with a guy you’re very interested in. Friends don’t judge, so go ahead and be one hundred percent real with him. All things positive and all things negative- nothing is off limits, just be you. 5. Don’t Go Overboard on Communication Friends are going to text message each other, that’s an obvious. But you don’t need to text this guy all day every day- he might get the wrong idea! Don’t go overboard on the communication. The communication between the two of you should be friendly and casual with absolutely NO flirting and no talking on the phone till 5 o’clock in the morning. 6. Remind Him How Much His Friendship Means to You Consistently remind this man how important his FRIENDSHIP means to you. If you keep repeating this simple statement, eventually he will get the hint that you do not want to take the relationship any further. You should also let him know that he is such a great friend and you are lucky to have a FRIEND like him. (And that’s absolutely as far as any complimenting should go!) 7. Tell Him You’re Not Interested (Kindly) So if you have tried everything else and he STILL isn’t getting the hint, you may just have to be blunt with him and inform him that you are not interested. Now, don’t be completely rude about it- let him down easy! You probably still want to continue the friendship (unless it becomes too awkward, but hey at least he will know the truth!) so make sure you are nice and kind about it so his heart isn’t completely broken. Simply tell him you don’t think the two of you are compatible or you are interested in someone else. Have you ever had to friendzone a guy? How did you do it? source: http://datingyouths..com
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Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by midehi2(f): 12:40pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by NarnieSnyper(m): 12:41pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Which kain snitchas.s neegar be this. This guy na total fvckup. We'r here tryna eradicate 'friendzone' but just like Nnamdi Kalu u'r taking us back 1 Like |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by donTbone(m): 12:42pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
midehi2: Oya comment... hw many pple av u friendzoned? |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by dollyjoy(f): 12:43pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Hahahahahaha guys are getting wiser.once they noticed you are beginning to friendzone them,they will quickly withdraw.lolz i dnt friendzone guys though |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by IMO22(m): 12:43pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Yeah Right.....Dont forget being Independent while u re at it. |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by donTbone(m): 12:44pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
NarnieSnyper: Take it or leave it... the friendzone game wont stop. Am a victime and will definitely not make others be a victim too. This are just signs to watch out for if any one is in such mess... In between... How many ladies have friendzoned you? |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by Mhizkel(f): 12:44pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
midehi2:Share your story with us |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by Nobody: 12:45pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
wish one be friendzone? |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by donTbone(m): 12:46pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by amnesty7: 12:46pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
I guess the OP had 'friendzoned' this from another source. Kindly acknowledge your source. |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by donTbone(m): 12:47pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
dollyjoy:You thaught us to be... I'd rather define d friendship from the start. One is getting to that zone... I just vamoose |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by donTbone(m): 12:48pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
amnesty7:Remove the face cover and see the source... |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by StefanSalvatore: 12:54pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Wat kind of thread is dis So u r encouraging friend zoning Mk d guy cum dey waste e tym |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by donTbone(m): 1:06pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
StefanSalvatore:The guy will only be dumb if he realize this signs and still kept moving on with such a gal... Mind you, no one is encouraging friendzone. Besides, its not child abuse now... its by choice! |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by midehi2(f): 1:07pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Mhizkel:babe happy new year |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by midehi2(f): 1:09pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
donTbone: |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by Tallesty1(m): 1:14pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
So some people actually want to have sex with all their female friends. Very silly |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by donTbone(m): 1:16pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Tallesty1:Did you bother reading the article at all? |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by Topestbilly(m): 1:18pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
mhen!! u ar a punk a*s nigga. Why! why!! why!! ar u so punked a*s |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by Tallesty1(m): 1:20pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
donTbone:Check a comment up there. |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by Nobody: 1:23pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Just when we are looking out for a lasting solution to friendzoning then the op comes up with how to friendzone more innocent dudes Kwantinu |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by donTbone(m): 1:24pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Tallesty1:Better to... just quote! |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by donTbone(m): 1:25pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
STFUareyouGod:The last time i checked, STFUareyouGod has M not F... |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by donTbone(m): 1:26pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Topestbilly:You can say that again and again... Only helping those that will use their brain out! |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by Nobody: 1:26pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
donTbone:well, now she's got a 'F' |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by Mhizkel(f): 1:28pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
midehi2:Wish you same dear. |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by donTbone(m): 1:33pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
STFUareyouGod:Did a surgery or wah? Died and returned with change in sexuality? |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by Nobody: 1:35pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
donTbone:born again |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by donTbone(m): 1:37pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by NarnieSnyper(m): 1:38pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
donTbone: |
Re: 7 Ways To Friendzone A Guy. by Monalisa185(f): 1:40pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
lol...there are easier and simpler ways na....this one na long journey/process .. |
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