i suggest u talk to him, coz diz has happen to me..... And it cause heart break in the long run

joliyp:
I met this guy not quite long on a social media, we are friends and I think he wants me but too shy to express his desire. He barely looks into my eyes and whenever am close to him, he tends to develop cold feet: I think I like him but how long do I wait for him ...maybe because we are not on the same level ? am a working class Lady and he is still in school





Should I ask him out or wait for another guy? I like him alot.

pls dnt....ask him out....jst show him green light well...as in wen i say well show him well.......i am very shy to dats y i can say dis..... and make him very free with you...dnt always go and see him from work,wen u r going to see him look as casual as possible with all dis...he will chop gain some confidence and ask u out himself....dats if he has d intention to do so sha

joliyp:
I met this guy not quite long on a social media, we are friends and I think he wants me but too shy to express his desire. He barely looks into my eyes and whenever am close to him, he tends to develop cold feet: I think I like him but how long do I wait for him ...maybe because we are not on the same level ? am a working class Lady and he is still in school





Should I ask him out or wait for another guy? I like him alot.

don't ask him ohh...its not accepted cuz you'll surely regret it. Instead, wait for me I'm shy too...so what ya say ?

Dont ask him out but show him signs that you like him so he put 2 and 2 together.

lol...

The devils in your village are not sleeping...

Estharfabian:
Guys Aren't supposed to be shy!


You guys are the bosses!! it's hightime you acted like one!

Now that's how u know someone absolutely bereft of experience. Who said she is a virgin? @Obiorathesubtle, u said it all.

keep the santicity of womanhood and your dignity at least, don't fall for this 21st century scam of "you can ask him out'

Mke him comfortable around you. When next you meet, kiss in on the cheek (peek) and continue doing whatever you were doing.. He will open up to you. Don't ask him.. If he doesn't ask u after one week or show any signs, do it again. Then ask him. "do you love me?"

joliyp:
I met this guy not quite long on a social media, we are friends and I think he wants me but too shy to express his desire. He barely looks into my eyes and whenever am close to him, he tends to develop cold feet: I think I like him but how long do I wait for him ...maybe because we are not on the same level ? am a working class Lady and he is still in school





Should I ask him out or wait for another guy? I like him alot.

I think is not lasticlala that is the humble dude you are refering to because this one that he put it in front page I have begin to suspect him ;DI ;DI

op, pls if you are the one on that dp, kindly ask me out...

Estharfabian:
Unconventional Nairaland folks would probably tell You to Ask him out...

please don't...If he's shy now? He'll probably be SHY in all Areas of his Life....

eg.intimacy??

bros na lie oo em shy to ask d girl out no mean say d Oda part e must shy too o...bliv me once he gets d assurance and freedom with her d rest na story..shy guys can be dangerous my GF would tell u more

Then wait for him to grow up... Don't force him to grow, it most likely will backfire.

Try put ur pics....let's see how beautiful you are to be talking about shy guys with disdain!

Estharfabian:
You guys should really stop taking me seriously!


That's not what I Implied, by the way.....

Estharfabian:
Unconventional Nairaland folks would probably tell You to Ask him out...

please don't...If he's shy now? He'll probably be SHY in all Areas of his Life....

eg.intimacy??

babe no talk dt tin again.It's natural for one to b shy & applies to both sexes.

Honestly..!!

STFUareyouGod:
she's becoming so annoying and irritating TBH

obiorathesubtle:
get him drunk and rape him

You no get conscience at all.

One thing u guys dnt know about shy guys is that they hardly cheat, if they cant ask u out, what makes u think they can ask other girls out or flirt with 'em? Cherish what u have now and make d best of it.

That girl saying things about shy guys not being intimate enough and boring is a lie. Once he gets comfortable with u, if u guys ever shag, i can vouch he'd ruin ur cer.vix, slack ur womb too, make ur intestine tie a knot.
That smooth and confident guy that rocks ur world will definitely use that same smooth move on other ladies prettier and smarter than u,unlike the shy guy that can hardly talk to a girl, trust me.

I didnt say u should ask him out oooo

he might not be really into you. he might just want to remain friends with u. give him sometime to talk.dnt make the first move cos u might be shocked that the guy just wants to be friends with you with no strings attached.

joliyp:
I met this guy not quite long on a social media, we are friends and I think he wants me but too shy to express his desire. He barely looks into my eyes and whenever am close to him, he tends to develop cold feet: I think I like him but how long do I wait for him ...maybe because we are not on the same level ? am a working class Lady and he is still in school





Should I ask him out or wait for another guy? I like him alot.

dont ask him out. but give him all the lights available, green, red and yellow lights . if he doesnt decode ur lights, den give me ur phone no

joliyp:
tnk u

that's true

We have treated this topic several times now. Just use ur body language as a lady. Simple!

gbegudujo:
No I disagree it happened to me before I m a woman person but there was a girl I really really love in my university days @ oau 'Bunmi, I m always fearfull when I m around her won't be able to express myself and will always stutter, despite the fact that I look good and was riding a car in school..I had to get drunk before I could say a word or two about liking her even at that I cudn't even express myself cudn't even face her despite being drunk I had to run back when I almost got her hostel to say dose words over the fone..up till today I regret it I'm married now and she's still single..Bunmi if u re reading this I wish you could ask me out back then while we were in school, sorry I had no confidence.

bro read her comment again. she said shy in all areas. thats a wrong notion. he may be shy in one or two things but never in all things. quiet guys i know of are passionate lovers, even their bea dey confess. dont mind these girls dat jump into conclusion like swimming pool.

joliyp:
I met this guy not quite long on a social media, we are friends and I think he wants me but too shy to express his desire. He barely looks into my eyes and whenever am close to him, he tends to develop cold feet: I think I like him but how long do I wait for him ...maybe because we are not on the same level ? am a working class Lady and he is still in school





Should I ask him out or wait for another guy? I like him alot.

I like u,now should I try my luck?

Slimzjoe:


Do to him What Miss First L0ve did to me.

Just Corner Him where he has nowhere to Run, then Ask him if He Likes You, if he Wants a Relationship or Something else then Make the Rules.

#Shikena

N:B Shy Guys Are Actually Crazy so be Warned

Exactly what I was going to say...

Don't ask him out, not directly. Introduce a line of conversation that would corner him and he'd have to confess his feelings, if he has any.

joliyp:
I met this guy not quite long on a social media, we are friends and I think he wants me but too shy to express his desire. He barely looks into my eyes and whenever am close to him, he tends to develop cold feet: I think I like him but how long do I wait for him ...maybe because we are not on the same level ? am a working class Lady and he is still in school





Should I ask him out or wait for another guy? I like him alot.

ask him..

don't be shy... trust me if he doesn't say YES, he'll hold you in high esteem

See question? Don't ask him out, take time to know him more before concluding.
or on second thought, try asking me out ...

joliyp:
I met this guy not quite long on a social media, we are friends and I think he wants me but too shy to express his desire. He barely looks into my eyes and whenever am close to him, he tends to develop cold feet: I think I like him but how long do I wait for him ...maybe because we are not on the same level ? am a working class Lady and he is still in school





Should I ask him out or wait for another guy? I like him alot.

I withdraw the ''You are been desperate shekenan'' You are too pweety for that, Wrong Choice of word. Apologies.

Laburus:
Ask him Out Support him with everything spreed your Legs for him Become his Baby Mama etc...., But Just be rest assured when he is finally on his feet he will remind you how it was you who ask him out and Pressurize him and even deceive him, and How his Mum will never allow him settle with her age mate . You are been desperate shekenan. Dont abuse the naive poor Boy.

Estharfabian:
Unconventional Nairaland folks would probably tell You to Ask him out...

please don't...If he's shy now? He'll probably be SHY in all Areas of his Life....

eg.intimacy??

You get bad mouth

joliyp:
I met this guy not quite long on a social media, we are friends and I think he wants me but too shy to express his desire. He barely looks into my eyes and whenever am close to him, he tends to develop cold feet: I think I like him but how long do I wait for him ...maybe because we are not on the same level ? am a working class Lady and he is still in school





Should I ask him out or wait for another guy? I like him alot.

give me hi number to ask out for you

Ride on...It is your life

vizkiz:


What's your problem? Tell me, what is your problem with guys?

That babe must be a lesb!an, i tell ya