perkynoble:
Op what's wrong with making a cup of tea that you won't drink

perkynoble:
Op what's wrong with making a cup of tea that you won't drink

EverLily:
It depends on your agreement from the beginning. Did you both talk about a possible future together? What were your promises to each other? Dating just for the Benefits abi dating for a season?

If you carry yourself to me and promise me heaven and earth, you later carry your yeye leg to walk away, I'd definitely be hurt. I fit shuk you knife sef

Estharfabian:
Honestly? Not everyone dates with the sole purpose of marriage...Some people tend to see beyond that.


Dating is as much about learning what you need and want, and how you need to grow and change, as it is about finding the "right" person...


So, I honestly do not see the Rush...I could actually date someone i have No intention of marrying..it's all about exploring!

davidmark4naija:

Finally! Someone is seeing things differently.

davidmark4naija:


Wot if der was no marriage promise?

Are you saying dat a man has no right to end a relationship even for silly reasons?

davidmark4naija:


Finally! Someone is seeing things differently.

EverLily:

Silly reasons? Seriously?
When I date someone, I tend to give it my all. If we never agreed on a future together, it's fine. If he breaks up for just any reason, then that's very insensitive and he should remember that karma is gonna catch up with him.

Like I said earlier, I will shuk him knife

Topestbilly:
u ar wasting ur partner time cos u hv oda plans for urself but she thinks u having plans for ur relationship.

that's wickedness.... find someone who share ur causal relationship view not someone who sees u as husband.

davidmark4naija:


U dont get it at all.

I was gisting with a friend and she was complaining dat her bf left him "after everything". All she wanted was for me to join her and condemn the act. How do you guys even define dis "after everything" sef?

But I saw it differently. Anybody has the right to change his mind. I think the only time anybody looses his right to walk out of any relationship just like dat, is when both parties are legally married. Even at dat der is a process called divorce.

I think our problem is we attach so much importance to "dating-relationships" like there is a constitution dat it MUST be permanent.

Pls is there any law like dat?

About karma, wot abt all the female gold-diggers? Wot does karma do to them? The ladies dat aborted dia babies severally and still got pregnant several times afta and gave birth to lovely kids for their ignorant husband, wot did karma do to them?

Der is nothing like karma in dis regard my dear, cos its not within her jurisdiction

davidmark4naija:


Now dats a very correct statement. But wot happens when u stop seeing her as a potential wife and she still sees you as a potential husband?

davidmark4naija:
Wots wrong with dating someone you cant marry?

Wots wrong with dating someone you know you won't marry?

Wots wrong with dating someone with no future plans in mind?

Wots wrong with continuing to date someone after you realise you guys just cant have a future togeda?

Anytin wrong with any of the above?

Estharfabian:
Honestly? Not everyone dates with the sole purpose of marriage...Some people tend to see beyond that.


Dating is as much about learning what you need and want, and how you need to grow and change, as it is about finding the "right" person...


So, I honestly do not see the Rush...I could actually date someone i have No intention of marrying..it's all about exploring!

perkynoble:
Op what's wrong with making a cup of tea that you won't drink

I don't buy your analogy, comparing cup of tea to human?