Decker:


Yes, it's sad that people put their work into something and it gets stolen, but these musicians know all this and they still decide to go into the music industry and still remain in it. If it's anyone's fault it's theirs. But there isn't much they can do right? I mean, it's what they love to do, to some, it's all they have to do.

Well, there is nothing anyone can do to stop people from downloading songs for free. It's a necessary evil.

I never said I was unstable, i said unstable people reminded me of myself. I might say Lindsay Lohan reminds me of myself, but that doesn't mean I am a drug addict.

Why do you like arguing with me?

So you're blaming the musicians ? Really ? So if you left your door unlocked overnight and you got robbed it's your fault ? Not the scumbag that stole your stuff ? Sigh. Is this what we've turned to.

Being unstable is one characteristic. If unstable remind you of yourself it means you think you're unstable. Lindsay Lohan is a lot more than a drug addict. Unstablity is unstablity, nothing else.

Because it's fun.

YourMain:


So you're blaming the musicians ? Really ? So if you left your door unlocked overnight and you got robbed it's your fault ? Not the scumbag that stole your stuff ? Sigh. Is this what we've turned to.

Being unstable is one characteristic. If unstable remind you of yourself it means you think you're unstable. Lindsay Lohan is a lot more than a drug addict. Unstablity is unstablity, nothing else.

Because it's fun.

You don't go into something, being fully aware of the risks and dangers involved and then cry when you get hit.
If I live in an area where I know that living my doors open at night isn't safe and I still choose to live it open, and then I get robbed, it's totally my fault.
I knew the consequences of my action but I didn't feel the need to pay cognizance to caution. It's my fault. The person who robbed me isn't to blame but me.

By leaving my doors open, I had indirectly given the robber a warm invitation to rob my house.

Being unstable is caused by a convergence of different traits, not one but many. It's one of those traits unstable people possess that reminds me of myself.

Cool.

Decker:


You don't go into something, being fully aware of the risks and dangers involved and then cry when you get hit.
If I live in an area where I know that living my doors open at night isn't safe and I still choose to live it open, and then I get robbed, it's totally my fault.
I knew the consequences of my action but I didn't feel the need to pay cognizance to caution. It's my fault. The person who robbed me isn't to blame but me.

By leaving my doors open, I had indirectly given the robber a warm invitation to rob my house.

Being unstable is caused by a convergence of different traits, not one but many. It's one of those traits unstable people possess that reminds me of myself.

Cool.

seriously ? So if I decide to walk at night after going to the club wearing a very skimpy outfit and God forbid I get raped it's my fault ? Not the rapist ? Because walking home at night and wearing not so modest clothing is giving a warm welcome to rapists to rape me ? Is it ?

Yes. But when people say they're unstable more than likely you don't know the traits they have that makes them unstable. All you know is that they're unstable. Hence they wouldn't remind you of yourself unless you thought you were unstable too.

YourMain:


seriously ? So if I decide to walk at night after going to the club wearing a very skimpy outfit and God forbid I get raped it's my fault ? Not the rapist ? Because walking home at night and wearing not so modest clothing is giving a warm welcome to rapists to rape me ? Is it ?

Yes. But when people say they're unstable more than likely you don't know the traits they have that makes them unstable. All you know is that they're unstable. Hence they wouldn't remind you of yourself unless you thought you were unstable too.

It's both your fault and the rapist's fault and it depends to a reasonable extent. Plus, it's different from the scenario you previously painted about the robber and leaving your doors open.

Now, a rapist would never choose to rape someone in a busy section of the town or street. It's always in a secluded, dark, lonely place where there is minimal possibility that he would be caught.

First of all, it's not wise for a young woman as yourself to walk alone in the middle of the night.
But if you happen to be returning from a club at night and your house is located in a busy secure area, where people still move and drive at that time of the night and there are cameras here and there, there is a slim chance that a serial rapist would even be hunting in that kind of place at that point in time.

But if you happen to live in a quiet lonely town, with little or no security and you decide to return from a club, alone at that time of the night, and you eventually get raped, a high burden of the fault rests with you, because you were fully aware of the risks, but you still decided against caution. You are to blame because you made yourself an easy target for the rapist. You provided him with exactly what he wanted.

Ps: Wearing or not wearing a skimpy outfit isn't really a factor when it comes to_rape. A rapist who wants to_rape would_rape even a lady dressed as a nun.

Decker:


It's both your fault and the rapist's fault and it depends to a reasonable extent. Plus, it's different from the scenario you previously painted about the robber and leaving your doors open.

Now, a rapist would never choose to rape someone in a busy section of the town or street. It's always in a secluded, dark, lonely place where there is minimal possibility that he would be caught.

First of all, it's not wise for a young woman as yourself to walk alone in the middle of the night.
But if you happen to be returning from a club at night and your house is located in a busy secure area, where people still move and drive at that time of the night and there are cameras here and there, there is a slim chance that a serial rapist would even be hunting in that kind of place at that point in time.

But if you happen to live in a quiet lonely town, with little or no security and you decide to return from a club, alone at that time of the night, and you eventually get raped, a high burden of the fault rests with you, because you were fully aware of the risks, but you still decided against caution. You are to blame because you made yourself an easy target for the rapist. You provided him with exactly what he wanted.

Ps: Wearing or not wearing a skimpy outfit isn't really a factor when it comes to_rape. A rapist who wants to_rape would_rape even a lady dressed as a nun.

Oh my lord almighty. I have no words.

I don't think the victim is ever to blame. I don't think anyone should ever be afraid of walking home late at night. If I should walk late at night and I get raped it's the rapists fault. Because he was a gross disgusting being. Not because I'm human and I shouldn't ever have to live in fear of another human. Rapists are always always always at fault. What if we all decide to have a curfew, you think they won't find another way to do what they do? What then ? If rapists decide they're only going to attack drunk women/men we should all stop drinking ? And after they say women in taxis we should all stop taking taxis ? It honestly shouldn't be something that should ever cross someones mind. Late night isn't rape hour where rapists get a free pass.

I honestly don't even have the words. Would actually say that to a person ?

YourMain:


Oh my lord almighty. I have no words.

I don't think the victim is ever to blame. I don't think anyone should ever be afraid of walking home late at night. If I should walk late at night and I get raped it's the rapists fault. Because he was a gross disgusting being. Not because I'm human and I shouldn't ever have to live in fear of another human. Rapists are always always always at fault. What if we all decide to have a curfew, you think they won't find another way to do what they do? What then ? If rapists decide they're only going to attack drunk women/men we should all stop drinking ? And after they say women in taxis we should all stop taking taxis ? It honestly shouldn't be something that should ever cross someones mind. Late night isn't rape hour where rapists get a free pass.

I honestly don't even have the words. Would actually say that to a person ?

You should come to the full realization that you are a human living amongst humans. Humans are a complicated specie. Some of us are good and some of us are bad. Yes, no one should be afraid of his fellow human, but genetics, variation and evolution coupled with some environmental factors, has made it not to be so.

So as this is the case Yourmain, you should have the consciousness that as long as you live on this planet, you are responsible for your own safety. Yes you shouldn't normally be afraid to walk late at night but given the fact that there are crazy folks in the world, you should be careful how you walk at night. You shouldn't actually live in fear of another human, but you should be careful in your dealings with them, and in the way you live your life around them. It's for your own good.

If you know that what you are getting into is dangerous, and could lead to your harm, then you shouldn't do it, and even if you do it, you should apply real caution. Because if you don't apply caution and you eventually get harmed, the perpetrator of such harm won't carry all of the blame. Part of that blame would fall on you.

There is evil in the world. That's a fact. No one can do anything to stop it. But what we should do is never to create an opportunity for these evil people to harm or use us.

If you are in your house and someone breaks in and_rapes you in your sleep, that's totally not your fault, but if you present the rapist with the opportunity to rape you, eg by walking alone at night in a dark alley, knowing fully well that it's not safe, or getting drunk and following a random stranger home, then it's part your fault.

You don't see something that spells danger and then choose to walk right into it. If you do and something happens to you, then it's your fault.

Decker:


You should come to the full realization that you are a human living amongst humans. Humans are a complicated specie. Some of us are good and some of us are bad. Yes, no one should be afraid of his fellow human, but genetics, variation and evolution coupled with some environmental factors, has made it not to be so.

So as this is the case Yourmain, you should have the consciousness that as long as you live on this planet, you are responsible for your own safety. Yes you shouldn't normally be afraid to walk late at night but given the fact that there are crazy folks in the world, you should be careful how you walk at night. You shouldn't actually live in fear of another human, but you should be careful in your dealings with them, and in the way you live your life around them. It's for your own good.

If you know that what you are getting into is dangerous, and could lead to your harm, then you shouldn't do it, and even if you do it, you should apply real caution. Because if you don't apply caution and you eventually get harmed, the perpetrator of such harm won't carry all of the blame. Part of that blame would fall on you.

There is evil in the world. That's a fact. No one can do anything to stop it. But what we should do is never to create an opportunity for these evil people to harm or use us.

If you are in your house and someone breaks in and_rapes you in your sleep, that's totally not your fault, but if you present the rapist with the opportunity to rape you, eg by walking alone at night in a dark alley, or getting drunk and following a stranger home, then it's part your fault.

You don't see something that spells danger and then choose to walk right into it. If you do and something happens to you, then it's your fault.

. I get where you're coming from. I just feel like you see rape as a norm. And then blame the victim for it happening to her. Rape shouldn't be a normal thing that we have to warn people against.

It's just weird to me.

I'm sorry you wrote an essay and I've no retort lol I'm just depressed now. I'm going to go sit in the corner and cry

You know I'm still trying to work out your stupid riddle. Ugh. It's driving me mental.

YourMain:


. I get where you're coming from. I just feel like you see rape as a norm. And then blame the victim for it happening to her. Rape shouldn't be a normal thing that we have to warn people against.

It's just weird to me.

I'm sorry you wrote an essay and I've no retort lol I'm just depressed now. I'm going to go sit in the corner and cry

You know I'm still trying to work out your stupid riddle. Ugh. It's driving me mental.

Yes, rape shouldn't naturally be a normal thing that we should warn people of, but sadly because of the sick people in the world that have no respect for their fellow humans, it is and it's good we warn girls and boys about it and try to find a solution to it.

Please don't cry. I can't bear the thought of you crying.

What riddle?

Decker:


Yes, rape shouldn't naturally be a normal thing that we should warn people of, but sadly because of the sick people in the world that have no respect for their fellow humans, it is and it's good we warn girls and boys about it and try to find a solution to it.

Please don't cry. I bear the thought of you crying.

What riddle?

Lol I see how it is. Well jokes on you I like crying so you can bear the thought all you want.

The riddle. Your riddle. About men dream and wait at dusk which is the eve of the suns coming. Like wtf. You're such a bully.

It's probably because they were watching Spartacus scenes OJ OJ

YourMain:


Lol I see how it is. Well jokes on you I like crying so you can bear the thought all you want.

The riddle. Your riddle. About men dream and wait at dusk which is the eve of the suns coming. Like wtf. You're such a bully.

It's probably because they were watching Spartacus scenes OJ OJ

Okay then, cry all you want.

Oh that riddle? hahaha, I have even forgotten about it. You should figure it out, ain't telling you nada.

Watching such scenes doesn't actually turn one into a rapist. It's a lot more complex than that. If that was the case we would have rapists in every corner of everywhere.

Decker:


Okay then, cry all you want.

Oh that riddle? hahaha, I have even forgotten about it. You should figure it out, ain't telling you nada.

Watching such scenes doesn't actually turn one into a rapist. It's a lot more complex than that. If that was the case we would have rapists in everywhere.

And yesterday you were telling me about how you're nice to a fault. You're so mean to me. And I thought we were friends . Just one clue.

Lol I was only kidding. Except game of thrones is better than Spartacus .

YourMain:


And yesterday you were telling me about how you're nice to a fault. You're so mean to me. And I thought we were friends . Just one clue.

Lol I was only kidding. Except game of thrones is better than Spartacus .

Yes now, we are good friends. But that doesn't mean I should give you the answer to my riddle. Sorry!

When comparing two films, there are always certain areas where one surpasses the other.

Game of thrones has a better story line, better directing and a more captivating story line, but Spartacus has better CGI's and special effects and better dialogue between characters.

But in terms of explicit sexual content, yes Game of thrones is better than Spartacus.

Decker:


Yes now, we are good friends. But that doesn't mean I should give you the answer to my riddle. Sorry!

When comparing two films, there are always certain areas where one surpasses the other.

Game of thrones has a better story line, better directing and a more captivating story line, but Spartacus has better CGI's and special effects and better dialogue between characters.

But in terms of explicit sexual content, yes Game of thrones is better than Spartacus.

Lord. Are you ever not ready to give a lesson eh? "When comparing two films..." No! Just say haha I know right game of thrones is the bomb diggity. Eh! God! Essay writer.

I didn't ask for the answer na just a clue. Just another hint a very easy one. You're so mean to me . Why can't I ever find any nice friends sef.

YourMain:


Lord. Are you ever not ready to give a lesson eh? "When comparing two films..." No! Just say haha I know right game of thrones is the bomb diggity. Eh! God! Essay writer.

I didn't ask for the answer na just a clue. Just another hint a very easy one. You're so mean to me . Why can't I ever find any nice friends sef.

Lol Okay o.

Honestly, I can't even remember the riddle sef... or the answer. I am sorry, just forget about it.

I am nice now, I have proved it on many occasions.

Decker:


Lol Okay o.

Honestly, I can't even remember the riddle sef... or the answer. I am sorry, just forget about it.

I am nice now, I have proved it on many occasions.

Are you actually honestly serious seriously . . You are a bad person. You should be ashamed of yourself. .

Oya name the occasions let me hear. Nice ko.

YourMain:


Are you actually honestly serious seriously . . You are a bad person. You should be ashamed of yourself. .

Oya name the occasions let me hear. Nice ko.

Sadly, I am not ashamed of myself, I am actually proud of myself. Deal with it!.

The occasions are too numerable to mention.

Decker:


Sadly, I am not ashamed of myself, I am actually proud of myself. Deal with it!.

The occasions are too numerable to mention.

Lol proud that your "forgot" your own riddle what even are you ? Weirdo.

Fine. Just tell me two.

YourMain:


Lol proud that your "forgot" your own riddle what even are you ? Weirdo.

Fine. Just tell me two.

Yea, whatever.

Errm. Okay, the time I told you to stop being critical about yourself? Yea that!
And the many times I have publicly supported you and stood for you?

You see, I am nice.

Decker:


Yea, whatever.

Errm. Okay, the time I told you to stop being critical about yourself? Yea that!
And the many times I have publicly supported you and stood for you?

You see, I am nice.

Lol knowing you, that could have just been another life lesson you live giving so much. Love counsellor Decker. You must get off on them, so technically that wasn't being nice to me

But I'll accept them as acts of kindness. I'm sending you a special hug all the way from Ireland

YourMain:


Lol knowing you, that could have just been another life lesson you live giving so much. Love counsellor Decker. You must get off on them, so technically that wasn't being nice to me

But I'll accept them as acts of kindness. I'm sending you a special hug all the way from Ireland

Lol. Thanks for the hug or whatever it was.

YourMain:

Do you believe in ghosts?

Decker:


Do you believe in ghosts?

I do.

I've a weird theory that doesn't make any sense but it makes sense in my head so it's all good

Do you ?

YourMain:


I do.

I've a weird theory that doesn't make any sense but it makes sense in my head so it's all good

Do you ?

Yes, I do. I asked you because I read somewhere where you were arguing with someone about the influence of witches in someone's life. You didn't believe in that.

What's the theory?

Decker:


Yes, I do. I asked you because I read somewhere where you were arguing with someone about the influence of witches in someone's life. You didn't believe in that.

What's the theory?

Do you believe in witches lol ?!

Ehm. It's a bit complicated. Nothing about God or good and evil. Just "science" in a way ?

YourMain:


Do you believe in witches lol ?!

Ehm. It's a bit complicated. Nothing about God or good and evil. Just "science" in a way ?

Well, I believe in forces of evil, of darkness. I believe they are present in this world. I believe in the existence of the supernatural. I believe there are things that can't really be explained. Things that transcend the scope of science and human comprehension.

You don't want to share it?

Decker:


Well, I believe in forces of evil, of darkness. I believe they are present in this world. I believe in the existence of the supernatural. I believe there are things that can't really be explained. Things that transcend the scope of science and human comprehension.

You don't want to share it?

Hmmm. I agree to an extent.

Lol I would but it honestly only makes sense to me. You'd probably think it was stupid.

YourMain:


Hmmm. I agree to an extent.

Lol I would but it honestly only makes sense to me. You'd probably think it was stupid.

How are you sure I would think it is silly?

Okay then.

Decker:


How are you sure I would think it is silly?

Okay then.

You better not laugh at me.

So basically when we die we go into the ground. And decompose. Weird part. So I think there's a part of us that's not really completely human. Say the human body is a machine. You input things and it processes them and gives a certain output. Like you input a sperm and egg, you get a baby. Input too much sugar you get diabetes or whatever your body decides to do. Weird part. Some things you just don't input. Like your favourite color or your favourite food. Things that make you.. You.

That's the part I think turns into ghosts. Judgement day... If you believe in such. Doesn't come for ages and ages. So this part of the body kinda just lurks around the place.

Okay and you know the way you stare at something that your brain doesn't really find interesting, it fades away. So I think babies and dogs and all them see these "ghosts" and as we grow our brain starts to find them boring and makes them fade away.

Okay. I know. It's stupid. Whatevs

YourMain:


You better not laugh at me.

So basically when we die we go into the ground. And decompose. Weird part. So I think there's a part of us that's not really completely human. Say the human body is a machine. You input things and it processes them and gives a certain output. Like you input a sperm and egg, you get a baby. Input too much sugar you get diabetes or whatever your body decides to do. Weird part. Some things you just don't input. Like your favourite color or your favourite food. Things that make you.. You.

That's the part I think turns into ghosts. Judgement day... If you believe in such. Doesn't come for ages and ages. So this part of the body kinda just lurks around the place.

Okay and you know the way you stare at something that your brain doesn't really find interesting, it fades away. So I think babies and dogs and all them see these "ghosts" and as we grow our brain starts to find them boring and makes them fade away.

Okay. I know. It's stupid. Whatevs

No, It's not silly at all. I love the way your mind works.

Thanks for sharing.

Decker:


No, It's not silly at all. I love the way your mind works.

Thanks for sharing.

sure...

YourMain:


sure...

Why that expression? You don't believe me? I am being serious, it's not a silly idea at all.

Decker:


Why that expression? You don't believe me? I am being serious, it's not a silly idea at all.

Even I know it's stupid lol. I'm sure you've some reservations. But okay .