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"He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by Lustig(m): 7:47pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
29 year old Perpetual Ezenwa, has asked the customary court in Igando Lagos State to dissolve her four months old marriage to Charles Ezenwa, claiming the man started beating her less than 4 days after paying her dowry. Perpetual said she married Charles after dating him for less than 2 months and now seeks divorce over what the she tagged domestic violence. She said, "we married after courting for less than 2 months. Before I married him, I've started noticing his behaviors but when I told my father he said I should not leave him that he would change after our marriage. "I believed he said that because they are from the same village in Imo and being the first daughter of my parents, they want me to marry on time. But, he kept becoming worse and I've decided to leave after 4 months of our marriage. 4 days after the payment of my dowry and our traditional marriage, he started beating me on flimsy excuses. He beats me with turning sticks in one of those days all because I received a text message from a friend and the message only reads "good day madam, how's your weekend ". This was what Charles saw that day and he nearly killed me. Come to think of it, this same man that was beating me is having an affairs with a fiancée of one of our neighbors. He did was caught on one of those days and I got to know about it. I told my father of all the happenstance but he would only say I should endure it. When I couldn't bear it again, I've moved to my parent's house and I've asked Charles to come and get his dowry back according to our tradition so that I can marry another man but, he has refused to collect it saying he would allow me to suffer because he knew I can't marry another man unless he collect the dowry and that I would grow old in my father's house." She now wants the court to force him to collect back his dowry. Charles was not in court to say his side of the story, so the Court's president, Adegboyega Omilola who sat over the case sent a court order to him and the case was adjourned till February 8, 2016. www.lindaikejisblog.com/2016/01/he-started-beating-me-4-days-after.html?m=1 |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by BankoleCruise(m): 7:53pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
How much did he pay?
Before i go talk 1 Like |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by Seeeeeeee: 7:57pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
You met him less than 2 months before marriage, after 4 months of marriage you want divorce because he beats you. Sister you just scammed that man you dont love him, you put up a behaviour that will make him beat you so that you take that as an excuse... Bullshit! 1 Like |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by Akkord4gov: 7:58pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
Nigerians have been prisoner of culture/tradition for so long. Imagine,if that monster doesn't collect the dowry back,the girl in question won't be able to marry another man. God punish tradition. Am waiting for a tradition that will stop me from doing what I want ![]() 1 Like |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by nnamdibig(m): 8:00pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
And you are still with him ![]() 1 Like |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by Mologi(m): 8:00pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
Modernised mark tyson...shebi he don pay ur family 1 Like |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by Tolexander: 8:01pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
BankoleCruise:no enormous the amount paid as bride price justifies maltreating one's wife sir! Still wondering why we call the money paid by the groom dowry instead of bride price! Na the bride dey pay dowry! 1 Like |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by crismark(m): 8:02pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
Lmao....no vex o but anitime d guy tink of d huge amount wen ihm pay, ihm go Jst feel like 2 beat u..... |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by Akkord4gov: 8:03pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
nnamdibig: Don't over rush for FTC, read the topic well. |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by Nobody: 8:04pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
Marriage is the new Prison and That Big beautiful diamond ring is the Eternal Handcuff.... ![]() He hit You with A stick and u couldn't hit Yours back? Or fling an Hot Iron/frying pan to his balls, head, kidney or something? ![]() Girls really need to step up their game!!! Mr n Mrs Smith's style! ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by donholy28(m): 8:08pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
u have offended him enough so tey he just day wait to first settle d gods b4 beating u |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by TheSonOfMark(m): 8:10pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
crismark: The only justification for assaulting a woman physically is when she physically assaults you. If she doesn't hit you and you hit her then she'd be a _fool not to scald your protruding forehead with a hot, rusted electric boiling ring! |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by Nobody: 8:12pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
nawao |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by Lustig(m): 8:15pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
TheSonOfMark:hot, rusted electric boiling ring? Omo u badt gan! True yarn though |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by AlienStar: 8:26pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
Your dad told u to endure, like he is the one the man is getting married to ![]() |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by Lustig(m): 8:32pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
AlienStar:The matter tire me here too o |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by misspicy(f): 8:32pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
If he doesn't come and collect his money why not go and give him abi if mountain refuse to go and meet Mohammed,Mohammed will go and meet mountain naw ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by ricsman(m): 8:33pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
you saw it coming and still went for it. I do tell girls that complain of their guy beating them to quit the relationship otherwise beating continues in marriage. |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by AlienStar: 8:43pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
Dunno such thing still exists in this 21st century. Lustig: |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by BankoleCruise(m): 8:58pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
Tolexander:mr! Maybe that man na hungry man u don't know and hin don use all money pay bride price finish. Nevertheless, an hungry man is an angry man |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by wristbangle: 9:05pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
You saw the writings on the wall but you still went ahead to marry him because of his buoyant financial status. You have married him and so I will advice you to be diligent to make your money. If it's becoming unbearable, kindly take a break pls |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by tafabaloo(m): 9:16pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
You didn't sense that before you guys got married? Or you were blinded by his gifts and sweet talks.. |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by crismark(m): 10:28pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
TheSonOfMark:True talk but all dese igbo men dey sell their daughters all in d name of bride price.....#bride price too cost# |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by Ginaz(f): 10:42pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
TheSonOfMark: Oh son of mark you are here, I miss you so so so so much ![]() ![]() |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by TheSonOfMark(m): 11:02pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
Ginaz:Here, there and a mention/message away. ![]() |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by davidsgal(f): 11:14pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
Estharfabian:can't stop laughing |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by profroket: 12:53am On Jan 07, 2016 |
LOL |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by flokii: 9:02am On Jan 07, 2016 |
mayb ur dowry wrecked him... just saying |
Re: "He Started Beating Me 4 Days After Paying My Dowry" by Nobody: 9:08am On Jan 07, 2016 |
davidsgal: ![]() |
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