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Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by funkymatics(f): 4:09pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
so this are the few good testimonies We can get when hundreds of weddings get to hold every Thursdays/Saturdays over the years . God help We the unmarried ones to choose wisely especially at this age where guys love to keep baby mamas cos they know so much about bf and gf relationship but nothing about marriage. 1 Like |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by stevecantrell: 4:38pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
fagbemiakintayo: You've confirmed my suspicions. Thanks |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Aleora(f): 9:48pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
[quote author=Zuriela post=41613547]Once u say I'm happily married you'll see people that will 'yimu' cos too many sad marriage stories are beginning to make pple think no one is truly happily married. And Yes I'm happily married to my best friend and we're still best friends oya we don ear##nextt |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by seaga: 1:08am On Jan 07, 2016 |
bukatyne:That would be the one on your profile, of course. ...but I ve figured it out. |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by dgeepat(f): 3:28am On Jan 07, 2016 |
I am happily married..... Thanks to God |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by goodheart4God: 7:09am On Jan 07, 2016 |
One of the greatest gifts a man or woman can have is to have a spouse that they would be able to work out their journey and make it work. When I was a teenager I used to read a lot of Christian marriage book and I was even counseling marriage couples on how to make my marriage work. Fast forward to my time, I won't say I regret my decision of a choice of spouse but I would have made a better choice if I didn't allow love to override my sense of reasoning. I never wanted to have a home of cold treatment, malice, lack of communication, not being able to manage financial situations, etc. I always told myself my hubby and I will share finances 50-50 and I will always take care of myself while we use our savings for investment. I had always say he would be my friend and not my husband. But all that didn't turn out. Cos I ended up with a man that took my simplicity and his love for him to ride me and abuse me emotionally. No plans for the future, extended family needs comes before mine cos iyawo can always take care of herself. A man that doesn't believe in communication, keeps malice at any slight issue. Talks and shout at you. Doesn't believe that women have a say in homes. That a man can have as many female friends as he wants and still talks to ex girlfriends without regard to his wife feelings. If a wife talks to a male colleague too much it is an abomination. A man who says don't try to justify it because you are a woman. Advise to the singles, don't ignore warning signs. If you guys don't share the same ideas, values and goals concerning marriage. Take a long walk and don't say age is no more by my side. It is better to marry at 40 and be happy that marry at 20s and be miserable. All the same, there are still good moments but the core areas that means a lot to me is missing. I REST MY CASE 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by confun: 8:42am On Jan 07, 2016 |
goodheart4God:hmmm..... |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Sagamite(m): 9:35am On Jan 07, 2016 |
TV01: I dey o, bruv. Market dey. I made a new year resolution for 2016. My resolution is "I shall stay away from getting married in 2016". 3 Likes |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by TV01(m): 11:19am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Sagamite:Hail Saga, HNY dude! Now about marriage - Saga, you know you just have to. Stop avoiding the inevitable. How else wil you give the "SagaKids" the best possible start? How can you deny some women the fulfilment of her wildest dreams ! Join us jor...I'm sure with a few "minor" adjustments, you'll make the best Hubby and Dad. I need a challenge to my undisputed holding of both those titles ! Best TV |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Hafyz23(m): 12:00pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Thanks to The Almighty. What works for me and my wife is communication. We talked and wud 4get we are hungry. We fetch water together,cook together,wash clothes and almost all household chores together. We chat on the phone when we are far away even at our different work places. She's nt only my wife bt my best friend. Always together. It's God's grace. And COMMUNICATION. 6 Likes |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by STENON(f): 12:57pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
I'l be back to share my story in the next few Years... I'l be back to share my story in the next few Years... |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by sampsondeen(m): 11:35pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
KanwuliaJara:Please help explain the difference.. I am a bit confused here 2 Likes |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by sampsondeen(m): 11:59pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Ginaz:Sit dere and wait o! Hope that one day he would be advance in technology enough to track you with Google map shiooor!!! |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by placeofallure(f): 1:47am On Jan 08, 2016 |
Xsolutions: I am just returning from a ban so it matters little if I had to return. I didn't want to dignify your myopic comment with a response but on second thoughts..... Now to the crux of the matter, the thread says if you're in a marriage.... not necessarily 10, 30 or 50 years. Even if it is a marriage that is 2 months old, they (the couple) must have exerted some energy into making it last for that long. So what do you mean by you're not taking some marriage seriously? I bet you're not even in a relationship let alone a marriage. Mtcheeeeee...........eeew! 3 Likes |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Nobody: 2:11am On Jan 08, 2016 |
placeofallure:Didn't read your Rant, I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU THINK... |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by KanwuliaJara: 2:19am On Jan 08, 2016 |
sampsondeen: Happily married = your happiness came with marriage. Without the almighty marriage, you are DEAD! To some of us. . . MARRIAGE did not ADD OR SUBTRACT from our happy states of mind. Big difference!!!! In the African context ESPECIALLY, there is no such thing as "HAPPILY-MARRIED"! Most are truly ROBBED of happiness RIGHT AT THE ALTAR OR SHRINE of matrimony! 5 Likes |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by placeofallure(f): 2:50am On Jan 08, 2016 |
Freiden: On the contrary, marriage right from the word go is not necessarily a bed of roses, not that it cannot be though. Immediately my marriage clocked one year and I got pregnant, then the problems started. I did surgery after surgery as if it was going out of fashion. I stayed off work at some point and became a regular guest at hospitals, so many complications outside my health issues that I don't want to bore the forum with. As expected, it drained our finances and emotions. The fact that I didn't die within those early years could only mean one thing- the mercy of God. Some marriages of 10 years or more never went through half of that. There was a time for 2 months I couldn't enter the kitchen or do any laundry, no maids, just my husband. Imagine that!!! I can see you have made your comments out of inexperience, maybe you'll have a rethink now. 6 Likes |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by placeofallure(f): 2:52am On Jan 08, 2016 |
Xsolutions: LIAR!!! I know you did! 1 Like |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Nobody: 2:56am On Jan 08, 2016 |
placeofallure:I DIDN'T... |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Nobody: 7:49am On Jan 08, 2016 |
placeofallure: My comment was based on the marriages around me. New couples always seem happy with themselves, when u see them outside, u would want to get married at that spot. Usually after the 1st 10yrs, the devil that has bn living with em, takes over.... 2 Likes |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Sagamite(m): 8:35pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
TV01: I still fulfil part of women's wildest dreams. |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by TV01(m): 1:00pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Sagamite:...ah! Sagamite, you allow women free reign with your £200 limit credit card TV |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Sagamite(m): 2:40pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
TV01: Nonsense! How will I give free reign to women with my favourite Sagamu Community Bank Platinum credit card? You think I am that foolish and generous? I look like a real man to you? KFC is where I take all of them and I never spend more than £15. |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Nobody: 3:17pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Sagamite: LOL @£200 credit limit You are even trying What happened to Favourite Chicken or better still, those greasy burger vans at car boot sales Thats 2 days out in one . . . a £2.50 fake designer bag and a £1 burger Wildest dreams indeed |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by megbu: 3:59pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
madamL:Lol @ ndi oga. Women chose a man that is crazy about you. Someone that respect God. Set the tone of your union from day one. If you want to be treated like an egg behave like one. Love him with all sincerity ,do not insult him no matter how angry you are. Don't over indulge him, let him feel like you are slipping away from him sometimes. It will reawaken his love. Make yourself indispensable be incharge of your home. Do not debase yourself to be loved,you are only digging your grave. Enough said. |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by chika1996: 4:27pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Joel3:its a scam for u ryt,then keep it to ur self and live your life the way u want it just stop going around deceiving people God didn't see it as a mistake when he ordained it just the way he didn't see a mistake when he created you.He never forced you into believing in it its a choice,just pity the ones that share the same mindset with you |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Rosebud90: 4:54pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
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Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Sagamite(m): 6:14pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
tearoses: Favourite Chicken? You think I am that classless? They don't even do coleslaw for dessert. Do I look like a broke arsse nigga to you? My mates are doing Pizza Hut, you want me to drop my class? |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by tyconcepts(f): 7:44am On Jan 12, 2016 |
What have I seen so far.....?? Married for just a couple of months. Guess I should just chill-out and take notes . I just love been married tho'.......Far more challenging than a single lane. #Taking Notes. |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Fumbaby: 4:10pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Freiden: My dear you can't judge with what they are doing outside, No matter the disagreement btw me and my DH you will never see it in US in public our quarrel is usually btw us. The only way you will know that we are quarreling is _ I won't makeup, I won't step out of the house, you won't hear loud music from our flat, he will suddenly become skinny even if his eating elephant. Make I stop here |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Whobedatte(m): 8:21am On Jan 13, 2016 |
goodheart4God:THE LORD IS YOUR STRENGTH. |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Fumbaby: 10:18am On Jan 13, 2016 |
A successful marriage doesn't require a
big house, a prefect spouse, a million
dollars or an expensive car. You can
have all the above and still have a
miserable marriage. A successful
marriage requires honesty, undying
commitment and selfless love and Jesus
at the center of it all. - Isaac Kubvoruno |
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