Unconfident, unsure, and inexperienced guys
will stay in a bad relationship for far too long
and feel like they're wrong to walk. So they stay
there until the girl does all the hard work,
makes them feel bad and thus put all the
emotional guilt on the guy. What these guys
need is assurance they're doing the right thing.
This article will confirm your suspicions,
gentleman
. ..

So in no particular Order

1.
She has issues with her father
This is a big big problem. A girl who has
problems with her father generally has a lot of
guy friends and doesn't respect boyfriends at
all branding most of them assholes. She's nice
for now but when you break up with her she'll
be carrying the emotional weight from the
break up as well as the reminder of the bad
relationship she has with her dad. Stay well
away and believe me when I say she'll turn
psycho in a split second. No, she's not
misunderstood. She's crazy.

2.
She doesn't talk with any of her
exes
You meet a sweet girl, she's so nice and you
find out her last seven boyfriends are "idiotic,
stupid, and treat women badly" - where's the
common factor here? Her. If a girl can't be civil
with any of her ex-boyfriends, unless they all hit
her (unlikely, but possible), you've got
damaged goods on your hands. What guys
ignore is that when you listen to a girl's
relationship history, you can often find out
where you'll be if the future takes a trip down
South

3.
She nags on you to call more and
make more of an effort
When you start calling more frequently,
suddenly, she's busy herself. You bring up the
same point calmly and she shouts at you. Rinse
and repeat. If she's playing that card she wants
more control. And you don't want a controlling
woman around.

4.
She's making excuses
A girl is never too busy to meet up with a guy
she likes. Ever. She'll have a slot of time
somewhere and deep down I know every girl
knows that. "Doing something else" translates
to "I've lost interest". If she's still dating you
because she likes you she'll tell you when she's
next free immediately after invitation to date. If
she doesn't and lets you know later, she's got
nothing else to do and know you're going to
help her fill her time.

5.
She started dating seriously at an
early age
She's funny, sweet and attentive. Relationships
come up and you talk about the first time you
can seriously say you were in love. She says 15
and he was...wait...twenty? Girls who date older
guys early get hurt early. They're carrying
around preconceptions all men aren't good
because of this one bad experience (To be
honest, they're not far wrong. A lot of guys are
bad in this day and age) so think about what's
going to happen to you.

6.
She tells you everything about her
exes
There's nothing you don't know about her exes.
You ask and she tells you all about them. Their
dirty little secrets, their bad habits and the
horrible things they used to do to her. Now,
hypothetically, let's say you two broke up.
Whose dirty washing is going to be aired next?
Yours. If nothing's sacred to her, once it's all
over, you won't be either

7.
She doesn't value sex
"It's just sex", she says. She's disinterested and
it seems more like a process to her than
anything else. No decent girl is used to putting
out to guys she doesn't have a connection
with. If it's purely physical to her then think
about why she's got that idea into her head.

8.
She lies
Women are absolutely great at being sociable
and will pick out untruths whenever they can
be it subtly or obviously. I sometimes say to my
flatmate what I'm having something for dinner
and change my mind six hours later - she'll pick
up on it. How the hell is she supposed to care
what I'm eating after a full day? When it comes
to interactions with people a girls memory is
subconsciously flawless. The only time it isn't is
when it's not the truth. If the same story rolls
by twice but has a major difference, keep quiet
about it. If she knows you're onto her, she'll
double check her story which puts you in a bad
position. Don't overreact and loose ends will
untie themselves. If they don't, you've got a liar
on your hands.

9.
"You left the TV on when you left.
Are you some sort of IDIOT?"
When she picks a fight over the smallest
things, something's up. If it's a problem she
can sort out easily and she gets angry about it,
it's time to leave before she comes at you with
a wine bottle. One thing to remember is that if
she's shouting at you, you don't have to shout
back

10.
You don't know any of her friends
If a girl loves you she'll show you off to her
friends; being social creatures they like to show
everybody else how great you are. You don't
know any of her friends and you've been dating
a while something's amiss. The time period
doesn't matter, so long as you don't know any
aof her friends, you're still on trial and so's she.

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Neyoor:
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Hope ur sisters daughters nd mum is pure

Hope ur sisters daughters nd mum is pure.

Hope ur sisters daughters nd mum is pure.

Madness u talk wit all ur ex dey wud say u cheating confused mofos

Nothing can please all dis saddist awon oloshi united

I shdnt carry emotional weight wen m heart broken shows ur degree of heartlessness especially wen d girl gave in all nd was treated like a glorified object with no feelins nd no value for her

Smh hell awaits u all

99.9 % of Nairaland guys spend their lives revolving around ladies.

They've got nothing intelligent to come up with . I'm guessing most of them are cowards offline that can't face a lady yet they acts as bosses online.



No matter what you say about ladies , you will still end up with one.





yeye people

Diddyydiva:
99.9 % of Nairaland guys spend their lives revolving around ladies.

They've got nothing intelligent to come up with . I'm guessing most of them are cowards offline that can't face a lady yet they acts as bosses online.



No matter what you say about ladies , you will still end up with one.





yeye people

@d lady above me...ur a bloody bomboclak ...i no mention person name o

firstking01:
@d lady above me...ur a bloody bomboclak ...i no mention person name o

Mention her name, make I help you tell her

Now Playing EMINEM ft Lil Wayne -- No Love

Diddyydiva:
99.9 % of Nairaland guys spend their lives revolving around ladies.

They've got nothing intelligent to come up with . I'm guessing most of them are cowards offline that can't face a lady yet they acts as bosses online.



No matter what you say about ladies , you will still end up with one.




yeye people

ahn ahn...99.9% that's not even realistic

samted:

ahn ahn...99.9% that's not even realistic

okay 100% .
what about that ?

Diddyydiva:
Mention her name, make I help you tell her

nope...she knws herself

next page plssss

3 and 4 opoint.

Add also, she prefers spending more time with you on phone than physically.

All na lie jare.

PLEASE when will all these RUBBISH end

For point no 1,May be true,talking from my experience.I started hating my father from age 2 or thereabout,from the period I started seeing him beat up my mother,dragging her on the ground,stripping her naked and giving her injuries right in front of me and my siblings.He is my greatest enemy till date till I die!We were not in terms till just before my wedding and I don't wish to ever talk to him again. I had lots of male friends n didn't see having a BF as necessity till I was ready to get married which I did 2 weeks ago(A decision that paid me well finally,we dated for 13 months,no heartbreak,no abortions,no STDs)due to the societal pressure to be married and respected to overcome the disrespect,bashing,insults,degrading that comes with being single,not because I love my husband.

She stays in touch wt her exes and communicates with him(them),he says she is cheating.

She allows him know her friends,the next thing,he is running another "package" with her best friend.Before she says OMG,he has engaged her bestie...

And what is the value of sex in 2016 btw 2 people who are not married? Why should she value something she prolly doing unwillingly cos of pressure from BF who also has other girl(s) he is sleeping with at random? Sex has no value! Detach ur emotions from it and Play safe.Dazzo!

Wetin concern me I don't have a gf and I don't plan on getting one anytime soon! Lyk I said na me n God this year .














And the Frost descended on them!

firstking01:
nope...she knws herself

hehehehe





good morning

Diddyydiva:
hehehehe




good morning

yep, sm2u and hope u slept well??

firstking01:
yep, sm2u and hope u slept well??

slept like a baby



you?

Diddyydiva:
99.9 % of Nairaland guys spend their lives revolving around ladies.

They've got nothing intelligent to come up with . I'm guessing most of them are cowards offline that can't face a lady yet they acts as bosses online.



No matter what you say about ladies , you will still end up with one.





yeye people

take it easy on d men; "sweedy"

Diddyydiva:
slept like a baby


you?

slept 50% well tho...

sickstars:
Hope ur sisters daughters nd mum is pure.

Madness u talk wit all ur ex dey wud say u cheating confused mofos

Nothing can please all dis saddist awon oloshi united

I shdnt carry emotional weight wen m heart broken shows ur degree of heartlessness especially wen d girl gave in all nd was treated like a glorified object with no feelins nd no value for her

Smh hell awaits u all

hey! U got to stop this madness b4 I look for rope

Maxi112:
take it easy on d men; "sweedy"

men too should take easy on us




how are you?

firstking01:
slept 50% well tho...

why?

Diddyydiva:
men too should take easy on us



how are you?

am cool...
How was ur nite?

Diddyydiva:
why?

hmmm...owk, was actually reflecting on sm issues in my life, and hwfar i 've gone in life wen the thought to creat a thread on it landed

this is TOTAL BULLSHIT IN OTHER WORDS THE SHIT OF A BULL

Maxi112:
hey! U got to stop this madness b4 I look for rope

Look for chain na who hold u

sickstars:

Look for chain na who hold u

just wait a minute , am on my way