Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,201,398 members, 7,978,265 topics. Date: Friday, 18 October 2024 at 01:13 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Are You In Love? (1957 Views)
Guys, have You Ever Fallen In Love With A Below Average Looking Girl? / Nigerian Lady Travels To US For A Break, But Falls In Love With A Lebanese Guy / Advice Please..a Guy At The Down Of My House Is In Love With Me. (2) (3) (4)
Are You In Love? by Ptoocool(m): 5:13pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Love! Love!! Love!!! Hmmmmmm, the word love don suffer, chai. lol. The question “are you in love" as simple as it seems is very difficult to answer for those that understand its true meaning. I’m not talking about knowing the true meaning of love but knowing what it means to be in love. This is the 21st century (the jet age) as they do call it; love therefore at this age is greatly overrated. Everybody seems to be in love, from primary school pupils, to teenagers in secondary schools over to our tertiary institutions, the list goes on and on till it cuts across the education circle to peeps on the road sides, hawkers, mechanics, drivers, hair dressers, lawyers, judges, civil servants, sportsmen/women, doctors, engineers to mention a few till it reaches our ever dynamic politicians, the list seems endless. We all can be in love, yes, it’s not impossible if we want to, but, the question now is, out of those who claim/professed to be in love, who among them is “really” in love. It’s easy to say “I’m in love” or I love so and so. It’s very easy to say to another person ‘I love you’ right? Just like ABC, everyone can say it even when they don’t mean it, not forgetting the fact that some actually does. It is only when you move closer to those who say these words that you actually realize what they meant when they say those words. Take for instance, you noticed a friend of yours is acting strangely of late, he/she hardly pick your calls, doesn’t seem to have time when you have planned to hang-out, when you call at their houses, it’s either they are busy on calls or better still they are up all day with chat. Then out of curiosity you are like “hey c’mon what’s going on?” and after much persuasion they decide to open up to you, he/she goes like “there’s this guy/girl, he/she too fine, he’s got this, she’s got that and this go on and on till he/she was called to order. Some even go that extra mile of showing you his/her picture on their phone if they’ve got any, or even ask you to meet with them for further introduction. After all has been said and done, you are left with no iota of doubt that truly, this two are in love. This early love play thing goes on for sometimes and you begin to ask yourself 'why am I not in love like my friend?' Because presently, he seems to be overwhelmed with love. Then some days or months later, he/she calls you up and was sounding so low that out of your inquisitiveness you asked if everything was okay, to which he replied in the negative and by the time he/she is done explaining things to you, you’ll realized he/she is no longer in love with the person he/she was with. WHO THEN IS IN LOVE? People are in love for various reasons, these has led to the controversy surrounding the ‘I love you’ issh. You ask someone, why do you like this person so much? And they say I love him/her BECAUSE …. and they go on and on. Now, that is where the problem sets in, if you have a reason for loving someone, then I’m sorry to say, you’re not in love with that person. Some says I love him for his looks; I love her for her charisma, for his intelligence, for her skin color, for his swag some ladies would even confess; 'the guy is rich and I love him for that'. That is it, that’s not being in love. Being in love has nothing to do with all of that. Have you not heard that beauty fades away? Have you not heard that money grows wing? What if the guy had an accident and looses all of his memory? Or her face got burnt or her leg is broken? What if…..? What happens to the love? From the foregoing, there should be no reason whatsoever for loving someone, money/wealth, looks/outlooks, intelligence, charisma and what have you must not be the reason why we should love another person. Don’t stop at the “oh he makes me happy” “oh she knows how to make my day”. Love is divine. Now, ask yourself, “am I in love?” http://kolawolepeters..com.ng/2015/11/are-you-in-love-or-is-it-just-crush.html 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are You In Love? by Nobody: 5:15pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
If am in love i will stay no matter what even of my kidney is needed i will drop I can't love u nd not get it in return I didnt come to this earth to do fine bara cos of love 1 Like |
Re: Are You In Love? by cruzita(f): 5:24pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
I find it hard to love but if I eventually fall in love it has to be symbiotic love not parasitic love.thank u PANEL OF JUDGES 1 Like |
Re: Are You In Love? by myfantasies(f): 5:26pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
sickstars:Hmmmmm I am watching u wit side eyes |
Re: Are You In Love? by Nobody: 5:28pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
myfantasies: M really crios Some people really taught me d importance of love And now i kno ow a lady shd b treated Henceforth im not going to fall in love foolishly especially to sumone who is still tryin to love u or is filled with love and hatred for u dats trash for lawma abeg 1 Like |
Re: Are You In Love? by myfantasies(f): 5:35pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
sickstars:Sis always be positive U made a promise to me remember? |
Re: Are You In Love? by Nobody: 5:36pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
myfantasies: M positive doesnt mean i shd take bullsh*ts |
Re: Are You In Love? by Anthony0094(m): 5:38pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
h |
Re: Are You In Love? by Hadassahisbae(f): 5:38pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
I dnt believe in love... |
Re: Are You In Love? by myfantasies(f): 5:39pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
sickstars:I know dear One have to be patient wen dealing with men, i know it's difficult but we have to try Remember nobody is easy to date 2 Likes |
Re: Are You In Love? by Nobody: 5:41pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
myfantasies: Patient i dont have dat again for any body let alone men i av issues to take care of my health is my number one priority now so to hell with who ever do u kno my health state now? Like any one cares bou it? den its men i shd die becos of ? i reject it i came to dis life alone so shall i die alone so from now on m alone |
Re: Are You In Love? by onstelly(f): 5:43pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
To love someone is the most difficult task in this life, it's all about sacrifices and most times people don't even know what love is all about! 1 Like |
Re: Are You In Love? by myfantasies(f): 5:43pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
sickstars:Wat is wrong with u WhatsApp me |
Re: Are You In Love? by Nobody: 5:44pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
myfantasies: Nothing is wrong with me M only making it clear dat from now one Nothing matters to me again Except my health dats it |
Re: Are You In Love? by Ptoocool(m): 5:46pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Hadassahisbae: Love is real dear, it is just overrated especially in this part of the world. Pray you find one soon. |
Re: Are You In Love? by myfantasies(f): 5:46pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
sickstars:I need to talk to you |
Re: Are You In Love? by Nobody: 5:48pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
myfantasies: Ok now i want to make my decision to respect my sef Every one needs i need to b talked to No i dont need any one to talk to me All becos i want to give my self some respect its not done any whr Nd i dont mean to b rude ma |
Re: Are You In Love? by Nobody: 5:49pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
myfantasies: Ok now i want to make my decision to respect my sef Every one needs i need to b talked to No i dont need any one to talk to me All becos i want to give my self some respect its not done any whr Nd i dont mean to b rude ma. |
Re: Are You In Love? by myfantasies(f): 5:51pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
sickstars:It's ok, u r not being rude, u r just saying ur mind, nd i respect dat |
Re: Are You In Love? by Nobody: 5:53pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
myfantasies: Thank u so mch for understanding |
Re: Are You In Love? by Ptoocool(m): 5:54pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
sickstars: It's well dear, what ever it is you'll get through it in just a matter of time. Don't give up on love. |
Re: Are You In Love? by Nobody: 5:55pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Ptoocool: Im nt given up on love I just dont want to make anoda silly mistake dats costing me my health now I need prayers now Cos d happy person u see is slowly dying |
Re: Are You In Love? by Ptoocool(m): 6:03pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
sickstars: Aii, I got it. Do take your time making a wise decision. Don't make the same mistake twice. Remember, we only live once, enjoy this life and the beauty in it. Your happiness starts and ends with you not anyone else. As for your health, you'll be fine and no evil will befall you. Stay safe. |
Re: Are You In Love? by Nobody: 6:10pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Ptoocool: Tank u so mch Thats wat av been tinkin of too m too young for all dis problems at wat age? I just enjoy life nd its beauty Yeah i pray dat i be fine health wise tank u so mch 1 Like |
Re: Are You In Love? by IamLEGEND1: 6:11pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
all these lovesick ídiots |
Re: Are You In Love? by Vikky014(f): 6:21pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Am just so weak emotionally dt is y am nt interested in this Love thingy i jst keep u as a friend. platonic one and i hv many male friends |
Re: Are You In Love? by Nobody: 6:40pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
sickstars:Hmmmm. Take tinx easy sis. |
Re: Are You In Love? by Nobody: 6:42pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
adepeter26: Ok God purnish devil So wen its my turn to stand up for my sef I shd take it easy smh God purnish devil Wen everyone saw me like a piece of trash Derived joy in tormenting me Nd enjoyed d jokes of mockin me Now i shd take it easy God purnish devil iyalaya anybody Wat y'all av done to me u wont reap it now no Wen u least expected it |
Re: Are You In Love? by Nobody: 6:47pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Vikky014:I used to be like u..buh decided to give it a try again..imagine he dosent even feel same way..takes everything as a joke..that shiit hurts. |
Re: Are You In Love? by Nobody: 6:51pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
sickstars:Do me a favour & lets chats privately. Will send u a PM if u dont mind *pls* |
Re: Are You In Love? by Nobody: 6:53pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
adepeter26: No please enemies nd frnds are all one now If u cant say it hear Forget it |
Re: Are You In Love? by Vikky014(f): 7:05pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
emmijes3:heiyah. sorry about that jst make urslf happy dnt allow any1 to steal ur joy |
Why Do Ladies Nowadays Always Open Their Legs To Any Man because Of Money ? / Photo Of The Day: What Will You Do When You See This? / .
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 47 |