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Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Chris95(m): 2:51am On Jan 11, 2016

Eyaah... Dis one prolly just xperienced a hrt brk cry

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Re: When your bae says "I love you" by AfroKnight: 2:58am On Jan 11, 2016

Bro, I know you are a follower of Jesus. He said we should love others. Are you saying he wasted his words by asking us to love our neighbor?

All human love is conditional; even between husband and wife. We earn it. Step out of line and that love will wane. That is the true value of love. Accept it and reciprocate.

Remember, love costs the lover.

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Re: When your bae says "I love you" by BLESSEDCY(m): 3:01am On Jan 11, 2016

Love is a very important word. Not only used to express emotional affection. Could be used to depict mere likeness of something Love is a very important word. Not only used to express emotional affection. Could be used to depict mere likeness of something Love is a very important word. Not only used to express emotional affection. Could be used to depict mere likeness of something

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by macminista(m): 3:34am On Jan 11, 2016

Guy you re on a long thing...there is still selfishness in friendship..Nothing is real

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by emerged01(m): 4:20am On Jan 11, 2016

I don't agree with Op. Genuine love requires the fear of God. True love doesn't involve two people but three;God,man and woman. God has a place in every relationship but man failed to realise that;If husband and wife base their love life on the fear of God it can be termed LOVE.

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by udysweet(f): 4:21am On Jan 11, 2016

Oahray:
Op, don't start arguing against something without a clear definition of what you think it means. Would help avoid strawman arguments.

Love means different things to different persons, and no one is born with love in his heart. If it can grow, it can die.

I think it's the overly romanticized pic of love that has got you confused. The unconditional love farce. You want to see Cinderella's happily ever after in reality, innit?

Well, think of love as a flowering plant. It's existence and survival is very much conditional. After being planted, it needs to be watered constantly or it withers instead of blossoming.

Your argument is that if it withers, it was never a plant. Does that even sound reasonable to you?

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by cococandy(f): 4:42am On Jan 11, 2016

This dude sha. Why are you always full of crap? And you say it with so much authority too.

So you need 20yrs before you decide if you love someone. Like you can't love and lose the love within a fraction of that time.
Does it need to last forever before it can be defined as love?

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Re: When your bae says "I love you" by missyadorable(f): 4:51am On Jan 11, 2016

Toks2008:

And my answer is very crystal clear dude;Real Love exists only between man and GOD but what we have between 99.99 humans are flimsy conditional temporary feeling of affection mistaken as love....QUOTE ME IN HEAVEN.

Well said!For me,apart from God and my mother,nobody else loves me.Man and woman so called love is just scam,because of too much sex and what each person stands to gain!

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by UIA04(f): 5:04am On Jan 11, 2016

Oahray:
Op, don't start arguing against something without a clear definition of what you think it means. Would help avoid strawman arguments.

Love means different things to different persons, and no one is born with love in his heart. If it can grow, it can die.

I think it's the overly romanticized pic of love that has got you confused. The unconditional love farce. You want to see Cinderella's happily ever after in reality, innit?

Well, think of love as a flowering plant. It's existence and survival is very much conditional. After being planted, it needs to be watered constantly or it withers instead of blossoming.

Your argument is that if it withers, it was never a plant. Does that even sound reasonable to you?

You have said it all love is a continuous and it is built on patience kindness humility and all other good virtues it doesn't just come and it doesn't just fade like that people looses their virtues due to circumstances and that is how the love dies gradually doesn't mean it wasn't there

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by fromnigeria(m): 5:06am On Jan 11, 2016

Toks2008:

It is a second name for trash

I don't agree with your aim of writing. I can only say well done for the write up, as writing is not easy.

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by UIA04(f): 5:07am On Jan 11, 2016

cococandy:
This dude sha. Why are you always full of crap? And you say it with so much authority too.

So you need 20yrs before you decide if you love someone. Like you can't love and lose the love within a fraction of that time.
Does it need to last forever before it can be defined as love?

He's probably talking from a broken heart people like the op are scared to open up to others easily I pity his wife with this his mentality
I can bet toks2008is a perfectionist what does he mean by only God is capable of love when we are created in the image of God abi has he heard of the love Jacob had for Rachel

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by UIA04(f): 5:07am On Jan 11, 2016

fromnigeria:

I don't agree with your aim of writing. I can only say well done for the write up, as writing is not easy.

Lol

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by ojnnaco(m): 5:09am On Jan 11, 2016

RadicallyBlunt:
"Fucck" is wrongly used too. As in fucck u, fucck up, shut dah fucck up, fucck off, get dah fucck outta here, what dah fucck, what's my fuccking business, fuccking shiit, fucck ur papa, fucck ur mama, efritin fuccking

In short fucck worse pass love

Tell me why u won't be ban for like 14days

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by philocheho: 5:20am On Jan 11, 2016

Cutehector:
so dat means God's love is trash? U berra be serious here!

Op... u need to know that there are different kind of love.. There is the philos love which comes with mere feelings. This type of love is not eternal but it is needed in relationships... There is the Agape love... This is the Godly love. The kind of love shown to us by God. This is eternal love. There are more explanation but I may just stop at dis juncture. So stop classifying all luv as one

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by 1miccza: 5:26am On Jan 11, 2016

Over the years,i have tried to find out the most exact,correct and true definirion of love but no clear description could fit the bill. I think that bible passage by queen valerie sums it up nicely. It's a verb not just a mere word...

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Nobody: 5:27am On Jan 11, 2016

ojnnaco:

Tell me why u won't be ban for like 14days

I violate any law?

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by 1miccza: 5:32am On Jan 11, 2016

cococandy:
This dude sha. Why are you always full of crap? And you say it with so much authority too.

So you need 20yrs before you decide if you love someone. Like you can't love and lose the love within a fraction of that time.
Does it need to last forever before it can be defined as love?

To be candid,he's making a salient point , if people were actually in love with their partners,these atrocities we see and hear about these days in relationships wouldn't exist at all. The truth is most people mistake love for affection,lust and infatuation. When you love someone,you wouldn't break your vow or promise to that person,kill that person or commit any kind of evil at all against him or her...

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Missonas(f): 5:48am On Jan 11, 2016

Did the op ever remarry?

Love does exists thats why we speaking about it today. That we often fail at getting it right is the human in us. We cant love if we dont love God simple.

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Missonas(f): 5:49am On Jan 11, 2016

AfroKnight:
Bro, I know you are a follower of Jesus. He said we should love others. Are you saying he wasted his words by asking us to love our neighbor?

All human love is conditional; even between husband and wife. We earn it. Step out of line and that love will wane. That is the true value of love. Accept it and reciprocate.

Remember, love costs the lover.

My points exactly!

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by ojnnaco(m): 5:54am On Jan 11, 2016

RadicallyBlunt:
I violate any law?

What's the F words all about ?

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Toks2008(m): 6:04am On Jan 11, 2016

UIA04:

He's probably talking from a broken heart people like the op are scared to open up to others easily I pity his wife with this his mentality
I can bet toks2008is a perfectionist what does he mean by only God is capable of love when we are created in the image of God abi has he heard of the love Jacob had for Rachel

How else can i change the way some people reason?

What is this about people being so myopic to jusxtapose what people write with their life?

Honestly it is an unintelligent way of reasoning.

Do you need to be told that love is a facade?or are you living in jupiter to claim ignorance of the daily happenings?

How many wives were killed last year by their husbands? please wake up from this perpetual delusion of always relating intellectual stuffs to the creator.

You can as well attribute every film writer life to the type of films they write...

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Toks2008(m): 6:10am On Jan 11, 2016

Missonas:
Did the op ever remarry?

Love does exists thats why we speaking about it today. That we often fail at getting it right is the human in us. We cant love if we dont love God simple.

See jamb question on top wettin i write out of my observation...infact when i wrote this i was so blank about me.

Nna e be like say women have a way of thinking that will forever be a mystery..ok since u dey ask me this jamb question,my answer is yes im so so hapily married to an angel with 2 lovely kids..how about that?

so does that change the fact that love is a hyped illusion?

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Nobody: 6:13am On Jan 11, 2016

ojnnaco:

What's the F words all about ?

U probably viewed d thread late. Op modified the title and its content.

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by 989900: 6:19am On Jan 11, 2016

HateU2:
Love develops from friendship. Build friendship first before thinking about love. If u marry ur frnd, ur life will never be the same. Frienship matters

#word

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Re: When your bae says "I love you" by 989900: 6:27am On Jan 11, 2016

HateU2:
Love is complicated. Yeah. We don't understand it ourselves. Love don't last. It's just for some months or some years. Some are lucky 2 find it while some will never find it. Some will only experience it just once in a life time. I prefer true friendship which is even scarce. So, just love yourself.

Here, you muddled up 'love' with 'infatuation'.

Infatuation: stronger than love, burns out faster than love, is blind, it's about 'my happiness', depreciates with time.

Love: not blind, but accepts imperfections with hope for a better tomorrow, grows over time, your happiness=my happiness, you win=I win, I win=you win, you fail=I fail, I fail=you fail, outlives even the 'lovers' (immortal -- never dies).

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Re: When your bae says "I love you" by ismyheal75: 6:27am On Jan 11, 2016

Just because you are incapable of loving or not having being loved as such doesn't mean true "love" doesn't exist. I agreed with some of your opinions; they are eye-opener.

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Vikky014(f): 6:29am On Jan 11, 2016

Toks2008:

Taaaarh..na lie.

am serious ooo. my uncle is an active member here

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by mascot87(m): 6:44am On Jan 11, 2016

Man or woman CHOOSE to love unconditionally if he/she wish to.

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by AdeniyiA(m): 6:47am On Jan 11, 2016

Toks2008:

It is a second name for trash

...and it's better left for LAWMA.

Seriously whenever I hear or see a marriage crashing, I ask myself, where is their first love demonstrated by these statements "I couldn't sleep, eat, or work without you by my side" , "I miss your presence every time" ,"you're my life" ,"my life is nothing without you"... etc, probably it wasn't actually a real love but lust/infatuation.

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by mcdonald247(m): 6:48am On Jan 11, 2016

Every body knows that all that glitters are not gold

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Vikky014(f): 6:49am On Jan 11, 2016

Good morning@ fullfilbill

let me share a story with you. one day i went to buy something with a female colleague after which i bought an airtime of 1500 to buy a data from MTN. the girl was like hey how can you use ur money and buy credit cant you call your boyfriend to send u a recharge card

dt she can never use her money and buy credit. i told her that she shld try and b independent for once so that her boyfriend wont b detecting her life..imagine a boy calling u to come spend the weekend in his house simple because he spends on you

now i hv never begged a guy for a recharge card since i was born. bt most times my male friends recharge my phone and i also recharge theirs too.....most people enter into boyfriend girlfriend relationship just bc of the benefit which is sex and money....when you dont want sex as a single lady wht is ur business in boyfriend relationship

Mr right can only hook up with Miss Right.

u doubt if i hv friends simple bc i dnt believe in boyfriend girlfriend relationship...you want to know if my male friends are all single

i dnt know wht u mean by being single because any guy that is not married with kids is single. so explain the concept of being single to me because am sure anytime you fill a form that requires your marital status you write single as ur status despite having a girlfriend.

Re: When your bae says "I love you" by HIbreed(m): 6:53am On Jan 11, 2016

When would gullible people learn, 'i love you' in my dictionary simply means 'i thank you'

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