naijaboiy:

But nobody was complaining.

Laveda:
But we can't date every guy we come across nau..some are worth the friendzone

I think the OP has made it clear that friendzoning an innocent guy is even worse than a cardinal sin.


If you can't/wont date him.. Tell him off.. Let him go.. Don't torture him for no reason.. You don't have the right!

kingstylo01:
this reminds me of a gal I so much cherished to the extent that I can even take a bullet for her. I love her so much and anytime she smiles at me, I feel she loves me. I have even started boasting about her in front of my friends.


if I tell ya what shocked the hell outta me back-to-back, you'll pity me. just last week Friday, I called her and told her that I will be coming to visit her on Sunday. I dressed up, sprayed a very nice perfume and with my Lamborghini I cruised to see her. Do you know that when I got to her house she was tying only wrapper? I was shocked but kept . she rushed up to me and said "my brother welcome". She then introduced me to her cousin as her class mate who helps her in assignment! I nearly cried but I maintained.



I never knew I was the chief laboratory officer of her friendzone department until I stumbled upon this thread.


Chai, ihaff suffered.

Laveda:
Its normal...at one point or the other...a Nigga must be on that list .. We can't always date everyone we come across....that "friendzone" suits some guys more..

falconey:


Shout out to all the 'brothers' in the friendzone.

Despite going to her house every sunday she ' never get dressed' for you.

She offers you FANTA and 'tells you everything'

starting with 'guys problem'
And later ask you to accompany her in 'hanging in groups' .

At the end of the day you'll get a peck and she'll say you are 'nice' for being with me all day and if you try to reciprocate by 'touching' her , she will give you a dismay look asking you have you been 'drinking'

nevi12:


Sounds lyk it to me......

The thread title is clear. "Eight[8] sure ways to know you are in the friend zone"

More like "ways to know a girl is not interested in you."

What's the complaint there?

naijaboiy:
seriously you both need to grow up.
Good you did that.

ronald4lif:


The mastermind, talking from experience?

naijaboiy:

Lol...true tho.

But have you ever wondered why guys who first asked you out but you chose to friend zone stopped communicating with you?

Diddyydiva:
so what do you suggest we do?

you are welcome

Laveda:
Sure... but I think I have an answer to that...but just from my own view sha...

There's actually no point keeping platonic relationship with a girl when you wanted something romantic ..on my part I wouldn't allow that..if I can't get what I want...lol its good we part ways cause still being friends with you would bring back some sorta emotions...

naijaboiy:

[fontonlyif]The thread title is clear. "Eight[8] sure ways to know you are in the friend zone"

More like "ways to know a girl is not interested in you."

What's the complaint there? [/font]

obiorathesubtle:
I think the OP has made it clear that friendzoning an innocent guy is even worse than a cardinal sin.


If you can't/wont date him.. Tell him off.. Let him go.. Don't torture him for no reason.. You don't have the right!

naijaboiy:

Just let the nigga go when you turn him down. Don't try keeping him as a friend.

If he decides to stay then it's a different thing.

naijaboiy:

Just let the nigga go when you turn him down. Don't try keeping him as a friend.

If he decides to stay then it's a different thing.

Laveda:
Sure... but I think I have an answer to that...but just from my own view sha...

There's actually no point keeping platonic relationship with a girl when you wanted something romantic ..on my part I wouldn't allow that..if I can't get what I want...lol its good we part ways cause still being friends with you would bring back some sorta emotions...

Cutehector:
u are right.. so I shouldn't be judged for deleting all d babes I wished to date.

naijaboiy:

You are right on point.

That's why I said if we need just friends we know where to go. A guy who asked you out wasn't dumb to know that if he needed just a friend he wouldn't involve romance.

So if you turn him down and he stops taking to you all of a sudden you don't need to force him to be your friend. He will come around later on if he's still interested in being friends or he'll just move on.

Some guys are just funny some wouldn't let go..they'll still wanna give it a trial to see if the girl can rethink...some guys are the major causes why we have high rate of friendzone..
They can't just move on.

Laveda:
That's true..but there some guys who wouldn't let go..in such case what do you do?
Some would say let's give it a trial things might work out...so you see? Sometimes the guys are at fault..

nevi12:


My dear am not jst referring to ur thread am only usin it as a point of contact to oda threads nd oda nairalanders who come ere evrydei talkin abt how one girl friend zoned or smtin if u r frendzoned nd u dnt lyk it u can leave it isnt a cage

obiorathesubtle:
every girl knows what to do to a guy who won't let go naaa..



Guys are at fault for being friendzoned? Wetin dat one mean.. Aunty??!

E mean say since they can't let go..they shouldn't complain when thrown in that zone

Cutehector:
u are right.. so I shouldn't be judged for deleting all d babes I wished to date.

Diddyydiva:
Most guys won't go , they believe we are playing hard to get or something. So they stay around, hoping that one day we will accept


One of the reasons we friend zone guys is not to sound rude

falconey:



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nevi12:


Hehe i knw say na ere i go find u

ronald4lif:


There are different categories of friend-zoning. One of such is where the lady has bluntly told the guy that she's not interested in him and would never date him and another is where she keeps stringing him along and giving him hope that she might consider him so as to continue fleecing him of his scarce resources.

The former is justified as the guy is stupíd to have maintain a friendship thinking it might lead to a relationship someday even after being told it can't happen. But the latter is callous and act of wickedness and yes the guys who complain about it even though they're silly their agitation is justifiable. Why should she be giving hope and allow him spend on her when she's aware she would never date him?

Thank you very much for explaining things clearly.

I actually didn't open this thread as a friend zone complaint thread. But from the way some of the girls are talking I think it's good we bring some things to their notice.

Some girls actually lead a guy on and make him think they are into him and then when he pops the question they turn him down. That,to me,is a wicked act and if a guy laments about that,then there is no problem about that for me.

Nevi12 hope you gerrit now?

ronald4lif:


There are different categories of friend-zoning. One of such is where the lady has bluntly told the guy that she's not interested in him and would never date him and another is where she keeps stringing him along and giving him hope that she might consider him so as to continue fleecing him of his scarce resources.

The former is justified as the guy is stupíd to have maintain a friendship thinking it might lead to a relationship someday even after being told it can't happen. But the latter is callous and act of wickedness and yes the guys who complain about it even though they're silly their agitation is justifiable. Why should she be giving hope and allow him spend on her when she's aware she would never date him?

naijaboiy:

Thank you very much for explaining things clearly.

I actually didn't open this thread as a friend zone complaint thread. But from the way some of the girls are talking I think it's good we bring some things to their notice.

Some girls actually lead a guy on and make him think they are into him and then when he pops the question they turn him down. That,to me,is a wicked act and if a guy laments about that,then there is no problem about that for me.

Nevi12 hope you gerrit now?