naijaboiy:

You sef know na.

Girls dey wey boys don friend zone steady and e still dey happen sef.

What are these girls talking about the power of friend zone being in their hands.

So what will they call the ones the guys friend zoned?

naijaboiy:

You sef know na.

Girls dey wey boys don friend zone steady and e still dey happen sef.

What are these girls talking about the power of friend zone being in their hands.

So what will they call the ones the guys friend zoned?

Deejavuu:


Bottom line is most people on cyber space are fake. They hurt offline but come online to form "commando "

The ladies these things happen to everyday in the real world are they different from the ones that have account on the Internet. Abi na robot everybody be.

Diddyydiva:
Until there is a statistics showing who is been friend zoned more ,


No you didn't

statistics?

I'm not arguing on who gets friend zoned more. Guys lament more about being friend zoned simply because they are the ones who ask girls out.

Ladies also get friend zoned too. And it's not RARE or HARD for it to happen. You lot simply live in denial of it.

Friend zoning someone is not something to boast of as you girls are making it look like it's one thing of pride to put one guy aside because he expressed his feelings.

We do it to girls too and we don't broadcast it.

No girl will come here and lie that she hasn't liked any guy who was close to her but he didn't ask her out.

Friend zoning is not gender based. Anybody can friend zone and also be friend zoned. Be you rich or average,handsome or average looking.

ronald4lif:




Gbam. The character behind that post has been coming off as a misandrist lately and I don't know if she's trying to induce amusement or she's just being farcical. But either way, man-hating won't help her and she's not funny in any way if that's her intent.

It's either some of them are being mischievous, or their hoity-toity attitude is an outright display of lack of exposure and/or perhaps they might have been misconstruing the butt-licking by some thickheaded members of my sex on this forum as true value of their worth. But sadly, cyber appraisals and idolatry isn't in consonance with reality.

nevi12:
.

It's still a win-win situation for d gurl cos u wldnt get anytin frm her buh in d case of guys uld be in our friend zone nd still be a maga ontop

nevi12:
.

It's still a win-win situation for d gurl cos u wldnt get anytin frm her buh in d case of guys uld be in our friend zone nd still be a maga ontop

[b]Your thought process is really pathetic though and I'm really shaking my head and laughing at the same time for your myopic mentality.

Can you kindly settle down and take a look at what you typed up there?

That he wouldn't get anything from her?how can a guy who has turned you down still want something from you? Is it not clear that he doesn't want anything to do with you in the first place,hence he friend zones your ass.

With what you stated it seems you are one among the girls who place so much importance to that part down between your legs so you think when a guy gets that coochie then he has gained something great from you. In other words that's all you have to offer and nothing else.

Also you seem to forget that we guys will actually not lose anything if we don't want to. If you ask a guy out or show him green light and he makes a move on you it doesn't necessarily mean he likes you. So he can use the fact that you like him as a very big advantage to fùck you and dump you.

So in all honesty you should really be grateful to the guys who just friend zone you without trying to take advantage of you.

Finally if you know you have friend zoned a guy but you decide to keep eating his money because he decides to stick around,have it in mind that the enjoyment is temporary. Don't come and rant on Nairaland when he rapes you or does something worse.

Win-win situation kor?

Madam change your mentality because you are beginning to sound like that teenager I just talked to. [/b]

nevi12:


Sweetie let dem argue all dey want buh we both knw being frend zoned is totally d gurls decision

refiner:
oh!never knew it was naijaboiy dat opened dis threat....thought it was cutehector.....

well I av nofin to say in dis issue.....cos I cannever fall in Lov.....so all my male folks are ofcos friend zoned....and Dey are still happy....

You can "NEVER" fall in love?

Deejavuu:


Bottom line is most people on cyber space are fake. They hurt offline but come online to form "commando "

The ladies these things happen to everyday in the real world are they different from the ones that have account on the Internet. Abi na robot everybody be.

naijaboiy:

You can "NEVER" fall in love?

vlynn:
Nice write up, naijaboiy. You said it just the way it is. And yes, females get friend -zoned too. We just don't talk about it as much.

Thank you for being honest.

refiner:


yea dear,I can actually spit it out but I rarely av feelings for guys.....its nt a fault of mine.....my nature I fink...

Lool you've just not met him yet.

naijaboiy:

Lool you've just not met him yet.

Laveda:
That's true..but there some guys who wouldn't let go..in such case what do you do?
Some would say let's give it a trial things might work out...so you see? Sometimes the guys are at fault..

vlynn:
Nice write up, naijaboiy. You said it just the way it is. And yes, females get friend -zoned too. We just don't talk about it as much.

naijaboiy:

In my opinion,those type of guys are the ones who have low self esteem.

If you have turned a guy down and he refuses to leave,instead he hangs around hoping one day you may reason with him then such guys deserve to be thoroughly locked in the friend zone cage and the key thrown into the Nile.

But from what I know majority of guys,myself included will never hang around a girl who has turned me down. I'll move ahead cos I know what I wanted. I was not looking a friend so I'm definitely not settling for that.

The problem here is that some guys turn it into a personal beef of some sort and they have resentment towards the girl. That's when maturity needs to come into place.

obiorathesubtle:
I guess I'm the only guy on Earth who has never been friendzoned.. And I owe it to my strict policy




If we won't _fuck;_fuck off..

Estharfabian:
Really?? You know where to go??

LoL! Yes, I'm not A guy but I do know that if I actually liked someone that I couldn't be with(Romantically?)...I'd sure as hell settle for friendship! and I wouldn't come lamenting daily on Nairaland!!

LoL! fyi...Guys don't frienzone girls! they can't afford to..

PS--if it's really more HEARTBREAKING/PAINFUL to girls..how many posts on NL have You seen about females complaining bout being friend-zoned? how many? what's that? NONE!!!!!!

refiner:
oh!never knew it was naijaboiy dat opened dis threat....thought it was cutehector.....

well I av nofin to say in dis issue.....cos I cannever fall in Lov.....so all my male folks are ofcos friend zoned....and Dey are still happy....

jaykaylegend:
HOD, friendzone department

Estharfabian:
What's so bloody bad At being Friendzoned abeg??

So, Its now a crime for a girl to have a cherished Male bestie? ehn?
boys ehn....

if she's Friend-Zoning you...it's A privilege..!Many would kill to be in Your shoes!
You should be happy rather than lamenting/wailing.... the only difference is You won't get the cookie....Which shouldn't be a problem Atall...

Deejavuu:


Smh for you and your mentality. Same you that was arguing when ronald4lif was trying to explain to you in plain terms. Y' all should stop using guys as a means to an end, stop giving the classy girls that don't see guys as a means to a meal ticket bad names. What's a win win in "magaing"a guy. It's shamelessness

Umm am startin to get confused ere whoz side r u on abeg abi is ur moniker beginning to affect ur sense of judgement....if a guy is being " magaed"he shld knw is it not hismoney? will d gurl force him to buy her tins?.hes only buyin her tins to c if she can change her mind......

naijaboiy:

Those ones just have destroyed ego and low self esteem.

naijaboiy:

[b]Your thought process is really pathetic though and I'm really shaking my head and laughing at the same time for your myopic mentality.

Can you kindly settle down and take a look at what you typed up there?

That he wouldn't get anything from her?how can a guy who has turned you down still want something from you? Is it not clear that he doesn't want anything to do with you in the first place,hence he friend zones your ass.

With what you stated it seems you are one among the girls who place so much importance to that part down between your legs so you think when a guy gets that coochie then he has gained something great from you. In other words that's all you have to offer and nothing else.

Also you seem to forget that we guys will actually not lose anything if we don't want to. If you ask a guy out or show him green light and he makes a move on you it doesn't necessarily mean he likes you. So he can use the fact that you like him as a very big advantage to fùck you and dump you.

So in all honesty you should really be grateful to the guys who just friend zone you without trying to take advantage of you.

Finally if you know you have friend zoned a guy but you decide to keep eating his money because he decides to stick around,have it in mind that the enjoyment is temporary. Don't come and rant on Nairaland when he rapes you or does something worse.

Win-win situation kor?

Madam change your mentality because you are beginning to sound like that teenager I just talked to. [/b]

Lovelynature:
Yeah, but how do we know when she's playing hard to get? That's why I don't bother going after a girl who start with much shakara and excuses again, as I don't know if she mean it or playing hard to get. And most women like playing hard to get which is not that necessary.

I believe "forming hard to get" and 'friendzoning" a guy are two different things I don't know why y'all mix them up

If you ask a girl out she doesn't give you an instant answer maybe she starts telling you 'I'll have to think about it,I have a boyfriend, No for now I ain't interested' you can term that hard to get......but in a situation where by she's giving you that sisterly love you're deep in that zone.....Naijaboiy listed all the points already..

nevi12:



It might Sound myopic to u buh dats wats happenin inour world today..he is d one spendin its his choice to stop......if he knws hes in d frendzone nd keeps spendin on her nd later rapes her or smtin den dat one is pure evil....nd ild still maintain dat d power ofbeing friend zoned still depends on d gurl whether she asked u out first or d oda way round

Finally u wanna to tellme d tin btw a normal gurls leg isnt important? I wasnt expectin dat frm u dat shld come frm d "vaseline crew"

Your sense of reasoning though ...seriously you need to grow above this mentality.. You're arguing over what doesn't make sense...

Girls get friend zoned

naijaboiy:

Those ones just have destroyed ego and low self esteem.