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I Don't Know Who To Believe by nickyblinky(f): 5:04pm On Jan 12, 2016
Like seriously am so confused right now.
I went to visit my BOO,when I got there,his mother was the first person I saw,i greeted her and she told me "he is inside".when I get inside, I met him eating .
to cut the story short,he told me he want to take his bath,he step out to get something, then his mother entered the house,he quickly rush back looking restless seeing his Mum talking to me, his mother later step out he then follow her .
she later came inside when my BOO has already gone to take his bath, she started telling me how his son(my Boo) his treating her, that he don't care about are well being,that he also talk very rude to her.she was saying all this with tear, I wept for her but the must surprising part was when she told me she hasn't eaten since morning,and there is food in the house.when she Notice he was coming,she told me not to tell him what she has just told me,if he ask me.when the came he ask me what were we discussing I lied to him,but the expression on my face told him something else.
I remember he told me sometime ago, that his mother want to meet me so that he can report him to me that he don't drop money for her,but I didn't believe him,i took it as joke. he also told me how his mother abandoned him when he was still a child,that he was the one who look for his mother from PH to delta state,that he don't even know his mother until she called his native name.
why I am confused now,he always complain he don't have any money with him because of his mother expenses and other things,am not the demanding time, now his mother is saying he doesn't take care of her,and if he give birth he won't come to him if not only because of the wife.
now I don't even know who to believe.
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by TrapLORD(m): 5:07pm On Jan 12, 2016
Any man who doesn't cherish his mother is a terrorist. -Lai Mohamed

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Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by Collinberg(m): 5:09pm On Jan 12, 2016
If u don't know who to believe,then u should believe in Jesus Christ grin grin grin ..Anyways,we can't just make the answer appear from thin air,u have to covertly do ur own research cos we don't know ur Boo nor his Mother so we can't judge their character and know who's likely to lie.. Goodluck tho,u'll need it

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Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by Godmother(f): 5:09pm On Jan 12, 2016
Touching story and for the mum to be reporting her son to you it means the ill-treatment is really heartbreaking. Try and talk to your guy about it. Why is he rude to her? He should change from that. Also, how old is she? What does she do for a living? Doesn't she have anyone else to help her out financially? And why would she go hungry when there's food in the house.
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by eleko1: 5:09pm On Jan 12, 2016
believe in GOD nd yourself make u nor jam a beast
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by Nobody: 5:09pm On Jan 12, 2016
I'm confused too...that family has so much baggages..now it's up to u if u wanna carry their baggages in life or u will juz move on from that mess. cool
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by brunofarad(m): 5:15pm On Jan 12, 2016
Pathetic
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by sinaj(f): 5:16pm On Jan 12, 2016
Ur English oooo!






Dear u av to run for ur life!

If he doesn't treat d woman dat brought him to diz world with respect, I think u will b as good as a trash pusssy sooner or later sad
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by Nobody: 5:19pm On Jan 12, 2016
oga o...c wetin u type.
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by Nobody: 5:19pm On Jan 12, 2016
Okay. Op, wat measures have u taking so far to reconcile the mother and her son together
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by Nobody: 5:20pm On Jan 12, 2016
KashyBaby:
I'm confused too...that family has so much baggages..now it's up to u if u wanna carry their baggages in life or u will juz move on from that mess. cool

my thinking too, better leave trash for lawman
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by nickyblinky(f): 5:21pm On Jan 12, 2016
Godmother:
Touching story and for the mum to be reporting her son to you it means the ill-treatment is really heartbreaking. Try and talk to your guy about it. Why is he rude to her? He should change from that. Also, how old is she? What does she do for a living? Doesn't she have anyone else to help her out financially? And why would she go hungry when there's food in the house.
I think she should be in her 60s but not that strong,My boo told me he has elderly
ones but they are not around and not ready to help, She also told me that she is going to move out of the house and start her clothes(use remain)selling
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by Emac34: 5:43pm On Jan 12, 2016
sinaj:
Ur English oooo!






Dear u av to run for ur life!

If he doesn't treat d woman dat brought him to diz world with respect, I think u will b as good as a trash pusssy sooner or later sad


Wats wrong wit her English miss know all
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by njiasi30(f): 6:17pm On Jan 12, 2016
Tell him all u know and hear his own side of d story. Also see if u can unite them. U never can tell....
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by bronzegoddess(f): 6:29pm On Jan 12, 2016
Well...he's an omo ale somebody.
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by tpiah2: 6:32pm On Jan 12, 2016
KashyBaby:
I'm confused too...that family has so much baggages..now it's up to u if u wanna carry their baggages in life or u will juz move on from that mess. cool
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by tpiah2: 6:32pm On Jan 12, 2016
so what should we do here btw?
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by tpiah2: 6:33pm On Jan 12, 2016
Collinberg:
If u don't know who to believe,then u should believe in Jesus Christ grin grin grin ..Anyways,we can't just make the answer appear from thin air,u have to covertly do ur own research cos we don't know ur Boo nor his Mother so we can't judge their character and know who's likely to lie.. Goodluck tho,u'll need it
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by Nobody: 7:43pm On Jan 12, 2016
I'm seriously finding it hard to believe this because how can one treat his mum this way??
If this is true, I'll advice you to flee o.... The Bible didn't say walk, it said FLEE.... lol
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by nickyblinky(f): 9:16pm On Jan 12, 2016
njiasi30:
Tell him all u know and hear his own side of d story. Also see if u can unite them. U never can tell....
I don't really know how he will feel or react toward his mother,because must of the time if I talk about his mum, he quickly change the topic
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by nickyblinky(f): 9:22pm On Jan 12, 2016
Oma307:
Okay. Op, wat measures have u taking so far to reconcile the mother and her son together
The thing is that whenever I bring up issues about his mum he quickly change the topic
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by MzLaurel(f): 9:31pm On Jan 12, 2016
Hmmmm. I feel for the old woman cry

You need to speak to the guy, cos you're the only solution with the old woman's predicament.
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by nickyblinky(f): 9:33pm On Jan 12, 2016
I really want to tell him about all that his mum told me,but I don't know how he is going to react toward it,i don't know if he might confront his Mum about it.I really need you sincere advise
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by OKUCHI11(m): 9:51pm On Jan 12, 2016
Hmmmmmmmmm ...... This is super story .......yyeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee a life Of thrive and Sorrows
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by nickyblinky(f): 11:29pm On Jan 12, 2016
OKUCHI11:
Hmmmmmmmmm ...... This is super story .......yyeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee a life Of thrive and Sorrows
please it is not super story
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by tpiah2: 11:33pm On Jan 12, 2016
nickyblinky:
I really want to tell him about all that his mum told me,but I don't know how he is going to react toward it,i don't know if he might confront his Mum about it.I really need you sincere advise

aunty, ejo yi ti poju.


abeg stop disturbing the man and his mum.


you too tell them about your own mum.
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by njiasi30(f): 5:08am On Jan 13, 2016
nickyblinky:
I don't really know how he will feel or react toward his mother,because must of the time if I talk about his mum, he quickly change the topic
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My dear,he is still feeling d pains dat his mother abandoned him .until he forgives her, he won't be happy with her or want 2 talk about her.u just ve 2 find a way,maybe when he is in a happy mood.
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by Vikky014(f): 6:48am On Jan 13, 2016
i dont have any business with a man that doesnt take care of his mum
Re: I Don't Know Who To Believe by firstking01(m): 7:04am On Jan 13, 2016
My dear, i'd advice u quit the relationship till your boo is ready to explain what's really happening between his mum and him..

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