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His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by solidman59(m): 11:16am On Jan 14, 2016 |
A friend of mine, has been working for a year now with a decent salary and has just rented an apartment for himself but his parents are now against him for doing that. I just want to get your opinions on this because I think it's ok bearing in mind that this dude is 28yrs old now. Was it a bad decision? Is he too young to? Plz mods I beg of you, just give this one special attention, his parents are saying they will excommunicate him if he finally moves out. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by Dojupyo(f): 11:18am On Jan 14, 2016 |
He's not too young or old to get his own house..... He should see reasons with his parents why he shouldn't get a house yet.. I'm one of those who listen to mama and papa cos virtually when you obey them, they get to live long.. I started staying on my own when I was 18yrs plus, so a 28yrs old fully grown man isn't young to get an apartment... All he needs to do, is to make his parents understand why he should get a house... 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by hob(m): 11:23am On Jan 14, 2016 |
What kinda parents are these End time Parents 53 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by ayogabriel: 11:29am On Jan 14, 2016 |
Okay, I am about the same age, I got a job in ph where I stay with my parents, and my dad said, I shouldn't wait for him to chase me out before I know I will move out, in one of his talks, he said after 3 month of working one should start thinking of moving out, that is his own take. He is expects me to start been independent and leave my comfort zone. Staying with parent and earning a sizeable/fat pay, will make u relax and not cautious of your self, staying on your own, gives one more awareness of been responsible, and other things that comes with it... if you all know what am talking about. in your case at OP, parents can be over protective atimes, in this part of the world, parents wants the best thing for there children except them, been who they want to be. 1 year is more than enough. Chao bro 86 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by Dyt(f): 11:29am On Jan 14, 2016 |
Well They are just worried He's got money and scared he will mismanage it He should talk to them and assure them he's gonna be fine 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by Hadassahisbae(f): 11:39am On Jan 14, 2016 |
diz not fair..how will he explain to his bae or frndz dah he lives in d-same roof wid his parent at 28..itz shameful 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by solidman59(m): 1:33pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Me sef the tin tire me cuz the guy's of age Dyt: |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by solidman59(m): 1:40pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Mods this is a very important topic. Lalasticlala wake up from your sleep, food don done 2 Likes |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by Addicted2Women: 5:44pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
You won't have the freedom to bring in any girl. You can't go clubbing. The monitor every movement you make. 9 Likes |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by Nobody: 5:44pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Is he the only son,why treat him like a baby...And am sure the mother would be the champion of the cause 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by BCISLTD: 5:44pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
they have their reasons 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by bikerboy1(m): 5:44pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
HMMMM.... His parents are not serious. His mates @28 are already married and settled with 2kids, They still busy pampering him to live with them. Like I said before, They are not serious. Unless they have personal reasons the OP didn't share with us. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by auntysimbiat(f): 5:44pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
cool |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by Flashh: 5:44pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
At what age did your parent stop giving you baby feeder? Get back to me, then I will advice you. 9 Likes |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by repogirl(f): 5:45pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Parents are different..... Some are clingy, some no send if you miss(like my own, lol). Anyway, its best to hear them out on their reasons and also give them his. They need to talk and then he can come to a decision. Easier said than done sha. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by MrFrigid(m): 5:45pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Honestly i intend starting my family at 28 so i don't think his too young btw my sis husband was 28 when they got married nd they are doing fine. So ur fwend is not too young maybe the kind of lifestyle ur fwend is into is the reason why his parents are concerned. 4 Likes |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by Nobody: 5:46pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
There is more to it than what you just shared here. You need to find out from his parents as well. Then comeback here for other people's opinion. solidman59: |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by BIGTinfotech: 5:46pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
If sincerely His parents feel He's not matured, then it's a good thing for them to be worried. Otherwise, no parent would not applaud such decision that comes with responsibilities cos it implies their son is now a grown man. 2 Likes |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by free2ryhme: 5:46pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
solidman59: Just tell us your parent are against you owning an apartment at your age 4 Likes |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by wolewolsz(m): 5:46pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
He should be shuffling between both houses when the need arises, seems the parents don't want him to go probably with the fear he could forget about them in the long run 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by Holamidhe(m): 5:46pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Tell him to pray Blame it on Aregbesola 1 Like |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by mazidavos(m): 5:47pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
What are the reasons for their disapproval? |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by Ecoterrorism(f): 5:47pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
All this mommy pets and my friend stories. Mtsewww how can I advise your friend when he is not on nairaland 6 Likes |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by Adonis86(m): 5:47pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
What's your business... Stop drinking panadol for another man's headache. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by free2ryhme: 5:47pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
when they enjoying themselves and he got a job we no hear anything ooo now he rent an apartment and we no go hear word for nairaland |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by MilesLamar(m): 5:48pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Ha |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by sagio09: 5:48pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
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Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by Gsmooth51: 5:48pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
bro its not a good decision even even at 25..after NYSC..Abeg change base straight up |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by demolinka(m): 5:48pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Very divicult caize |
Re: His Parents Are Against Him For Wanting To Get His Own House by Goridoe(m): 5:49pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
i can only see the guy as Omo Mummy.... i can say its inappropriate and at the same time call it the Strong Love his parent got for him.. to the extent that they dont want him to be far from them... but all the same 28years old, haba, its inappropriate.. 1 Like |
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