Touching! Take heart bro

Kimberly60:
I met her when she just graduated from Madona okija, she is from Edo state and lives in Benin, she was all I wanted in a woman, am ibo, I live and work in Ph, I will make it brief, we have dated for 2yrs now, her mom is aware of my efforts and struggles towards this relationship, to be sincere I have loved this girl with all my life, sometime in August 2015 I engaged her in her church, she accepted to marry me only to get home and her mom asked her to return the ring, she can't marry me cos am ibo and she is Benin, secondly am not very rich, and I practically have nothing to offer her, finally she is the only Gurl, Hmmmmm she never wore the ring for one day after d engagement, I kept complaining but all to no avail, she never made me see her put effort to be with me, I kept complaining, I can't count the number of times I drive to Benin just to see her, if I say 40 times God knows it's too small, I have introduced her to my family and making arrangements for marriage only for her to chat me up saying the relationship is over, she cant continue, am in deep pains, deeper than you can imagine, telling me she is the only girl of her mom, am trying so hard to move on, her mom knows so well my efforts, she never stopped the relationship all the while, when her daughter was posted to delta for service I drive all the way from ph to Edo to pick her and take her there, I can boldly say through out her service year not for once did she go to her PPA alone, all of a sudden I have nothing to offer, God will Judge them all. They deceived me: they will forever struggle and at the end have a worthless end, I write this in pain, I just need an advice on how to move on, is it wrong loving a girl who isn't your tribe?

Barram:
Lalasticlala

Kimberly60:
I will forever struggle and at the end have a worthless end

franzis:
funny how some parents take decisions over their children, am ibo,my dad was telling the other day not ever bring a woman who is Yoruba, benin or calabar and he couldn't still give me any reasonable reason,

Kimberly60:
I met her when she just graduated from Madona okija, she is from Edo state and lives in Benin, she was all I wanted in a woman, am ibo, I live and work in Ph, I will make it brief, we have dated for 2yrs now, her mom is aware of my efforts and struggles towards this relationship, to be sincere I have loved this girl with all my life, sometime in August 2015 I engaged her in her church, she accepted to marry me only to get home and her mom asked her to return the ring, she can't marry me cos am ibo and she is Benin, secondly am not very rich, and I practically have nothing to offer her, finally she is the only Gurl, Hmmmmm she never wore the ring for one day after d engagement, I kept complaining but all to no avail, she never made me see her put effort to be with me, I kept complaining, I can't count the number of times I drive to Benin just to see her, if I say 40 times God knows it's too small, I have introduced her to my family and making arrangements for marriage only for her to chat me up saying the relationship is over, she cant continue, am in deep pains, deeper than you can imagine, telling me she is the only girl of her mom, am trying so hard to move on, her mom knows so well my efforts, she never stopped the relationship all the while, when her daughter was posted to delta for service I drive all the way from ph to Edo to pick her and take her there, I can boldly say through out her service year not for once did she go to her PPA alone, all of a sudden I have nothing to offer, God will Judge them all. They deceived me: they will forever struggle and at the end have a worthless end, I write this in pain, I just need an advice on how to move on, is it wrong loving a girl who isn't your tribe?

tpiah2:


what is wrong with you dating and marrying your fellow Igbo?

tonychristopher:


Stop These cries beacsue of woman ...us her toto gold...igbo men are known to be hard ...I doubt if you are igbo

You are a disgrace

What happened to igbo women from Delta , anambra enugu and imo

Guy man up

You are not igbo but ibo

That has been noted

A lot of wanna be

cyprus000:
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What do you expect we tell you?.."sorry" or "your Gf mom is wicked", So it can feed your sense of self pity.
Only weaklings expect that, and I will not be part of that.

It is provoking that a self acclaimed man will turn himself to a "weepy cushion", over sundry things.

I mean, why on earth will you dignify a GF with that sort of attachement and importance when it is evident that the feeling isn't reciprocal, from a girl who claimed to love you and can't stand her ground against ethnic barrier for your sake.

Hey bro, learn to prepare for the worst and pray for the best.
Nobody apart from your family should be accrued this type of importance.

This is why I tell guyz not to love in a relationship. Let her do the loving while you reciprocate to be on the safe side., while at it, make sure you prepare yourself for betrayal,disappiontement...the world is cruel and you have to learn to live in it to avoid something abysmal.



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FTBOY:

oga, stop spewing thrash from the corner of your mouth! what do you mean by igbo men are hard......are igbo men no longer humans with flesh and blood? and is it compulsory that he marries from his own tribe? are igbo girls from delta, anambra, enugu or imo angels? wtf are you saying? maybe you've never experienced true love and heartbreak in your life.....i don't expect you to understand