this is Africa , our men are different, especially in ideologies. ladies know their men better, if he is a man that can handle the truth abt ur past, tell him. if it is the other way round then you can keep it to urself.
toke isn't totally wrong, but she over talked is all.

Michellla:
no quit?

Next time understand before responding.

You say shes quite shallow...

i responded with 'quite?' meaning you flatter her by saying quite as she is indeed truly shallow.

SMH

jmoore:



Next time ask before you spew nonsense.

Lol an online monkier can'taffect me .sorry ugly .

refreshrate:


Next time understand before responding.

You say shes quite shallow...

i responded with 'quite?' meaning you flatter her by saying quite as she is indeed truly shallow.

SMH

oh sorry!! my bad

cruzita:
why would the man want to know about my past when we are in the present?

If there r things u find yourself wanting to do and deep down inside u believe yoy won't be proud to talk about it in future then stay away

Abortionists are murderers; they are no better than shekau the boko Haram leader. No amount of sugar coating or fancy words can change that. no amount of calling Nigerians hypocrites can change that.
ABORTIONISTS=MURDERERS
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NEXXXXT

nkemdi89:
Most people condemning her are worst than liar mohammed, they will do exactly what tope said. Hypocrisy is the major plague in Nigeria.

U are so on point this is practical Nigerian men expect their women to be Angels in human form provided it doesn't affect ur fertility pls don't ever tell him else the day u will fight with u as a couple he will call u abortionista, slut and all sort of name they commit more terrible things which include abortion but will never tell their wife to be so am wit toke on dis. Hypocrites everywhere

fresherdanU:
this is Africa , our men are different, especially in ideologies. ladies know their men better, if he is a man that can handle the truth abt ur past, tell him. if it is the other way round then you can keep it to urself.
toke isn't totally wrong, but she over talked is all.

don't be too sure about that. The ones u think u know better are the ones that will surprise u the most especially on a sensitive issue like abortion.

I mean, eh, the fashionable, cool thing to say these days is to call anyone who dares speaks against immorality hypocrite.
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Yeah
You say fornication is bad; ah he's a hypocrite
You say adultery is bad; ah he's a hypocrite
You say abortion is evil; ah he's a hypocrite
You say cheating is bad; ah he's a hypocrite
Basically, what they all expect you to do is to sit down, shut up and watch the world goes buuuunnkkum.
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Yeah very soon anyone who speaks against boko Haram will be termed hypocrite.
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Yall are sick

I'm sorry 2 disappoint some nairalanders, as a guy, I'll advice my babe 2 keep d abortion secret within her, becos I can't handle it if u review it 2 me, d moment u say it out 2 me...... U nd I knows is over btw us, so keep it 2 urselve if u luv me. I don't wanna know

to me o! I totally agree wif toke ... a man won't tell u all his dirty past..y shld u now tell him urs.. btw all dose ladies saying wah she said is wrong..they are d type that would now come on "LIB" asking for advice. dah their man left dem after they told him they've had an abortion bfr..... Ur past should b Ur past.. tz no1'z bizness!

This year will probably be an anti-celeb year. See the trashy advice she's giving. She must have a seared conscience to say that.


And another is the bulk of ladies that would still streamline to this 'crap' and start using it!


Buhari caused this.

DICKtator:
Cum under fire?

Have she dead?

Did she survived it?

May God help us ooo.

Don't know what Lagos is turning to
Ambode what is happening?

lmaooo, you're hilarious.

from d abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh

Toks2008:


kilagbe kileju?

Una dey read at all before una comment.

I made reference to having confidence in marrying an after one rather than an abortionists which takes every focus away from the issue of virginity so please take your mind off that aspect and focus on the point im making.."IF YOU DO THE THING AND GET PREGNANT..HAVE THE BABY"

Omo bibi ki n se arun(Having a child out of wedlock is not a disease but aborting it is not only a crime but can damage your womb.)

Na you go come tomorrow ans write an epistle on babymama

Abortion is not dangerous if carried out by an authorised professional i.e a doctor and at the appropriate period

Vikky014:
please i take God beg you. dnt quote my handle again just state ur opinion and move on u dnt hv to quote me

I am going to quote as long as you are on this site

sexyexcalibur:



not wanting to marry a non virgin is not judging then...
wanting a brand new car does not mean I hate fairly used cars...

the compound I stayed in school thought me a lot... and my prayer always is, father if my wife is like this somewhere ryt now, may I never meet her... truth

Amen!

What have you experienced that is new under the sun?

If you want a virgin, you must also be a virgin!!!

catryn19:
to me o! I totally agree wif toke ... a man won't tell u all his dirty past..y shld u now tell him urs.. btw all dose ladies saying wah she said is wrong..they are d type that would now come on "LIB" asking for advice. dah their man left dem after they told him they've had an abortion bfr..... Ur past should b Ur past.. tz no1'z bizness!

I disagree. there are lots of things we do that might come back to bite us in future which could also affect the ones close to us. A woman whose womb is damaged would be wicked to marry a man who wants his own kids without disclosing her problem to him

Only few women tell the truth about their pasts anyway, forgetting that their pasts have a lot to do with their future. If your other half who is going to be the closest to you for the rest of your life doesn't know where you have been and coming from, how is he going to understand you and be there for you? Tell the truth the first time, and if he leaves, then he's not yours. Lies can't build a true relationship.

Some even lie about their virginity. If you started having sex at 15, so fuckkin what?

doveda:

like ya momma

You can yap all you want, the good thing is that u won't say it to my face. I am sure your parents are not married, how dare you bring my mum into this forum? Don't let me know your real identity though.

Sacluxpaint:


You can yap all you want, the good thing is that u won't say it to my face. I am sure your parents are not married, how dare you bring my mum into this forum? Don't let me know your real identity though.

I will say it to your face

How dare you call her a h.oe?

My real identity? I am waiting o. Dem no born you well if you no recealt am?

doveda:

I will say it to your face

How dare you call her a h.oe?

My real identity? I am waiting o. Dem no born you well if you no recealt am?

Is this Toke herself? Don't try being a feminist hero abusing my mother because u won't survive it.

Exactly my dear.

missyadorable:


Even a true christian will react! Keep ur dirty pasts to yourself and God

DICKtator:
Cum under fire?
Have she dead?
Did she survived it?
May God help us ooo.
Don't know what Lagos is turning to Ambode what is happening?

wat type if grammar r u speaking

Sacluxpaint:


Is this Toke herself? Don't try being a feminist hero abusing my mother because u won't survive it.

Aren't you dumb?

doveda:


Aren't you dumb?

I won't dignify you with any further response, I have said my own. If you like abuse your generation, I won't reply you, just don't say it to my face. Your attitude shows that you have the same upbringing of a pros,titute.

Sacluxpaint:


I won't dignify you with any further response, I have said my own. If you like abuse your generation, I won't reply you, just don't say it to my face. Your attitude shows that you have the same upbringing of a pros,titute.

What is this one saying now?

I don talk my own o

GurlFriend:
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Toke Makinwa is now one day, one trouble. She has come under fire again for telling women to lie to their significant other about their past abortions.

In a video posted to Wazobia FM’s Facebook page, the OAP who doubles as a vlogger, responded to a question from a female fan who asked if she should open up to the man she was dating about her history of abortions. The fan said she had previously had an abortion and that the man she was dating is pro-life (someone who hates abortions).

In her response, Toke Makinwa said, “Are you a learner? When I read your email, I almost slapped you from my laptop. How can you even think of confessing? You dey craze? Was he there? Was he the doctor?

She added, “Do you like men that carry prostitutes? Would he tell you if he carried a prostitute on Sanusi Fafunwa street? Shine your eyes. Men feel as if they can handle the truth but if you tell him that’s the last time, he’s ever going to call your phone.

“My response to that is hell no! Deny like your life depends on it. LIE! After all he wasn’t there.”

Judging by the response the video got on social media, many Nigerians were upset that Toke Makinwa who recently reconciled with her husband after he had a child with an ex-girlfriend would give such advise.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/01/toke-makinwa-under-fire-for-telling.html

Toke is just a disgrace to womanhood.

wytecat:
Only few women tell the truth about their pasts anyway, forgetting that their pasts have a lot to do with their future. If your other half who is going to be the closest to you for the rest of your life doesn't know where you have been and coming from, how is he going to understand you and be there for you? Tell the truth the first time, and if he leaves, then he's not yours. Lies can't build a true relationship.

Some even lie about their virginity. If you started having sex at 15, so fuckkin what?

Marriage is no longer what it used to be, even if it were, we know how they behaved in those days when their wives couldn't bear a just a male child. Things haven't changed, you can use Nairaland as a case study. Concepts like 'love' or 'For better for worse' do not encompass abortion, at least in most cases.

flokii:
that's totally wrong... a girl should open up with reasons why she had to do abortion

and of course the number of times (will determine whether she z marriage worthy or not)

I can't end up skipping sleep for vigils and prayer consultations over someone's past reckless and wayward lifestyle..

this comment of yours is what will make ladies hide their abortion status

creamylicious:
this comment of yours is what will make ladies hide their abortion status

I once knew a girl then that did 9 straight abortions..

diff. guys were just sleeping with her anyhow on d same street... and very beautiful girl at that

twuz her younger sister that told me tho. cos we were friends.. she probably overheard her discussing it

A guy that does not want to know his wife's past is either V E R Y E V I L, V E RY D U M B or BOTH!!