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MY Worst Experience With *being Loved And Loving. by Honesty007(m): 8:24pm On Jan 14, 2016
I am an Introvert, shy and also know that a lot of girls like me very well.But the problem is that i can't treat one above the other.
I always have to treat them equally.The most dangerous thing with girls/women is when you don't know they are loving you or when you don't expect their love.
I personally don't like such type of girls because they can go to such an extent to do crazy things, also they can scare other girls who they see as a stiff challenger or someone in the way.
God forgive me but i have suffered my worst nightmare and it would never happen again!!

In 2006, i went to a computer college in Lagos state, Iyanaipaja *name witheld for certain reasons*
If you saw me back then , you would know or rate me wiff the likes of wizkid,davido and olamide now for outwears.The one thing i lacked then was swag. I never had swag to toast or do anything.I was so shy.Then i had joined facebook in 2005 but i didn't know how to use the Network.

After some months i began to learn, first i got reckless with girls of all sort and types,sent msgs,PMs to them.I uploaded pics of my authentic nike wears and addidad and vangelis shorts.
Still with all this brouhaha, i don't have the temerity to use all thes e stunts and swag to my advantage. After 3mths in that computer college, i now began to see girls positively and try to be bold in approaching them.
I tried as hard as i could but i couldn't speak as my heart palpitatd whenever i wanted to speak.its only English i could speak.Bad enough, my relatives who owned the college thought i was a yahoo boy!!!
This was because all the clothes i wore then was from the US and the footwear, route 66, nike,adidas.
The girs there 2paced me.i began to have breakthrough intalking to them by helping them out in desktop publishing.I didn't want to toast anyone.
It worked, i got number, i had a lot of them but * i can't call them GF.i can't because * do u wanna kill me*.
Then i was happy seeing them all, i had 3 closest who were mariam,Joy, cecilia.
I had others too but they never knew i liked them. One thing about me was that am not the Jealous or possesive type so these girls can move with other badoos.

On my grad day from the college,one of these amiepies took my photograph till today and refused to return it.I was like this girl sha.
10 years after, i have lost contacts with all of them.i wrote down their numbers somewhere in my diary and then i packed out of the place leaving it behind in an MRA.
In 2010 ,i came across a certain girl.it was not through social media but it was through my own brother.The first day we walked out together,i made a mistake of letting her see my Facebook account.
When she saw all the girls i had there as friends,she went to report to her parents.
Before i came to know her, i told my brother to show her my pics.it was one of those pics in my fbk album * confirm pics*
see me see trouble ooh, i never knew what this girl was thinking.My mind was ,it was a normal thing so she would still pass and go.I didn't know that i have to discover that people live fake lives on social media.If you want to meet people on social media real life, they can scam you or blackmail you.They can lie or pretend or exercise strange attitudes.
This girl opened my eyes to such attitudes. Sarah*not real name* after seeing my pics just kept cool and took me as a stranger.she was not lively as the day i called her before and her mother was even there.I felt horrible the way she reacted the first time.I just felt embarrased. She behaved strange.Although she is the quiet type and from a strict home. I was wondering why someone i called on sunday didn't come on monday to her home and when she came on Tuesday , even after recognising me through the pics my brother showed her would now pretend like she doesn't know me.
I picked up courage ,now we were staying together in her house.After 3 weeks i noticed she was the quiet type ,but proud. She and my bro had something together.All the places we went to,i noticed i was treated like a stranger.The only time she got my attention is rough play with her.
As stupid as i was, i continued to play rough with her.I touched her in places that were sensitive.
.....to be continued
Re: MY Worst Experience With *being Loved And Loving. by Jofreshguy: 8:32pm On Jan 14, 2016
Honesty007:
I am an Introvert, shy and also know that a lot of girls like me very well.But the problem is that i can't treat one above the other.
I always have to treat them equally.The most dangerous thing with girls/women is when you don't know they are loving you or when you don't expect their love.
I personally don't like such type of girls because they can go to such an extent to do crazy things, also they can scare other girls who they see as a stiff challenger or someone in the way.
God forgive me but i have suffered my worst nightmare and it would never happen again!!

In 2006, i went to a computer college in Lagos state, Iyanaipaja *name witheld for certain reasons*
If you saw me back then , you would know or rate me wiff the likes of wizkid,davido and olamide now for outwears.The one thing i lacked then was swag. I never had swag to toast or do anything.I was so shy.Then i had joined facebook in 2005 but i didn't know how to use the Network.

After some months i began to learn, first i got reckless with girls of all sort and types,sent msgs,PMs to them.I uploaded pics of my authentic nike wears and addidad and vangelis shorts.
Still with all this brouhaha, i don't have the temerity to use all thes e stunts and swag to my advantage. After 3mths in that computer college, i now began to see girls positively and try to be bold in approaching them.
I tried as hard as i could but i couldn't speak as my heart palpitatd whenever i wanted to speak.its only English i could speak.Bad enough, my relatives who owned the college thought i was a yahoo boy!!!
This was because all the clothes i wore then was from the US and the footwear, route 66, nike,adidas.
The girs there 2paced me.i began to have breakthrough intalking to them by helping them out in desktop publishing.I didn't want to toast anyone.
It worked, i got number, i had a lot of them but * i can't call them GF.i can't because * do u wanna kill me*.
Then i was happy seeing them all, i had 3 closest who were mariam,Joy, cecilia.
I had others too but they never knew i liked them. One thing about me was that am not the Jealous or possesive type so these girls can move with other badoos.

On my grad day from the college,one of these amiepies took my photograph till today and refused to return it.I was like this girl sha.
10 years after, i have lost contacts with all of them.i wrote down their numbers somewhere in my diary and then i packed out of the place leaving it behind in an MRA.
In 2010 ,i came across a certain girl.it was not through social media but it was through my own brother.The first day we walked out together,i made a mistake of letting her see my Facebook account.
When she saw all the girls i had there as friends,she went to report to her parents.
Before i came to know her, i told my brother to show her my pics.it was one of those pics in my fbk album * confirm pics*
see me see trouble ooh, i never knew what this girl was thinking.My mind was ,it was a normal thing so she would still pass and go.I didn't know that i have to discover that people live fake lives on social media.If you want to meet people on social media real life, they can scam you or blackmail you.They can lie or pretend or exercise strange attitudes.
This girl opened my eyes to such attitudes. Sarah*not real name* after seeing my pics just kept cool and took me as a stranger.she was not lively as the day i called her before and her mother was even there.I felt horrible the way she reacted the first time.I just felt embarrased. She behaved strange.Although she is the quiet type and from a strict home. I was wondering why someone i called on sunday didn't come on monday to her home and when she came on Tuesday , even after recognising me through the pics my brother showed her would now pretend like she doesn't know me.
I picked up courage ,now we were staying together in her house.After 3 weeks i noticed she was the quiet type ,but proud. She and my bro had something together.All the places we went to,i noticed i was treated like a stranger.The only time she got my attention is rough play with her.
As stupid as i was, i continued to play rough with her.I touched her in places that were sensitive.
.....to be continued
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