It's really vexing when people don't know the right words to say when it comes to Virginia related issues. Girls r branded Non-virgins cuz their so-called mother or traditional representative claims their Hymen has been torn.

Some traditions insist that Newly weds must bring in their bed spread for examining after first S3x. A way to check if the woman is a Virgin and to prove that the marriage has been consummated. And if the spread shows no blood stain, she's banish! I mean, what dha fvck? And the guy has to move on. Even after screwing her?

That's just a scope that Female Virginity is valued more than Males'.


So lemme educate the Ignorant ones;

The Hymen is a FLEXIBLE THIN Muscle that surrounds the Vagina. It covers just about 40-80% of the Vagina(which houses the Vulva and Urethra opening).
If it covers much area, it could lead to intense pain during first S3x and maybe more. And the bleeding that results isn't cuz his ding dong 'torn' it, it's cuz the force being applied broke a blood vessel on the Hymen. Which could be a result of poorly lubricated intercourse

Someone saying, "My Hymen isn't broken yet so that means I'm a Virgin" is just plain wrong. The Hymen do tear(mostly cuz due to surgical operation) But what it does, what it's meant to do is EXPAND. That is, creating more opening to the Vagina.

I've read stories- Africa related- that some mothers do check the daughter's Vagina and if there's an opening, she's no more tagged a Virgin and I'll be like

IF THE HYMEN DOES COVER THE WHOLE VAGINA THEN HOW DO MENSTRUAL FLUIDS EXIT THE BODY? HOW ARE, NON VIIRGINS' GIRLS ABLE TO USE TAMPONS TO HELP STOP/SLOW THE FLOW? WOULDN'T THE 'WASTE' BE STUCK INSIDE THE VIRGINAL?

The only way the Hymen expands is by (frequent) exercise, Sex being it masturbation or a strange guy with a penis digging life outta you, and even as little as walking also contribute to this expansion.

Note: Females with their Hymen covering the entire Vagina, pls seek a doctor to help cut some out, if not all.

So the only time that's safe to ask her, "Are u (still) a Virgin?" should be after noticing that the Hymen has over expanded and try to make sense of her response.

Husbands/bf saying their lovers are not virgins cuz she didn't feel anything or scream in agony. True, it could be that she had lots of Sex. It could also be that her daily activities has expanded the tissue or/and that your stuff is not big enough to cause her that agony.

##IF YOU DO NOTICE ANY PUN..IT WASNT INTENTIONAL. I'VE BEEN HARD ON MYSELF LATELY##

Cc lalasticlala

No mind them.. Girls claiming Virgin everywhere you go

Hehehe

Theanonymous9:
It's really vexing when people don't know the right words to say when it comes to Virginia related issues. Girls r branded Non-virgins cuz their so-called mother or traditional representative claims their Hymen has been torn.

Some traditions insist that Newly weds must bring in their bed spread for examining after first S3x. A way to check if the woman is a Virgin and to prove that the marriage has been consummated. And if the spread shows no blood stain, she's banish! I mean, what dha fvck? And the guy has to move on. Even after screwing her?

That's just a scope that Female Virginity is valued more than Males'.


So lemme educate the Ignorant ones;

The Hymen is a FLEXIBLE THIN Muscle that surrounds the Vagina. It covers just about 40-80% of the Vagina(which houses the Vulva and Urethra opening).
If it covers much area, it could lead to intense pain during first S3x and maybe more. And the bleeding that results isn't cuz his ding dong 'torn' it, it's cuz the force being applied broke a blood vessel on the Hymen. Which could be a result of poorly lubricated intercourse

Someone saying, "My Hymen isn't broken yet so that means I'm a Virgin" is just plain wrong. The Hymen do tear(mostly cuz due to surgical operation) But what it does, what it's meant to do is EXPAND. That is, creating more opening to the Vagina.

I've read stories- Africa related- that some mothers do check the daughter's Vagina and if there's an opening, she's no more tagged a Virgin and I'll be like

IF THE HYMEN DOES COVER THE WHOLE VAGINA THEN HOW DO MENSTRUAL FLUIDS EXIT THE BODY? HOW ARE, NON VIIRGINS' GIRLS ABLE TO USE TAMPONS TO HELP STOP/SLOW THE FLOW? WOULDN'T THE 'WASTE' BE STUCK INSIDE THE VIRGINAL?

The only way the Hymen expands is by (frequent) exercise, Sex being it masturbation or a strange guy with a penis digging life outta you, and even as little as walking also contribute to this expansion.

Note: Females with their Hymen covering the entire Vagina, pls seek a doctor to help cut some out, if not all.

So the only time that's safe to ask her, "Are u (still) a Virgin?" should be after noticing that the Hymen has over expanded and try to make sense of her response.

Husbands/bf saying their lovers are not virgins cuz she didn't feel anything or scream in agony. True, it could be that she had lots of Sex. It could also be that her daily activities has expanded the tissue or/and that your stuff is not big enough to cause her that agony.

##IF YOU DO NOTICE ANY PUN..IT WASNT INTENTIONAL. I'VE BEEN HARD ON MYSELF LATELY##

I have a question. What if you had sex or attempted to and you didn't bleed, but you really felt PAIN and you don't actually feel like you have been disvirgined, are you still considered one?

Thank you for this post brother

dovelike:

I have a question. What if you had sex or attempted to and you didn't bleed, but you really felt PAIN and you don't actually feel like you have been disvirgined, are you still considered one?

no

ellacute45:
no

OK. I have one more question

If you have Bleep. ... you are no virgin

If you have romance ... you are no virgin

If you have anal. .. you are no virgin

If you have kiss passionately ...you are no virgin


Weather or not your hymen there or not

If tou5have not done d above... Virgin you are [quote][/quote]

I think I like dis post

dovelike:

OK. I have one more question

ask

ellacute45:
ask

If you've had sex once and abstain for a very long time, your v-jay jay will still be tight, right?

our men can be ignorant to the core.abeg help us tell den

dovelike:

If you've had sex once and abstain for a very long time, your v-jay jay will still be tight, right?

Yes. .

MhizTessy:

Yes. .

OK. Thank you . But then what's the difference between that tight v-jay jay and the virgin one? That means you can't really tell the difference BTW a girl that had sex once and a girl that haven't had sex before.

This is going to front page # cc lalasticlalal

dovelike:

OK. Thank you . But then what's the difference between that tight v-jay jay and the virgin one? That means you can't really tell the difference BTW a girl that had sex once and a girl that haven't had sex before.

Technically.

Having Sex expands the hymen. Thereby, giving more way to the Urethra and Vulva. But so do exercise, walking, riding a bike, stretching N' leaning to get something.

So (technically) you can't tell.

Theanonymous9:


Technically.

Having Sex expands the hymen. Thereby, giving more way to the Urethra and Vulva. But so do exercise, walking, riding a bike, stretching N' leaning to get something.

So (technically) you can't tell.

Hahahahaha. Abeg tell them boyz.

Thank you a lot though. I didn't know where my v-jaj jay was until I was 15

noun (plural virgins)A person who has never had sexual intercourse, or sometimes, one who has never engaged in any sexualactivity at all.(informal) Preceded by a noun, a person who has never used or experienced what is denoted by the noun.synonyms
♦ (person who has never had sexual intercourse) maiden (dated; used of a woman only), virgo intacta (medical term; used of a woman only), vestal

adjective (not comparable)In a state of virginity; chaste, not having had sexual intercourse.Of a physical object, untouched.Of olive oil, obtained by mechanicalmeans, so that the oil is not altered.Of mixed drinks, not containing alcohol.synonyms
♦ (of a physical object) brand new, pristine,unspoilt, untouched

ok then, judge yourself. Virginity isn't bleeding or tearing anything. it's more psychological Dan physical.
when everything is still follow come

dovelike:

Hahahahaha. Abeg tell them boyz.

Thank you a lot though. I didn't know where my v-jaj jay was until I was 15

Hope u didn't finally see it the hard way

You're welcome!

Theanonymous9:


Hope u didn't finally see it the hard way

You're welcome!

No. My friend took me to a room and showed me a book, then I felt around for it and I said "there you are!!!"

dovelike:

No. My friend took me to a room and showed me a book, then I felt around for it and I said "there you are!!!"

Something tells me that you are missing out, on purpose, some vital info. But I believe you.

Theanonymous9:


Something tells me that you are missing out, on purpose, some vital info. But I believe you.

Eh looking for dirty talk. She is a girl and her mum is a nurse.

dovelike:

Eh looking for dirty talk. She is a girl and her mum is a nurse.

But...

Theanonymous9:


But...

...?

dovelike:

...?

I want the dirty part

Theanonymous9:


I want the dirty part

Oya leave me alone now

dovelike:

If you've had sex once and abstain for a very long time, your v-jay jay will still be tight, right?

yea