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Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by oladimejioo: 9:01am On Jan 16, 2016 |
Bro, I write this with heavy heart, I know Life or Ladies may be unfair, but even an average thinking guys or ladies would hide this from their boyfriend or girlfriend. The way forward: 1) Sit her down and ask her the root or when she started experiencing the situation. 2) Ask about the role she has played in solving the problem. 3) Ask about the role of her parents. 4) If you are a born again or Alfa pray about it, ask for God intervention and "fi ese Ile tooo". 5) If after that no sign of improvement, consult your physician or Doctor and seek medical advice. All the best......... Please get marker use in hospital to avoid drying of bed everyday. Instead you wash the bedsheets and not dry bed everyday. Remember she will be psychological unbalance and will need your support now so she can get through it easily. |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by onunwa21(m): 9:03am On Jan 16, 2016 |
Check if she have VVF.......take her to VVF Centre Abakaliki....... |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by chukzey442(m): 9:13am On Jan 16, 2016 |
Try to get a water proof bed to start with. Then seek medical/psychological help. |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Adek15(m): 9:13am On Jan 16, 2016 |
stevecantrell:pls how is this pelvic exercise being done |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by stevecantrell: 9:15am On Jan 16, 2016 |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by midehi2(f): 9:21am On Jan 16, 2016 |
XaintJoel20:someone i know 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by InHim4Him(m): 10:21am On Jan 16, 2016 |
Give her a tablespoon of PURE honey morning and evening. Let her reduce her water intake towards close of day. Wake her up at night to empty her bowels. You will be glad you did in a short while. |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by lasisi69(f): 10:28am On Jan 16, 2016 |
[quote author=duchess25 post=42023293] ur own daftness no be here ooo. did he say it happens during s.ex eeeh. lasisi69 abeg come see this end time Nairalander ooo.squirting ko squatting ni[/quote... 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by USMANSEGUN(m): 10:31am On Jan 16, 2016 |
You need to get a spritual help. I mean local herbs and herbal doctor. Just be sure you get a right one to do the cure. Dotmax53: |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by eminent007(m): 10:33am On Jan 16, 2016 |
murphyrichy: @Op: please for the sake of your unborn children, disregard this advice. If you don't, don't come back to ask for advice on how to solve bigger problems. Marriage na for better for worse. True she lied, but if you knew would you have married her? Since you said you love her, then lover her more and help her find solution to the issue. 1. Pray for her and with her. 2. Wake her intermittently @ night to pee. 3. See a doctor. 4. Then pray some more. Well, that's all. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by eroticecstasy: 10:39am On Jan 16, 2016 |
2dice: you wan kill amm? |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by eminent007(m): 10:47am On Jan 16, 2016 |
UTMOST10: Click?! Click what?! smhfy |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by FRANKOXY(m): 10:48am On Jan 16, 2016 |
Go to any nearby teaching hospital and seek for a ganeocologist |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by ohonyema: 11:06am On Jan 16, 2016 |
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Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by jenny2007(f): 11:07am On Jan 16, 2016 |
Op, I have read all comments by other contributors on this topic. Pls do you watch Emmanuel TV, that's T.B Joshua's channel on Dstv? There are so many cases like your wife's in there. So many women go to SCOAN with same problems and are delivered. First of all, try going to a urologist. If that doesn't work then go to Synagogue, believe me you will be amazed by the Grace of God. Pls support your new wife. Goodluck |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Justjyde(m): 11:13am On Jan 16, 2016 |
Dotmax53: My brother, you don't have to loose your mind. You can use a combo of techniques. Technology: There are alarms that can wake a deep sleeper up once it detects wetness around where the sensor is placed. Check Amazon.com for options. In the mean time, apply some form of mattress (wearable & zipper fitted) waterproofing (preferably under the bed sheet: at least that can be washed daily). Spiritual: Because this is not very common occurrence, I cannot rule this out. Carryout investigations and find out if there is a history of this in her family or if it has always been like this. Is she from a polygamous background? She needs to be open to you on all these; even if you will be upset with what you will find out. When you have some background, you can know how to effectively pray and seek for help. Calm down, this is the kind of things we find out when married. Fix it and enjoy your lover (who is now your wife)! |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by glossy6(f): 11:27am On Jan 16, 2016 |
Lizabeth25: O.k. counsellor, she will keep on sleeping in men's houses awaiting proposals or engagements Abu? If it doesn't work, she will move on ![]() Am not forming JW. That its a practice among peoplw does not make it a godly standard. :\ |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by niyi123: 11:30am On Jan 16, 2016 |
I don't know what is wrong with people this days. Are you trying to disgrace your wife or yourself, must everything be brought to public forum, why cant you seek helps from someone close to you and after all, this is curable. |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Duru009(m): 11:48am On Jan 16, 2016 |
Wen we say testing its important in marriage. Some people we start talking rubbish...... Marriage its for life...... |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Duru009(m): 11:48am On Jan 16, 2016 |
Wen we say testing its important in marriage. Some people we start talking rubbish...... Marriage its for life. |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by joe4christ(m): 11:48am On Jan 16, 2016 |
Dotmax53: Oga, what other advice do you need. Just get yourself a resounding bedside alarm watch and keep it by the bedside, set a reminder, and make it 12am, 3am and 6am. Each time the alarm rings, wake her up to go and urinate. With time she won't be needing the alarm anymore, cos her psychological instinct will get used to those timing. Goodluck! |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by lumeneng22: 12:41pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
Don't worry she will soon get over it she is still very young.Just let her be drinking garri and tea with honey.h |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Nobody: 12:42pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
Babe, nothing is godly o. You want to know why most marriages fail? It's because they were trying to make everything godly in the relationship. Imagine a woman wetting the bed in her marital home! Abeg, when she start giving birth n her son/daughter join her, what will be d outcome? If the girl was godly, she should have open up to d guy before marriage or allow d guy to find out himself before marriage. I swear, if d guy truly loves her like d way I loved one dude with bad breath and even helped him to fight it, he will stay by her n help her to fight it. ![]() glossy6: |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by KingAdeOluomo1(m): 1:02pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
nseke:see talk oo Iranu |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Onyiido: 1:33pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
Nicepoker:well I didn't expect that she should tell her hubby about this in d 1st place. The only remedy is 4 her hubby to stand by her either via prayer or medication. I'm not in2 medicine, so I can't prescribe drugs for her. She should just go $ see doctors who deal in urinary disorder system. Good luck to their marriage |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Nobody: 2:08pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
[quote author=lasisi69 post=42025955][/quote] This is what I think too lol |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by KINGOZEK(m): 2:31pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
Very pathetic story. Please take Her to your doctor for medical examination. Meanwhile, dont be one minute man again learn Simple techniques to last longer in bed naturally and ways to give your partner Earth shaking Orgasm that she can never forget in Her life time. Check my signature for details |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Nobody: 2:43pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
Dotmax53:She's got an infection which she got either through sex, toilet, or by inheritance. If you love her take her to those traditional medical practioners. never take her to native doctors (Baba lawo) |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Nicepoker(m): 3:20pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
Onyiido:She has to let her husby knows. A problem shared is A problem half solved. moreover they are sleeping on same bed so she can't hide it. |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by mariekay: 3:53pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
Seek spiritual help let them use pankere mimo to flock out the evil spirit maan ! ![]() |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Onyiido: 4:25pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
Nicepoker:Fear of losing him may had been the cause of her not telling him. I'm not against the woman not telling him @ first. If she had, he may have stood by her $ help her through. Though its not yet late, I'd ask d hubby to stand by her. This is not the time to apportion blame. |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Nobody: 4:59pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
First adult bedwetting is not new, it is not abnormal and for the records it is is increasingly rampant these days maybe because of lifestyles. . **the word here is *manage*, most times going through medical cure might be rigorous, expensive and most time the problem is not solved completely. I have seen many of such cases. And by experience I can tell you it is also hereditary.Well my advice is manage it well, research(Internet is your friend), this condition varies, some it happens once in a while, some it happens every night and even daytime so long as they sleep. Some it is inconsistency in holding the urine once the bladder is full, some it only happens when they eat or drink certain things, you know, so find the articles related to her own case, and learn the best way to manage it. You can also visit the hospital, don't be ashamed infact this problem should be a binding/bonding factor for you too for believe me if you show a woman(or even a man) love and support in such times, mehn she will love you madly and blindly. While you do all these let her monitor her fluid in take, especially in the evenings before bed, let her empty her bladder as often as possible, now this is where you as the husband ve got work to do. You must wake her at least once during the night. Get a mackintosh( just like those they use in making leather chairs) get the one that can cover the whole bed. Put it on before the bedspread this way you both enjoy your sleep on your comfortably and in case it happens at night, you only have to wash the bedspreads above all let her STOP ALCHOHOL intake entirely and minimize sugar intake. Best wishes. |
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