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What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex. by hapheeyxz: 5:27am On Jan 17, 2016
WHAT A HUSBAND NEEDS FROM A WIFE IS NEVER SEX.


Sex is an important element in marriage and until there is sexual intercourse between a husband and a wife, the marriage is not yet spiritually recognised. This shows how important sex is in marriage.

When you look at how agressive men are towards sex you may think that what a man needs from a woman is sex. Of course, if he has not married you yet or he does not really intend to marry you what he will need from you is nothing above your body. But if he really intends to marry you or if you guys are already married sex is never what he needs from you - maybe let me say it better; "WHAT A MAN NEEDS MOST FROM A WOMAN IS NOT SEX."

Many young girls think because they are sexually active and experience they will easily be married and have their husbands loving them. And when a man approaches for marriage they think the greatest asset they have to show the man is sex. Others also think once they are giving out their bodies it means they are giving out the best for which reason they will be chosen above all.

There is this young girl who is very beautiful and sexually active. Due to that she thought sex is all that matters to a man. Ironically, she struggled for long before finally getting married. Her sexual dexterity could not win her the heart of a man until out of the blue and reason beyond imagination a very handsome good man married her. The wedding was grand and her tears were now gone. Unfortunately only a year after the wedding the marriage fell on rocks. Within five years three different men came her way but none could stay.

The problem was simple. She thought sex was all that matters so she would never submit. But submission is what men need, not sex. It is time for our young ladies to know that when a man is ready to marry he will not look out for a woman who will satisfy his sex drive but a woman who will submit herself to him. Excuse my language, "every woman has vagina but not every woman has humility." So when you are a humble woman, you are an expensive jewel. And a man of integrity will fear to lose you.

What does the holy book say, "wife, submit to your husband." The reason is that a man's true love goes out only for a woman who is sub missive. Your beauty cannot make another woman ugly but your humility can let him love you above all other women.

Sadly, many young ladies in our days call submission as "control." And you will hear them saying in tiny romantic voices, "As for me I don't want any man to control me oh." If you don't want to submit don't think of marriage because no man in his right sense will offer his love to a woman whose heart is higher than his height, no matter how short he may be.

When a woman bows her knee before a man, the man will automatically bow his heart before her love. And love her sincerely. There are, of course, recalcitrant men who will not value women of humility but I tell you that every true man does not need sex, but submission. It is submission that truly makes you a romantic wife. So be the African queen you want to be but when it comes to dealing with your husband, play the role of a humble maid. Don't forget that it is the spirit of humility that has caused many maids to hijack their mistresses' husbands. Be your man's queen and be his maid also.

I wish you all the best as you submit in your relationship and marriage. May God bless you with good marriage, my dear sisters'.

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Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex. by gabinogem(m): 5:36am On Jan 17, 2016
What I need from a lady is wisdom. With wisdom all other things falls in place... Ladies u people should always pray for wisdom. Seek and ye shall find it.
Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex. by ironheart(m): 6:07am On Jan 17, 2016
Submission makes a man fetch water for a woman 20km away on his head
Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex. by Nobody: 6:20am On Jan 17, 2016
Well, dis makes sense but to guys sex is a form of a bond. If they don't get enough of it they will definitely get it from another place.













Sex will always be important to men
I rest my case
Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex. by gomzy121: 6:26am On Jan 17, 2016
[s][/s]of course being humble and submissive pays 80% due of wife materialism in a woman, so I subscribe to that.
but op nawaooo how come u say every woman has vagina but not all has humility,
Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex. by Nobody: 6:28am On Jan 17, 2016
HateU2:
Well, dis makes sense but to guys sex is a form of a bond. If they don't get enough of it they will definitely get it from another place.













Sex will always be important to men
I rest my case

yes it is to them

Bt some men married to p*rn stars stil cheats

Men loves affection as mch as dey love sex nd dey love submission they love a good cook nd a gentle lady ow to balance all of them is wat matters most.

Bt crazes like us grin too cold to keep us too hot leave us

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Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex. by feldido(m): 6:58am On Jan 17, 2016
Yea, Respect and submission and you'll see the love flowing... Sex can be gotten anywhere and cheap for that matter, so keep that behind and be submissive. But Today's women will never head to these simple principles.
Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex. by lecturerdabo(m): 7:06am On Jan 17, 2016
sickstars:


yes it is to them

Bt some men married to p*rn stars stil cheats

Men loves affection as mch as dey love sex nd dey love submission they love a good cook nd a gentle lady ow to balance all of them is wat matters most.

Bt crazes like us grin too cold to keep us too hot leave us

Yes u are right! Hope those points will be addressesd soon!!
Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex. by Nobody: 7:15am On Jan 17, 2016
lecturerdabo:


Yes u are right! Hope those points will be addressesd soon!!

grin at d same time if a guy wants to stay he wud dats ow men do

No matter ow good a girl is no matter wat she does if d guy doesnt love her he doesnt
Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex. by IamLEGEND1: 8:13am On Jan 17, 2016
see this why I start getting panic attacks anytime marriage is mentioned.

why on earth would I want just 'humility' or 'sex' ? but apparently women are only able to offer one or the other.she's either a total vixen in the sack or a dove...there is no package deal.

call me an oliver twist,an idealist or whatever....I don't care.... coz I want it all.:

I want her sexy, i want brilliant, hardworking,understanding,just all-round awesome.......if I don't get me my trapQueen,then fūck marriage..... ain't nobody got time to settle for a mundane existence.
Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex. by hapheeyxz: 10:49am On Jan 17, 2016
gomzy121:
[s][/s]of course being humble and submissive pays 80% due of wife materialism in a woman, so I subscribe to that.
but op nawaooo how come u say every woman has vagina but not all has humility,
My lecturer will call that a bitter truth
Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex. by crismark(m): 11:29am On Jan 17, 2016
sex follow sha...especially dis days wen gals get nothing to offer
Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex. by Nobody: 11:38am On Jan 17, 2016
OP. Nice one, tho some men mistake Submission as Weakness.
Re: What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex. by engrsyer(m): 11:46am On Jan 17, 2016
For me humility is the password to my heart and I can present even my head on your table to eat.

I guess it's not difficult to ask from a woman.

Though sex surely counts but not my priority because it can even be gotten with at least #1000 from sex workers for short time but "humility"? Hmmm, I rest my case.

Nice job op

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