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Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 4:45pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
Nubian113: Mediating and pondering are actually mutually exclusive. Mediation is supposed to quiet your mind and to bring you into a state of relaxation. Once you have mastered this, you will be able to control your thoughts to your advantage and this is true self-empowerment. See, most people suffer from an incessant noise in their heads and most of their thoughts focus on problems. Focusing on problems and things that we don't like affects our mood negatively. So if negative thoughts affect our mood negatively, positive thoughts affect our mood positively. So be a rebel and think positively and you will become the happiest person in the world, just like me. ![]() It is funny how people believe that once they get the relationship they dream of or a fancy car or house or their dream job, they will live happily after but once they get it, they want more and so they never feel true satisfaction. I am not talking you out of your desires. All I want to tell you is that you can be unconditionally happy by mastering the Art of Meditation and by doing so acquiring full control of the way you think and perceive the world, life and other people. And please, do not make an effort out of it. You want to be good to yourself, you want to enjoy life and you want to be happy and have full control over your happiness. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 5:00pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
Mindfulness. I read this book or should I say I practiced this book:The Magic by Rhonda Byrne - and I am now able to control my thoughts where as before my thoughts ran rite. I am very conscious of my thoughts now and I do not let a single negative thought in without counteracting it with a positive. What I mean is I have my thoughts on check and I change them like I change my clothes. I am in full control of my mood and thoughts thanks to this book. I know the car, the house and the job won't make me happy because I have my happiness in check NO ONE OR NOTHING ELSE can make me happy but me and yes this discovery/Pearl of wisdom is what i live by. One can not add or take from my happiness but the most one can do is make me laugh and smile by giving me jokes. I will revisit meditation this year. 5mins a day to start with. 1 Like |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 5:43pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
Lezz how are you this evening? |
Re: Tea With Lola by lezz(m): 5:54pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
Nubian113:I'm well had a fun filled weekend and a lazy start today. Spent 10 minutes analysing your dp and wondering what kind of body God must have bestowed on a face like yours. |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 5:56pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
lezz: ![]() ![]() |
Re: Tea With Lola by lezz(m): 6:09pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
Nubian113:Nubby, I love blushing ladies, shows your level of Oestrogen is high. You just gave me an implicit description of how you'd react in bed ![]() |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 6:12pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
lezz: Black women don't blush na wash ![]() |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 6:17pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
Ehen lezz ![]() Uve been relegated to sude bobo till further notice ... ![]() How r u 2 @ nubian113 n lezz ![]() |
Re: Tea With Lola by lezz(m): 6:19pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
Nubian113:Oh they both blush. White chicks only redden in the face and neck, black ladies flick thier eye balls Or experience a mild tsunami inside |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 6:24pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
StrawberryCream: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 6:26pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
lezz: Flick their eye balls ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 6:29pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
Nubian113:I don tell am ![]() |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 6:33pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
StrawberryCream: I'm well hun thanks for asking and how's your day been. |
Re: Tea With Lola by lezz(m): 6:41pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
StrawberryCream:Ah, But you're my burning flame! All the water in the Kanji dam cannot quench. Is your love so swift and vengeful? You left me with an empty stomach and a full groin. But my love never wavered. |
Re: Tea With Lola by lezz(m): 6:46pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
Nubian113: ![]() You won't know until I leave you heaving with soaked panties |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 6:54pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
Nubian113: Wonderful! |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 6:55pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
lezz: If wishes were horses |
Re: Tea With Lola by lezz(m): 7:07pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
Nubian113:it's a reality,are you telling me you never had othe experience? |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 8:52pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
lezz:Ok ![]() |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 8:53pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
Nubian113:Just had dinner , im full n good ![]() |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 9:04pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
Rhonda Bryne is a seasoned writer though - if you've read The secret, or seen the movie depiction. She produced it. |
Re: Tea With Lola by lezz(m): 9:43pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
StrawberryCream:that's my girl. Cheer up! My heeart beats for you. |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 12:39am On Jan 19, 2016 |
lezz: Lol I meant IF your wishes were horses. I'm very well looked after in that department. ![]() |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 3:15am On Jan 19, 2016 |
Nubian113: ![]() |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 5:23am On Jan 19, 2016 |
darkenedrebel: Amazing theory she put to practice and see her life. I am ready for the hero now. Her books are not for reading but rather for practice. I'm finally ready to be the hero in my story. I really can't wait. "Give pound, give me euro, give me dollar, give me yen. I'm international... PAY ME" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 5:24am On Jan 19, 2016 |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 5:34am On Jan 19, 2016 |
Nubian113:Sup? How are you? ![]() |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 5:38am On Jan 19, 2016 |
Nubian113: I don't think any good book is just for reading alone. There's gotta to be an element pragmatical in it, or it's worthless. •Good morning Dimp ![]() I think we are experiencing the Solstice. The night seems to be extremely short nowadays. |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 5:45am On Jan 19, 2016 |
darkenedrebel:An element yes her book its a whole not element that's practiced in order to achieve same goal. Lol self help that's what I'm getting at. ![]() darkenedrebel: It's the other way round for us now. Long nights very short days. Its not health I prefer the short nights cause you can nap during your lush long day ![]() ![]() |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 5:48am On Jan 19, 2016 |
Nubian113: I swear, it's like I just closed my eyes briefly & it's already morning. Damn it. |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 5:52am On Jan 19, 2016 |
darkenedrebel: Hahahaha your fingers run toooo fast ![]() |
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 5:53am On Jan 19, 2016 |
darkenedrebel: darkenedrebel: Drink coffee have a fa.g(cigarette) and you'll feel better. That's my remedy ![]() I hate nl ![]() Oya cum back ![]() |
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