hilaomo:
no am not,only saving up for my future wife ma,hope u understand the fact that I'm still schooling.

Mathematical:
...this is ludicrous ..the op is kinda stingy as she did explain her ordeal.. but let's be straight.. he's just a boyfriend and a student for God sake..we all know how Nigerian school life is.she should cut some slack abegii..what cogent thing have she contribute to his life,apart from sex and silly issue..we shouldn't be depending so much on our boyfriends

hilaomo:
I don't doh out cash to some1 who might jilt me for flimsy reasons,I'd rather save up my cash for the future if things work out fine.

olokpa11:
I would hv to disagree with u on this, he cannot give his gf 1000, but he can give her MONEY TO COME VISIT HIM. I don't think the Op deserves her

hilaomo:
I know but don't you think a student like myself have got little to spare aside my usual school fee...she knows exactly how i survive,just so shocked she could send this to me after all we've gone through.

olokpa11:
I would hv to disagree with u on this, he cannot give his gf 1000, but he can give her MONEY TO COME VISIT HIM. I don't think the Op deserves her

menumchi:
@op dis write up came from d bowels of her heart and it simply expresses a hof depression and devastation. I'd jst like to say a few things for the record and its to all guys especially students. First of all, ur book (s) and future should be ur priority. Secondly, ladies are 'wired' to receive which presupposes d fact that if u wanna hv a gf den be reaction ready to give and share in her financial demands (not a rule of thumb doh bt that's how our society has turned it be) unlike op who only give her money to come visit him and still expect her to get 'intimate' with him (judging from her write up doh cos u can't conclude until u hear frm both parties) him.......bros u can't eat ur cake and hv it.....
My humble submission @ op is for u to focus on ur studies and forget abt having a gf since u hv ur future as a priority so u dnt mismanage someones else 'wife' cos from ur reaction it follows u dnt even c a future with her as per she being ur wife.
#jstsaying.

hilaomo:
I don't doh out cash to some1 who might jilt me for flimsy reasons,I'd rather save up my cash for the future if things work out fine.

CHESTER48:
But let be matured here!!!Relationships are for the matured.How did u get a gf when u know how broke and u can't take care of her?The truth is always painful But this is just the tuth.like if u support the truth.share if u think he is doing the right thing

hilaomo:
no am not,only saving up for my future wife ma,hope u understand the fact that I'm still schooling.

Broadsway:
y waste her tym

Broadsway:
show some care niggur,dah same moni u r saving,u will still spend nt on ur future wyf but irrelivant tinx ...

hilaomo:
ain't wasting her time...we both just trying to see how best we can cope as couples if we eventually marry.she just change of a sudden,but that's her loss if some1 else is fielding her mind with those comparison tots friends always come up with.

hilaomo:
funniest thing is the fact,that she called not quite long trying to plead...of which I refused picking up,so she sent a text.

Broadsway:
u tink so?? Den u neva rili loved her

GoldenJulius:
Op, dis girl still cares abt u. Dis a real girl n she has spoken out, pls kindly adjust and stop lusting.

hilaomo:
Broad,I do no doubt...just having this tot that she's been listening to these guys,who entice chicks with flashy things.I spend within my income no doubt ,ain't going to steal to entice no 1,yet she no gree my own.The cash given to her when ever she comes,has always been there with or without the sex.

hilaomo:
I go try...just hope say dem no go put "DUDE COMMITS SUICIDE AFTER BEING JILTED BY A GIRL HE SPENT HIS TUITION FEE ON" on FP,some time from now.

hilaomo:
I go try...just hope say dem no go put "DUDE COMMITS SUICIDE AFTER BEING JILTED BY A GIRL HE SPENT HIS TUITION FEE ON" on FP,some time from now.

dreampraywork:
All d people calling OP stingy shouldnt rush to judge him oo. Do U all know bout his financial status? what if? what if?? what if The fingers arent equal my guys..

My Opinion
OP needs a lesson on how to spend for his Gf, meanwhile that girl is so wrong, her thinking should be set straight,a sane girl saying "HOW CAN MY FATHER BE GIVING ME MONEY WHEN I HAVE A BF"..That statement is so wrong!!!

hilaomo:
so funny the word independent has so been abused...in my early 20's,I don't attaching her parents responsibilities to mine,would only be considered foolish!!!if I was your brother would you advice I do such?

BaddieKay:
As my bro, if u are ready to date then u should be ready 4 d responsibilities

cyprus000:
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I felt irritated by that statement. The present day average naija girl, sees a relationship with a guy as a job opportunity. Very pathetic mentality.

I'm a person who loves to give, especially when not expected by the recipient, But feel disgusted when a person thinks that its his or her birthright to get favour from me when even my siblings cant command such influence.

Tho i think that the op should have been more generous. after all, we are all humans who ought to help in our own little way, but she is not in the position to tell him how to do that.

If she thinks that she is entitled to financial priviledge bcs of sex which is mutually beneficial by my on opine. Then they should redifine their relationship to strickly "olosho getting paid for services rendered", and by op's assertion. She gets over paid for that.
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