Hadez:
OK this is going to be a little long and weird.

I have a boyfriend who lives in Switzerland and we have been dating 3years now (before he left Nigeria for his masters) and we love each other (I think).
You know the whole stories about men hooking up with whites and all that. Though we don't talk again like before. We sometimes go a week without communicating not even on Facebook.

Now I have a guy in my department how has been asking me out for months now. This same guy will always send me gifts, takes me around, and sometimes gives me money (I never asked because my boyfriend sends me money too). Today he asked me to be his date to a friend's birthday party and I said OK because I was not going to be busy for the rest of the night.

To cut the long story short, he proposed to me in front of everybody today at the party and I was so dumbfounded that I couldn't think of what to say(I never expected that to happen because I made it clear to him I am in a serious relationship). I had to hug him to avoid embarrassment for him but I don't love him because he is a yahoo guy. But i think he loves me for real because he even introduced me to his parents when they came to check on him.

My problem now is that I can't date this guy because of what he is doing (apart from that, he is so romantic and I think I am crushing on him deep down) but my boyfriend is not showing me that affection anymore. I don't want to be a second girlfriend to any man. I want to be his first pieority.

Should I say yes to the man who loves me?

kaboninc:

Na wa oh
They way we spell words sef
Which one is mynd when you can easily type mind.

numericalguy:
@ OP, you are just a two timing, unfaithful, greedy girl.

Stick to your yahoo guy because you are both birds of a feather and I pray the long arm of the law arrest and jail you both.


As for the guy in Switzerland, I pray God opens his eyes to your unfaithful and deceitful life.

Julie95:
Since nairaland can solve ur problem, continue walking around with ur half baked brain.

Hadez:


Thank you sir. This really touched me

Decker:
Guys will never learn. Stop proposing to women in public. Propose to them in private, when the two of you are alone. Then would you know if she is completely honest about accepting your proposal.
When you propose to women in public, they may say "yes" just to save you and themselves from embarrassment, not that they really want to. And then you will be putting them in a tight situation. Be wise! Please!

Decker:
Guys will never learn. Stop proposing to women in public. Propose to them in private, when the two of you are alone. Then would you know if she is completely honest about accepting your proposal.
When you propose to women in public, they may say "yes" just to save you and themselves from embarrassment, not that they really want to. And then you will be putting them in a tight situation. Be wise! Please!

jonaifame22:
Get out of her this minute you evil spirit of delayed marriage and procrastination!

MilkANDpepper:
Mumu. I know your type. Just because your boyfriend is out of the country and still sends you money you have those negative thoughts he will run with a white lady because that's the type of person you are deep down. Go and marry the know 419/thief/fraudster. Am not surprised tho. You don't have sense,I've seen it in your eyes. Later you'll end up frustrated in one church and they'll milk you dry there. Gerrout

Diddyydiva:
You led the yahoo guy on, a guy can not just propose without a hint of acceptance. So you don't come Here and give me half story okay



Your boyfriend sends you money meaning ' My lady tho I can't be with you to take you out, buy you gifts, give you all you want, I hope you will be able to do that with this little I send to you' . You are surely on his mind.



My only advice to you op is: Its best to be hurt than you hurting someone.

Not all that glitters is gold

Differentiate infatuation from love.

MosakuAW:

You said your department, that means you are still in school. Please my dear forget this relationship of a thing and face your studies and also use your spare time to learn things things like fashion or selling stuff so as to be independent when you finish school because it is not easy to get job this days.

MosakuAW:

You said your department, that means you are still in school. Please my dear forget this relationship of a thing and face your studies and also use your spare time to learn things things like fashion or selling stuff so as to be independent when you finish school because it is not easy to get job this days.
.

Obioraaa:
I don't agree.. I have seen women who die single at a very old age.. We're talking 70, 80 n above

Obioraaa:
I don't agree.. I have seen women who die single at a very old age.. We're talking 70, 80 n above

jhalaljnr:
lolsss I guess u'r a graduate!

Hadez:


What is this




He does not call any more. I love him so much. It is not always about money communication counts in a relationship

Hadez:
OK this is going to be a little long and weird.

I have a boyfriend who lives in Switzerland and we have been dating 3years now (before he left Nigeria for his masters) and we love each other (I think).
You know the whole stories about men hooking up with whites and all that. Though we don't talk again like before. We sometimes go a week without communicating not even on Facebook.

Now I have a guy in my department how has been asking me out for months now. This same guy will always send me gifts, takes me around, and sometimes gives me money (I never asked because my boyfriend sends me money too). Today he asked me to be his date to a friend's birthday party and I said OK because I was not going to be busy for the rest of the night.

To cut the long story short, he proposed to me in front of everybody today at the party and I was so dumbfounded that I couldn't think of what to say(I never expected that to happen because I made it clear to him I am in a serious relationship). I had to hug him to avoid embarrassment for him but I don't love him because he is a yahoo guy. But i think he loves me for real because he even introduced me to his parents when they came to check on him.

My problem now is that I can't date this guy because of what he is doing (apart from that, he is so romantic and I think I am crushing on him deep down) but my boyfriend is not showing me that affection anymore. I don't want to be a second girlfriend to any man. I want to be his first pieority.

Should I say yes to the man who loves me?

Alejhandro:
Pls wat is PIEORITY?
Dictionary suppose dey ur phone naa cos dis one no b intentional. U just no sabi spell am.




Beauty and d brain

grandstar:


Haven't you seen a woman get married at 90? Never give up. Winners never quit.

Haven't you seen a woman get married at 90? Never give up. Winners never quit.

I'm just seeing this for the first time... How she wan use born?? When she don experience menopause, menostop, menorewind, menofastforward..all the meno!!

Hadez:


I did. But the excuse he keeps giving is I am busy. Who gets too busy for his woman?

Hadez:
OK this is going to be a little long and weird.

I have a boyfriend who lives in Switzerland and we have been dating 3years now (before he left Nigeria for his masters) and we love each other (I think).
You know the whole stories about men hooking up with whites and all that. Though we don't talk again like before. We sometimes go a week without communicating not even on Facebook.

Now I have a guy in my department how has been asking me out for months now. This same guy will always send me gifts, takes me around, and sometimes gives me money (I never asked because my boyfriend sends me money too). Today he asked me to be his date to a friend's birthday party and I said OK because I was not going to be busy for the rest of the night.

To cut the long story short, he proposed to me in front of everybody today at the party and I was so dumbfounded that I couldn't think of what to say(I never expected that to happen because I made it clear to him I am in a serious relationship). I had to hug him to avoid embarrassment for him but I don't love him because he is a yahoo guy. But i think he loves me for real because he even introduced me to his parents when they came to check on him.

My problem now is that I can't date this guy because of what he is doing (apart from that, he is so romantic and I think I am crushing on him deep down) but my boyfriend is not showing me that affection anymore. I don't want to be a second girlfriend to any man. I want to be his first pieority.

Should I say yes to the man who loves me?

Obioraaa:
I'm just seeing this for the first time... How she wan use born?? When she don experience menopause, menostop, menorewind, menofastforward..all the meno!!

Obioraaa:
I'm just seeing this for the first time... How she wan use born?? When she don experience menopause, menostop, menorewind, menofastforward..all the meno!!