Hadez:
OK this is going to be a little long and weird.

I have a boyfriend who lives in Switzerland and we have been dating 3years now (before he left Nigeria for his masters) and we love each other (I think).
You know the whole stories about men hooking up with whites and all that. Though we don't talk again like before. We sometimes go a week without communicating not even on Facebook.

Now I have a guy in my department how has been asking me out for months now. This same guy will always send me gifts, takes me around, and sometimes gives me money (I never asked because my boyfriend sends me money too). Today he asked me to be his date to a friend's birthday party and I said OK because I was not going to be busy for the rest of the night.

To cut the long story short, he proposed to me in front of everybody today at the party and I was so dumbfounded that I couldn't think of what to say(I never expected that to happen because I made it clear to him I am in a serious relationship). I had to hug him to avoid embarrassment for him but I don't love him because he is a yahoo guy. But i think he loves me for real because he even introduced me to his parents when they came to check on him.

My problem now is that I can't date this guy because of what he is doing (apart from that, he is so romantic and I think I am crushing on him deep down) but my boyfriend is not showing me that affection anymore. I don't want to be a second girlfriend to any man. I want to be his first pieority.

Should I say yes to the man who loves me?

Say Yes to a Yahoo Yahoo boy at ur own Peril.
Use ur tongue to count ur teeth.

What will you tell your parents when they ask you what he does for a living?

* importer and exporter?

* international businessman

* computer scientist

Hadez:
OK this is going to be a little long and weird.

I have a boyfriend who lives in Switzerland and we have been dating 3years now (before he left Nigeria for his masters) and we love each other (I think).
You know the whole stories about men hooking up with whites and all that. Though we don't talk again like before. We sometimes go a week without communicating not even on Facebook.

Now I have a guy in my department how has been asking me out for months now. This same guy will always send me gifts, takes me around, and sometimes gives me money (I never asked because my boyfriend sends me money too). Today he asked me to be his date to a friend's birthday party and I said OK because I was not going to be busy for the rest of the night.

To cut the long story short, he proposed to me in front of everybody today at the party and I was so dumbfounded that I couldn't think of what to say(I never expected that to happen because I made it clear to him I am in a serious relationship). I had to hug him to avoid embarrassment for him but I don't love him because he is a yahoo guy. But i think he loves me for real because he even introduced me to his parents when they came to check on him.

My problem now is that I can't date this guy because of what he is doing (apart from that, he is so romantic and I think I am crushing on him deep down) but my boyfriend is not showing me that affection anymore. I don't want to be a second girlfriend to any man. I want to be his first pieority.

Should I say yes to the man who loves me?

So you've 2 boyfriends and talking about not wanting to share your man when he is already sharing you....

Don't be a hypocrite!!!!!

PS: No man will propose a girl who he doesn't think he already is in a relationship and/or chopped.... So don't play you and Mr Yahoo are only just friends

My girlfriend's boyfriend. Watch d movie

after u accept him...the nxt day your boyfrnd cums bck to naija a multi millionaire also with the aim to marry you

MosakuAW:

You said your department, that means you are still in school. Please my dear forget this relationship of a thing and face your studies and also use your spare time to learn things things like fashion or selling stuff so as to be independent when you finish school because it is not easy to get job this days.

Back to your so called "love story". You are not in love with any of the two guys, from your story you are with the guy in Nigeria because he is loaded and shower you with gifts. His handwork is not clean and he maybe arrested soon or he grow into becoming one of the top 419 boss in Nigeria or better still he may use you for money ritual because he may graduate to becoming 'YahooPlus'

I dont support long distance relationship, but you may keep the abroad guy aside while doing your own thing in Naija to better your life. If he come back for you, so be it and if not, your Mr right will surely locate you and respect&love you for real seeing that you are Miss Independent.

Be wise and open your eyes and not your heart.

Itz alwayz so annoyin wen I see people especialy guyz advising an under-garduate 2 forget abt relationship n face their studies,lik seriously? Plz stop usin that as an excuse,d most brilliant girl in my set got married a month after graduation.plz tel mi d relationship btw schoolin n dating.

@ Hadez, you never asked for money but you don't reject it either. Am I right?

Alejhandro:
Pls wat is PIEORITY?
Dictionary suppose dey ur phone naa cos dis one no b intentional. U just no sabi spell am.




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Op's brain have been kwarrupted by insatiable wants, that she can't spare a little time to flawlessly articulate a small post. Common "priority",she can't even spoke

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Hadez have you tried letting the one Abroad know that he isn't giving you much attention as he used to...if yes what were his reasons for that, is it school work or other things...if you've done you didn't state. For me Yahoo isn't the way forward and i am vehemently against that. Stop taking his gifts it's cursed money, except you want to share in the rot of his ill gotten money.

I don't love him because he is a yahoo guy.. See your mouth.

Emac34:
this ur long write up no be here o

I tire oooooo wen no be sey I wan defend project..........

afilaka:


Itz alwayz so annoyin wen I see people especialy guyz advising an under-garduate 2 forget abt relationship n face their studies,lik seriously? Plz stop usin that as an excuse,d most brilliant girl in my set got married a month after graduation.plz tel mi d relationship btw schoolin n dating.

Just because it works for Miss A does not means it will work for Miss B. I can also tell you the best student in my faculty in the year 2003 when i graduated never had a boyfriend not to talk of relationship.

Did you read her story atall. So we should advice her to go ahead and date a Yahoo guy while parents send her to school to study. Maybe you met your husband while in school does not mean every other people will be so lucky as you. Just go back and read her story and come back to post a comment.

faruz:
I tire oooooo wen no be sey I wan defend project..........

hahahahaha

Hadez:
OK this is going to be a little long and weird.

I have a boyfriend who lives in Switzerland and we have been dating 3years now (before he left Nigeria for his masters) and we love each other (I think).
You know the whole stories about men hooking up with whites and all that. Though we don't talk again like before. We sometimes go a week without communicating not even on Facebook.

Now I have a guy in my department how has been asking me out for months now. This same guy will always send me gifts, takes me around, and sometimes gives me money (I never asked because my boyfriend sends me money too). Today he asked me to be his date to a friend's birthday party and I said OK because I was not going to be busy for the rest of the night.

To cut the long story short, he proposed to me in front of everybody today at the party and I was so dumbfounded that I couldn't think of what to say(I never expected that to happen because I made it clear to him I am in a serious relationship). I had to hug him to avoid embarrassment for him but I don't love him because he is a yahoo guy. But i think he loves me for real because he even introduced me to his parents when they came to check on him.

My problem now is that I can't date this guy because of what he is doing (apart from that, he is so romantic and I think I am crushing on him deep down) but my boyfriend is not showing me that affection anymore. I don't want to be a second girlfriend to any man. I want to be his first pieority.

Should I say yes to the man who loves me?

Why can't the average 9ja chick ever be loyal? Why must you lot always wanna eat your cake and have it at the same time? If you were not happy with your Swiss guy, why didn't you talk to him instead of employing a side nigga? If say im no be yahoo boy when hold pepper, shay u for give am face? Kai! May God save a good man from women like you. To be fair to all parties involved, we only heard one side of the story.

Hadez:
OK this is going to be a little long and weird.

I have a boyfriend who lives in Switzerland and we have been dating 3years now (before he left Nigeria for his masters) and we love each other (I think).
You know the whole stories about men hooking up with whites and all that. Though we don't talk again like before. We sometimes go a week without communicating not even on Facebook.

Now I have a guy in my department how has been asking me out for months now. This same guy will always send me gifts, takes me around, and sometimes gives me money (I never asked because my boyfriend sends me money too). Today he asked me to be his date to a friend's birthday party and I said OK because I was not going to be busy for the rest of the night.

To cut the long story short, he proposed to me in front of everybody today at the party and I was so dumbfounded that I couldn't think of what to say(I never expected that to happen because I made it clear to him I am in a serious relationship). I had to hug him to avoid embarrassment for him but I don't love him because he is a yahoo guy. But i think he loves me for real because he even introduced me to his parents when they came to check on him.

My problem now is that I can't date this guy because of what he is doing (apart from that, he is so romantic and I think I am crushing on him deep down) but my boyfriend is not showing me that affection anymore. I don't want to be a second girlfriend to any man. I want to be his first pieority.

Should I say yes to the man who loves me?

you mad...meen I love this trips...

afilaka:


Itz alwayz so annoyin wen I see people especialy guyz advising an under-garduate 2 forget abt relationship n face their studies,lik seriously? Plz stop usin that as an excuse,d most brilliant girl in my set got married a month after graduation.plz tel mi d relationship btw schoolin n dating.

olosho were...park well joor

MosakuAW:


Just because it works for Miss A does not means it will work for Miss B. I can also tell you the best student in my faculty in the year 2003 when i graduated never had a boyfriend not to talk of relationship.

Did you read her story atall. So we should advice her to go ahead and date a Yahoo guy while parents send her to school to study. Maybe you met your husband while in school does not mean every other people will be so lucky as you. Just go back and read her story and come back to post a comment.

washere omo iya mi...

Obioraaa:
I don't agree.. I have seen women who die single at a very old age.. We're talking 70, 80 n above

Na small pikin dey worry am

Op you too propose back #simple#

Op you too propose back #simple#

Hadez, your boy friend in abroad is telling you the truth. He is busy. Doing a Master degree program abroad is not the same with doing so in Nigeria. Most times the student may not even have time to eat. The psychological stress he is passing through as to meet up academically will not allow him remember friendship nor communication. Due to the high workload, he is most-engrossed as to be at par with his European colleagues. You may not understand what am saying but this is better experienced than imagined. I am a living witness. Academic pursuit abroad is very time consuming and regimented, thus, giving little or no time for any other involvement. You will confirm this by the time he finishes and comes home. So, be careful!!!

Hadez:


I did. But the excuse he keeps giving is I am busy. Who gets too busy for his woman?

MosakuAW:

You said your department, that means you are still in school. Please my dear forget this relationship of a thing and face your studies and also use your spare time to learn things things like fashion or selling stuff so as to be independent when you finish school because it is not easy to get job this days.

Back to your so called "love story". You are not in love with any of the two guys, from your story you are with the guy in Nigeria because he is loaded and shower you with gifts. His handwork is not clean and he maybe arrested soon or he grow into becoming one of the top 419 boss in Nigeria or better still he may use you for money ritual because he may graduate to becoming 'YahooPlus'

I dont support long distance relationship, but you may keep the abroad guy aside while doing your own thing in Naija to better your life. If he come back for you, so be it and if not, your Mr right will surely locate you and respect&love you for real seeing that you are Miss Independent.

Be wise and open your eyes and not your heart.

nice one.you made a lot of sense.but not in the first paragraph/senstense.

U r a yahoo gal too... wat happened to d guy u said u're in a serious relationship wit? u want to chop both hands abi? d innocent guy effort on u wil hunt u badly if u bcoz of material things disapointd him. e dey sweet u now... d earlier u stop followin d yahoo-boy about, d better for u.

F**K the greedy Ladies.

Bird in hand is worth two in the bush. In other words, he that has introduced and proposed should be trusted over he that has not and is gradually decending into voicemail operator. Better you confront your boy friend before doing the switch though.

What?!?! How can you propose to someone you barely know? Na wa o. Is this what Naija men do this days? I thought you are supposed to date someone for a while then really get to know them before proposing? Chai! Naija people self.

Some years ago, I heard of a naija guy in my school that walked up to a black American girl and said "I love you". A girl he was just meeting for the first time. Chai! I laugh tire. And in their head this guys think say dem get game.

OP, please you are not ready for marriage yet o. You are young and still have a lot going for you. Take your time and focus on your academics and fight out what your passions and dreams are and how to pursue them.
Enjoy this season and stage in life. You don't need to be focused on long term relationships right now.
Trying to latch on to a man out of fear that you would never meet someone else is folly o. Please, your future is sooooooo bright girl, don't let anyone curtail it abeg and STOP receiving stolen money from the yahoo yahoo boy. It's I'll gotten wealth. Don't curtail your destiny because of short term benefits.

Hadez:
OK this is going to be a little long and weird.

I have a boyfriend who lives in Switzerland and we have been dating 3years now (before he left Nigeria for his masters) and we love each other (I think).
You know the whole stories about men hooking up with whites and all that. Though we don't talk again like before. We sometimes go a week without communicating not even on Facebook.

Now I have a guy in my department how has been asking me out for months now. This same guy will always send me gifts, takes me around, and sometimes gives me money (I never asked because my boyfriend sends me money too). Today he asked me to be his date to a friend's birthday party and I said OK because I was not going to be busy for the rest of the night.

To cut the long story short, he proposed to me in front of everybody today at the party and I was so dumbfounded that I couldn't think of what to say(I never expected that to happen because I made it clear to him I am in a serious relationship). I had to hug him to avoid embarrassment for him but I don't love him because he is a yahoo guy. But i think he loves me for real because he even introduced me to his parents when they came to check on him.

My problem now is that I can't date this guy because of what he is doing (apart from that, he is so romantic and I think I am crushing on him deep down) but my boyfriend is not showing me that affection anymore. I don't want to be a second girlfriend to any man. I want to be his first pieority.

Should I say yes to the man who loves me?

Revelation 2 (The message bible)
To Ephesus (Hadez)
2 Write this to Ephesus (Hadez), to the Angel of the church. The One with Seven Stars in his right-fist grip, striding through the golden seven-lights’ circle, speaks:

2-3 “I see what you’ve done, your hard, hard work, your refusal to quit. I know you can’t stomach evil, that you weed out apostolic pretenders. I know your persistence, your courage in my cause, that you never wear out.

4-5 "Nevertheless I have this against you, you walked away from your first love—why? What’s going on with you, anyway? Do you have any idea how far you’ve fallen? A Lucifer fall!

“Turn back! Recover your dear early love. No time to waste, for I’m well on my way to removing your light from the golden circle.

6 “You do have this to your credit: You hate the Nicolaitan business (yahoo). I hate it, too.
7 He that hath an ear, let him hear what the Spirit saith unto the churches; To him that overcometh will I give to eat of the tree of life, which is in the midst of the paradise of God.

Be WISEb!!!! [url][/url] dats y ur parent sent u to Skul

Ask your boy-friend in Europe whether he plans to come back to Nigeria after his studies or wants to stay there a bit longer. I think that is the most important question right now. To stay longer legally, marriage would be an option in Europe and no-one can predict the outcome of such a marriage. So should he tell you that he is staying beyond those two years, you may want to see yourself as a single again
Don`t tarnish your family`s name by going out with a known fraudster, so stop the friendship with the yahoo guy. Good luck

darkenedrebel:
My intuition tells me these are well articulated lies.
Well done op. That Pulitzer prize you're gunning for is not too far-fetched.

The guy who proposed has been polishing her congo steady. Chai! Women. SMH.
He just proposed without test-driving. Hahahaha.

Some women can be very wicked, collecting goodies left and right. Oju kokoro.

The same thing a girl did to me years back. Stories of guys hooking up oyinbo. Since some of these women cannot trust themselves to be faithful, they cannot trust men by default.

The lady is in an unhappy marriage today, she wants to hook up with me. Tufiakwa!

OP, make your bed & lie on it jeje.

Hadez:


No matter how long it takes, a woman wil surely get married

Go ask around. You are wrong. About your post am sorry you are confuse but your story is full of half truths. I will advise you when you tell us the whole truth.