For a Yahoo guy, everything will turn dark one day may be not now but soon, the Swiss guy just keep counting your fingers it takes time for him to settle down, divorce and remarry. Body no be fire wood if you want to rock with the yahoo guy but patience pays.

Damn! it's so sad no more Loyal gal alive... bae stop deceiving urself, u don't need advice 4rm us, wht ure seeking is people 2 support u in dumping ur swizlove(poorboy)... Trust me, I knw ur type,so Bleep dis scripted story of urs.. u are already carried away by d small trips... #God is watching u in 5D.. #Olosho

I don't think any of them are good for you. Yahoo boy vs a guy that no longer shows great affection towards you. But at the end of the day, who are we to decide for you, go with whatever your heart tells you. One thing I'll tell you is 'never marriage anyone out of sentiments or pity'...

larry2lanky:
Damn! it's so sad no more Loyal gal alive... bae stop deceiving urself, u don't need advice 4rm us, wht ure seeking is people 2 support u in dumping ur swizlove(poorboy)... Trust me, I knw ur type,so Bleep dis scripted story of urs.. u are already carried away by d small trips... #God is watching u in 5D.. #Olosho

that's just the bitter truth. She's still in uni, discard a focused guy in Swiss to settle for a guy who showers gifts and attention and hits the honeypot as frequently as he like. What else do young and lazy girls want? She even could mention she hardly likes this guy and managed to accept his proposal to avoid a marriage proposal from a yahoo guy. What kind of future does she think she has.. Sounds much like a materialist to me. The truth is even is we give her A1 advise she'll still do what's sweet and easy.

Hadez:
OK this is going to be a little long and weird.

I have a boyfriend who lives in Switzerland and we have been dating 3years now (before he left Nigeria for his masters) and we love each other (I think).
You know the whole stories about men hooking up with whites and all that. Though we don't talk again like before. We sometimes go a week without communicating not even on Facebook.

Now I have a guy in my department how has been asking me out for months now. This same guy will always send me gifts, takes me around, and sometimes gives me money (I never asked because my boyfriend sends me money too). Today he asked me to be his date to a friend's birthday party and I said OK because I was not going to be busy for the rest of the night.

To cut the long story short, he proposed to me in front of everybody today at the party and I was so dumbfounded that I couldn't think of what to say(I never expected that to happen because I made it clear to him I am in a serious relationship). I had to hug him to avoid embarrassment for him but I don't love him because he is a yahoo guy. But i think he loves me for real because he even introduced me to his parents when they came to check on him.

My problem now is that I can't date this guy because of what he is doing (apart from that, he is so romantic and I think I am crushing on him deep down) but my boyfriend is not showing me that affection anymore. I don't want to be a second girlfriend to any man. I want to be his first pieority.

Should I say yes to the man who loves me?

u have answered ur Question, boro

You've forgotten you have a life and future of your own to chase. Stupid as it may sound the guy in Switzerland isn't stupid to chase a Degree and you shouldn't be stupid not trying to do something with your time. It's your call if you decide to avoid the yahoo guy and stop receiving gifts and stop being materialistic cos you're not going to give if you stop seeing the Internet scammer (maybe he isn't no one here knows too) If you were to have a great life after study it wouldn't be with a scammer who gives gifts, and proposes and even had definitely found it hard to land himself a queen like you without his gifts and money playing a major role. It's your call dear. Be smart and face priorities not alternatives. You're more important to yourself than any of these guys at least at this stage of your life. But it's your call though.

We've written as you wanted us to.

diva90:
I don't think any of them are good for you. Yahoo boy vs a guy that no longer shows great affection towards you[b]because he's away studying trying to find a good life for himself[/b]. But at the end of the day, who are we to decide for you, go with whatever your heart tells you. One thing I'll tell you is 'never marriage anyone out of sentiments or pity'...

come!! You never hear sey too much truth dey kill person?? with this golden advice you dropped The problem is gifts would cloud her judgements as if she can't live or feed on her own. She can definitely do without both of em. Marriage according to what she wrote is not in her top 2 I guess.

DO YOU WORK FOR LIE MUHAMMED?

How is it that the second guy already proposed to you when you guys are just "friends"? Tell us the full story pls.

OP you need to stop collecting money or anything material from that yahoo guy. Some guys not all see that as a sign of acceptance of their advances. You don't want to give him the wrong ideas especially if you're not willing to take your relationship to the next level. Infact I advice you to take him out sometimes too. Maybe to a restaurant or to the cinema(with some other friends too o, not alone with him). That way he'll know you have his back too and you guys are just platonic.

All these ashawo stories again

Op br marketing herself with the half baked story. It's so obvious. You needed two things and u got them both.
Front page and attention. Deal with your mails tho

At least you have a backup plan,just in case case your Swiss lover mess up you have the yahoo lover to fall back to. From the way I see it, it's a win-win situation.

Women.even proud to say it in public a yahoo guy proposed to her.in a saner clime u will b use to trace d said yahoo guy cos u HV eaten from d money he scam ppl.and d switz guy will b bragging to his frnds I trust my girl.bk to d topic.pls all ds u told us jejeli calm ur parents down and tell them exactly d way u told us.am sure dey will tel u to distance ur self from d yahoo guy.most parents still HV ds good moto that good name is beta than money

plz,insert disc two.........diz part is very very intresting just dt at the end of diz movie if thunder no fire this bitch,then the script is rong.

Hadez:
OK this is going to be a little long and weird.

I have a boyfriend who lives in Switzerland and we have been dating 3years now (before he left Nigeria for his masters) and we love each other (I think).
You know the whole stories about men hooking up with whites and all that. Though we don't talk again like before. We sometimes go a week without communicating not even on Facebook.

Now I have a guy in my department how has been asking me out for months now. This same guy will always send me gifts, takes me around, and sometimes gives me money (I never asked because my boyfriend sends me money too). Today he asked me to be his date to a friend's birthday party and I said OK because I was not going to be busy for the rest of the night.

To cut the long story short, he proposed to me in front of everybody today at the party and I was so dumbfounded that I couldn't think of what to say(I never expected that to happen because I made it clear to him I am in a serious relationship). I had to hug him to avoid embarrassment for him but I don't love him because he is a yahoo guy. But i think he loves me for real because he even introduced me to his parents when they came to check on him.

My problem now is that I can't date this guy because of what he is doing (apart from that, he is so romantic and I think I am crushing on him deep down) but my boyfriend is not showing me that affection anymore. I don't want to be a second girlfriend to any man. I want to be his first pieority.

Should I say yes to the man who loves me?

NIGERIANS, EVERYONE THAT MAKES MONEY FROM THE INTERNET IS YAHOO

Obioraaa:
I don't agree.. I have seen women who die single at a very old age.. We're talking 70, 80 n above

Dude why not advise your sisters the same thing? Infact why not warn them not to get married

Uhmm, for a guy to be sending u his money, trust me he is into a serious business with u. Don't tell me its because of only the communicatn but u also need a romantic guy to service ur lust desire... I pity u, because u lyk it or not u will be dump at d end. You know whats right. And if you don't, call ur home church pastor and tell him all diz he will surely advice u better.

Hadez:
OK this is going to be a little long and weird.

I have a boyfriend who lives in Switzerland and we have been dating 3years now (before he left Nigeria for his masters) and we love each other (I think).
You know the whole stories about men hooking up with whites and all that. Though we don't talk again like before. We sometimes go a week without communicating not even on Facebook.

Now I have a guy in my department how has been asking me out for months now. This same guy will always send me gifts, takes me around, and sometimes gives me money (I never asked because my boyfriend sends me money too). Today he asked me to be his date to a friend's birthday party and I said OK because I was not going to be busy for the rest of the night.

To cut the long story short, he proposed to me in front of everybody today at the party and I was so dumbfounded that I couldn't think of what to say(I never expected that to happen because I made it clear to him I am in a serious relationship). I had to hug him to avoid embarrassment for him but I don't love him because he is a yahoo guy. But i think he loves me for real because he even introduced me to his parents when they came to check on him.

My problem now is that I can't date this guy because of what he is doing (apart from that, he is so romantic and I think I am crushing on him deep down) but my boyfriend is not showing me that affection anymore. I don't want to be a second girlfriend to any man. I want to be his first pieority.

Should I say yes to the man who loves me?

op, I will rather stick with d guy in UK..... yahoo guys are dangerous, most of dem do rituals....i know wat am talking abt...i av dem around here...b4 u know it....he will be bankrupt.
d issue of marriage is lifetime my dear
hence, u must make careful decision...
love is not a feelings nor emotions
ur sense of judgement shud not be base on feelings
feelings will die at any fucking tym
above all..... pray to God for direction

Hadez:
OK this is going to be a little long and weird.

I have a boyfriend who lives in Switzerland and we have been dating 3years now (before he left Nigeria for his masters) and we love each other (I think).
You know the whole stories about men hooking up with whites and all that. Though we don't talk again like before. We sometimes go a week without communicating not even on Facebook.

Now I have a guy in my department how has been asking me out for months now. This same guy will always send me gifts, takes me around, and sometimes gives me money (I never asked because my boyfriend sends me money too). Today he asked me to be his date to a friend's birthday party and I said OK because I was not going to be busy for the rest of the night.

To cut the long story short, he proposed to me in front of everybody today at the party and I was so dumbfounded that I couldn't think of what to say(I never expected that to happen because I made it clear to him I am in a serious relationship). I had to hug him to avoid embarrassment for him but I don't love him because he is a yahoo guy. But i think he loves me for real because he even introduced me to his parents when they came to check on him.

My problem now is that I can't date this guy because of what he is doing (apart from that, he is so romantic and I think I am crushing on him deep down) but my boyfriend is not showing me that affection anymore. I don't want to be a second girlfriend to any man. I want to be his first pieority.

Should I say yes to the man who loves me?

You have said No already or do you want act season 2 with same guy?

Diddyydiva:
You led the yahoo guy on, a guy can not just propose without a hint of acceptance. So you don't come Here and give me half story okay



Your boyfriend sends you money meaning ' My lady tho I can't be with you to take you out, buy you gifts, give you all you want, I hope you will be able to do that with this little I send to you' . You are surely on his mind.



My only advice to you op is: Its best to be hurt than you hurting someone.

Not all that glitters is gold

Differentiate infatuation from love.

many of your sisters can't resist the temptation. I speak from experience but I will stop here in order not to talk much. But in my case, I was led on too. I was serious about the whole ish

please note that even with those two guys, you're no better than a girl who is still single.

kaboninc:


Na wa oh

They way we spell words sef

Which one is mynd when you can easily type mind.

lolx,it makes it sleek

Freemanan:


Blame forums like Nairaland for giving them the citadel to do more...

i guess dey earn more money from it

Genea:
lolx,it makes it sleek

Really?

Like 'Lolx'?

No baby....

It doesn't. If you have this spell check app on your phone, use it.

MosakuAW:

You said your department, that means you are still in school. Please my dear forget this relationship of a thing and face your studies and also use your spare time to learn things things like fashion or selling stuff so as to be independent when you finish school because it is not easy to get job this days.

Back to your so called "love story". You are not in love with any of the two guys, from your story you are with the guy in Nigeria because he is loaded and shower you with gifts. His handwork is not clean and he maybe arrested soon or he grow into becoming one of the top 419 boss in Nigeria or better still he may use you for money ritual because he may graduate to becoming 'YahooPlus'

I dont support long distance relationship, but you may keep the abroad guy aside while doing your own thing in Naija to better your life. If he come back for you, so be it and if not, your Mr right will surely locate you and respect&love you for real seeing that you are Miss Independent.

Be wise and open your eyes and not your heart.

When I saw how cumbersome you comments were I thought it's gonna so advising that even me myself could gain from it, but that line where you said" she should dump relationship and face academics" do you even bother to know her age? She needs to start upkeeping her relationship from now so that she'd not end up being those girls that will be going from pastors to pastors and alfas to alfas... Tho academics is her priority as well. But the dumping of relationship said by you was pointless.
And I don't fink jumai do post woman in need of husband on it's site.
#thanks

Hadez:


What is this




He does not call any more. I love him so much. It is not always about money communication counts in a relationship

Look, to be honest with you, in the current world, having just the mentality of becoming a baby factory isn't good. I may sound hash or you may deny it, but the ONLY thing you think after school is marriage. No need to develop yourself or get a job etc. I don't know about other guys but for me, an independent beautiful woman will have me worship the floor she walks on.

A Kim kardashian without such qualities is nothing but a sex object to me, because that is all she ever has to offer and in return collects money for hairdo and upkeep. That is not the kind of woman I want.

You need to develop yourself, get a skill, strive to excel at something and believe me, even your guy overseas will come knocking.

What can I say, you are you and may never heed to my advice.

kaboninc:

Really?
Like 'Lolx'?
No baby....
It doesn't. If you have this spell check app on your phone, use it.

i dnt like writing d correct english when writing informa5

Genea:
i guess dey earn more money from it

Obviously

my candid advice is dis; b careful of dat yahoo man......den focus more on dat one doing his masters, if he's for u, he'll still cm bk surely..........Who tells u, u cant find bera guys later?, ur future is still loaded dont put urself in tight corner pls., free urself and b a nice girl. I'm a guy, i jst dated once in my life, dat was 300L and now i'm tru with my nysc since, d fact is dat many girls are still coming my way, buh i cant put my head in tight corner.
So to me baby girl focus on ur self development now.....

darkenedrebel:
My intuition tells me these are well articulated lies.
Well done op. That Pulitzer prize you're gunning for is not too far-fetched.

Wicked! LMAO....

Hadez:

No matter how long it takes, a woman wil surely get married

The last time I checked, it wasn't compulsory for women to marry.... So leave that marriage of a thing..