Sijo01:
op, you nor get Joy o.
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You do am well sha. Some girls dey behave like say dem nor dey shiiit.

lols

Jesumed:


Don't mind him; because people here are praising him claiming he did the ''right thing''. Even if she didn't greet, what's bad in letting her sit? You were in a hospital for crying out loud? What if the girl had a minor mental problem or something? That bench wasn't yours, you were expecting a salute before allowing a sick person sit. What if the bench was yours? People like him, when they get rich, will be waiting for people to worship them before doing any favour! As a gentleman, can't you just overlook things and allow the 'mannerless' girl sit. She didn't show courtesy, why didn't you put her to shame by showing that courtesy?
An adage says, ''forgiveness is the best revenge for your enemy.'' In life, learn to overlook things and let things be. Haba!

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I Think Self-Value And Painful Experiences Are Responsible For This!.

Good one OP...you deserve a medal from the Men community.

SSpeter:
I have not been feeling too well lately, I visited a clinic. I took some drugs but it didn't alleviate the pain so the doctor referred me to a friend of his at the teaching hospital. I got info that the place is often crowded to I decided to leave home early so that I could still utilise the latter part of the day. When I arrived, they were people already waiting for the doc. We queued while sitting on a bench. I was the last person on the bench although we sat comfortably, that means the bench could still accommodate one more person with a degree of discomfort. Minutes later, A beautiful lady....really pretty....walks towards me and was about to use her buttocks to shove me inwards without uttering a word. Immediately I expanded my legs and gave her a slight push....Just as I looked the other way.....People on the bench didn't even blink someone sitting on the bench even hissed.......when she stood and couldn't find where to sit she walked away embarrassed .....later a guy came and was like....good morning can I join you? I was like sure...I dragged my buttocks a bit and we all squeezed ourselves while sitting on the bench. She came back and was walking aimlessly starring icily at me. I just fix my Ipod, blast music.
..........................I know some other ladies do these act too but no matter how pretty or beautiful you are if you lack courtesy, you are a pile of trash waiting for lawma!

Red label, Hennessy or Ciroc? Which one you want, you deserve am...

almost same with wat happened today at my cds. she lied to be a member of my group just to get a bottle of coke and wen I found out and asked her, she said wat then would I do since I have found and I did the needful took the drink nd pour the content away. some pple just lack courtesy most especially some of our ladies. #beautydoesn'tcount
#characterdoes

Annapecky:
nt at al lemme tel u,if it was me dat was sittin,am sure 2 adjust b4 u even cum clos

If you would shift for a man then your comment on respecting women just for that fact is irrelevant as every one deserves respect irrespective of gender.
I'm sure you had to ask for space at banks or somewhere similar where seating is insufficient. Do you just brusquely join people attempting to shove them or ask nicely? What is bad is bad, and when society subsidises the stupidity of others it becomes the norm. Foolishness and bad manners should not be the norm.

kaziblake:
Some ladies lack courtesy and manners.
What the big deal in saying pls?

Beauty without brain's and manner is rubbish.

And what's the big deal in just overlooking the fact that she didn't say ''please'' and letting her sit?

Charles4075:
Lolz. You're highly welcome bro. Adios Amigo. You can say whatever you like, type whatever you want cos it's a forum. How I wish you can see me one on one and repeat this trash you just said at my face.

How I wish Nairalanders could meet face to face.

And Have You Seen Me!
I Jus Gave You An Invaluable Shakedown On How To Think On Topics Like This.
You're Welcome,Amigo!

Jesumed:


And what's the big deal in just overlooking the fact that she didn't say ''please'' and letting her sit?

Be sincere with yourself.
Would you have allowed her?

Timbuktou:


If you would shift for a man then your comment on respecting women just for that fact is irrelevant as every one deserves respect irrespective of gender.
I'm sure you had to ask for space at banks or somewhere similar where seating is insufficient. Do you just brusquely join people attempting to shove them or ask nicely? What is bad is bad, and when society subsidises the stupidity of others it becomes the norm. Foolishness and bad manners should not be the norm.

Yes, but that was a hospital! The girl could be having a mental problem or could be in a state of chronic depression. She was wrong, but that guy over-reacted.

Now, let's just imagine what the guy would have done if he was the owner of that bench or the entire hospital!

If we keep wanting people to salute us before we do just a little favour, we will end up making more enemies. The girl could have said just common 'pls', but he also could have just common 'shifted', and overlooked her discourteous manner.

Everyone wouldn't understand life, same as we do; live and let live!

Annapecky:
AM SUre u wil 1 day luk 4 a lady 2 say yes 2 u...

Where i come from i was brought up to respect both male and female gender,but when some ladies feel they are demigods is just very very annoying.

Not this is similar to what I did to one of my course mates in my year 1. She is very beautiful flashing her iphone. In her own case though, she just said shift as though it's basically her right.
I simply told her no more seat despite the protests from other guys around. One guy even wanted to sacrifice his seat for her but she said it's too tight and she can't go in. Whats my own.
Another lady, not so pretty who is not even in my department later came over and asked politely and I shifted for her.
The guys around nearly ate me raw. As if I cared.

Anyway, one of the guys became my best school friend and the lady....
Well, for the first 3months we were arch enemies but we are good friends now though

PunterTim:
And Have You Seen Me!
I Jus Gave You An Invaluable Shakedown On How To Think On Topics Like This.
You're Welcome,Amigo!

I haven't seen you, neither do I know you besides I only dropped what's on my mind, if you have a problem with it and feel you need to give me an invaluable shakedown on how to think, I suggest we setup a meeting and then you can tell me to my face. Otherwise, just ignore my post and move on bro.
You're welcome too Bro.

kaziblake:
Be sincere with yourself.
Would you have allowed her?

In all sincerity, I would have done that!
Later on, I could even ensue a conversation with her by saying,
''aunty wa, are you fighting us?'' you would be surprised how she would apologise. And do you know what, you will gain her respect henceforth. When you act mature at times when people expect you to be angry, you end up gaining more respect.

Annapecky:
Dat was rude..dude!

So you one of em? And you not even pretty,see your jayz female version lips

Timbuktou:


If you would shift for a man then your comment on respecting women just for that fact is irrelevant as every one deserves respect irrespective of gender.
I'm sure you had to ask for space at banks or somewhere similar where seating is insufficient. Do you just brusquely join people attempting to shove them or ask nicely? What is bad is bad, and when society subsidises the stupidity of others it becomes the norm. Foolishness and bad manners should not be the norm.

YEA.. u r rit bt u gat 2 leav any1 bad attitudes 2 hersef nd set tins rit

Jesumed:


In all sincerity, I would have done that!
Later on, I could even ensue a conversation with her by saying,
''aunty wa, are you fighting us?'' you would be surprised how she would apologise. And do you know what, you will gain her respect henceforth. When you act mature at times when people expect you to be angry, you end up gaining more respect.

ok
I have heard.

Kaylexzy:



Oya take 1 Orijin...

In fact carry d whole crate...

Lol,,u want to get me drunk You lie..


I'll take viju instead..

normrebel:

So you one of em? And you not even pretty,see your jayz female version lips

tnx,dnt hv ya time

teebee22:
almost same with wat happened today at my cds. she lied to be a member of my group just to get a bottle of coke and wen I found out and asked her, she said wat then would I do since I have found and I did the needful took the drink nd pour the content away. some pple just lack courtesy most especially some of our ladies. #beautydoesn'tcount
#characterdoes

this is a totally different case; not almost the same thing as you claim.

Timbuktou:


Your own fada obviously didn't teach you how to think. You didn't read where he implied that they would squeeze onto the bench? Why should she squeeze into that bench? Is that how you squeeze into the seats your fada placed at banks and hospitals across the world?

and you forgot to read where he said another guy came and sat on the same seat. That dude has inferiority complex and a very low esteem. He lacks manner more than the girl. The place is an hospital and not a night club. Do you know what took that girl to the hospital? Oh maybe he wanted the girl to first of all go on greetings tour people she could get a place to seat, huh?

Jesumed:


this is a totally different case; not almost the same thing as you claim.

we re talking about courtesy here. the use of words like pls, excuse me , etc. being polite. y I said ALMOST same cos if the Lady in my lines had used the word PLEASE or SORRY when i found out, it won't hurt.

evy1:
Where i come from i was brought up to respect both male and female gender,but when some ladies feel they are demigods is just very very annoying.

Yea...no doubts b set tins rit though its annoyin

SSpeter:
I have not been feeling too well lately, I visited a clinic. I took some drugs but it didn't alleviate the pain so the doctor referred me to a friend of his at the teaching hospital. I got info that the place is often crowded to I decided to leave home early so that I could still utilise the latter part of the day. When I arrived, they were people already waiting for the doc. We queued while sitting on a bench. I was the last person on the bench although we sat comfortably, that means the bench could still accommodate one more person with a degree of discomfort. Minutes later, A beautiful lady....really pretty....walks towards me and was about to use her buttocks to shove me inwards without uttering a word. Immediately I expanded my legs and gave her a slight push....Just as I looked the other way.....People on the bench didn't even blink someone sitting on the bench even hissed.......when she stood and couldn't find where to sit she walked away embarrassed .....later a guy came and was like....good morning can I join you? I was like sure...I dragged my buttocks a bit and we all squeezed ourselves while sitting on the bench. She came back and was walking aimlessly starring icily at me. I just fix my Ipod, blast music.
..........................I know some other ladies do these act too but no matter how pretty or beautiful you are if you lack courtesy, you are a pile of trash waiting for lawma!

Which kind yeye beauty be dt na?
After all beauty fades with time.
1000,000 likes 4u bro.
No homo!!

teebee22:
almost same with wat happened today at my cds. she lied to be a member of my group just to get a bottle of coke and wen I found out and asked her, she said wat then would I do since I have found and I did the needful took the drink nd pour the content away. some pple just lack courtesy most especially some of our ladies. #beautydoesn'tcount
#characterdoes

Clap for urself

nice one bro. i can relate to that.

Snowangel4:

Clap for urself

Annapecky:
tnx,dnt hv ya time

LoooL,and I'd have yours with that look? Hehehe, scurry off.

Annapecky:
tnx,dnt hv ya time

LoooL,and I'd have yours with that look? Hehehe, scurry off.

SSpeter:
I have not been feeling too well lately, I visited a clinic. I took some drugs but it didn't alleviate the pain so the doctor referred me to a friend of his at the teaching hospital. I got info that the place is often crowded to I decided to leave home early so that I could still utilise the latter part of the day. When I arrived, they were people already waiting for the doc. We queued while sitting on a bench. I was the last person on the bench although we sat comfortably, that means the bench could still accommodate one more person with a degree of discomfort. Minutes later, A beautiful lady....really pretty....walks towards me and was about to use her buttocks to shove me inwards without uttering a word. Immediately I expanded my legs and gave her a slight push....Just as I looked the other way.....People on the bench didn't even blink someone sitting on the bench even hissed.......when she stood and couldn't find where to sit she walked away embarrassed .....later a guy came and was like....good morning can I join you? I was like sure...I dragged my buttocks a bit and we all squeezed ourselves while sitting on the bench. She came back and was walking aimlessly starring icily at me. I just fix my Ipod, blast music.
..........................I know some other ladies do these act too but no matter how pretty or beautiful you are if you lack courtesy, you are a pile of trash waiting for lawma!

SABI Guy

Jesumed:


Yes, but that was a hospital! The girl could be having a mental problem or could be in a state of chronic depression. She was wrong, but that guy over-reacted.

Now, let's just imagine what the guy would have done if he was the owner of that bench or the entire hospital!

If we keep wanting people to salute us before we do just a little favour, we will end up making more enemies. The girl could have said just common 'pls', but he also could have just common 'shifted', and overlooked her discourteous manner.

Everyone wouldn't understand life, same as we do; live and let live!

warris dis one saying,everybody got his own problem,so d op come flex for hospital,wen u see people sitting down on a bench u wil just come use ur yansh shift person and squeeze ur self between dem witout greeting or saying sorry,its lack of courtesy, had it been d space was spacious enuf for her then u can say d op is childish

She shove you talk say nah her papa buy the bench ?

I normally tell ladies, " Courtesy is not Costly "..