I am in this relationship, and I and my boyfriend have had quite a rocky relationship. We often quarrel and argue and just recently, I found out that he had joined a dating website. This surprised me as I don’t know why he would do that while we were together. I confronted him and he apologized, claiming that he only did it because we were having a lot of problems and thought that we were done at the time. I was extremely hurt and angry so I broke up with him and told him that i never wanted to see him again.


The day after that, I was hanging out with one of my male friends, we got into a serious talk and ended up having sex.

I had sex with my friend, hoping it was going to make me feel better but i ended up feeling a lot worse after. I have never done things like this, but when I decided to sleep with my friend I don’t think that my boyfriend and I would ever get back together.



After a few days, he called me (my ex) we were talking and we got all emotional and we decided to give things another go. I love him so much and really want to be with him but I was sad because it took me having sex with my friend to realize how much I wanted my boyfriend back. Having sex with my friend also made me realize how easily mistakes are made so i am willing to forgive my boyfriend for joining the dating site.


We are back together now but I have not told him that I slept with someone else during our short break up and I really don’t want to tell him because i am afraid he will not forgive me and that I will lose him forever this time. I feel like I am being dishonest, which I so hate the feeling but I definitely hate the thought of having to tell him more. So my question is, if you sleep with someone else during a short break up do you need to tell your partner that u slept with someone else? Or is it none of their business when you have broken up?


Please I need good advice from mature romanceland esp guys

just tell him before he hear of it from another person.it might bring a negative or positive outcome but just free your concience

Short break... Short sex!! Well you never think of getting back self that's the reason for the sex...u can tell him or not ...or u wanna marry him if yes marry him if no follow your mind

Girls are such confuse beings! Emotions over intelligence

The answer is simple - would you want him to tell you if it was him - and how would you feel about it? If it was me, I 'd be very nice to my lover for a couple of weeks while preparing to leave because I dont think it is a trifling matter and I can't forget such issues.I dont know if I will be able to forgive her in the future..
Take my advice, don't do it again but keep your mouth shut,

Some girls and mumu question sha... stupidity is taking over u

womens mind are always divided and dey always let emotions clowd dia judgement.well tell him at ur own risk because its hard for a man to hia such a tin and forgive or forget abt it and also if u dnt tell im rememba some secret can neva b kept for long

@poster

Na wa for u sef o, so because ur boyfriend went to join a dating site, u left him and went to fvck another guy.....and here u are, asking whether to tell him or not, claiming you luv him so much!!

I think u are a bit out of control of ur sexual desires and u are actually confused in luv. if he doesn't forgive u, I won't blame him!

So who did the worse now...

Joining a dating site or having sex outside??

U be the judge!

Obioraaa:
what he doesn't know won't kill him..



Abeg, spare him the nonsense details of how you opened your narrow vagina to an urchin..


Next time, close that filthy hole.. Please!!

#WICKED.....Knockout punch.....

A little boy said "mom,did you know that Anna is an angel"? Mom said "you mean the maid, why do you say that"? The boy said "well because i saw her naked in your bedroom with her hands on the wall and she was shouting; oh God i am coming..i am coming...if it wasnt for dad who was holding her tight from behind she would have gone up to heaven. * * Mom Fainted*

this is the kind of news i pray i never hear... to me, it will the whole urge i ever feel.....
this is really bad newz A little boy said "mom,did you know that Anna is an angel"? Mom said "you mean the maid, why do you say that"? The boy said "well because i saw her naked in your bedroom with her hands on the wall and she was shouting; oh God i am coming..i am coming...if it wasnt for dad who was holding her tight from behind she would have gone up to heaven. * * Mom Fainted*

this is the kind of news i pray i never hear... to me, it will the whole urge i ever feel.....
this is really bad newz

If he wants you back tell him how it happened so that in the latter part of your relationship your friend will not just come here(nairaland) or Linda ikeji to post how cheap you are. Tell him if he still wants you genuinely.



Relationship of these days sef

Ashawo make God punish u for there.

Short break and u begin dey open ur maggot infested p.u.ssy for everyboy abi?


Bloody hoe

Searchiing4love
wahala dey here oooo

heryourdayji:
I am in this relationship, and I and my boyfriend have had quite a rocky relationship. We often quarrel and argue and just recently, I found out that he had joined a dating website. This surprised me as I don’t know why he would do that while we were together. I confronted him and he apologized, claiming that he only did it because we were having a lot of problems and thought that we were done at the time. I was extremely hurt and angry so I broke up with him and told him that i never wanted to see him again.


The day after that, I was hanging out with one of my male friends, we got into a serious talk and ended up having sex.

I had sex with my friend, hoping it was going to make me feel better but i ended up feeling a lot worse after. I have never done things like this, but when I decided to sleep with my friend I don’t think that my boyfriend and I would ever get back together.



After a few days, he called me (my ex) we were talking and we got all emotional and we decided to give things another go. I love him so much and really want to be with him but I was sad because it took me having sex with my friend to realize how much I wanted my boyfriend back. Having sex with my friend also made me realize how easily mistakes are made so i am willing to forgive my boyfriend for joining the dating site.


We are back together now but I have not told him that I slept with someone else during our short break up and I really don’t want to tell him because i am afraid he will not forgive me and that I will lose him forever this time. I feel like I am being dishonest, which I so hate the feeling but I definitely hate the thought of having to tell him more. So my question is, if you sleep with someone else during a short break up do you need to tell your partner that u slept with someone else? Or is it none of their business when you have broken up?


Please I need good advice from mature romanceland esp guys

Cc: Lalasticlala

if you tell me, you il break his heart so don't and he won't trust you again, so don't

See dis girl I pity d guy way go marry you for house, so u are telling me here dat of u and ur husband get little mis undastanding for like 1 month and d guy no near you.

Dat means you go open ur toto for another man.......

#iRejectYourTypeOfWomanIJN

lol, some of dis creatures called females can be so unnecessarily funny at times o, so u couldn't hold urself n u claim u love him blah blah blah...

Now dat ur conscience is abt to fvckk ur POOssy too...together wit confusion sef, who's it affectin part frm u?

nigga will boil up no doubt wen told, bt its ur shitt, so clean it.
btw MaySenseLocateYouIJN

#laughsagain

No, let bygones be bygones.

guys ranting as if they don't do worse

women are the most confused being I have ever met.


The way they gets emotional and make worst decisions freaks me out


Op you fvcked up

Let's be truthful you lack self control and you are kind of dumb too.

And I think the dating site was an excuse to break up with your boyfriend just to have your way with your friend you are crushing on.

You think your friend will be all you wanted but compared to your boyfriend he is way below , that is why you felt bad.

You are the reason some nonentities here call us names



Tell your boyfriend what you did? how bitchy you acted. Its his decision to either forgive you or not.


And hey !! take down your picture for now

sholly4444:
See dis girl I pity d guy way go marry you for house, so u are telling me here dat of u and ur husband get little mis undastanding for like 1 month and d guy no near you.

Dat means you go open ur toto for another man.......

#iRejectYourTypeOfWomanIJN

Shut up jare

let's hear word

The guy that joined dating site only joined to check out beautiful faces abi

of course it can lead to break up, why join the dating site in the first place.

The lady lacks self control tho but that doesn't gives you the right to condemn her

Girls of nowadays n SEX......

If u tell him.u will loose him for forever.....
Keep ur mouth shut n keep havin sex with ur friend.

Don't tell him....

HERYOURDEYJI please..is that really you @profile picture?

Holes everywhere

Its necessary you tell him gal!

Every relationship has its own ups and downs.

Soliciting affection and love from another guy immediately after a small break up is not the best. Because that will only make the matter worst. Now that your conscience is pricking you, is it that the conscience wasn't there in the first place before sleeping with the other guy? Or you lost your conscience then and latter regain it after the act?

From another angle, having sex with another guy shows your love for the guy wasn't deep enough though there was a short period of break up. You should have give yourself a breathing space to work on yourself and think about the future that lies ahead of you before rushing on another guy. Cos if you do, you will be mind full of not hurting the trust and love you both shared.

Though, him joining a dating website might be for fun or to while away the time.

Just go ahead and tell him, If he still want you, fine and if not then let it be.

That is the consequences of you disloyalty. Lobatan!

Yes.





On second thought, no. You shouldn't, at least not now. He will be crushed if he genuinely loves you. I don't mean to judge you but babe u messed up. The following day? Seriously?

Well its happened its happened aint nothing u can do anymore