but wait oooo, u mean u let anoda guy bang u out of hatred for your guy........pls kindly keep da hatred line opened, n come to think of it that lucky winner means a lot to u abi? iranu on abasha

heryourdayji:
I am in this relationship, and I and my boyfriend have had quite a rocky relationship. We often quarrel and argue and just recently, I found out that he had joined a dating website. This surprised me as I don’t know why he would do that while we were together. I confronted him and he apologized, claiming that he only did it because we were having a lot of problems and thought that we were done at the time. I was extremely hurt and angry so I broke up with him and told him that i never wanted to see him again.


The day after that, I was hanging out with one of my male friends, we got into a serious talk and ended up having sex.

I had sex with my friend, hoping it was going to make me feel better but i ended up feeling a lot worse after. I have never done things like this, but when I decided to sleep with my friend I don’t think that my boyfriend and I would ever get back together.



After a few days, he called me (my ex) we were talking and we got all emotional and we decided to give things another go. I love him so much and really want to be with him but I was sad because it took me having sex with my friend to realize how much I wanted my boyfriend back. Having sex with my friend also made me realize how easily mistakes are made so i am willing to forgive my boyfriend for joining the dating site.


We are back together now but I have not told him that I slept with someone else during our short break up and I really don’t want to tell him because i am afraid he will not forgive me and that I will lose him forever this time. I feel like I am being dishonest, which I so hate the feeling but I definitely hate the thought of having to tell him more. So my question is, if you sleep with someone else during a short break up do you need to tell your partner that u slept with someone else? Or is it none of their business when you have broken up?


Please I need good advice from mature romanceland esp guys

Cc: Lalasticlala

Ay! You just have to tell him and prepare for the worst. Also let him know that it happened because of what he did (though no excuse is enough to justify your action.

The reactions of MOST people on this thread is one of several reasons why we can't tolerate each other. So she opened her legs, why all the insults? Shitt happens, it doesn't make her a prostitute... @OP, I don't know what to tell you but follow your heart and apply wisdom.

cruzita:
just tell him before he hear of it from another person.it might bring a negative or positive outcome but just free your concience

Op thie right up is the best u can do. Wish u luck

Revolva:


You are an diot and indeed an ingrate just call urself a slut

Cos I don't see. Any reasonable person here to judge this case na if the person no get work to do

why are always quick to abuse

konji na bastaaaaard!!!! ;Dkonji na bastaaaaard!!!!

Diddyydiva:
Shut up jare

let's hear word

The guy that joined dating site only joined to check out beautiful faces abi

of course it can lead to break up, why join the dating site in the first place.

The lady lacks self control tho but that doesn't gives you the right to condemn her

U need to work on ur attitude pls

You need not tell him but if get to know tell him it was during your brake.

u 4got dat he is a nairalander, lalsticlala oya expose...........

Tell him, I bet you'll be free. If you want a long term relationship follow one rule, never lie

Tell the truth. He will forgive you if he truly loves you.

Useless bitch!!







If d guy eventually marries u and thr is a disagreement, u'll quickly go sleep wif his dad!....Bleep u! Bleep u again!!

Diddyydiva:
women are the most confused being I have ever met.


The way they gets emotional and makes worst decisions freaks me out

Can someone please give this redpilled lady a slice of ukraine.

Diddyydiva:
Shut up jare

let's hear word

The guy that joined dating site only joined to check out beautiful faces abi

of course it can lead to break up, why join the dating site in the first place.

The lady lacks self control tho but that doesn't gives you the right to condemn her

See them dem don come NL association of feminists. Please call a spade a spade if the reverse was the case i'll also blame the guy...

mascot87:

U need to work on ur attitude pls

hehehehehe

yes sire

VenusBetty:
Tell him, I bet you'll be free. If you want a long term relationship follow one rule, never lie

So she tells him and they break up then what? The truth don't always set you free.

A little secret like that won't hurt anyone.

My girl, I have been in your shoes before and in this world it is a man's world, men can get away with everything so please do not tell because next time you won't even think of it but he would say you have done worse so please my lady do not attempt it ay all if not you are on your own.

heryourdayji:
I am in this relationship, and I and my boyfriend have had quite a rocky relationship. We often quarrel and argue and just recently, I found out that he had joined a dating website. This surprised me as I don’t know why he would do that while we were together. I confronted him and he apologized, claiming that he only did it because we were having a lot of problems and thought that we were done at the time. I was extremely hurt and angry so I broke up with him and told him that i never wanted to see him again.


The day after that, I was hanging out with one of my male friends, we got into a serious talk and ended up having sex.

I had sex with my friend, hoping it was going to make me feel better but i ended up feeling a lot worse after. I have never done things like this, but when I decided to sleep with my friend I don’t think that my boyfriend and I would ever get back together.



After a few days, he called me (my ex) we were talking and we got all emotional and we decided to give things another go. I love him so much and really want to be with him but I was sad because it took me having sex with my friend to realize how much I wanted my boyfriend back. Having sex with my friend also made me realize how easily mistakes are made so i am willing to forgive my boyfriend for joining the dating site.


We are back together now but I have not told him that I slept with someone else during our short break up and I really don’t want to tell him because i am afraid he will not forgive me and that I will lose him forever this time. I feel like I am being dishonest, which I so hate the feeling but I definitely hate the thought of having to tell him more. So my question is, if you sleep with someone else during a short break up do you need to tell your partner that u slept with someone else? Or is it none of their business when you have broken up?


Please I need good advice from mature romanceland esp guys

Diddyydiva:
Shut up jare

let's hear word

The guy that joined dating site only joined to check out beautiful faces abi

of course it can lead to break up, why join the dating site in the first place.

The lady lacks self control tho but that doesn't gives you the right to condemn her

Where do you stand self? You don abuse everybody finish here

Can you break up with him again and come have short sex with me?

1miccza:



See them dem don come NL association of feminists. Please call a spade a spade if the reverse was the case i'll also blame the guy...

if you will do that I will be very happy






well actually I did

Diddyydiva:
hehehehehe


yes sire

Thank you. I noticed an improvement, I was thinking I would receive d insult of my life. Well done

"ReceivesensetoavoiddistractionIJN"

Why not let sleeping dogs lie? Telling him will hurt him. I'm a guy. We like it better when we hear it from rumour and you deny it vehemently.

VenusBetty:
Tell him, I bet you'll be free. If you want a long term relationship follow one rule, never lie

Oshe dear

lol

if you like tell him,if you like no tell him,all i know be say your toto will never be the same again

ipledge10:
why are always quick to abuse

Go ask google...cos dis kinddaa gal makes me angry ok they should be in a hotel not making relationship haard for a normal dude

Everyone here forming saint as if it's an easy situation if the happen to fall for one,... @op spare yourself the emotional trauma, technically you didn't cheat on him cos you guys weren't together when you had the sex.. Though I blame you for making yourself so cheap to another guy for sex.
My advice don't tell him, because it's your personal secret and everyone is entitled to it. Since he's just your boyfriend not your fiance or husband. Just don't do it next time

See a beautiful lady like you.. you no suppose let ur friend bang u na...

permanentgrace:
Can you break up with him again and come have short sex with me?

e ma gbo were

Estharfabian:
I Think You should tell him.
That way You'd clear Your conscience and come clean.


Nothing beats telling the Truth.If he really love You?
he'd forgive You.it'll might Hurt a bit? Buh he'd still Forgive yah Anyways..

Besides, It's not Like You cheated? Y'all broke Up Then..


Buh Really....Girl, Having Pity sex after a breakup Isn't always the best thing....Be wise next time! it makes You No less than a Cheap slutty hoe....No offense!

You Know It's Not Really Easy For Ladies After A Breakup.She Feels Her World Is Over And Then She Sees A Handsome Tease Making Her Feel Good About Herself.Almost Impossible To Resist In That Moment Of Weakness And Vulnerability.
...Coming From A Serial Culprit!