So I met this pretty lady through a coursemate,I got her number,and we got talking And chatting on facebook.then I proposed to her on phone, that I want us to step up our friendship,into a serious relationship..she didn't give me a yes or no reply,she said when we see,we will talk better on that..I will be travelling very soon to school,and we will get to meet.. So I don't really know what her reply will be,but I'm quite scared of rejection or Being put in the friendzone..pls romancelanders,should I be optimistic about her?..

When u meet her u will find out.

Fuel price is still N120 down here ooo

Are you a 4pointer?
Do you have car?
If no you should be pessimistic.

She's going to say no and will friendzone ur sorry ass

SHE WILL SAY NO

falconey:


Are you a 4pointer?
Do you have car?
If no you should be pessimistic.

brotherly,I don't av the aforementioned..I only made the proposing based on the hint my guy I knew her from gave me,that the girl told him she loves me,he said he was surprised at her statement..tho I love her sha.

Propose? As in marriage proposal?

she is either gonna say "Yes" or "No".... even though they'd use different sentences and phrases buh it ends up meaning any of the above

so now do yourself a favour and read a book or something... giving yourself sleepless nights won't influence her answer

Op uve been rejected already u dont even know it

Dont b optimistic it will only make it hurt more

Shes happy as a friend ...... But wants to spare u n tell u face to face instead of the childish antics u displayed there... U want serious relationship yet u telling her on the phone she wants a man deary .. That was ur first mistake should have grabbed her by the jugular n told her how u felt .. Most cnt resist face to face .. Now shes stunting

STFUareyouGod:
Propose? As in marriage proposal?

haba..its bf and gf relationship,not marriage..

Stfuareyougod follow this one main acc

I only made the proposing

Damn!... Laf haf killed me 2dae

#MadeMyNight

BumBae:
Op uve been rejected already u dont even know it

Dont b optimistic it will only make it hurt more

Shes happy as a friend ...... But wants to spare u n tell u face to face instead of the childish antics u displayed there... U want serious relationship yet u telling her on the phone she wants a man deary .. That was ur first mistake should have grabbed her by the jugular n told her how u felt .. Most cnt resist face to face .. Now shes stunting

nice one madam..I knew I made a huge mistake telling her on phone..its just the joy of me hearing from my friend,that the girl told him she loves me,so I tot that would made me win her easily and without delay...I fvcked up sha..

sholikay:
nice one madam..I knew I made a huge mistake telling her on phone..its just the joy of me hearing from my friend,that the girl told him she loves me,so I tot that would made me win her easily and without delay...I fvcked up sha..

Big time my nicca
It is well .. Next time u tell her to her face that way she cant ask her yeye friends or spend time analysing the situation ..
But back off dont call her again , dont text, email even dont mention her again .. Wait she will come back

I think you better contemplate on the NO.Not that am being negative,just that it will give u a better playing field to look her in the eyes and hold her hand by letting her see what she's missing by not dating you.Mind you,rejection makes a man.It gives you the boldness to approach the next girl with confidence

Lordprez:

Damn!... Laf haf killed me 2dae


#MadeMyNight

mr man..are you trying to make a sarcasm out of my statement?..that is too lackadaisical..

ikeno:
I think you better contemplate on the NO.Not that am being negative,just that it will give u a better playing field to look her in the eyes and hold her hand by letting her see what she's missing by not dating you.Mind you,rejection makes a man.It gives you the boldness to approach the next girl with confidence

thank you brotherly,I so much appreciate ur advice..

sholikay:
mr man..are you trying to make a sarcasm out of my statement?..that is too lackadaisical..

that huge word tho.... just kidding dude, tho it was funny


BTW, your approach on phone isn't a major blowoff or deal breaker... if she does wanna date you, it wouldn't matter

Trust me.... just chill for her reply, if its bad then move on to the next chick

#MyTake

See Op it doesn't matter what her response is especially if its a NO, what mattered is the fact that u made your intention and feelings known to her.
Don't force it or force her, don't show you're nervous about her response and finally never show her u are desperate.

Come on Op, the decisions to say YES or No doesn't take place in a day or short while, so be cool.... we're talking about a lady here and nothing else.

BumBae:

Big time my nicca
It is well .. Next time u tell her to her face that way she cant ask her yeye friends or spend time analysing the situation ..
But back off dont call her again , dont text, email even dont mention her again .. Wait she will come back

thank you madam..though,I av been doing that after noticing her coldness on phone whenever I call her,after I have made my intention known to her..but I just keep loving her every day..mhen. ladies are so complicated, to understand..

Lordprez:

that huge word tho.... just kidding dude, tho it was funny


BTW, your approach on phone isn't a major blowoff or deal breaker... if she does wanna date you, it wouldn't matter

Trust me.... just chill for her reply, if its bad then move on to the next chick

#MyTake

thank you bro..no qualms..

Afrok:
See Op it doesn't matter what her response is especially if its a NO, what mattered is the fact that u made your intention and feelings known to her.
Don't force it or force her, don't show you're nervous about her response and finally never show her u are desperate.

Come on Op, the decisions to say YES or No doesn't take place in a day or short while, so be cool.... we're talking about a lady here and nothing else.

obviously,I av limit my call and chat with her,so as not to seem desperate..but I'd wish to date this girl.. Thanks for you candid advice.

sholikay:
haba..its bf and gf relationship,not marriage..

ok o

Bro,the relationship has ended, before it even got the chance to start

vicraven:
Bro,the relationship has ended, before it even got the chance to start

chai!..I don fvck up big time be that..

BumBae:
Stfua.reyougod follow this one main acc

done

sholikay:
chai!..I don fvck up big time be that..

tah! beautiful gyals are crushin on you here on nl... you're killing urself

sholikay:
obviously,I av limit my call and chat with her,so as not to seem desperate..but I'd wish to date this girl.. Thanks for you candid advice.

wrong move

Adanaya:
When u meet her u will find out.

tell him wella

vicraven:
tah! beautiful gyal are crushin on you here on nl... you're killing urself

hahahahahah...you dey wyne me abi?..na where dem dey now?.