go and ask Oshomole

U wear bra for eyes wen u marry am? Abi na minimini manimo u take choose am as husband?

1. Give him your single friends' numbers and tell them to make moves on him.
2. Tell him to hit a gym or get a personal trainer, start using perfume daily and select clothes you know look good on him.
3. Select a hair style and shave that look good on him or tell him to randomize styles he uses in both shaving and trimming.
4. Divorce.
5. Get lost from his life and watch him use all the changes you've built in his life to catch many girls both young and old. I bet then you'd stop feeling shame and want him back badly.

why don't u share ur pretty and ugly husby's pix,huh?

so the scales finally fell off your eyes...you're not serious. madam I must follow marry

Guys this ll be an eye opener.be careful wen u mingle wit a lady in her late 20's, cos desperation works for them that de won't mind marrying u wit Zoro love. Only to to give u high BP after ur wedding.

Madam show us una pix na. Hope he's not Uwaezuoke?

playtheblues:
How ugly is he? I mean is he uglier than Mr. Ibu? Be sincere.

Is mr ibu ugly, u need eyes glass

tuzeriouz:
why don't u share ur pretty and ugly husby's pix,huh?

U just said my mind

jashar:
The irony is that everything you think people are saying could be in your mind.

You say they give you looks, the looks might mean;
1. Awhhhhh, such a lovely couple.
2. God, when will my own spouse and I walk around together?
3. I wish my husband would show me such affection in public...

I could go on and on....
Train your mind to appreciate the good he does and see beyond the looks.

The op really needs ur kind for counselling. You are so on point.

scaredy:

haba no

so e no reach mr ibu n u complaining. all d best for u ooooo

jmichlins:
Just divorce him if your not comfortable with him. but your really a farming tool

Divorcing someone for being ugly. LOL

That's a new one

playtheblues:
How ugly is he? I mean is he uglier than Mr. Ibu? Be sincere.

would u shut d fvuck up! Is Mr Ibu ugly?do u even know wat dey call ugly.

scaredy:
I have been married for a year now to a man that is very unattractive. I married him for two reasons

1. My younger ones and friends were all married and I was desperate at 32.
2. He treats me well

He's a good husby but I sometimes get ashamed walking with him because he's very ugly. I'm a pretty girl and when we are in public he's all over me wanting people to know we are together and I see the looks they give us.

I don't mind sleeping with this man and being his wife, I just want the feeling of shame to stop.I know some men don't treat their wife well and I feel lucky mine own does that.

Eyah

kallmemrB:
sorry fot What ?

i feel so bad for the Husband....the most hurtful feeling in this life is to feel under appreciated....

i know we guys always complain of ladies not-so-pretty but calling a guy ugly is annoying cos this same guy you dont wanna appreciate has over 100 ladies out there wishing they could have a husband as caring as ur man..

am 100% percent sure you are not as pretty as Heidi Klum,She married Seal for years with kids... so whats ur Prob

you see lots of ladies in church praying for a Good and caring husband even if he looks like Gorrila...you have a Good and caring husband but u aint satisfy....


i pity you alot...in 10yrs time when that ur beauty is gone ,am sure by then you will be praying he doesnt leave you cos no matter how many make up u use that beauty of yours will surely fade away...

Learn to love and appreciate ur partner....Him loving you and caring for you should be more important to u than his looks...

2face and Flavor are hansome dudes but their babymamas holds pillows to sleep at night..

Learn to Love him more before someone that will appreciate him better will come along


P.S dont think he doesnt know that you dont admire him

#word

Can you imagine this one! 50cent was the most ulgy guy i have seen until he became fame. You supposed to be the calling your husband handsome man.

Attention seeker alert!

You were 32 when you married and you are married for a year now, meaning you are 33 now.

In your previous post, 3 yrs ago, you claimed 28 yrs old (which means you ought to be 31 now). How come?

Inconsistency = liesssssss

conclusion: story unbelievable, cooked up lies.

Learn to stop caring so much what people are thinking or saying. That's the same way you married because others were getting married. It's not about your husbands looks but your own insecurity and need to please society. If you don't snap out of it , you'll let people define your life. Later it will be I'm ashamed because my daughter is single while some of her friends are married, it never stops till you stop it

PunterTim:
Ouch!.Sorry.

Sorry for what? Was she grabbed and taken to him in another town to be his wife. You are just greedy. You are married, you are married. Just get use to it.

learn from iara n focus on making d good things better...u just cant have it all at same time

scaredy:
I have been married for a year now to a man that is very unattractive. I married him for two reasons

1. My younger ones and friends were all married and I was desperate at 32.
2. He treats me well

He's a good husby but I sometimes get ashamed walking with him because he's very ugly. I'm a pretty girl and when we are in public he's all over me wanting people to know we are together and I see the looks they give us.

I don't mind sleeping with this man and being his wife, I just want the feeling of shame to stop.I know some men don't treat their wife well and I feel lucky mine own does that.

Sorry, but the picture of Him .

scaredy:
I have been married for a year now to a man that is very unattractive. I married him for two reasons

1. My younger ones and friends were all married and I was desperate at 32.
2. He treats me well

He's a good husby but I sometimes get ashamed walking with him because he's very ugly. I'm a pretty girl and when we are in public he's all over me wanting people to know we are together and I see the looks they give us.

I don't mind sleeping with this man and being his wife, I just want the feeling of shame to stop.I know some men don't treat their wife well and I feel lucky mine own does that.

Such is life. We often take for granted the good things that come easy. On the other spectrum, you find people who adore their "ugly" husbands and wish they just had a little time for them. You see when people exhibit the degree of shortsightedness you have just expressed it goes to show that some humans do not deserve what they have. Madam, may I ask you what you define as "handsome" or "ugly"? You have rated yourself as "pretty", based on what benchmarks or standard? Do you look like Tunisian/Iranian/Saudi/Egyptian girls? Are you a six footer with a killer curve? ( I doubt because I cannot imagine this level of shortsightedness in a tall body).

Its clear that you did not/do not know what marriage is and you got married out of the exigency of it, due to what you consider passage of time and family pressure and unfortunately, to a good man. Well let me tell you something, ALL of us have ONLY a few years to look "pretty" and "handsome". In time we ALL fade away, such is life. What NEVER fades is the person we are inside. That is the most beautiful part.

That man you think is "ugly" is possibly highly sought after by another woman (Nairalanders abi no be so?) And sooner or later, as you continue to emit negative vibes to that man, you will loose him. And the one you think is "handsome" may not think you are "beautiful". Well let me define what I think is a beautiful woman and please tell me if you have all of this.

1. Humble and Kind
2. Respectful and Thoughtful
3. Loves her man from the inside
4. Hardworking and too busy to care what fickle things others think of home
5. Loves her parents and Spouses parent
6. Home builder
7. Truly loves children
8. Not Lazy but industrious/contributes to her own home.
9. Appreciates Little things
10.Fears God.
11. Can read and write.
12. Does not model after women in Nigerian films.

The list goes on. I doubt if you have met all this criteria. I hope you appreciate what you have before you loose it.

.........will reserve my comment until you post ur pic and hubbie own here before i comment fully.......I will equally assume i didnt see others comment at all...

See make i tell u if ur husband owe piece ehnn u nor go shame....mayb e is average...cos if e get money well well dey carry u travel to abroad steady n giv u all u want u nor go call am ugly or shame 4 am....u go hug n kiss am 4 anywhr even ur pastor present self...

@op,very simple,jst invite him to the room anytime u're applyin make up and design his face till he looks exctly lik u want him to.Better realise say u don enter bus and there's no refundin of money on this journey.Nonsense!

playtheblues:
How ugly is he? I mean is he uglier than Mr. Ibu? Be sincere.

Is Mr Ibu ugly?

Ad so wat? Let me saked u dis!! Do u do tins ad c d reaction of wat ppl wil say? Dats means one will nt do anytin in dis life; cus no matter wat u do ppl wil talk so my dear just do wat will make u hapi dat all I have 2 say.

DEAR, SINCE YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL DEFINITELY HAVE HOPE IN UR FUTURE CHILDREN AND YOU DID NOT MARRY HIM FOR FILM SHOW

Dyt:



Hehehehe
I thought I was the only one who viewed her other topics

I am guilty too

Go and ask the wife of Edo state how to love ugly men, and again ask yourself if you are finer than her, I mean Lara.


Now, solution:
Ask yourself who is at advantage in the marriage.
Compare and contrast the things your husband pride himself for having you as his wife and those that you pride yourself for having him as your wife.
Being ashamed of your husband is a crime against God as a creator. You are condemning His hand work.

That is by the way, like somebody rightly said in page one, I think you should stop being people's pleaser. I am also guilty of this gory act but I am fighting mine. Since I was born I have never asked a dark woman out, which is bad.

[quote author=scaredy post=42223120]I have been married for a year now to a man that is very unattractive. I married him for two reasons

1. My younger ones and friends were all married and I was desperate at 32.
2. He treats me well

He's a good husby but I sometimes get ashamed walking with him because he's very ugly. I'm a pretty girl and when we are in public he's all over me wanting people to know we are together and I see the looks they give us.

I don't mind sleeping with this man and being h

Sorry to abuse u,but ur a fool by considering physical appearance of ur husband than his faithfulness and financial status.nwoke adi njo.