Please pardon my write-up it might not properly be constructed but I'd be glad if my point is understood.
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I have read a lot on this section about being friendzoned by girls and How painful it is to guys who would be said to be really in love with the said girl. I have taken time to read the reasons why guys talk about the friendzone as though it is hell fire, and most reasons base on the fact that
1. The girl refuses him sex
2. The girl refers to him as a brother
3. The girl does not act to make him feel like she's conscious of his feeling towards her.
4. The girl pushes him away When he starts getting all emotional and intimate .
I can understand that most times a guy is disappointed with the fact that the girl he loves has pushed him to this 'friendzone' , but that's because you have decided to see only the bad aspect.
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My point:
Most friendships last more than relationships, you could be by her and she'd date and break up with 5 other guys, while you're still her friend , sex is not everything.
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Some girls just want to talk to you about their boyfriends, their life in full, they want you to eat their food and make remarks without being biased, they want you to see them without make up, they want you to stay with them and just talk to them, they want you to gist with them while they help you or you help them do stuff . If a girl is 'pushing you to the friendzone', just love her as a friend/sister and be her friend too or just walk away if you want , you can't date every girl, you must be able to have friends without sex and intimacy.
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Finally, whatever is yours will eventually get to you, if she keeps you in the friendzone and you're both meant for each other, she will date all the guys, tell you about their break up stories and you'll end up still marrying her.
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This write up is not for the guys who will chop and run, this is for guys who have truly fallen in love and have been deprived of what they really expected in return aside SEX.
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I'm up for corrections too, I'm human
what do you think?
Thank You.
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Modified:
I have been attacked here because I said nothing is wrong in being just a friend to a girl.
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Some say they cannot be friends with a girl without sex; which means every girl in their lives are gracing their bed. clap for yourself
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If you are in a situation where a girl is takibg advantage of your love for her to try to exploit you of your money because she knows you love her and would want to please her, that's a different story, that's wickedness. I would always advice guys to spend on a girl what they would spend on an ordinary relative without expecting returns; spending so much with hope of enticing could fail at times.
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Those saying I've been friendzoned all my life, I laugh.
Any girl I meet for the first time, no matter how much I like her, I keep her as a friend and we get to know each other for a while. If there's need for us to date, and I know there's a green light, I go for it, If not I stay as a friend without spending(except when I want) or asking for sex. shikena!
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PS: I don't do pre-marital sexual relationships. Thank YOU.

Where are dem guys?

no girl fit frnd zone me...if she try am i jus switch am go anoda network biko #leavethrashforlawma
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Personally , i prefer being a friend to a girl i like than being her bf. Its so much more placating and stress free to be in that position. Added advantage is you might get to get laid by 'mistake' someday, get aw-shucks about it for a while but still be at a perfect par with her eventually. Is this not mesmerizing?

@prettythicksme I don't want to get mobbed lol

@smileyz16
you have no friend who is female?

@Queenvalerie Lol

wow

GP2015:
@prettythicksme I don't want to get mobbed.

@smileyz16
you have no friend who is female?

@Queenvalerie. ;P

you don't want ta get mobbed but yet you stuck your tongue out at me?
Guy yer just askin' for it.

U'r right. Sometimes I enjoy d relationship in d friendzone more.

Guys help m. Praise d Lord after 5years m girl has moved m off the friendzone.. We now dating...

QueenValerie:
you don't want ta get mobbed but yet you stuck your tongue out at me?
Guy yer just askin' for it.

Dont derail this thread pls. It's my beloved son

QueenValerie:
you don't want ta get mobbed but yet you stuck your tongue out at me?
Guy yer just askin' for it.

You're not a guy, again.

friendzone is just Gud for d guyz who got patience,not jealous and not being too emotional.

lordprosh:
U'r right. Sometimes I enjoy d relationship in d friendzone more.

Guys help m. Praise d Lord after 5years m girl has moved m off the friendzone.. We now dating...

dating = #game of death IMO - e no concern me sha

btw, u try sha, 5years?

lordprosh:
U'r right. Sometimes I enjoy d relationship in d friendzone more.

Guys help m. Praise d Lord after 5years m girl has moved m off the friendzone.. We now dating...

congratulations

GP2015:

congratulations

Tnks. May u not be in a dangerous friendzone IJN. Some are gud whl som are dangerous

pinceprinz:


Dont derail this thread pls. It's my beloved son

He started it though,but OK.Op you're off the hook.

QueenValerie:
He started it though,but OK.Op you're off the hook.

Good Girl!

@lordprosh I see no danger in being a friend

@Op you've either never loved a girl and feel hurt when she only sees you as a friend or you've gotten used to the friendzone, so much so you feel its now home


Whichever be the case... I think friendship should be mutual(wanted by both), not forced because you wanna be her sidechick/bff/confidante/brother whilst waiting for her to date the whole world and then realize you've been there all this while


#AhWeepForOurBrothersInDaZone... I would say "I know how it feels" buh da truth is...I don't

Lordprez:
@Op you've either never loved a girl and feel hurt when she only sees you as a friend or you've gotten used to the friendzone, so much so you feel its now home


Whichever be the case... I think friendship should be mutual(wanted by both), not forced because you wanna be her sidechick/bff/confidante/brother whilst waiting for her to date the whole world and then realize you've been there all this while


#AhWeepForOurBrothersInDaZone... I would say "I know how it feels" buh da truth is...I don't

There are some girls out there while have at one point or the other had a crush on you but you only saw them as friends, did they die? why are you weeping? who are you weeping for?

GP2015:
@lordprosh I see no danger in being a friend

She u av emotions running deep

lordprosh:
She u av emotions running deep

sure, I do.

Lordprez:
@Op you've either never loved a girl and feel hurt when she only sees you as a friend or you've gotten used to the friendzone, so much so you feel its now home


Whichever be the case... I think friendship should be mutual(wanted by both), not forced because you wanna be her sidechick/bff/confidante/brother whilst waiting for her to date the whole world and then realize you've been there all this while


#AhWeepForOurBrothersInDaZone... I would say "I know how it feels" buh da truth is...I don't

Life is not this complicated IMO.

A girl that does not wanna date u could be your friend. Friends have sex , dont they?, so, if sex was the motive for wanting to get into the relationship @ d first instance, U get it easy tipsy afterall isnt it?. and If it wasnt about the sex , u can get the sweet loving or whatever at all you desire from some other willing cutie out there. You can always be the winner if you want to. Earth is not that sparse you cant explore!

OP for u to enjoy friendzone; it's either u r jobless or u r a car wash. U enjoy gossiping with a gal or U will be the one to advice her about guys, while other guy the drive the car.

Paradise2015:
OP for u to enjoy friendzone; it's either u r jobless or u r a car wash. U enjoy gossiping with a gal or U will be the one to advice her about guys, while other guy the drive the car.

Is this what you really think or are u just at a game of puns with words?

GP2015:


There are some girls out there while have at one point or the other had a crush on you but you only saw them as friends, did they die? why are you weeping? who are you weeping for?

Don't think there is/have been any bruh.... I've got a "No crushing" policy with my female friends. Buh assuming there were, I weep for them too... Being friendzoned sucks


Why and for whom I weep? ... Seriously Dude did you even read ma last post et al?

Op, whatya gonna do in this situation? I met her online. Found out she stays in same hood (just 2 streets away). After months of knowing and LIKING each other, I asked her to be my girlfriend. She declined with the excuse of being in a relationship (though unsteady). She broke up with the dude finally. Months after that, I asked her again. She didn't accept, neither did she decline. I've done things for her back to back from buying a phone for her to giving her money at different times (even drove her to buy a special weavon she couldn't see around). Yet, no relationship. So I backed out a bit (iyalaya friend zone). Now she calls and complain about my lack of calls and care towards her. I'm kinda regretting 'abandoning' her (that's the word she used). Dyu think I should just forget bout the relationship and be her friend? I still like her though. Still wanna date her cos I'm single and got an eagle eyes towards gurls I wanna date.

Chai!!!!

1 of our brothers has eaten Wat he wasn't supposed to eat...

Otumokpo at work

Friendzone?

Seems he doesn't know d dreadful meaning behind dat name...


Wildflame, Obioraa, STFUareyouGod, beta Niggas in da building, help me explain better

as for me ,I prefer friendship to relationship, because I find it hard to even love.but guys who think that friendship zone is bad should have a rethink. ,sometimes they come to tell u problems they can't tell their bf or relations.u hold a special place in their heart ,they trust u ,what more can u ask for.

Kaylexzy:
Chai!!!!

1 of our brothers has eaten Wat he wasn't supposed to eat...

Otumokpo at work

Friendzone?

Seems he doesn't know d dreadful meaning behind dat name...


Wildflame, Obioraa, STFUareyouGod, beta Niggas in da building, help me explain better

wetin dey happen?

Who is dis woman wrapper?


Seems like u ve bin friends zoned all ur life
Take it from me bro, no dude deserves that.. If a lady shows u signs, walk away!! My mum and sisters are all d friends I need.i don't need any lady crying to me for advice on how best to shag her bf