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Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by Charlieubochi: 11:55am On Jan 23, 2016 |
Maximus85: The lady is clearly one of the gold digging women we see around. She is probably jobless and has a smelly attitude hence her singleness despite her "beauty" up till 32 years. You have no right to complain about a man that saved you from depression and has agreed to carry all that burden for the rest of his life. You should give him an award and get your head out of your ass because it's clear that's where it is. FYI he probably has atleast two girlfriends. Just pray he doesn't divorce you while you still have your head stuck down there. Bottomline: Apreciate what you have. |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by Dyt(f): 11:55am On Jan 23, 2016 |
solid3: I am not hungry the hungry kinda woman you see Money not food Ofcus There will be a follow up after I have gotten a token of 20million naira cash from you 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by old5kard(m): 11:55am On Jan 23, 2016 |
First of all you ve to look beyond his looks, learn to love him d way he is and careless about wat people say. Beauty is not everything. If you face d kind of problem and emotional trauma these wemen with handsome men are facing you wud wish to marry a gorilla instead of some of these handsome men. So tank God for wat u ve and be contented with wat u have 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by yerem: 11:59am On Jan 23, 2016 |
[quote author=bennyrazz post=42224024]@op, you have a very big problem. Do you know what the problem is? the problem is "what people, friends and family think about you". Judging from your post, that led you to marry an ugly man @32. Deep down, you love him but people seems to give some kind of glare when both of you appear in public. Still yet, you are still wondering and thinking "What are people saying about my husband?" you are the problem @ scaredy. so you need to redevelop mentally and stop giving a damn about what people say or think[/quote Don't mind that fool then why do u marry he in d first place becos of friend and family. In fact u are d best fool I never see or hear abt.. Look here marriage is for better n worst, rich n poor beaut n ugly like u said so my dear love ur husband d God loves u. |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by mbjsuki(m): 12:06pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
Please buy him a mask! End of story.. |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by Nobody: 12:10pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
Its clear from this post & some replies that a lot of Nigerians dont marry for love. People fall in love for different reasons dt have nothing to do wt looks or wealth. The moment u start thinking only of looks when ur wt a guy, then he hasnt captured ur heart or ur attention. I have seen a lot of beauties marry ugly guys but they were head over heels in love. Obviously for other deeper reasons. Ur clearly not in love wt ur husband, he hasnt even touched any part of ur heart dts why ur stuck on this shallow issue. I wish u all the best but i know if u get a little attn from an even uglier guy dt knows his way wt women and u connect with easily, u will cheat on this hubby of yours wt him. The problem in ur rltshp is not really his looks. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by nikz(f): 12:19pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
scaredy:Then pls start. Don't be ashamed look around you and you will see that ugly men go for pretty wives. I would rather stay with a guy that licks d floor I walk on than one that beats and cheats on me. I will tell you a story about my friend, she got married to the man of her dreams, left her job and opened a school this man runs the sch now with another woman. She is left with nothing. So my dear I would advice you fall in love with your hubby and cherish him with your head held high no send for anybody. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by megama: 12:25pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
Kayoski:sincerely you have a lover elsewhere. Period. |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by goldtooth: 12:34pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
scaredy: You claim to be beautiful. So how come at 32 you still were not married. I believe you allowed the beauty to get into your head and so were playing hard to get. Now you see the consequences. |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by noblegrex: 12:38pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
You've got absolutely nothing to worry about.as long as you're married to him.the way you love and present him will make people respect him. What do you want to say about mide martins the actress.are you as beautiful as she is? Or your hus is as ugly as hers. Afeezz abiodun.be confident and shun his looks. I quite understand though,its not easy to be sincere but you have to be confident of him.I mean very confident and proud of him. Shikena |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by Kayoski(m): 12:40pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
megama:I don't understand.. I guess u didn't mean to quote me.. |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by Bimzu: 12:41pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
my dear be proud of him yours is better it seems he loves u more than the the way u love him. All u need do is blend him always appreciate him when does anything for u help him look his best in terms of his clothing and neatness also pray to God to love him everyday after sometime u will thank God for having him in ur life. All that glitters is not gold. |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by tiny78(m): 12:43pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
Annais:you are correct |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by beautyann(f): 12:44pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
Are you really matured? |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by yusufibrahim(m): 12:47pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
Why not start with u been lucky u have a husband and a caring one for that matter ..........look at the best side of him others dont . And see him as handome too and he will always be ... |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by Emasel(m): 12:55pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
Engrpj: Please check ur mail, I sent you a PM.I need your assistance. Thanks. |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by epospiky(m): 12:57pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
scaredy: Did you loose you sight before getting married to him?...I mean didn't you know that he is "ugly" before you two got married? I kinda think you didn't really love him and still don't. Just on advice for you...build on the LOVE and that encompasses eliminating the shame and other stuff. |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by josite: 12:58pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
lovingly go to work on him.when ugly girl has fina manners and fine skin,we men sometimes prefer them.get his skin beautiful.no matter how ugly a babe has.when u discover she has some real nice ass and ass texure,men u want am again and again.kai i jus remember that lady lawyer. |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by unphilaz(m): 1:03pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
MathsChic:note this lady |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by KaBabs1: 1:14pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
scaredy: seek help with a therapist who has a good reputation of you can afford one. the sessions will help find the root of your problem and will help you in ways you couldn't have imagined |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by solid3(m): 1:20pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
Dyt: 20million what for how many years? Don dodon make me vex o. U know I'm a stammerer. Is ur name Maima and did I tell u I'm uncle Akin? |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by Williflezy(m): 1:40pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
He treat u well,y r u worried because of d wowo face nw |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by Jh0wsef(m): 1:58pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
This was a touching story until I saw 'mine' own. |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by Lordnewton1(m): 2:04pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
marrage is also for "Fine or ugly" till death do u part and if he has money then he is a fine boy |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by drperfect: 2:09pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
Is your husband as ugly as Oshiomole? Are you as beautiful as Iara ?.....if NO. Shut up and quickly organise a thanksgiving next Sunday and appreciate God for this wonderful, irreplaceable gift. |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by Duru009(m): 2:18pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
The earliar u ar proud of him. The better. U hav made ur decision...... Marriage its for life.... |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by Dyt(f): 2:30pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
solid3: And true I have something for stammerers oo Chai 20million is nothing na You want body I want money 2 don ge 4 Hehehehehe 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by Nobody: 2:34pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
Godsgal:hi cant seem to reply ur Msg,i think nairaland message system is bad.....tweet at kallmemrb |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by Fawklicant: 2:37pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
Eyekandi: Which hair do you want? Brazillian, indian? This your comment sweet me no be small. |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by GatJokez(f): 2:37pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
scaredy: Stories like Beauty and the Beast teach us that external looks do not matter when we truly love someone. Be proud of his inner beauty, which is much more handsome than external looks. Also, maybe encourage a lil change of style to complement his inner beauty. Like a nice gift of a different shirt, for example. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed Of My Husband by Kaylexzy(m): 2:49pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
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