Pardon my poor Grammar please, my countenance is too wonderful as am writing this.
My room mate is a religious Christian, no doubt. I will try to cut the story short.
We have been living in good terms, he has advised me severally but am not comfortable with the latest advice he gave me this morning.

My roomie has taken it upon his himself to call me to order when ever he sees me doing any thing wrong and as such has usually adviced me, I think is because I have not shunned him before like other guys who are living with their age mates will. I have been loyal and respectful to my present roomie because he is older than with over 10yrs.

He called me this morning and pointed out this traits which he said he has seen in me and his conscience will allow him to keep quick over it,

(1) that I am becoming too materialistic; that he listens to my phone calls especially when I call home requiring for money, that I don't need to worry them always and is not everything that I need.
In response I thanked him and promised to change in respect to that.

(2) that my spiritually is low and he sensed that am a porn addict and is not good that it will destroy me. He said that's why my glo (3gb) subscription don't last me more than two weeks and I keep waiting resources.

In response I gave him my phone to check my browser if he will fine a porn site that he could base his point. I told him am not an addict of porn site as he has portrayed me to be, because I use to hail you that you don't exhaust your 3gb subscription every month has given you a point to accuse me of constantly surfing porn sites.

(3) he said I should also watch about sexual life that he has noticed I use to masturbate in the night. That sometimes when he wakes up in the middle of the night he sees my sleeping position and when he puts on the light I quickly change my position. Nothing wey I no go see. He said the masturbation is a resultant effect of porn addiction.

I thanked him for the courage but I tried to correct the impression that am not a porn addict and am don't masturbate. But I was surprised that he was insisting that am denying things he took time to study, he said he has changed many people even chronic guys.
My problem is that he presented this issues from a spiritual perspective, spoke about spiritual wife which might be responsible for some acts.
Abeg guys, this story tire me, even yesternight I was discussing girls issues with my guy and sharing experiences and that one too was a case, make I start de pretend?

My question is, is he prophecying to me or his presenting to me some empirical occurrences.
Can you be into such acts without being fully aware of them.

Truthfully speaking now am no longer comfortable with since his insisting that am what I know am not, I now fear him because he likes giving testimony everywhere and every now and then am wondering how many people he might have told that I masturbate.

what I need now is advice on how to handle such a person.

mtcheww

Loooool!!

Please tell your roomie to learn to start minding his business.

Zeedarh:
Please tell your roomie to learn to start minding his business.

Wish God will reveal that to him

...it's not the office of prophet, it's the gift of teaching. But what you actually need is deliverance.


TV

Which kain 'kaka' be dis na?

TV01:
...it's not the office of prophet, it's the gift of teaching. But what you actually need is deliverance.


TV

Deliverance? Am not possessed Tv

funlord:





Which kain 'kaka' be dis na?

I wonder o

Op, u r very funny. With the way you outlined ur case, it shows you are very MATURED to some extent but instead of you to live with him like two matured guys, you've been giving him chances to spoonfeed you, telling you how to live. You didnt see this as a challenge initially because you've not been threading the wrong path so he doesnt have chance to scold you. See if i begin to tell u my own revelation, u will soon send me prophet offering. SOLUTION TO UR ISSUE. Live responsibly so you wont give him reasons to put mouth and nose into ur personal affairs and next time he does, shut his mouth politely.

Lol
I wish I can stop.myself from laughing

adeememman:
Op, u r very funny. With the way you outlined ur case, it shows you are very MATURED to some extent but instead of you to live with him like two matured guys, you've been giving him chances to spoonfeed you, telling you how to live. You didnt see this as a challenge initially because you've not been threading the wrong path so he doesnt have chance to scold you. See if i begin to tell u my own revelation, u will soon send me prophet offering. SOLUTION TO UR ISSUE. Live responsibly so you wont give him reasons to put mouth and nose into ur personal affairs and next time he does, shut his mouth politely.

Thanks

shut:
Lol I wish I can stop.myself from laughing

dont worry i will stop you. Stop!!!!!

leave the damn room for him.. get your own room

Richy4:
.....That was a monitoring spirit in your life and you should destroy the yoke immediately...

One day when he is around, just get down on your kneels and start some prayers... then say " Any monitoring spirit in my life father bind, Jehovah caste...where ever it was, In this room, In school, in this premises, in this suburb.. ..... Father destroy...destroy.....scatter.....loose

Whoever the son sets free, he is free indeed... I am free.....Thank u.....Thanks..... It is done..... so be it.....

If you can not bind and rebuke him, then you can talk to him.....let him know that when you want his advise, you will surely asked for it.. but he should stop all those "Spiroooo" things.. that you are no longer comfortable with it.... just let him know his limit..

you are not in secondary school. I would have asked if he was your school father.....

Lols!!!!!! U jst got me laughing @ school father of a thing, btw, nice comment. Gracias.