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Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by suwepin(m): 9:29am On Jan 24, 2016 |
Am not a good story writer but let me see how best I can do this. I am a 29 year old guy and I am currently dating a lady of 28 years.we spend almost 60 percent of our time together.she has a child already but I don't mind because I love her.we were together last weekend when she told me a guy was disturbing her.she told me the guy was an old friend.I was shocked when she told me she would be meeting the guy at a fast food for old times sake because the guy insisted they should see and they have issues to trash out.I am really beginning she's taking me for granted.I am disturbed and I wish to seek my wonderful peoples opinion before I probably take a step. |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by funnynation(m): 9:34am On Jan 24, 2016 |
which opinion? 3 Likes |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by suwepin(m): 9:37am On Jan 24, 2016 |
On the recent questionable attitude |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by Nobody: 9:40am On Jan 24, 2016 |
You guys wont give us detail about the issue, yet you expect some kind of magical advice We're not super humans you know Give us something to work with I think you should sort out this issue yourself. 1 Like |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by EZEIGBO1OFIMO: 9:45am On Jan 24, 2016 |
Trust a single mother at your own peril... she is definitely cheating. The average Nigerian girl is far too unintelligent to maintain platonic relationship with the opposite sex 3 Likes |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by Nobody: 9:50am On Jan 24, 2016 |
so if i won cheat, I go tell my guy say I want cheat? Op, use your brain and not your skull. That's why it's hard to tell some guys raw truth, their insecurity fit make person barf. So you prefer she hide her intentions right? To keep her movements a secret? 5 Likes |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by Cholls(m): 9:51am On Jan 24, 2016 |
my what can I say? I would say you should trust her for now 100% but in this present situation I think you should give her the benefit of doubt. |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by correctyourself(m): 10:06am On Jan 24, 2016 |
suwepin: Ladies who always want to do things based on old friends sake are turn off for me because such people are betrayal. |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by correctyourself(m): 10:14am On Jan 24, 2016 |
EggovinMma: Let's face the reality, I do not see them seeing each other on a good purpose other than what may lead to what OP is suspecting, this days there GSM, Banking/ATM transactions, email/text messages in which you can discuss, send money or render any assistance, not meeting at a joint where foundation of cheating can easily be laid. Guys that are persistence in seeing a lady doesn't really have anything to offer mostly when a lady didn't ask for a favour other than to exercise his greed and lost to explore ladies endowment. Nothing more/less. 2 Likes |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by AmiLaHoit(f): 10:21am On Jan 24, 2016 |
EggovinMma:Pls help me tell the non-thinking OP and EZEIGBO1OFIMO EZEIGBO1OFIMO: 1 Like |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by Nobody: 10:25am On Jan 24, 2016 |
correctyourself: Believe me, it's not in every discussion that one needs phone calls or sms. The lady said she prefers to see the dude in person I an eatery and I don't think there's something wrong with that. The big cool here is she told him about it.If it's very important for her to see him in person, then there's absolutely nothing wrong with that! IMO, I'd find it appalling if my man feels cheated if i tell him truths about what I intend to do. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by cruzita(f): 10:31am On Jan 24, 2016 |
u are just plain insecured.u have trust issue 2 Likes |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by Nobody: 10:32am On Jan 24, 2016 |
AmiLaHoit: Don't mind them. That's why sometimes it pays to just do one's thing without telling your man.If my G tells me there's something important he needed to say in person to an ex, i will force him to go because i also will be curious to find out more truths about both. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by Nobody: 10:38am On Jan 24, 2016 |
@ correctyourself There are many guys out there who wants to get laid, whether it's an ex or not.Its wise to avoid all form of insecurity especially when you've a woman that gives you clear info about her movements. My kind of woman isn't the type that keeps insecure guts for long, I hate having to explain myself all the time especially when I've been nothing but loving and truthful. The babe don tell am how far! The guy come here dey cry, which kind man be that? Allow her trash her issues with the said guy. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by correctyourself(m): 10:48am On Jan 24, 2016 |
EggovinMma: This is the reasons why ladies would always fall victims, you never assume anything negative could happened, few weeks ago this was how a lady went to ask a Man whom the children attend school where she is a teacher for the school fees of her pupile, only for the man to lure her to a hotel from 5pm to 2am only for the intervention of the police before she could find her way out based on the fact that she managed to sent out sms to her supervisor that sent her the errand. (married woman for that matter) , please you ladies should be careful. |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by Summersland(m): 10:49am On Jan 24, 2016 |
Guy,come sit down make we talk reality(ere kilaja nba ekun se) there's something behind d meeting gbabee..Prepare ur self 2 move on because ija break up nbo |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by Nobody: 10:55am On Jan 24, 2016 |
correctyourself: What you just said na is very different from the issue on ground.Na wa o. We dey talk of babe wey tell her guy about her exact intention to sort out an Issue with a friend in a public place, you dey yarn about married woman wry go fuccck for hotel because of money. Me tire for this discussion sef. 1 Like |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by EZEIGBO1OFIMO: 10:55am On Jan 24, 2016 |
AmiLaHoit:what wrong have i committed here; i have far too many single mother relatives to trust anyone to even simple truths. The average Nigerian girl is irredeemably daft, how much more one who couldn't use cheap contraceptives or condoms |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by correctyourself(m): 11:07am On Jan 24, 2016 |
EggovinMma: What I want you to know is that what she doesn't expect could happen , moreover; I have not seen the lady being truthful here when she has not explaine what the issue is all about (issue to trash out),:what is she trashing, is she own, is he an ex, in short I myself want to know. Lozzz. |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by suwepin(m): 11:35am On Jan 24, 2016 |
She told me they both once had a crush on each other.I trust her and its not a matter of insecurity.but this particular one is questionable nah. |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by Nobody: 11:37am On Jan 24, 2016 |
Go with her. |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by eph12(m): 12:02pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Because she wants to meet with another guy for lunch? By the way what are you doing dating someone you're just a year older and almost 30? What are your plans for marriage? |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by suwepin(m): 12:14pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Planning to get married next year |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by myfantasies(f): 1:08pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Maybe he is the father of her child 1 Like |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by Nobody: 1:21pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Assumption kills a relationship faster than anything.... Keep it cool, trust me a single mother won't want to joke with a man who love her so much, moreover she is 28...any mistake from her it might take her years to meet another serious guy... 1 Like |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by comrrex(m): 2:26pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Op please ask Google |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by ronald4lif(m): 2:30pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
EZEIGBO1OFIMO: Going by your theory, the guys too can be considered daft since they couldn't use condom. Is that it? 1 Like |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by Nobody: 3:46pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
correctyourself: Then you ask.If op is insecure, he has a right to ask questions about why she needed to see the dude. Whatever her reason may be, it's ok for her to go ahead since she respected her man enough to tell him what's up. |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by Nobody: 3:52pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
EggovinMma:Congrats on your new baby. |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by correctyourself(m): 3:54pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
EggovinMma: You no dey tire self? Maybe you go church since that's why u no quick reply me this last post! Lozzz. U no wan give-up hemmm no go enter one chance one day o. |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by Akious2k2(m): 4:50pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
myfantasies:My thot exactly... But if dis is true, I expect her 2 have told d OP, and of course, except she's hiding sumtin else... My thot, tho I may b wrong |
Re: Could My Girlfriend Be Cheating? by myfantasies(f): 5:06pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Akious2k2:Maybe she is scared of telling him, cos she don't want to loose him But i think dat wat ever it is, as long as you love someone u must let dem know wat is going on I believe sharing makes relationship stronger |
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