refiner:


am nt a prostitute..... am a christian and av never loose my dignity to any man.....av a nice day

CaroLyner:
i bet op wasnt expecting these type of comments

refiner:


y dat face? u don't like it

Sugarhugs:


She's even breaking up with different guys now and sbe don't feel a thing, from introvert to flirt. She not only need help she need deliverance from MFM.

refiner:

hnmmmm....could u help me?
I don't wanna go back to my previous self....

Estharfabian:
This is just an illusion....



You don't plan on Getting paid, Having kids, getting married On Nairaland...do You?


Start building Your life OUTSIDE Nairaland...
Trust me, in 2yrs from Now...You'd see Obnoxious Side effects.

refiner:
my dear.....am trying nt to get adicted

dollyjoy:
but you are an addict already

prettythicksme:
See how u dey mention osewa anyhow,show some respect huh? is he ur mate?

myfantasies:
Not really dear
Just wondering y we both have a lot of things in common

TrapLORD:

Which dignity? Toto na dignity??

Abeg go siddon joor

refiner:

buh its nt too late nw....is it

cruzita:
so u don't know the side effect of social media

PushMusic:
Seun's witchcraft at work in your life. Better go for deliverance.

firstking01:
Just when i thought i was the only one addicted to nairaland, now i'm seeing an addiction @it's peak, inshort this one tripple my own

refiner:


u also feel dis way too

refiner:


Fank u swithrt buh its easier said Dan done,i
hardly communicate wif people here.OK something happened yesterday,I went to get somfin downstairs,on my way a car horned at me and stopped beside me,I immediately took to my heels,I can only speak out my mind on a faceless forum we're I can't look at someone directly.....do u av a solution to dis



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About being Opinionated and speaking Out one's mind online? Don't we all?

It's obviously easier Staying in the confines of your homes..knowing No one could judge/Hurt You for airing Your thoughts. And even if they do. it's just words... Which have little to no effects.


Buh All these things are Vanity. mostly The Most Irrelevant aspects of life.They don't really matter. They shouldn't become a Norm for You...just a procreation.

About feeling insecure, timid or Shy...We all feel that sometimes? Buh we're all capable of choosing which sides we want to nurture...Don't You have friends? people Outside Nairaland U relate With?

refiner:

nop I don't,, could u educate me

naijaboiy:
You are slowly becoming a troll. That's what happens when you become too addicted.

You lose your social life and find solace on the Internet and then you think you are happy.

Please wake up to reality because the happiness here is nothing but temporary.

It won't pay your bills.

Estharfabian:
About being Opinionated and speaking Out one's mind online? Don't we all?

It's obviously easier Staying in the confines of your homes..knowing No one could judge/Hurt You for airing Your thoughts. And even if they do. it's just words... Which have little to no effects.


Buh All these things are Vanity. mostly The Most Irrelevant aspects of life.They don't really matter. They shouldn't become a Norm for You...just a procreation.

About feeling insecure, timid or Shy...We all feel that sometimes? Buh we're all capable of choosing which sides we want to nurture...Don't You have friends? people Outside Nairaland U relate With?

myfantasies:
Yes

dollyjoy:
it's never too late.


Fact is,you have nothing keeping you real busy,trust me when you do,this place will be secondary.

cruzita:
I dey sh!t if not I for tell u all because the list too long

refiner:

fank God am nt alone on dis....and wat are you duin abt it?

marieolae:
this is not a testimony. You're isolating yourself from the real world. it's not good to be a loner. Hope you get help soon.

refiner:



fanx dear for taking ur time to give me such priceless advice......buh its nt gonna be easy for me...

well I av friends,buh nt personal friends,friends dat I only greet...dats all nofin else...

Yeap! she's An introvert!
i
Anyways...I'm not against You not having friends...friends could be shitty sometimes!


Buh just try to mingle sometimes... try to be friendly..?
involve yourself in light discussions? subjects you're familiar with?


And you're welcome refiner dear!

refiner:

lol....am nt addicted to it pls

refiner:
merry Sunday to u guys!!!....
will make this brief.....I never for a second regret ever knowing nairaland,I am more Dan glad.I was introduced to this lovly family by my brother last year and since den,its been fun all thru for me....
I am an introvert type,shy away from people,always on my own.....comes back from school,go into my room and sleep,wake up,eat,bath and go back to sleep or sometimes play games on my fone over and over again with little or no interest....nobody to play with,nobody to talk with(don't keep friends),nobody comes close to me cos I always frown my face anywer I go......infact my life was boring and weired.......

buh after finding out about nairaland by my brother,my life has truly changed for d better,coming back from school smiling,laughs out loud on d road wen I fink about some funny comments here,giggles to myself wen I remembers d bashing of some friends,people stares at me in amazement, guys and gals are nt scared to approach me,I now av a lot of friends......I no longer feel a thing after breaking up wif one guy or d oder,.....
nairaland is now like a home to me,wen I get depressed,I log in here,.....fank God for nairaland...God bless seun for bringing up this great forum.I knw am nt d only one nairaland has transform her life,and some of my friends out dere too,pls do share urs too......I love u all
lalasticlala.....pls let's here some testimonies from oder pals.
mynd44.

firstking01:
from ur write up and all indications, ur addicted...but dnt rest ur source of happiness here cos it's temporary and you might de-activate someday...

Since u said u where a chronic introvert, and that nairaland has helped you to start mingling and being friendly...my advice, increase the tempo of your smile, socialize more, you'd see it will attract more friends to you and your happiness will increase, be frugal and easy going, be open minded, bear in mind that these friends that are trooping into your life are mere humans, some will come to bite you, some wil come to bring out the giant in you, you'd just need some to by pass a particular bump, later on you drop them...in all, have it in mind that offences must come, so, prepare ahead, dunno why i'm writing this sha...maybe i'm led, just do the things that will make you happy...takia

Estharfabian:
Yeap! she's An introvert!
i
Anyways...I'm not against You not having friends...friends could be shitty sometimes!


Buh just try to mingle sometimes... try to be friendly..?
involve yourself in light discussions? subjects you're familiar with?


And you're welcome refiner dear!

myfantasies:
I am thinking of going out more, try nd connect with people

Go to the cinema, d beach, any place where i can relate with people

I have been an introvert quite too long