pleiades45:
Yeah that feminism thing is a western ideology and their women ( the white ones ) actually follow through with the lifestyle, like if you take any white woman to a restaurant she will pay her own bill and you pay yours. they call it going dutch. nigerian women dont subscribe to that. nigerian women wanna be taken care off like toddlers. feed me, cloth me, pay for my hair, pay for my shoes, pay for my recharge card, pay for my pata and bra

Can you now see the difference? If the white ladies are advocating for gender equality, I think they somewhat deserve it. But as for African ladies (Nigerian ladies to be precise), I don't think they can pay for the price for what they are advocating

I can't marry a mama's boy.

Cholls:
my brother if any lady can not wash my car she's finished

Na ferari?

tosyne2much:
Can you now see the difference? If the white ladies are advocating for gender equality, I think they somewhat deserve it. But as for African ladies (Nigerian ladies to be precise), I don't think they can pay for the price for what they are advocating

quite frankly I am not aware of african women advocating for gender equality. i have never seen one single african feminist. so i think its a non-issue. african women like to be taken care off and african men like blasting money on women. its a marriage made in hell heaven

The OP has brutalised our ladies with the bitter truth. With a thread like this, you begin to wonder if we no longer have ladies on nairaland. The proportion of ladies viewing this thread outweigh the dudes yet they won't comment

Suigeneris93:
I'm guilty of 1 tho. Yea sue me! Most guys don't appreciate what they get on a platter so y will I cheapen myself?

I agree with all the other points. Nice one op!

Looking at your statement, one would think you are a hot pretty damsel until I checked your profile pix


To have made such a delusional statement, how old are you?

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13 I cant marry a guy who is not from my tribe

Bimzu:


13 I cant marry a guy who is not from my tribe

This is brilliant..

nma24:
Yea, I'm still single because of no2...

Nna can help out!

Suigeneris93:
I'm guilty of 1 tho. Yea sue me! Most guys don't appreciate what they get on a platter so y will I cheapen myself?

I agree with all the other points. Nice one op!

I thought you were married ?

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Baba oh... i see u

tosyne2much:
So what can you say about those ladies saying "I can't show greenlight to a dude ? Nevaaa !! "

green ni, yellow light ko.. Lol
I ain't showing no light

GodblessNig247:


Nna can help out!

which Nna

darkenedrebel:


How is this myopic? What stops the man from going to her church?
Last time I checked, one of the fundamental human rights is the 'freedom of religion'.

Remember that there is freedom to do a great many things. Your husband is also free to be a traditionalist sacrificing chickens and goat's and possessing all sorts of charms and amulets.

Paul says all things are lawful, but not all are beneficial. Freedom without wisdom will soon lead to bondage. Be guided.

i cant marry a shorty and a balded guy

Cutehector:
Hmm

10: I can't convert to my Husband's church!

From brainless girls

Especially No. 7

Well said below. Most of our women want the benefits of western feminism without the responsibility. Even the ladies with good jobs that earn similar income to the man.

pleiades45:
Yeah that feminism thing is a western ideology and their women ( the white ones ) actually follow through with the lifestyle, like if you take any white woman to a restaurant she will pay her own bill and you pay yours. they call it going dutch. nigerian women dont subscribe to that. nigerian women wanna be taken care off like toddlers. feed me, cloth me, pay for my hair, pay for my shoes, pay for my recharge card, pay for my pata and bra

Nos 1,3 and 7 are 4 me.
No 1-im not against verbally complimenting a guy u truly appreciate his looks and appearance,I do dat a lot,bt wooing a guy? Hell capital NO! How can I woo a guy who does nt feel d same way abt me? It will look as if I forced myself on him. He may accepts my proposal out of sympathy becos he doesn't wants 2 hurt me, yet deep down in his heart,I'm d last person he feels anything 4. Such men later in d course of d relationship may get frustrated and start misbehaving becos d game is up and they wish 2 quit acting. If there is a serious quarrel between d lovers,he will accuse her of being d initiator of a union he was never happy abt. He may even blame her 4 his misfortunes. What if he's already in a relationship wit someone else when I asked him out,won't I look like a man-snatcher? In my own opinion,nothing can be more emotionally devastaing than being turned down by a guy after showing d courage 2 ask him out in d 1st place. I'd rather remain single than 2 be ridiculed by a man becos I asked him out. Most guys believe dat when a lady asks dem out,then all she WANTS is. SEX!nothing more. They will spread d good news to dier friends (even their female friends) abt dis desperate chic who was so brave 2 woo dem becos of s*x.
At other times, they will turn demselves 2 super heroes in her life. They will make it look as if they are doing a favor for her by accepting her in d first place. She must open her legs everytime they want s*x. If she's rich,she don turn their maga be dat. She must always be at their beck and call everytime they want something frm her,afterall no be she wan bear d title "Mrs"?
U will agree with me dat in many relationships where it's d guys who did d 'wooing' themselves, they still mess up dier babes as if na she begged dem 2 approach her,now imagine when d table is turned around? Ladies, pls if u want 2 woo a guy,I won't say u shouldn't if u are so sure of what u are abt 2 do,bt be ready 2 bear d consequence. Make sure dat d guy u want 2 woo is a MAN with a mature mind who will gently handle d matter wit wisdom, not a BOY with a fickle brain who will see ur action as an invite 2 sleep wit u recklessly.unfortunattely,most guys of nowadays are in d latter category.
As 4 no 3, I can't marry a jobless man becos I can't marry as a jobless woman myself,so what's his excuse? If he loses his job while married 2 me (God forbid though), dat situation is understandable. Having a job is nt all abt d monthly salary system,it cld be in form of self-employed business. D most important thing is,he must not be idle.he must be financially independent,not neccesarily a millionaire.
No7- ur piece on dat was different frm what I expected. In my own interpretation,not taking nonsense frm men means not allowing a man 2 take u 4 granted. Eg, remaining in an abusive relationship/marriage, cooking 4 his mistresses becos u want peace 2 reign, or better still allowing him 2 turn u into a slave who has no life of her own. To me,dat's d true definition of "I can't take any nonesense from a man'. Any woman who practise d things u wrote under no 7 is a devil's daughter who is only planning 4 her own downfall. Real women don't do such things under d guise of 'I don't take nonesense'. I rest my case at dis junction.

nma24:
which Nna

me now. Am Nnamdi

Cholls:
my brother if any lady can not wash my car she's finished

lmao...bro u b case o...

son4century:

Gbagaun!!! Misuse of English.... "Both" shd go with "are" sire

But my granduncle was not from Britain, more so what if 'both' is stubborn and decided to go with 'is' instead of 'are' like it just did.

Genea:
inside my v na

I can bet your v would turn to W even if correct 8in enter it

Genea:
inside my v na

I actually appreciate your candor on this topic, which most ladies would tag inappropriate and that's rather naive. But sincerely Jennifer mere looking and with your big 'mouth' (no offence) you can't withstand even 6 inches not to talk of 10in

lovethchioma:

green ni, yellow light ko.. Lol
I ain't showing no light

Do you still work with NEPA those are the elements that will never show light even when people pay up their bills.
If you're still working with then I advice you get a better job, that corporation is wicked

OP forgot, NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE but she siphon money from me when she is aware I am not her dad

Story for the gods. The gods o

emzila:

na watin separate us be that o

eya, u just saved urself from a problematic would be wife

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Awon werey' Una nor dey taya for women matter ne? How many posts do u guyz see about yourselves? Mscheww. Women dz women dat

10) He is not romantic nd caring I can't marry him.
Most times ladies expect a 30yr old to behave lik a 22 year old all in d name of romance. because d guy. Does not pierce his nose nd ears in order to look lik a gangster then d nxt tin u wil s dat d guy s old fashioned.

hardicted:


Do you still work with NEPA those are the elements that will never show light even when people pay up their bills.
If you're still working with then I advice you get a better job, that corporation is wicked

You're funny... I don't work with NEPA.
I have been there.. Guys want the good the girls but never seem to appreciate them.. I don't want to say much.
I repeat : I ain't showing no light